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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by fatymore(f): 7:17pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Guys take things for granted.. Once you cook for them. They take it as an entitlement.. Thats what he is doing.. 1 Like |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by openmine(m): 7:18pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Jodha:the bold statement is a huge misconception and an abnormally why is it wrong to cook for a boyfriend? Please i would like to know the rationale behind such mindset! 1 Like |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by dingbang(m): 7:19pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
crazymommy:don't mind her... I just saw daftness in her sentence 1 Like |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by phemmyfour: 7:20pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Jodha:but its OK to spend his money and pay your siblings school fees....na greed go kill you Besides, what's the big deal in cooking, I cook better than most ladies here. You can't impress me with your cooking skills 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by ManuelNate1: 7:20pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
jaymejate:So if pastor adeboye didnt say it yhu wunt have had an opinion I guess? |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by chronique(m): 7:21pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Jodha: A lady should not cook for a man she is not yet married to? How old exactly are you? When you see topics like this, leave it for adults to handle and contribute to. 3 Likes |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Nobody: 7:25pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Mammyk:Learn to type words in full |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Sage7(m): 7:27pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Perhaps the guy is funding a heavy project for them . Maybe paying their rent or he bought her a car or gives the mum/dad huge dosh regularly. That could be the sole reason. |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Pataricatering(f): 7:29pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
She is a university graduate yet cant have a boyfriend come see her at her parents house where she lives ? Where is our hypocrisy taking us ? We make relationships seem so dirty and unnatural ! Do you expect her not to be herself where she lives ? So her boyfriend cannot eat in where she lives ? Your parents are definitely more mature than you . sucess15: 4 Likes |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Martin0(m): 7:33pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: NwanyiAwkaetiti: You have asked a good question! 1 Like |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Sage7(m): 7:33pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
7Alexander:To them everything is swag! 1 Like |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by ajasam12: 7:34pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
I don't see anything bad in it, before I married my wife, I'll go to visit her and her mother will insist she cook for me even if I reject such offer, I remembered sometime when her mum herself cooked for me when I visited them at home 3 Likes |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Martin0(m): 7:44pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Honestly I don't see anything wrong in this situation! I as a man can cook for my girlfriend in my parents house and nothing wrong with that! I keep learning new things everyday on NL especially from the ladies! It good thing for me am on NL seeing the comments of ladies! This one seems simple enough; the answer lies in the question. The question says ‘boyfriend’, not ‘father’, not ‘brother’ and certainly not ‘husband’. As tempting as it may sound, nowadays, we men need to be more cautious when we’re approached with such overly kind gestures from women. These are the same women who will go on and on about liberation and empowerment and two months into a relationship, she’s going to offer to cook and do my laundry? Don’t I have every reason to be scared? Let’s look at this constructively – as a relationship grows, so also should the level of understanding, trust etc. But with every new level comes a certain amount of commitment. For example, it is almost assumed that a two-year plus relationship should head towards marriage. In such relationships, the girlfriend would probably already do things like cook for her boyfriend and vice versa. If this is the case, then no problem – let her cook for you as long as you also cook for her (even if you’re not good at it). However, cooking should be as far as it goes. Chores like laundry (even if it’s with a washing machine) hold a whole lot more meaning than cooking. If one way or another, things don’t work out, activities like cooking can be easily forgiven but if she used to wash your clothes, clean your house, your bathroom and so on, no matter how innocent you are, you will share some, if not most of the blame. You might call it playing safe or whatever but as long as you haven’t exchanged vows or even placed a ring on her finger, I don’t see why your girlfriend should be doing your laundry. Of course, once you do get married, she can do your laundry to her heart’s content – consider it a perk of the institution You ladies should please try and think very well before u come out and answer any question please! This is a public forum and over millions of living human's are watching each comments! Damm! 3 Likes |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by ibietela2(m): 7:45pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Instead of that why not cook and take it to him? 1 Like |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Martin0(m): 7:50pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
fatymore: Oh my God! You are totally wrong! 100% wrong! 1 Like |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by LourlahSuzanne(f): 7:52pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
[i][/i] I see no big deal in cooking for ur BF at ur parent house...like u have to entertain ur guest well...for me if any of my male friends come visiting me in my parents house and am in a cooking mood i cook for them and my parent sees nothing bad in it.That's just me being a good host 3 Likes |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by fatymore(f): 7:57pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Martin0:ok |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by yvesboss(m): 8:00pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
I am amazed .. from the part of the world i come from.when your visitor comes visiting, YOU ENTERTAIN. infact its the parents of the girl that will ask the girl to entertain the guest .. so unless this post means another thing, i dont see anything wrong with that 2 Likes |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Nobody: 8:02pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
I feel that if you love someone whether boyfriend husband or not it’s your duty to care for their wellness and yours as well as a decent human being there’s nothing wrong with feeding a Guest it’s not for points it’s becahse it’s the right thing to do 1 Like |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by jotabson: 8:05pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: so how many have you dated?
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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Blackhawk03(f): 8:05pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Trustme2: Haaaaa! Finally! I was about pulling my hair outta annoyance, no thanks to the comments before yours. Dude is my guest, I should entertain him. In fact, my grandma won't let me rest if I fail to offer him anything to eat. 3 Likes |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:07pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
DrinkLimca:. Honestly if to say u day near me,I for give u better present for this wey you write. 1 Like |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Nobody: 8:14pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Chikita66:long time op you appeared again with a different moniker.Hope nairaland moderator won't banned this account again. |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Apina(m): 8:16pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Ignorant fellows all shouting he has no shame, as if they are any better. There's no friend of mine that has come visiting that my parents did not offer to entertain them even before I thought of doing so, whether male or female. For God's sake, it's just food, and I believe the parents see no big deal in entertaining their daughters visitor or is it the case that food is too big a commodity they can't afford. 2 Likes |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Hafeezson(m): 8:16pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Before unko where did you want her to cook the food in his home?
in my language HAUSA that is what is happening
Hint:not when the guy visit her in front of her parent oo 1 Like |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Pricelessangel0(f): 8:30pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
I blame the girls parents cos my parents can't tolerate such. apart from if its a school mate they know very well but not boyfriend, and I can't cook for him if he comes if there's food on ground no p, BT if there's not u Oyo lo wa |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Funkybabee(f): 8:33pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
It's nonsense |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by AiiVee(m): 8:37pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
well i guess it depends on the extent to which their relationship is going to. 2 Likes |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Pricelessangel0(f): 8:38pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
ajasam12:that one name respect and you deserve cos u have been introduced into the family |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by refreshrate: 8:44pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
If the girl has started having liver to do this I really don't think this is the biggest concern for the family again. Go figure |
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by adedehinbo(m): 9:01pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
I ve done that countless times there is nothing bad in it,I m a disciplined person,I don't do shit that ridicules me,many times she would cook already when I notify her am on my way,we would eat together, most times its her mum that would actually ask her to cook for me,I see nothing wrong in it,there is a big difference between what should we offer u and let's eat together before we pon pon pon 1 Like |
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