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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by dhabrite(m): 7:01pm On Jan 11
OP you need to shed more light on the situation. Looks like your sister is trying to please this man. And how old is your sister? Has she been ditched before?

I need to know before I pass my judgement grin
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Swtfruitzrecord(m): 7:01pm On Jan 11
Naija with their mentality..... so if my girlfriend come visit me now Shey make i stave her?

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by omoikea(m): 7:01pm On Jan 11
why will he go to visit her in her parents house
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Reeberry: 7:01pm On Jan 11
But the guy can cook for his girlfriend in his parents house. Werey people.

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Sterope(f): 7:02pm On Jan 11
If the parents are cool with her having a boyfriend, I don't see how it is wrong. Besides he is her guest, what is your friend's problem?

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Blissp99(f): 7:02pm On Jan 11
DrinkLimca:
The guy is the definition of a shameless fool..

And the Lady is the postal lady for a fish brain..
and her parents that have allowed such shameful act, are two old fools..

in fact all of them are mad..

Why ur blood hot like this naa?

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by NwanyiAwkaetiti(f): 7:02pm On Jan 11
Jodha:
Generally it's wrong for a lady to cook for a guy she's not married to....

Only yhu go ...go him house only yhu go cook for am...tufia....
If he visits yhu courtesy demand yhu entertain him..with either food or snacks...

Apart from that...ladies do not cook for a guy that's not yhur husband... Do not give him yhur other food...

Ladies wise up it's 2018...it's too early to be foolish...
But you can't cook for him but can ask for money ryt?

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Sirventor01(m): 7:02pm On Jan 11
Honestly I think it's a very bad idea especially for the ladies cause it might lead to some unnecessary familiarity

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by k4kings(m): 7:03pm On Jan 11
She must be from d south south.. . Delta to be precise

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by birdsview(m): 7:03pm On Jan 11
Yes yes YES

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Snow02(m): 7:04pm On Jan 11
DrinkLimca:
The guy is the definition of a shameless fool..

And the Lady is the postal lady for a fish brain..
and her parents that have allowed such shameful act, are two old fools..

in fact all of them are mad..
where the fvck have you been?? grin.
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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by stonemasonn: 7:05pm On Jan 11
If she no come see husband now, nah una go come they pressure her.
Abeg if the parents ain’t complaining, no body’s business.

But as a man I no fit, even if I’m poor. Awoof Dey run belle.

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Blissp99(f): 7:06pm On Jan 11
I just came to read comments grin grin
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by FromZeroToHero(m): 7:06pm On Jan 11
The guy no get shame. I only ate at my girlfriend house during festive period which is only Christmas or New year if I didn't travel o.
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by JimmySnow: 7:06pm On Jan 11
Honestly, I blame not the lady but the guy that lack morality and uncultured young man.

The parent of the lady also shows their standard of morality. Only in this generation you hear non sense.

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Preshy561(f): 7:06pm On Jan 11
the guy doesn't have sense

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Troublemaker007(m): 7:06pm On Jan 11
DrinkLimca:
The guy is the definition of a shameless fool..

And the Lady is the postal lady for a fish brain..
and her parents that have allowed such shameful act, are two old fools..

in fact all of them are mad..

Lmfao. Guy u dey parra o cheesy

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Jodha(f): 7:07pm On Jan 11
crazymommy:
you are contradicting yourself though...you said she should not cook for him so which food will she entertain him with??


Dearie...I.mearnt a lady should not go to a Guy's house and cook for him...if yhure not married to him...
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by salmonkas178(m): 7:08pm On Jan 11
sucess15:
Hello Ladies and gentle men, My friend needs an enlightenment from me so i do not know how to answer him so i decided to push it here.
He said his sister had a boyfriend, The boyfriend came to their house like twice in a week to visit his sister at home , whenever the guy came around his sister will prepare food for him at the present of her parent,The question is
Is it normal for the guy to come around all the time like that without proper introduction between both parent?
Is it normal for the guy to visit the girl at home and the girl cooks for him in her parent house ??
Is it normal for her parent to allow that??
Please enlighten us further please

That guy is shameless...so wrong
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Trustme2(m): 7:09pm On Jan 11
It's good to be objective here. He is a guest just like every other visitor which one she can entertain. So what's the big deal in food. We are all brought up in different ways. What works for one may not work for all. I can tell you that in some homes it is tgr parent of the girl that'll ask the girl to prepare something for the boyfriend to eat. It also drprnd on the relationship between the guy and the girls parents. Assuming tgr guy is already a family friend and he's like a child to the family already hr can even enter their kitchen to dish food for himself. So it all depends on the circumstance in question

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Jodha(f): 7:10pm On Jan 11
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
But you can't cook for him but can ask for money ryt?

So yhu dey pay yhur gf to cook for yhu?



If yhu have too.much money...goan get a chef...
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Vanpascore(m): 7:12pm On Jan 11
Change the title to 'Is it ok. . .'
sucess15:
Hello Ladies and gentle men, My friend needs an enlightenment from me so i do not know how to answer him so i decided to push it here.
He said his sister had a boyfriend, The boyfriend came to their house like twice in a week to visit his sister at home , whenever the guy came around his sister will prepare food for him at the present of her parent,The question is
Is it normal for the guy to come around all the time like that without proper introduction between both parent?
Is it normal for the guy to visit the girl at home and the girl cooks for him in her parent house ??
Is it normal for her parent to allow that??
Please enlighten us further please

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Lorechino(m): 7:12pm On Jan 11
madridguy:
To me the guy in question is a shameless guy and a big disgrace to his family.
Tell your friend to open his sister's eyes before she end up with a parasite.

please i need u to tell me something on this (my experience though)
my gf ask me to visit her villa on several occasion which i declined but around this she forced me which i went i arrive their place at night and she asked me to sleep in their house i refused and went to hotel to lodge and it nearly cause problem between us, so to avoid prblm i went to their house and sleep in her brother's room till the nxt mrning when i met with the mum... dat night she forced me to eat which i refused but instead i drank water, but d next morning i have no excuse to give so i ate and also help her fetch water (she is the last child though) please is mine ok cause is my first time.

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by askibee(m): 7:12pm On Jan 11
well as for this i dont think its wrong for a lady to cook for her boyfriend in her parents house its normal and acceptable but that is if he his a serious type not any boyfriend.
but as for the guy coming often to eat in the house i dont think that guy is serious o,he doesnt even have shame,the guy is simply an hungry man.i dont think i will do such and i believe a sane man also shouldnt do such

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by NwanyiAwkaetiti(f): 7:14pm On Jan 11
Jodha:


So yhu dey pay yhur gf to cook for yhu?



If yhu have too.much money...goan get a chef...
Nwanyi and not Nwoke.

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Amarabae(f): 7:14pm On Jan 11
Her parents house?
Nonsense, its just stupidity.
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by askibee(m): 7:15pm On Jan 11
Lorechino:

please i need u to tell me something on this (my experience though)
my gf ask me to visit her villa on several occasion which i declined but around this she forced me which i went i arrive their place at night and she asked me to sleep in their house i refused and went to hotel to lodge and it nearly cause problem between us, so to avoid prblm i went to their house and sleep in her brother's room till the nxt mrning when i met with the mum... dat night she forced me to eat which i refused but instead i drank water, but d next morning i have no excuse to give so i ate and also help her fetch water (she is the last child though) please is mine ok cause is my first time.


thats how its suppose to be,yours is far better infact thumbs up bro for lodging in an hotel

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by AreaFada2: 7:16pm On Jan 11
We do not know exact circumstances. I do not think it is like throwing a banquet for him. My only concern is that the visit is too frequent. And he should purposely refuse to eat sometimes. Even if he's starving.

But ladies and gentlemen please advice women also not to accept money from boyfriends too. Just like you condemn this act here.

Thank you.

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by ImaIma1(f): 7:16pm On Jan 11
If the guy had shame and dignity, he won't do that.

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