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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by lakeside3020(m): 9:03pm On Jan 11, 2018
Fiance ok,boy friend no,

End time Boy friend
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Nobody: 9:04pm On Jan 11, 2018
Jodha:
Generally it's wrong for a lady to cook for a guy she's not married to....

Only yhu go ...go him house only yhu go cook for am...tufia....
If he visits yhu courtesy demand yhu entertain him..with either food or snacks...

Apart from that...ladies do not cook for a guy that's not yhur husband... Do not give him yhur other food...

Ladies wise up it's 2018...it's too early to be foolish...

You are always making the opposite comment on every threads and they are all illogical from my view,

Whats bad if a girl cook for her BF?

And your comment does not in anyway related to what the OP is asking.

So its bad for mg GF to cook at mg place when she visit.

Try to be broad when making your point ok?

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by cattyfundz(m): 9:06pm On Jan 11, 2018
hmmm see lies everywhere... abeg my sister cook for him jare!
and my nigga eat well jor

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by adedehinbo(m): 9:07pm On Jan 11, 2018
I have dated 3 beautiful lovely and independent girls,all of them cooks for me in their mums present, it would just be like babe,what would u like me to cook for u?me I would be like anything nice,immediately I got to her house,she would serve the food and we all eat together,their parents always sees me as their own son too

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by pocohantas(f): 9:09pm On Jan 11, 2018
AreaFada2:
We do not know exact circumstances. I do not think it is like throwing a banquet for him. My only concern is that the visit is too frequent. And he should purposely refuse to eat sometimes. Even if he's starving.

But ladies and gentlemen please advice women also not to accept money from boyfriends too. Just like you condemn this act here.

Thank you.

LOL! ! That's my concern too.
If it were in his house or her personal house, no issues at all.

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Nobody: 9:10pm On Jan 11, 2018
seunmohmoh:
BREAKING NEWS!

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A young lady of about 21years was being wooed by one of the boys in the CAMRY, the lady in question perceived a strong odour coming out from the car. The terrible odour made the lady suspicious. Pretending like someone who needed to ease herself, she alerted an elderly man who was passing by who then made a signal to the Police team that was stationed nearby.

The police team intercepted the car, and searched it. They were shocked when they opened the car booth and found two heads in the booth!
Examining the heads very carefully, the police officers found out that they were two known heads in the community.

It was a head of a Panla fish and the other was that of Titus.

Thank you very much for reading

You need serious spanking...
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by legendsilver(m): 9:16pm On Jan 11, 2018
All advice here are misleading

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by ronaldbecky(m): 9:17pm On Jan 11, 2018
DrinkLimca:
The guy is the definition of a shameless fool..

And the Lady is the postal lady for a fish brain..
and her parents that have allowed such shameful act, are two old fools..

in fact all of them are mad..
..lolz dis 1 na lineage curse o..no b small
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by bleskid(m): 9:32pm On Jan 11, 2018
Chikita66:
If its abroad its normal but in Nigeria I don't think its normal.
what are u saying wan kwase
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by petluvsu(m): 9:33pm On Jan 11, 2018
Nothing is wrong with dat. Leave talk

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by bleskid(m): 9:34pm On Jan 11, 2018
izaray:
I'm here to learn too undecided
who is your teacher undecided
izaray:
I'm here to learn too undecided
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by hinograce: 9:35pm On Jan 11, 2018
Frankly its not wrong. People are different so are relationships. Relationships do not have a cast in stone formula. What works for them might not work for you. To some it can be seen as openness or simplicity to others foolishness. If they are both adults and the parents who are more advanced see nothing wrong it there fore means the guy is of a certain spec they like. Note some parents actually like some guys like that. My point is we dont know who the guy is,who the girl is and who her parents are.

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by crazymommy(f): 9:42pm On Jan 11, 2018
Jodha:



Dearie...I.mearnt a lady should not go to a Guy's house and cook for him...if yhure not married to him...
Alright now I understand
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by rebirthforgoody(f): 10:19pm On Jan 11, 2018
You people should stop quoting nonsense embarassed because I don't see anything wrong with this
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Chuvin22(m): 10:26pm On Jan 11, 2018
I went to my girlfriend house on Christmas day..

She served me food.. The 30 minutes it took me to finish eating was the longest 30 minutes ever.
Her dad, mom, brothers and sister were there.. We were all discussing nicely sha.. But it was hard my brothers and sisters. I know what am talking about. I was sweating. That was my first time and No doubt the last Untill when am going to pay bride price. grin

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Martin0(m): 10:36pm On Jan 11, 2018
rebirthforgoody:
You people should stop quoting nonsense embarassed because I don't see anything wrong with this

Gbam!

The most terrible comment are from your fellow ladies!
Doesn't make sense!

sometimes I kinda feel some few ladies need to grow-up,but now I think majority need to grow,not excluding men who still comments like ladies with low mentality!


I wonder when cooking for ur boyfriend in ur parents house becomes a problem!

Thought his your boyfriend? Na wa ooo
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by rebirthforgoody(f): 10:41pm On Jan 11, 2018
Martin0:


Gbam!

The most terrible comment are from your fellow ladies!
Doesn't make sense!

sometimes I kinda feel some few ladies need to grow-up,but now I think majority need to grow,not excluding men who still comments like ladies with low mentality!


I wonder when cooking for ur boyfriend in ur parents house becomes a problem!

Thought his your boyfriend? Na wa ooo




Nnam how body na?
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by ranmoor: 10:48pm On Jan 11, 2018
I can see OP's friend is more concerned about the frequency of the bf. I am also guessing, the girl still lives with her parents.
The southwesterners won't really mind entertaining their guest. If they are both very mature, (ie about to wedding) no big deal. In fact the mom self can cook..
I can see most ppl condemning the acts are not Yorubas. Why won't u cook for ur guest? I expect the guy to decline most of the time..
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Martin0(m): 10:50pm On Jan 11, 2018
rebirthforgoody:




Nnam how body na?
Body dey inside cloth oo!
Ele nke ige enyemu? grin
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by DozieInc(m): 10:52pm On Jan 11, 2018
My bro travel to Kaduna after Christmas to see his fiancee and her family, she didn't personally cook for him, he was taken care of by her parents and other relatives.
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by rebirthforgoody(f): 10:52pm On Jan 11, 2018
Martin0:


Body dey inside cloth oo!

Ele nke ige enyemu? grin



Nothing ooooh
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Martin0(m): 10:56pm On Jan 11, 2018
rebirthforgoody:



Nothing ooooh
Eh eh ok ooo! How ur side na? Igalu olu ta?
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by JexxTruth(m): 11:22pm On Jan 11, 2018
grin lipsrsealed
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by chiefojiji(m): 11:35pm On Jan 11, 2018
Tell ur guy say na foolish boy.... Plus, he be at ẹnu! Visiting ur gf twice a week, when the parents dey house... Why he no kúkú má pack go dere to dey live. Àláini ronú..... And u Op, u fkup, so u get mind to come ask if it is right or wrong. Weldone u hear. Make I allow the next person to comment about this matter.
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by blueivy8: 11:48pm On Jan 11, 2018
d guy na August visitor grin

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Mypeople2(m): 11:58pm On Jan 11, 2018
O boy ! That girl na sweet babe .Pls where does she live? Some of you here can not prepare good meal.I know many of you cannot even cook white rice without having excessive water at the bottom ,yet you people will be here blaming the lady.Na that kind lady I won marry in 2018.See love! This love is too good o ..Anyway, she shouldn't over do it
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Maxi112: 12:14am On Jan 12, 2018
Abeg na who they buy the food to cook? Is the guy homeless?


I wonder how comfortably people eat food outside their home especially food they never contributed for.


Guys like this fit they bleep their gf for their papa house, via shift am one side make I socket cheesy


#its very bad, I blame the girl for this, she has no iota of respect for her parent.

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by DonFabzy: 12:53am On Jan 12, 2018
sucess15:
Hello Ladies and gentle men, My friend needs an enlightenment from me so i do not know how to answer him so i decided to push it here.
He said his sister had a boyfriend, The boyfriend came to their house like twice in a week to visit his sister at home , whenever the guy came around his sister will prepare food for him at the present of her parent,The question is
Is it normal for the guy to come around all the time like that without proper introduction between both parent?
Is it normal for the guy to visit the girl at home and the girl cooks for him in her parent house ??
Is it normal for her parent to allow that??
Please enlighten us further please


Let me tell you something, you see those people calling your friend a fool or saying rubbish stuffs, trust me they are the ones not even having sense. They are just concluding without thinking meaning they have no sense.

The first thing you should think about is how old are the people involved in this. Then secondly, do you think a father and mother would allow their daughter cook for a man in their house if the man they see is not responsible and they already know their daughter is in a decent relationship?

People who just into conclusion just like that, trust me if you follow their advice or what they say, it will be the biggest mistake of your life.

Tell you friend to ask his parents why they saw nothing wrong in what his sister is doing. Thats the best way to acquire the answer you need because you wont get it from a public place like this.
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by DonFabzy: 12:59am On Jan 12, 2018
hinograce:
Frankly its not wrong. People are different so are relationships. Relationships do not have a cast in stone formula. What works for them might not work for you. To some it can be seen as openness or simplicity to others foolishness. If they are both adults and the parents who are more advanced see nothing wrong it there fore means the guy is of a certain spec they like. Note some parents actually like some guys like that. My point is we dont know who the guy is,who the girl is and who her parents are.

I love this. Just the point i was trying to make. Some people just throw insult because of poor background.

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Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by Tomreed: 3:00am On Jan 12, 2018
1. Its your family, your house, your rules
2. If everyone's are cool with it then why stress yourself over it when there're better things to worry about
3. Him coming all the time? Yea its messed up but try to understand why before judging him...

Just my opinion tho.
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by pokipoki: 4:51am On Jan 12, 2018
sucess15:
Hello Ladies and gentle men, My friend needs an enlightenment from me so i do not know how to answer him so i decided to push it here.
He said his sister had a boyfriend, The boyfriend came to their house like twice in a week to visit his sister at home , whenever the guy came around his sister will prepare food for him at the present of her parent,The question is
Is it normal for the guy to come around all the time like that without proper introduction between both parent?
Is it normal for the guy to visit the girl at home and the girl cooks for him in her parent house ??
Is it normal for her parent to allow that??
Please enlighten us further please

Can you stop watching Nigerian home videos and start thinking with your brain!!!
Re: It Is Okay For A Lady To Prepare Food For Her Boyfriend At Her Parent's Home? by izaray(f): 9:34am On Jan 12, 2018
bleskid:
who is your teacher undecided
Anyone with a good idea nah

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