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Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Georgeisco2007: 6:00am On Jan 17, 2018 |
damichworld: Did you by any chance go through what was written before typing this epistle? He never said it's wrong owing a property but the problem is keeping it a way from the husband. She even denied being the owner even when confronted. Please always read to understand, not to respond. 5 Likes |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by pennywys(m): 6:00am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Adamrealman78:bro quite it and let her go 2 Likes |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Pussyisfood: 6:03am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Love is indeed blind. You mean you couldn't see all these traits before you got married to the biatch? 2 Likes |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by pennywys(m): 6:14am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Adamrealman78:I'm advising you to divorce her, not because of her childlessness but for the fact that she can't sacrifice for you a little as much as you sacrifice for her. She owns a property means she already plan for it. And she can't support you cos she thinks another woman will benefit from it in the end. |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by graciously2013: 6:21am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Majority of the comments here are from people that are not married, I doubt if the op truly love his wife, from your write I see a lot of lies there and is clear that you've been cheating on her over there in Abuja. If you make a women feel insecure she will do everything on her own without consulting you. Do you truly marry her or you guys are cohabitating? If truly you love and respect her you wouldn't have the gut to take another lady you even called her your new wife. No matter the medical conditions of your woman she needs your help to pull through not torture. And from your write you are a saint while she is a sinner. In marriage it takes two to tango. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by graciously2013: 6:30am On Jan 17, 2018 |
NoToPile:That my point she was not secure in the marriage. The guy Is not faithful to her 1 Like |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by teamv: 6:31am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Adamrealman78:so you have been looking for an opportunity to let her go ThankGod she has a house 1 Like |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by graciously2013: 6:32am On Jan 17, 2018 |
vicadex07:Are you married? 1 Like |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by kakacoke01: 6:38am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Adamrealman78:oga divorce her any woman dat can do such without telling her husband dat woman can kill you divorce is the answer |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by ashjay001(m): 6:48am On Jan 17, 2018 |
madridguy: It is d only ans! A lot of immature ladies are getting married, let them learn maturity on d streets. My guys dating divorcees, always sing of d maturity displayed, as reasons for not wanting to let go. |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Nobody: 6:53am On Jan 17, 2018 |
GrammarCheck:My intuition is telling me that you were the person who 'liked' the message. Intuitions can be wrong, though You have friends, right. Hook me up. It might ultimately 'end up' Daalu! |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Arabs999: 7:00am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Adamrealman78:Op, u better run as fast as ur kegs can carry u from that useless and selfish woman. U also need to borrow legs to join your own legs to increase the speed. .. ..Or else, u will have a life long regrets... Good luck.. .. |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Nobody: 7:00am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Georgeisco2007: See how you are confidently believing him like you are in his heart. Have you heard the wife's side of the story to make any sound judgement? A man that doesn't think it is wrong to make a public ridicule of his wife.. Is that one a man? A man that has only painted his wife as the wicked and never changing sinner yet h is the saint.. Is that one a man? I bet if she was your sister, you would not like such wicked treatment meted out to her. One can easily decipher that the op is just a liar & an immature fellow The thing pain am sey the lady get foresight. Shior 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by MurphyTheory99(m): 7:00am On Jan 17, 2018 |
When she started building that house for herself and only for her, she moved on long ago but you didnt know. What a pity. It obvious you moved on too when you started seeing this other lady while you are still married. Both of you are wrong. It better you both go your separate ways. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by OBIGS(m): 7:01am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Adamrealman78:bro ur situation might get worse except divine intervention. Be the judge of your situation and determine if the marriage is still worth saving. If it isn't bro it's time to move on. Bros don't kill your self in a marriage that happiness is far from you. The means painful thing is loving a woman who won't reciprocate the same way. such women won't find it difficult to cheat. Do the needful |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by OBIGS(m): 7:01am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Adamrealman78:bro ur situation might get worse except divine intervention. Be the judge of your situation and determine if the marriage is still worth saving. If it isn't bro it's time to move on. Bros don't kill your self in a marriage that happiness is far from you. The most painful thing is loving a woman who won't reciprocate the same way. such women won't find it difficult to cheat. Do the needful 1 Like |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Brugo(m): 7:02am On Jan 17, 2018 |
I think this is one of the very few people (on this thread) qualified to advice the OP not to divorce his wife. Also, madam, I am impressed yet terrified by your manipulative skills. I mean this in a positive way. GrammarCheck: 1 Like |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by victorazy(m): 7:08am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Adamrealman78: Sorry sir.... |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Kpartners: 7:09am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Close down the Lagos business and take your wife to Abuja to live with you period |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Nobody: 7:15am On Jan 17, 2018 |
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Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by gare(f): 7:29am On Jan 17, 2018 |
madridguy: So what is the answer? Tell us. |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by vicadex07(m): 7:29am On Jan 17, 2018 |
graciously2013: What difference does it make? So I can't recognize evil because I probably aren't married according to you? Here is a woman who her husband loved and catered for at all costs even against his family wish only for him to loose his job and wife started giving him n200 daily to sustain from a business he probably set up for her. After that the Op managed to get another better paying job only for the lady to advice him to resign and relocate back to Lagos for her sake and continue with his n200 daily stipend. I hope u went through all the ops post very well. Unless the Op is lying, that woman is purely selfish and evil. 2 Likes |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Psoul(m): 7:30am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Bros, do you think you can solve a problem by creating more problems? When there is a problem, the best way to start solving it is to start bn neutral. Be rational and fair. Don't start apportioning blame to the other person. Start from sincerely asking yourself if there is/are thing(s) you are doing that might be remotely causing the problem. Explore every factor that may be contributory to the problem. After this, ask yourself, if I'm in the other person's shoes what will be my reaction in such a situation (considering his/her strength and weakness). At this point, if u are rational and fair, u may withdraw some of the harsh decision u may have preferred. For your case my brother, I beliv ur wife is feeling unaccepted by ur family and u are not helping matters. I assume that you may not have given her that hope that you will always be wt her. So, she started on time to secure her future. Mind you, I am not totally supporting her taking such a project outside ur knowledge and consent. Secondly, u beliv that the inability of her to conceive is solely her making. You may have bn directly or indirectly showing her ur regret for not listening to ur parents when they objected you marrying her. That display is killing that woman u called ur wife. U need to kw this. Let me also tell u that her childlessness is not that she is barren. The distance between two of u (Abuja and Lagos) is really contributing to that. How many times do u meet her in a month to enable her conceive? When u will be opportune to visit her, how sure are you that she will be on her ovulation period. Why not try and spend more time with her to see if God will not do it for u. My brother, u want to divorce ur wife cos she refused to give u 20k wen u knw full well that has enof in her account. Chaiiii.....my brother who is doing dis to u naa. The reason sounds so pathetic. Pls rebuke the devil that want to destroy ur life. I have not seen any good reason for considering divorce. Don't even let her have a wind of this ur tot else you will make her case worst. Leave that woman alone. Rehabilitate her, groom her into what you want her to be. Give her hope and assurance that you will not forsake her and I bet you, you will enjoy ur marriage. 7 Likes |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by sweetlaw: 7:33am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Adamrealman78: If u already f**ked a new wife and moved on, why d f**k do u need our advice? Abi your village people don collect ur sense too? Tell me u have not been cheating on her.... Because she also made plan bcd&e just as u did, that is why u are pained. U wanted a foolish woman who will stay and be doing mumu crying and begging when u and ur foolish family member come to chase her out of the house bah? Thank god say she sef wise and she probably knew u were cheating otherwise, how do u explain moving on from a woman u have been married to for six years within two days? Oga u gat no sinparty from me because u too deserve each other. Cunny man die, Cunny man bury am 4 Likes |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by NoToPile: 7:33am On Jan 17, 2018 |
graciously2013: She knows and the fact that she doesn't have a child yet added to her insecurity so she was planning her exit. She seems to have given up anyway, just check out the combination inlaws that don't want her, she's not finding it easy to have a child and then you add a cheating husband to the mix, too dangerous a combination that can make any woman act like she did. 1 Like |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by NoToPile: 7:37am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Brugo: Don't mind my pokenosing, but why are you terrified? Besides it really is not 'manipulating' in the real sense of it. |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by lagosrd: 7:40am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Adamrealman78: Don't divorce her, get a second wife and stop being naive and stupid. 1 Like |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by MrFly(m): 7:42am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Relationship or marriage? Ayam not understanding |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by sweetlaw: 7:43am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Richy4: My thoughts exactly. Women are wiser now, no more slow thinking and mumu begging and trying to salvage what cannot be repaired. I feel he has been cheating and d wife found out. AAgain Mr. Man, if u have been cheating and ur side chic could not get pregnant for u, it proofs u are d barren one and not ur wife. |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by sweetlaw: 7:47am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Vyolet: Abi ooo 2 Likes |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Futureberry: 7:51am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Seahawk:you are a typical radical feminists, who attack men for practicing patriarchal values,yet still ignore his good woman dominating sides that you hate, and lambast him for not seeing his wife as equal...wives that never saw her husband as equal 2 Likes |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by princessayesha(f): 7:51am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Your wife building a house without your knowledge can not be the reason why you are this angry....if you want a child marry a second wife, you are an African for God's sake. |
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