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Hello everyone, I’m having a bit of a problem here. My girlfriend from Costa Rica is giving birth soon and I don’t really know what to do. No, the baby is not mine since we recently just met through a romance tour in her country, and the baby’s dad ran out on her.
Initially, I was thinking of sending her some money but a little voice inside my head is telling me to visit her personally. I’m sure she would be happy if I was by her side through the whole thing and meet her baby up close.
Even though we’ve only been in a relationship for a couple of months, I really do like her and would even consider adopting the child. So, what do you folks think I should do? Should I just contact with her online or should I book a ticket and head over there to support her in person?
I don’t want to seem like I’m taking things too fast. Besides, her family doesn’t even know about our relationship yet. It might seem awkward if I do show up. I’m so confused! Help me out here please!

If you want to help assisting with some money please do.
Life is not all about what we are going to gain.

haveme21:
Hello everyone, I’m having a bit of a problem here. My girlfriend from Costa Rica is giving birth soon and I don’t really know what to do. No, the baby is not mine since we recently just met through a romance tour in her country, and the baby’s dad ran out on her.
Initially, I was thinking of sending her some money but a little voice inside my head is telling me to visit her personally. I’m sure she would be happy if I was by her side through the whole thing and meet her baby up close.
Even though we’ve only been in a relationship for a couple of months, I really do like her and would even consider adopting the child. So, what do you folks think I should do? Should I just contact with her online or should I book a ticket and head over there to support her in person?
I don’t want to seem like I’m taking things too fast. Besides, her family doesn’t even know about our relationship yet. It might seem awkward if I do show up. I’m so confused! Help me out here please!

@bolded; End of discussion.

Pls ask for her EDD, it will be good to be with her before, at, and after delivery. Prepare for the arrival of the baby with her.

But if the baby's dad shows up and he is aggressive... guy leave.

Mmmmssshhheeewwwww



Buhari get sense pass you , infact the sex Doll wen I go buy go get sense pass u

Someone else smashed her and you want to take responsibility...

My nigga sense fall on you...

potbelly:
Someone else smashed her and you want to take responsibility...

My nigga sense fall on you...

Most supid comment of the century

pyyxxaro:
Mmmmssshhheeewwwww



Buhari get sense pass you , infact the sex Doll wen I go buy go get sense pass u

I.am surrounded by stupidity. Ur comment is just that, no sense

drnoel:
I.am surrounded by stupidity. Ur comment is just that, no sense

this very guy and d guy above me are giving u the most sensible advice , I've seen on this page so far,
How can u go and babysit a girl, u don't even know how she got pregnant...what if she's married , and just looking for somebody to chill with...and u re unaware, I don't think u truly understand girls....
Buhari is even too much, bobrisky sef go get sense pass you if u go

Joshmodest:
this very guy and d guy above me are giving u the most sensible advice , I've seen on this page so far,
How can u go and babysit a girl, u don't even know how she got pregnant...what if she's married , and just looking for somebody to chill with...and u re unaware, I don't think u truly understand girls....
Buhari is even too much, bobrisky sef go get sense pass you if u go

Still not ur problem guy. Left to the chairman to decide bros. Not everything that meets the eyes is bad. For all we know she could really have been that misfortuned

haveme21:
Hello everyone, I’m having a bit of a problem here. My girlfriend from Costa Rica is giving birth soon and I don’t really know what to do. No, the baby is not mine since we recently just met through a romance tour in her country, and the baby’s dad ran out on her.
Initially, I was thinking of sending her some money but a little voice inside my head is telling me to visit her personally. I’m sure she would be happy if I was by her side through the whole thing and meet her baby up close.
Even though we’ve only been in a relationship for a couple of months, I really do like her and would even consider adopting the child. So, what do you folks think I should do? Should I just contact with her online or should I book a ticket and head over there to support her in person?
I don’t want to seem like I’m taking things too fast. Besides, her family doesn’t even know about our relationship yet. It might seem awkward if I do show up. I’m so confused! Help me out here please!

Can you do same for a Nigerian girl? You guys have a great complex or maybe its your desperation to marry a foreigner and leave Nigeria that has clouded your judgement. Once someone is light skinned your senses jump out the window.

haveme21:
Hello everyone, I’m having a bit of a problem here. My girlfriend from Costa Rica is giving birth soon and I don’t really know what to do. No, the baby is not mine since we recently just met through a romance tour in her country, and the baby’s dad ran out on her.
Initially, I was thinking of sending her some money but a little voice inside my head is telling me to visit her personally. I’m sure she would be happy if I was by her side through the whole thing and meet her baby up close.
Even though we’ve only been in a relationship for a couple of months, I really do like her and would even consider adopting the child. So, what do you folks think I should do? Should I just contact with her online or should I book a ticket and head over there to support her in person?
I don’t want to seem like I’m taking things too fast. Besides, her family doesn’t even know about our relationship yet. It might seem awkward if I do show up. I’m so confused! Help me out here please!

Lol!
So we still have retàrds this much alive?

Bruh, you need a brainwashing.
A sex doll is far better than that pregnant girl.

You'll only be used and dumped...

drnoel:
Most supid comment of the century

Look in the mirror and you'll see the stupidity staring at YOU.

what will you do if the guy come back....do you think she won't leave u for her baby daddy.... sometimes blood is thicker than water polo..

Jonathan:
Look in the mirror and you'll see the stupidity staring at YOU.

Very true bros, best answer u ever gave in ur life. Still that stupidity in my mirror is u, stupid

Bruhh, calm down.

Wise up! Travel from Naija to Costa Rica to greet a baby that's not even yours? The baby's father is still coming back to claim rights

drnoel:
Very true bros, best answer u ever gave in ur life. Still that stupidity in my mirror is u, stupid

Drfool
You must be thinking with your anus.
Just because a girl is from Costa Rica... Fools like you are the ones marries oyinbo LEFTOVER grannies just to have a green card.

Your head needs cane

Jonathan:
Drfool
You must be thinking with your anus.
Just because a girl is from Costa Rica... Fools like you are the ones marries oyinbo LEFTOVER grannies just to have a green card.

Your head needs cane

Okay the insults have started falling u. Ur parents didn't teach u well, u untrained bufoon

drnoel:
Okay the insults have started falling u. MY parents didn't teach ME well, I am untrained bufoon

Alright.
How can a drunkard old fool and a whôre give a good training?

potbelly:
Someone else smashed her and you want to take responsibility...

My nigga sense fall on you...

Wisdom.

Jonathan:
Alright.
How can a drunkard old fool and a whôre give a good training?

Shows how childish u can be. U even altered my post, u are a fraudster. Child that u are. Children like u should stay off d internet. Ur dad should be ashamed

drnoel:
Shows how childish u can be. U even altered my post, u are a fraudster. Child that u are. Children like u should stay off d internet. Ur dad should be ashamed

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Have a seat

hmmm. i forgot what i wanted to say

wisest comment of all time...

drnoel:
Most supid comment of the century

Nutase:
Can you do same for a Nigerian girl? You guys have a great complex or maybe its your desperation to marry a foreigner and leave Nigeria that has clouded your judgement. Once someone is light skinned your senses jump out the window.

Her race is now the problem? Wonders, You people never cease to amaze me

Jonathan:
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Have a seat

No home training my son. Ur parents should teach u better