"I don't want to have a girl child", someone said, and, when I got the knack of his excuses, I couldn't but think twice over my dream of having, at least, a beautiful female child. I used to picture her pretty, slim, intelligent, natural and innocent. I used to visualize a girl child, who would perch on my shoulder while I tell her stories of the tortoise and the hen. I used to see a future daughter, who would be fond of me and shout Dad! Dad!! in the house.

I had desired a daughter, with whom I'll play football in the compound. I used to want a girl, whom I would adorn with expensive clothes and jewelries. A daughter I would treat like a princess and worship. I wanted to name her Ewatomi, But, now, I'm afraid!

Did the girl child, all at once, realise she's without value? Does she now see herself as made for men's buzz, and that alone? Does she think she's made to make boys feel good? Was she designed, just for boys' amusement and turn-on? In the strippers' club, you would see without-clothes girls, gallivanting and selling it cheap.

They would allow you handle their boobs, if you can pay. They would allow you do most nutty and slaphappy things with their bodies for a valueless naira note. The other day, A girl wrote this on specialspesh(Davido's friend)' s wall on instagram, " D Bleep way you Bleep me for free way you promised me toyota Corolla car way u never still fulfill nah thurnder go strike u one day."

What has come over the latest girl child? In the University, almost every girl is a hoe! Some are in the sex business, while some lay around just for the fun of it. Seeing a young boy take tramadol, cialis, levitra, viagra codeine etc, one would wonder who the victim of such make her cry anal rampage would be. She's the innocent-looking 17yrs old daddy's girl.

Isn't It demeaning, that 10 unclad, grown up ladies would twist and bunny hop around a fully clothed boy, all in the name of shooting a musical video? Isn't it worth crying for, that some 5 ladies would pride and joy in being baby Mamas for a small fry celebrity? Isn't it sorry and touching, that a girl would, with zeal, pose Unclad and 24 carat original for a shot? Haven't you seen a pretty young girl, expose her almost-bare vulva to the coldness of camera flashes? Isn't it pesky, that ladies now delight more pleasure in twerking than contributing anything intelligible to the society? Isn't it ugly? If a guy would boast, he would, of the number of girls he's had free sex with! He would boast of how recklessly, he bleeped that hijab-wearing girl.

He would boast of how he, without mercy, ravished that lady, who doesn't wear hear rings. He would, of how a Pastor's daughter came begging for more, after a war-like bed session. Ask some guy out there, He's got more than fifteen girls shouting for help.
Someone seems to have untied the girl child into nothingness. Someone seems to have primed her on being a low-grade mortal. She seems to have endorsed and taken stock in being made for men's pick-me-up alone. She seems aware of herself being only an easy mark for sexual pleasure. She now understands how the best she can offer is her curves and boobs.

She's like too afraid of being irrelevant, that she wants to lay bare, what's under her pant, if that would bring about attention. Let those punching out for gender equality stop wasting time, the girl child has accepted defeat! The ministry of women affairs should change name, ladies seem more comfortable as mere blow jobbers.

I would have said, that I would
instill in my own daughter ethics and ideals, but, will it make a difference? I would have sworn to bring her up very religiously, but Pastors' daughters seem not too good. I would have planned to give her a sky-scraping education, but, those ladies who went to Cambridge, don't they end up in the street nude? I would have decided to make life so comfortable for and give her every little thing she needs, but, daughters of rich parents are not different. I would have promised to shower attention on her, but, those of caring and tender parents also end up giving free sex.

I would, then, have promised to be tough on my own girl and always flog brain into her, but, daughters of such parents end up living couples' lives in school, cooking and receiving Bob doles on a daily basis. Nothing seem enough to stop a girl from going wild. Nothing seem enough to make her see herself as special and the best thing that has happened to the world. If you chastise her, it's trouble. If you don't at all, it is problem. So, Isn't it better not to give birth to a girl at all?

Ayeni Faith Damilola is a writer, public speaker and eulogist.
faithdamilolaayeni@yahoo.com

This is so true..
I cant help but agree with him.
Despite the controversial Title



But thete there VERY FEW good ones.
Like 1 in a million

ZuzuOUT! STFU!

This your epistle long na!

Harjibode that was a good read. "Its a man's job to respect women but its a woman's job to give him what to respect". If most women have been respecting themselves and not been selling themselves at a paltry price all for a taste. I STRONGLY doubt if such a ridicule of womanhood with such a latest invention as SEX DOLL will ever become a manifestation.

Train a girl child and you train a nation, even though there are mannerless girls without any atom of value for their body due to severe years of low self esteem doesn't mean you should generalize, not every lady is into prostitution, not every girl collect money in exchange for sex, that male child you so much want to have will marry one day and face his family, it is still that female child that will be coming to look after you even from her husband's house, this scenario has played out a couple of times, be careful of what you wish for, train your girl child very well and she won't succumb to peer pressure, she won't see herself as a mere object of sexual gratification, spare the rod and spoil the child.


I can go on and on and please don't call me a feminist, I am not one.

I will suggest he doesn't have a child at all. The last time I checked, both are doing very bad things. if you don't train a child well, he or she will end up bad. It's not a function of the gender.

E.g, Espada10 is a male child, but look how he has dedicated his life to cyberbulling. Of what use can that one be to his family?

Maybe we should stop having kids entirely.

AntiBrutus:
I will suggest he doesn't have a child at all. The last time I checked, both are doing very bad things. if you don't train a child well, he or she will end up bad. It's not a function of the gender.

E.g, Espada10 is a male child, but look how he has dedicated his life to cyberbulling. Of what use can that one be to his family?

Maybe we should stop having kids entirely.

Very very sad sis. But he can let his parents know he was a failed troll and bully on nl sha.

AntiBrutus:
[s] I will suggest he doesn't have a child at all. The last time I checked, both are doing very bad things. if you don't train a child well, he or she will end up bad. It's not a function of the gender.

E.g, Espada10 is a male child, but look how he has dedicated his life to cyberbulling. Of what use can that one be to his family?

Maybe we should stop having kids entirely [/s] .

Self deception!

makydebbie:


Very very sad sis. But he can let his parents know he was a failed troll and bully on nl sha.

He wouldn't dare

donstan18:


Self deception!

Self deception, that bad parenting can affect either gender?
The screws in your brain must be out.

AntiBrutus:



Self deception, that bad parenting can affect either gender?

Self deception that you had to call Espada to cover up the thread's point.

AntiBrutus:


The screws in your brain must be out .

Don't do this again.

donstan18:

Self deccciption that you had to call Espada to cover up the thread's point.Don't do this again.

Espada10 is a good example that wisdom isn't in the genitals. If I ask you how I covered the threads' point, you'll start blabbing as usual

I will do that as long as I want, if you can cancel my post, then I can as well point out the lose nut in your brain. 50:50.

AntiBrutus:


Espada10 is a good example that wisdom isn't in the genitals. If I ask you how I covered the threads' point, you'll start blabbing as usual

[s] I will do that as long as I want, if you can cancel my post, then I can as well point out the lose nut in your brain. 50:50 [/s].

Lol, that sounds romantic, you care for a morning show?

I don't mind serving it hot

donstan18:


Lol, that sounds romantic, you care for a morning show?
I don't mind serving it hot

Don't delude yourself. If you wanna counter, do it sensibly. In the absence of that, you'll be repaid in equal or even bigger measures.
Go give Espada10 a show on my behalf. Thanks and bye

AntiBrutus:


Don't delude yourself. If you wanna counter, do it sensibly. In the absence of that, you'll be repaid in equal or even bigger measures.
Go give Espada10 a show on my behalf. Thanks and bye

As usual for ladies
They hit, but detests being hit

donstan18:


As usual for ladies
They hit, but detests being hit

As usual for guys, they hit and try to play mature/victim.
You cancelled my post first. I will keep calling out your attention seeking and crave for likes using people. Take it far away from me...

AntiBrutus:


[s] As usual for guys, they hit and try to play mature.
You cancelled my post first. I will keep calling out your attention seeking and crave for likes using people. Take it far away from me. [/s] ..

donstan18:

Self deception that you had to call Espada to cover up the thread's point.



Don't do this again.

Lol, this hypocrisy is glaring tho. What Espada10 said about me, you couldn't quote that one?
When will guys on nl change?

makydebbie:
Lol, this hypocrisy is glaring tho. What Espada10 said about me, you couldn't quote that one?
When will guys on nl change?

NL might never introduce the option of seeing who likes a post. If they do, you'll get to know all the snakes here. That dude you quoted is one, but I don't have a problem with that. He should just take it far from me.

makydebbie:
Lol, this hypocrisy is glaring tho. What Espada10 said about me, you couldn't quote that one?
When will guys on nl change?

Lol, hypocrisy?

Quoting Espada to tell him what?, to stop dissing?

I rarely do that, and beside I never gave a harmful quote to Antibrutus abi brututu, one need not to take online shii serious or personal if it doesn't add anything positive to you, condemning him being unintelligent isn't right, thou Espada may have brawled her, hereby creating the assumed hatred.

Now, what's with you and hypocrisy about that?, that I didn't indulge myself when Espada quoted you?

AntiBrutus:


NL might never introduce the option of seeing who likes a post. If they do, you'll get to know all the snakes here. That dude you quoted is one, but I don't have a problem with that. He should just take it far from me.

I tell you sis, imagine reading what that bully said about me. Isn't it the same thing you 'did'? He used me as a reference about pastors kids.
You used him as a reference too that male kids ain't any better. So what's his point?
I swear, if we can see who likes just like shares, we'll know who's true. Smh.

makydebbie:
I tell you sis, imagine reading what that bully said about me. Isn't it the same thing you 'did'? He used me as a reference about pastors kids.

You used him as a reference too that male kids ain't any better. So what's his point?
I swear, if we can see who likes just like shares, we'll know who's true. Smh.

Send me the link.

donstan18:


Lol, hypocrisy?

Quoting Espada to tell him what?, to stop dissing?

I rarely do that, and beside I never gave a harmful quote to Antibrutus abi brututu, one need not to take online shii serious or personal if it doesn't add anything positive to you, condemning him being unintelligent isn't right, thou Espada may have brawled her, hereby creating the assumed hatred.

Now, what's with you and hypocrisy about that?, that I didn't indulge myself when Espada quoted you?

I wish we could send voice notes on nl. Lemme shout into your skull.

Abeg the hypocrisy is already glaring. Nothing can hide it. He wasn't only dissing. He used the OP's point as a reference to shame me. That's the same thing Poco did. Why did you quote her alone?

Just look at your long mouth, "condemning him saying he's unintelligent isn't cool." Did you see all what he wrote about me? That one is cool abi? Jeez!!

If you're going to quote Poco, quote him too. So that we can know you're the Saint here who's ready for heaven. If not, scroll like you never saw her post. Because she's a lady she no get opinion and because that idiot is a guy, he has a say. Carry your one way hypocrisy outta my mention jare.

donstan18:


Send me the link.

Okay cool.

Act like you never saw it.

makydebbie:

I wish we could send voice notes on nl. Lemme shout into your skull.

makydebbie:

Abeg the hypocrisy is already glaring. Nothing can hide it. He wasn't only dissing. He used the OP's point as a reference to shame me. That's the same thing Poco did. Why did you quote her alone?

Which Poco?, was that Poco?
I fvcked up, I would have deepen some savage to light a couchie, I really fvcked up

makydebbie:

Just look at your long mouth, "condemning him saying he's unintelligent isn't cool." Did you see all what he wrote about me? That one is cool abi? Jeez!!

'

makydebbie:

If you're going to quote Poco, quote him too. So that we can know you're the Saint here who's ready for heaven. If not, scroll like you never saw her post. Because she's a lady she no get opinion and because that idiot is a guy, he has a say . [s] Carry your one way hypocrisy outta my mention jare. [/s]

I don't act like saints online, not read to impress.

And beside, what Espada shii are you typing about?, why not send the link, for me to have some glance.

You feel I'm pretending not to be aware?

makydebbie:

I swear, if we can see who likes just like shares, we'll know who's true. Smh.

LOL. He saw it, don't be deceived. He is no different, forget all the preaching. I remember that thread where someone claimed I go to give men head after work, he was seriously dancing upandan the thread, quoting every slutshaming comment. Now he wants to educate me on what's right? Adonbilivit .

Like I always say, they can't fool me.

AntiBrutus:


LOL. He saw it, don't be deceived. He is no different, forget all the preaching. I remember that thread where someone claimed I go to give men head after work, he was seriously dancing upandan the thread, quoting every slutshaming comment. Now he wants to educate me on what's right? Adonbilivit .

Like I always say, they can't fool me.

U be Poco sef

So, the point is that i shouldn't quote on comments with wrong condemnation.

donstan18:






Which Poco?, was that Poco?
I fvcked up, I would have deepen some savage to light a couchie, I really fvcked up





'



I don't act like saints online, not read to impress.

And beside, what Espada shii are you typing about?, why not send the link, for me to have some glance.

You feel I'm pretending not to be aware?

I'm just coming online to your mention. I've gone through the thread and I've seen the comment has been deleted. It was just above Poco's comment. But you deliberately didn't see it and saw Poco's instead. That was even what prompted her comment.

Anything to antagonize Poco goes. Whether it makes sense or not. I know you're pretending not to be aware, because as at that time, the comment was still showing. Just above Poco' s own.

AntiBrutus:


LOL. He saw it, don't be deceived. He is no different, forget all the preaching. I remember that thread where someone claimed I go to give men head after work, he was seriously dancing upandan the thread, quoting every slutshaming comment. Now he wants to educate me on what's right? Adonbilivit .

Like I always say, they can't fool me.

I don't understand these people. I really don't. How can he say he didn't see that comment which was just above yours. That long epistle he wrote about me wasn't seen, but the short one you wrote, was very visible. Ezz well.

makydebbie:
I'm just coming online to your mention. I've gone through the thread and I've seen the comment has been deleted. It was just above Poco's comment. But you deliberately didn't see it and saw Poco's instead. That was even what prompted her comment.

Lol, you are obviously finding it hard to believe that I didn't see the thread, huh? that's pretty funny, you know.

I don't take any shii serious do that at your own peril.

So your point is that I shouldn't quote any condemning comment? , huh?

donstan18:





Lol, you are obviously finding it hard to believe that I didn't see the thread, huh? that's pretty funny, you know.

I don't take any shii serious do that at your own peril.

So your point is that I shouldn't quote any condemning comment? , huh?

Stop acting dumb with me. The comment was on this particular thread above Poco's own. And you're still asking which thread again when it's this particular thread.


You can quote oh, don't just be hypocritical about it. You saw what Espada10 said about me, it was a whole lot but the little one Poco said couldn't pass you by.