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My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by HARDLABOR(op): 9:26am On Jan 28, 2018
After coming home for the weekend I collected her phone to check her bonus (coz she's been calling me during the week) only to see there's 285mb on it so I borrowed the SIM to utilize the mb

It was around 11pm last night a guy named ABRAHAM called her line, so I picked the call but I didn't say anything on the phone, he said "hello" but I didn't respond, he said "hello Serah talk na" but I didn't say anything so he ended the call and call again which I did the same

So this morning now she came as early as 6am to tell me about the guy (I think he called her second line)

I was really mad at her

She said the guy has been sending hee card that she's not dating him.

This is the same girl am planning to be my wife, she's already doing this at this early stage
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by doctore212(m): 9:32am On Jan 28, 2018
Leave her and get a sex doll
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by Heavance(m):
Funny thing we always hear guys say is "this is the girl I plan to marry"......
but they have hardly talked about the future with such lady, we only get to know on social media.

Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by divinehand2003(m): 9:33am On Jan 28, 2018
Forgive her for it's divine to do so. She might even be telling the truth.
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by gabinogem(m): 9:34am On Jan 28, 2018
This is just hasty conclusion bruv... A lady is entitled to have male friends whether she's ur girlfriend or wife, as long as such friendship is not sexual in nature.
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by Nobody: 9:37am On Jan 28, 2018
Heavance:
Funny thing we always here guys say is "this is the girl I plan to marry"......
but they have never talked about the future with such lady, we only get to know on social media.
You said my mind, and it's always after they got the hunch she's cheating.
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by HARDLABOR(op): 9:37am On Jan 28, 2018
Heavance:
Funny thing we always here guys say is "this is the girl I plan to marry"......
but they have never talked about the future with such lady, we only get to know on social media.
Are you in the relationship with us to know that we've not discussed it huh

Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by olagbemi118(m): 9:39am On Jan 28, 2018
HARDLABOR:
After coming home for the weekend I collected her phone to check her bonus (coz she's been calling me during the week) only to see there's 285mb on it so I borrowed the SIM to utilize the mb

It was around 11pm last night a guy named ABRAHAM called her line, so I picked the call but I didn't say anything on the phone, he said "hello" but I didn't respond, he said "hello Serah talk na" but I didn't say anything so he ended the call and call again which I did the same

So this morning now she came as early as 6am to tell me about the guy (I think he called her second line)

I was really mad at her

She said the guy has been sending hee card that she's not dating him.

This is the same girl am planning to be my wife, she's already doing this at this early stage
if u want a woman no man would appreciate, y not go for a slowpoke?
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by HeWrites(m): 9:40am On Jan 28, 2018
So??
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by Heavance(m): 9:41am On Jan 28, 2018
HARDLABOR:
Are you in the relationship with us to know that we've not discussed it huh
Just an observation, don't take it personal.

Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by Pubichairs(m): 9:43am On Jan 28, 2018
cheesy to hair is human to forgive is design ...must she tell u everything ..till u engage her..then she's off the market ..no de tell us your mumu plans to marry her
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by fulaniHERDSman(m): 9:46am On Jan 28, 2018
Truth is, no well trained girl should lockdown her future for any guy or man that hasn't done the needful on her head. lts either you are ready or not. Relationships are distractions for young people. l have seen young men who cancelled free sponsorship abroad because of some girl they dont wanna lose but eventually lost them to ready guys. l have also seen many loyal girls who were later ditched for flimsy reasons.
Boys should be focussed on building a life and not making life a function of some girls that are also in pursuit of a balanced life. Misplaced priority.
Boys should have as many girlfriends as possible. Likewise girls while shunning premarital sex.
Make it, choose a partner among your best friends, then marry them.
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by Jamariwolff(f): 9:50am On Jan 28, 2018
I wonder where all these guys keep coming from.

Did you create the lady?
Oh you want a girlfriend that'll be following you like mumu all her life and wouldn't take any gifts from any man?

Why not friend your mum na? (no offence)
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by frbona: 9:58am On Jan 28, 2018
doctore212:
Leave her and get a sex doll
please who is in that backyard? Go and buy star for this Doctor
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by ReddingtonLeke: 10:13am On Jan 28, 2018
fulaniHERDSman:
Truth is, no well trained girl should lockdown her future for any guy or man that hasn't done the needful on her head. lts either you are ready or not. Relationships are distractions for young people. l have seen young men who cancelled free sponsorship abroad because of some girl they dont wanna lose but eventually lost them to ready guys. l have also seen many loyal girls who were later ditched for flimsy reasons.
Boys should be focussed on building a life and not making life a function of some girls that are also in pursuit of a balanced life. Misplaced priority.
Boys should have as many girlfriends as possible. Likewise girls while shunning premarital sex.
Make it, choose a partner among your best friends, then marry them.
Wow! Nice words. Couldn't have been better said....was about to give you thumbs up only to see sey you be Buhari people ehn! Lol. #Reddignton
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by purem(m): 10:16am On Jan 28, 2018
Jamariwolff:
I wonder where all these guys keep coming from.

Did you create the lady?
Oh you want a girlfriend that'll be following you like mumu all her life and wouldn't take any gifts from any man?

Why not friend your mum na? (no offence)
See dis cunt ass nigga talking trash has usual just to look like a female shocked undecided

Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by Nobody: 10:25am On Jan 28, 2018
You guys should stop using this guy's pic on NL.It is getting irritating seeing this same guy with different meme here.Or is he the poster?
Heavance:
Funny thing we always here guys say is "this is the girl I plan to marry"......
but they have never talked about the future with such lady, we only get to know on social media.
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by Nobody: 10:37am On Jan 28, 2018
Ladies pray to get married to a God-fearing man when many of them don't fear God.Whose guy can give a beautiful lady free gift without a string attach? Keep your kitty for only one guy so that it won't wear out for that God-fearing man you wish to get married to,so as to avoid stories that touch.
Jamariwolff:
I wonder where all these guys keep coming from.

Did you create the lady?
Oh you want a girlfriend that'll be following you liked mumu all her life and wouldn't take any gifts from any man?

Why not friend your mum na? (no offence)
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by Nobody: 10:42am On Jan 28, 2018
It might be you are the side nigga and he is the main nigga, you never can tell cheesy.
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by Jamariwolff(f): 10:44am On Jan 28, 2018
comshots:
Ladies pray to get married to a God-fearing man when many of them don't fear God. Whose guy can give a beautiful lady free gift without a string attach? Keep your kitty for only one guy so that it won't wear out for that God-fearing man you wish to get married to,so as to avoid stories that touch.
as a lady, one will receive millions of gifts from people, with absolutely no strings attached.

Not every guy is a perv,



What is ordinary recharge card biko?
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by BlackMbakara1(m): 10:56am On Jan 28, 2018
The earlier you learn how to over look petty things, the better for you.

Stop disturbing yourself over nothing unless your not sure of yourself with the girl...the girl is very single and not married yet.
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by Ramanto(m): 10:57am On Jan 28, 2018
yours is better my brother. My own girl told me how a guy has been disturbing her. Only for me to go through her whatsapp chat one day and read their chats. My girl was asking the guy if the 'sexes' were out of love.. I fear women o. This girl looked so innocent and naive
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by Nobody: 10:58am On Jan 28, 2018
Is she a beggar?
Jamariwolff:
as a lady, one will receive millions of gifts from people, with absolutely no strings attached.

Not every guy is a perv,



What is ordinary recharge card biko?
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by Nobody: 10:58am On Jan 28, 2018
HARDLABOR:
Are you in the relationship with us to know that we've not discussed it huh
You should b lucky she discussed him with u. What kinda cheap ass guy borrows a lady's SIM to utilize mb sefhuh
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by eTECTIVe(m): 11:00am On Jan 28, 2018
If She was cheating with d guy She wouldn't leave her fone with U.. If U know d number of guys trying to get into her pants daily, U'll die of HBP... Jus do ur own and shut ur mind off from who calls and messages her... D day U catch her red handed is d day U can only b sure she is cheating
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by Maxi112: 12:32pm On Jan 28, 2018
Why did you pick her call, what are you looking for? Guys should learn to maintain certain boundary in a relationship. You babe isn't cheating on you if that's what you wanna know.
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by and1one: 12:47pm On Jan 28, 2018
HARDLABOR:
After coming home for the weekend I collected her phone to check her bonus (coz she's been calling me during the week) only to see there's 285mb on it so I borrowed the SIM to utilize the mb

It was around 11pm last night a guy named ABRAHAM called her line, so I picked the call but I didn't say anything on the phone, he said "hello" but I didn't respond, he said "hello Serah talk na" but I didn't say anything so he ended the call and call again which I did the same

So this morning now she came as early as 6am to tell me about the guy (I think he called her second line)

I was really mad at her

She said the guy has been sending hee card that she's not dating him.

This is the same girl am planning to be my wife, she's already doing this at this early stage
This tells that she has value and that is why others want to also have her and ofcourse she values and loves you, that is why she quickly wants an amend.
My bro, forgive her cos thats what real men do, these are stuffs that are bound to happen to promising futures but sound her a good and clear warning against such next time
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by Kenzico(m): 1:09pm On Jan 28, 2018
B
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by AceDomino(m): 1:39pm On Jan 28, 2018
Congrats
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by Nobody: 1:44pm On Jan 28, 2018
olagbemi118:
if u want a woman no man would appreciate, y not go for a slowpoke?
Better still the guy should go for a cripple grin

From the ops mail I still can't identify where the girlfriend cheated. It could just be a guy that got her number from somewhere that is trying his luck to get into her pants. I don't get paranoid easily until I see concrete evidence angry
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by olagbemi118(m): 1:56pm On Jan 28, 2018
efesodje:
Better still the guy should go for a cripple grin

From the ops mail I still can't identify where the girlfriend cheated. It could just be a guy that got her number from somewhere that is trying his luck to get into her pants. I don't get paranoid easily until I see concrete evidence angry
u r so on point
Re: My Girl Is Having A Side Nigga (see How I Caught Her) by Goldmaxx(f): 2:01pm On Jan 28, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You should b lucky she discussed him with u. What kinda cheap ass guy borrows a lady's SIM to utilize mb sefhuh
you are very ugly in your dp no offense
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