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Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 6:12pm On Jan 29, 2018
Belafonte:
One of the greatest side effects of feminism is that women are not held to account for the decisions they make. If a woman's bad decision making puts her at a disadvantage or works to her detriment best believe she'll find someone to put the blame on but herself.

I hope women can actually understand that bad boys make even worse husbands. According to a feminist icon, Sherryl Sandberg, the thing that makes bad boys exciting makes them poor husbands. Unfortunately, most guys know that bad boys get all the ladies and the good ones only get sloppy seconds. As a result, every guy wants to be bad now, fûck being a good husband. That shît is played out. Fûck marriage and fûck being the model husband. We want more pûssy and respect from our lovers. grin.

PS: No, ladies, you cannot have everything. Not even God can
There are bad boys and there are bad girls but the badness get levels!! and certified laws protecting it. Such as the case of the op...

You're argument seems flawed because guys bad and badness level is too much grin

This isn't a tick for tack situation. How can we get op some change to feed her kids though... undecided
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by blaise26abj(m): 6:14pm On Jan 29, 2018
Jupxter:
I'm definitely going to support the oP. On the contrary, this is the best occassion to enlighten ladies who treat nice guys like thrash to carefully think, ponder and change. This is the best time bro. No disrespect to the oP
Thanks for supporting her. This is her thread, you can create another thread to enlighten ladies. As far back as time itself, a percentage of ladies have always treated guys like dirt. It is not new under the sun. A new thread highlighting cases of such would be on point. She is trying to solicit for help here. Why not help by keeping the objective intact.

You are mature from yoyr reply and I know you know some guys will come in here , read some of the comments and feel encouraged to go ballistic on the lady.
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 6:25pm On Jan 29, 2018
blaise26abj:
Thanks for supporting her. This is her thread, you can create another thread to enlighten ladies. As far back as time itself, a percentage of ladies have always treated guys like dirt. It is not new under the sun. A new thread highlighting cases of such would be on point. She is trying to solicit for help here. Why not help by keeping the objective intact.

You are mature from yoyr reply and I know you know some guys will come in here , read some of the comments and feel encouraged to go ballistic on the lady.
Nah, no need for another thread,Billy Graham's message was well received because of the world war. In times like this comes the opportunity to drive the nail into its proper position. Leave am like that. I have lost women in bad marriages, you will hardly find a Nigerian man that's more sympathetic to the welfare of Nigerian women in marriages than some of us. So i ain't deriding anyone, just telling ladies to make the right call, that's all. And this is the occasion such message can be received.
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by crackhaus: 6:30pm On Jan 29, 2018
Dimples129:
There are bad boys and there are bad girls but the badness get levels!! and certified laws protecting it. Such as the case of the op...

You're argument seems flawed because guys bad and badness level is too much grin

This isn't a tick for tack situation. How can we get op some change to feed her kids though... undecided
gringringrin
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 6:33pm On Jan 29, 2018
Dimples129:
There are bad boys and there are bad girls but the badness get levels!! and certified laws protecting it. Such as the case of the op...

You're argument seems flawed because guys bad and badness level is too much grin

This isn't a tick for tack situation. How can we get op some change to feed her kids though... undecided
Great disrespect @ How can we get op some change to feed her kids though..... Damn it. Did you think before you spilled this thrash
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Belafonte(m):
Dimples129:
There are bad boys and there are bad girls but the badness get levels!! and certified laws protecting it. Such as the case of the op...

You're argument seems flawed because guys bad and badness level is too much grin

This isn't a tick for tack situation. How can we get op some change to feed her kids though... undecided
I agree the husband is a mad man, and I do sympathise with her. I understand how rough it must be for her and the kids.

Guys can never be as bad as women because women can be mean and evil umlike men who can only be mean. Ever heard "hell hath no fury like a man scorned"?

You can run a crowd funding campaign for her na. Or you alert TEHN about it. Good luck.
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 6:36pm On Jan 29, 2018
Belafonte:
I agree the husband is a mad man, and I do sympathise with her. I understand how rough it must be for her and try kids.

Guys can never be as bad as women because women can be mean and evil umlike men who can only be mean. Ever heard "hell hath no fury like a man scorned"?

You can run a crowd funding campaign for her na. Or you alert TEHN about it. Good luck.
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You're so onpoint @ Guys can never be as bad as women....


...A woman's meaness Jesus....even demons flee at the sight of it...
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by sisisioge: 6:43pm On Jan 29, 2018
wifeoflife:
@op congratulations! There’s always something liberating when a woman steps out of an abusive marriage/relationship.

Girl, you have a new lease on life. Make the best of it. Shine like you never have before! Don’t let anyone hold you back.

Ladies, I hope you can see posts from men like belafonte and Jupxter. I’m not against what they have said. They have chosen their own paths in life. Choose your own too! Stop tying your life around a man. Live your own life. They believe they need to be bad to women to get the best out of women. You know why? Because we women accept it. If a man knows a woman won’t condone bad behaviour, he won’t engage in that rubbish.

You can live a complete and fulfilled life without a man (and vice versa).

Finally, love isn’t a bad thing. Fall in love, enjoy it. If it lasts, awesome. If it’s hurting you, then it’s not love and you need to walk away from it!

Shalom�
Amen sis.. Amen! Just when I'm relaxing and grinning more towards commitment, a host of monkeys just reminded me to take my gun off safety mode. Whew! It is well o. I have attended a lot of weddings in my life, never had I seen promised hate from couples. What went wrong biko? Where is love? Where is mutual respect? Where is rooting for your team mate simply because they are? Forks. May God bless His people with peace. It is well.
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Belafonte(m): 6:44pm On Jan 29, 2018
Jupxter:
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You're so onpoint @ Guys can never be as bad as women....


...A woman's meaness Jesus....even demons flee at the sight of it...
Lol. They will soon come and start crying here now.
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Belafonte(m): 6:46pm On Jan 29, 2018
sisisioge:
Amen sis.. Amen! Just when I'm relaxing and grinning more towards commitment, a host of monkeys just reminded me to take my gun off safety mode. Whew! It is well o. I have attended a lot of weddings in my life, never had I seen promised hate from couples. What went wrong biko? Where is love? Where is mutual respect? Where is rooting for your team mate simply because they are? Forks. May God bless His people with peace. It is well.
Bunch of monkeys. Hmm.
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 6:47pm On Jan 29, 2018
Belafonte:
Bunch of monkeys. Hmm.
It was aimed at me for personal reasons bra. Let it go ...Just look past it... wink
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by sisisioge: 6:47pm On Jan 29, 2018
Belafonte:
Bunch of monkeys. Hmm.
grin grin grin grin grin

I'm sorry. It was a slip of the fingers.
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by sisisioge: 6:52pm On Jan 29, 2018
Jupxter:
It was aimed at me for personal reasons bra. Let it go ...Just look past it... wink
Don't get too excited dude, I totally forgot about your Lil misbehavior a gazillion years ago. There are several people and worries in the world. Surely, you don't consider yourself that special, do you? grin
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 6:58pm On Jan 29, 2018
Belafonte:
One of the greatest side effects of feminism is that women are not held to account for the decisions they make. If a woman's bad decision making puts her at a disadvantage or works to her detriment best believe she'll find someone to put the blame on but herself.

I hope women can actually understand that bad boys make even worse husbands. According to a feminist icon, Sherryl Sandberg, the thing that makes bad boys exciting makes them poor husbands. Unfortunately, most guys know that bad boys get all the ladies and the good ones only get sloppy seconds. As a result, every guy wants to be bad now, fûck being a good husband. That shît is played out. Fûck marriage and fûck being the model husband. We want more pûssy and respect from our lovers. grin.

PS: No, ladies, you cannot have everything. Not even God can
Belafonte, good guys who are financially responsible still exist.

Don't be deceived.
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 7:06pm On Jan 29, 2018
It's 2018....
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Belafonte(m): 7:14pm On Jan 29, 2018
alexialin:
Belafonte, good guys who are financially responsible still exist.

Don't be deceived.
Lol. "The boy is good, ode lo n je bee". grin. Of course they exist. They are one experience away from joining the dark side. wink
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 7:16pm On Jan 29, 2018
Belafonte:
Lol. "The boy is good, ode lo n je bee". grin
Ode n lalo n je bee. Wo ma an fo ri gba paro gbe yin gbe yin ni cheesy
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Belafonte(m): 7:17pm On Jan 29, 2018
Jupxter:
Ode n lalo n je bee. Wo ma an fo ri gba paro gbe yin gbe yin ni cheesy
You know what they say, "a sucker is born every minute". grin.
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Martinez19(m): 7:17pm On Jan 29, 2018
LadyPresh1:
I'll train my kids, be alive to see them grow. He said I won't survive it out there. He's not my God and I have him to prove wrong. I wish him well too.

Please I would prefer a pm, thanks.

Moderators in charge help me please.
cc:
Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Ishilove
MissyB3
Even though life is tough, I would say such a man doesn't deserve a place in your life. He is mean and callous.
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Belafonte(m): 7:18pm On Jan 29, 2018
sisisioge:
grin grin grin grin grin

I'm sorry. It was a slip of the fingers.
Oh, it's ok to speak your mind. Jo offence taken.
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by crackhaus: 7:19pm On Jan 29, 2018
Jupxter:
Great disrespect @ How can we get op some change to feed her kids though..... Damn it. Did you think before you spilled this thrash
Leave my Somali dimples alone abeg cheesycheesy
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 7:19pm On Jan 29, 2018
Belafonte:
You know what they say, "a sucker is born every minute". grin.
It takes an act of wickedness for wisdom to grow. Maybe some fellas need bad women to learn from... wink Naaa, i aint using myself as anyone's cadaver...Never, we won't take them serious no more, never. They can opt for cucumber,dildos,sex dolls etc.


For the sake of the kids we need to do something bro, we can't look away from this.
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Belafonte(m): 7:19pm On Jan 29, 2018
Jupxter:
It was aimed at me for personal reasons bra. Let it go ...Just look past it... wink
I'm an old timer here. I know better than to let such little barbs get to me. I've dished out far, far worse.
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 7:20pm On Jan 29, 2018
Belafonte:
I'm an old timer here. I know better than to let such little barbs get to me. I've fished out far, far worse.
Whenever you see a sister act that way, its just one thing, one of her sisters did the victim and it didnt work out as planned, so they carry and hawk the matter like gala wink
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 7:21pm On Jan 29, 2018
crackhaus:
Leave my Somali dimples alone abeg cheesycheesy
Aii bro smiley
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Belafonte(m): 7:21pm On Jan 29, 2018
Jupxter:
It takes an act of wickedness for wisdom to grow. Maybe some fellas need bad women to learn from... wink Naaa, i aint using myself as anyone's cadaver...Never, we won't take them serious no more, never. They can opt for cucumber,dildos,sex dolls etc.


For the sake of the kids we need to do something bro, we can't look away from this.
All I can do is promise. Right now, I'm not so solvent. This is January after all.
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 7:22pm On Jan 29, 2018
Belafonte:
All I can do is promise. Right now, I'm not so solvent. This is January after all.
Ntuttin is too small bro. If the kids get 2k, they'll appreciate it, if 2k goes into commodities, it could churn out 500naira profit, so they end with 2500...What do we do? They are our mothers, sisters, and the kids ...argh, you remember our little street experiences, we need to shield them from stuvs we passed thru, you dig ?
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Belafonte(m): 7:22pm On Jan 29, 2018
Jupxter:
Whenever you see a sister act that way, its just one thing, one of her sisters did the victim and it didnt work out as planned, so they carry and hawk the matter like gala wink
Lol. Abeg leave them. They can't act outside their nature. cheesy
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 7:23pm On Jan 29, 2018
crackhaus:
Leave my Somali dimples alone abeg cheesycheesy
I'll leave her in exchange for a donation to the oP. Bro we can't just look away from this situation cos of the kids, what can you do naa? Shake body small, show yourself bro, show yourself make babes trip
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 7:25pm On Jan 29, 2018
Belafonte:
Lol. Abeg leave them. They can't act outside their nature. cheesy
Belafonte, you're not gonna kill me. Lool. Lol. Rofl...You're cracking me up brov. Ubunja hasn't be much active lately. That's one honest man doing the work on God in restoring men-folk to "its glorious position.. "
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by crackhaus: 7:31pm On Jan 29, 2018
Jupxter:
I'll leave her in exchange for a donation to the oP. Bro we can't just look away from this situation cos of the kids, what can you do naa? Shake body small, show yourself bro, show yourself make babes trip
cheesy

You be pipe I swear grin
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Belafonte(m): 7:32pm On Jan 29, 2018
Jupxter:
Belafonte, you're not gonna kill me. Lool. Lol. Rofl...You're cracking me up brov. Ubunja hasn't be much active lately. That's one honest man doing the work on God in restoring men-folk to "its glorious position.. "
That guy dey sabi burst my brain. He's got red pill message pat down. Much respect to another playa. I'm sure he's busy on some other shît.
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