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Jupxter:
The bigger picture is gradually rolling, and its clear to see guys need to be a lil more patient, the game is in favor of the guys....


Any smart lady should force her way into marriage between 21-25 thesedays, beyond this point, the beauty starts to fade as attention dwindles in swift pursuit, then the guy's value start to push up...

Super story

Oyindidi:
Super story

Heee my sister. A lot of ladies in their mid twenties maybe having what i call, their last moments of having the chance to get married, like it or not, agree or not. You're a xtian, i believe you know the scripture Teach us to number our days well that we may apply our hearts to wisdom? I also believe you understand the implication of these words, teach the younger ones the truth.

Jupxter:
I was discussing everything we're saying here with my elder sister ( married anyways ), and she kept syaing all we're saying here 100%, except that she made it more scarry by saying, for some ladies, the only door of opportunity to get married is in their mid-twenties, and just a few occassions to make the right connection, and if they miss it, they may never get married for life...This is the current situation of things now, as the younger ones are climbing up fast, responsible men are few to go around, so the average good guy won't be on the market for too long. So sister rose can go on with her endless tale ofi'm testing him, i want him to prove he's worthy, when he gets exhasted, he'll move on, find a better lover, why rose gets fewer attention, and then the law of deminishing returns starts setting in..


I like this @



Many are a train wreck waiting to happen.

The wreck happens when the looks have disappeared and they are still desperate to find love (without the required weapon).


When the looks and the figure are gone, her bargaining power has substantially dissapeared drastically t this point....then the train will wreck, and next comes in depression, loneliness,moodiness,unhappiness, even the strongest of them can't withstand all these

And it would get worse for Nigerian girls.

I'll explain to you why.

Because of our hornymen culture, many businesses (run by men) are now giving the good jobs to girls with mini skirt and boobs.

Many guys that are not in the pool of those that get the good jobs, have to start hustling entrepreneurally. This takes time before they finally make it.

Hence the eligible men are few are far between, especially at the marriageable ages of 25-35.

Now add the fact that, while these guys were struggling building their hustle, many of these girls were not nice to them at all (most likely even MEAN) because Naija girls like money and no suffering, they are not too keen to now take one in and start letting her enjoy the benefits of their hustle just like that.

So even many of the girls in their mid 20s might have to look at older guys because they pool is small at 25-35.

Jupxter:
The bigger picture is gradually rolling, and its clear to see guys need to be a lil more patient, the game is in favor of the guys....


Any smart lady should force her way into marriage between 21-25 thesedays, beyond this point, the beauty starts to fade as attention dwindles in swift pursuit, then the guy's value start to push up...

I only seriously date 19-24 year Olds. At worst, we marry when shes 26. Other than that, I'm not interested in more than an occasional lay. They are all the same and I might as well get the freshest babes available. Why pay premium price for expired goods?

Jupxter:
Heee my sister. A lot of ladies in their mid twenties maybe having what i call, their last moments of having the chance to get married, like it or not, agree or not. You're a xtian, i believe you know the scripture Teach us to number our days well that we may apply our hearts to wisdom? I also believe you understand the implication of these words, teach the younger ones the truth.

Kumuyi married a 60 years old woman. You made look as though 30 years and above can't get married.

Sagamite:
And it would get worse for Nigerian girls.

I'll explain to you why.

Because of our hornymen culture, many businesses (run by men) are now giving the good jobs to girls with mini skirt and boobs.

Many guys that are not in the pool of those that get the good jobs, have to start hustling entrepreneurally. This takes time before they finally make.

Hence the eligible men are few are far between, especially at the marriageable ages of 25-35.

Now add the fact that, while these guys were struggling building their hustle, many of these girls were not niceto them at all (most likely even MEAN) because Naija girls like money and no suffering, they are not too keen to now take one in and start letting her enjoy the benefits of their hustle just like that.

So even many of the girls in their mid 20s might have to look at older guys because they pool is small at 25-35.

Eveb at that, they are unrefined, unbearable, arrogant, intolerant, narcissistic, rude, name it. Bro, i await their sad tales in days to come. Na looku looku i dey look for now, it's good to sit on the fence, one gets a broad periphery of happenings, when the time hits, we'll jump down and say, we said so...

Oyindidi:
Kumuyi married a 60 years old woman. You made look as though 30 years and above can't get married.

Never said so, but when the bargaining power is high, it's best to seal the deal during this window, when it becomes constrined, it becomes a miracle, the 30 year old getting married self is serving the good guy shaft, cos her goodies, OMG, make i stop here biko nu


That being said, if you see my 21 year old neice? None i repeat none of the babes i've dated can stand beside her...I swear you. Physique and otherwise

Belafonte:
I only seriously date 19-24 year Olds. At worst, we marry when shes 26. Other than that, I'm not interested in more than an occasional lay. They are all the same and I might as well get the freshest babes available. Why pay premium price for expired goods?

Now this is exactly the mental posture of guys when they finally hit it...@ Why pay premium price for expired goods when i can get the freshest stuff with less complications ?

Belafonte:
Boss Sagamite, you and Dayokanu opened my eyes to seeing the woman for what she really is. Been on nl eight years now and I have learned a lot.

I strongly believe single parenting is the next phase in Nigeria, the women don't want to be answerable to just one dude and the guys are catching on to the bullshit.

However, I know they will cry at the end because Naija guys will avail themselves of the opportunity to hit as much aṣs as is possible without attempting to commit. Already, women are proposing in Naija and guys are rejecting.

Things will balance themselves out eventually, but till then, picture me rolling.

Welcome, bruv!

The definition of a woman if one takes the feminists philosphy is:

"A woman is the equivalent of a man but without the reasoning, contrition, responsibilities and accountabilities that comes compulsorily with being a man".

Divorce no be come chop o

Why your husband bring another woman come your house I no understand. Anyway if na me, I for break person head and na hospital them for go sleep that day.

I no dey encourage divorce sha

Oyindidi:
Divorce no be come chop o

Why your husband bring another woman come your house I no understand. Anyway if na me, I for break person head and na hospital them for go sleep that day.

I no dey encourage divorce sha

Thank God my sister you did it early, many of the men out there are shafts, not well groomed, when we, the good ones propose, instead make your sisters dey worship us, dem dey give attitude, i will go carry a 20 year old Australian, shiooor


I repeatr if you see my 21 year old niece, omo guys here go leave their babes na me talk am

Sagamite:
Welcome, bruv!

The definition of a woman if one takes the feminists philosphy is:

"A woman is the equivalent of a man but without the reasoning, contrition, responsibilities and accountabilities that comes compulsorily with being a man".

We are the prize bro, we are the trophy.... Cheers to the winning team !

Jupxter:
Never said so, but when the bargaining power is high, it's best to seal the deal during this window, when it becomes constrined, it becomes a miracle, the 30 year old getting married self is serving the good guy shaft, cos her goodies, OMG, make i stop here biko nu
A

That being said, if you see my 21 year old neice? None i repeat none of the babes i've dated can stand beside her...I swear you. Physique and otherwise

are you married?

Oyindidi:
are you married?

I get toasted by some ladies last year, and i dey shake my head, see these foolish things wey no get contents again....dem don spread everything give their bf dey find foolish man to hang on, some wanted to offer free sex, i kuku sabi myself, i ended the communication sharply, who needs such a curse?

Jupxter:
Thank God my sister you did it early, many of the men out there are shafts, not well groomed, when we, the good ones propose, instead make your sisters dey worship us, dem dey give attitude, i will go carry a 20 year old Australian, shiooor


I repeatr if you see my 21 year old niece, omo guys here go leave their babes na me talk am

Yeah, I married at 24. Why them go worship you you wey your finger fast like this, you fit be a nagging husband

Jupxter:
donnaD, come and read the posts on this thread o !


What do you have to say ?

Lefulefu you too come see this thread o

reading through the op's post its like her husband was forced to marry her or something.hmm bringing another woman to ur matrimonial home and flaunting her in front of ur wife and daring her shows he hates her.dats all i can say. The man no love im wife.anyway most marriages these days are fraught with tension,animosity and distrust. Sometimes seeing all these things sometimes makes u reason if its even better just being single.

Sagamite:
I think a woman's love is purer when they are 15 to 22.

After that, they change.

And before anyone says "Oh, you see, it is because of the way men treated them". No!

It is just the way their hormones change.

Women change drastically at different stages of their life, far more than men do. That is one of the reasons I believe being to one for the rest of your life happily is a virtually impossible task.

I fully agree. It's the way of life. Thats their period of innocence. I've got a baby mama and I can swear she loved me at one time. Right now, she wants me not because of love but because she knows I'm her best bet considering she's got a child and guys will always consider that when entering a relationship with her. I look around and see that younger girls believe in love and aren't as materialistic as their aunties and older sisters.

However, i don't think it's about hormones, I think it's their compensation, the more lovers they have, the more difficult it is to bond with newer boyfriends. They have to fill that void with vanity; hair, shoes, clothes etc.

Jupxter:
I get toasted by some ladies last year, and i dey shake my head, see these foolish things wey no get contents again....dem don spread everything give their bf dey find foolish man to hang on, some wanted to offer free sex, i kuku sabi myself, i ended the communication sharply, who needs such a curse?

You get trust issue, how you take know them dey spread their legs?

Lefulefu, you see my missed call today?

Oyindidi:
Yeah, I married at 24. Why them go worship you you wey your finger fast like this, you fit be a nagging husband

Lefulefu, based on how you know me, will i make a nagging husband or bad guy, tell this your sis here she wants to know abeg


As to my speed, 17-20 years of 6-8 hours of study daily did it to me, it's now inherent, there's nothing i can do to reverse it anymore

Jupxter:
Bro this is how i'm going to deal with them big time. I just did some re-strategizing and realized men have the upperhand, so, i won't take them serious, and like you, na looku, looku, i go dey look them, The thing is, there's an unserious demon in their brains when the good guy comes...They just don't take good guys serious, and see them as wimps, anyways, we're here to laff when the goods expire.


Let's expect many sperm bank kids in the future bro

I don't do the "Save her" thing.

I get alot of that from family aunties and pastor uncles trying to hook me up with some girl, with the caviar "she is 30+, so don't waste her time o".

That is not my business. I am not ageist per se, but I am fuckist per se. If I don't see her and immediately want my diiick inside her, she has no chance of me taking her seriously.

I am not a White Knight. I am a Knight that focuses on his own happiness. Everything has to align with that focus ...........and, nigga, I love me sex. I like bang bang!

Jupxter:
Lefulefu, based on how you know me, will i make a nagging husband or bad guy, tell this your sis here she wants to know abeg


As to my speed, 17-20 years of 6-8 hours of study daily did it to me, it's now inherent, there's nothing i can do to reverse it anymore

Lol, lefu no know you

Sagamite:
I don't do the "Save her" thing.

I get alot of that from family aunties and pastor uncles trying to hook me up with some girl, with the caviar "she is 30+, so don't waste her time o".

That is not my business. I am not ageist per se, but I am fuckist per se. If I don't see her and immediately want my diiick inside her, she has no chance of me taking her seriously.

I am not a White Knight. I am a Knight that focuses on his own happiness. Everything has to align with that focus ...........and, nigga, I love me sex. I like bang bang!

This thread is on fore, i love this. What a blessed day to be here

Oyindidi:
Lol, lefu no know you

I don't want to brag about my qualities.... that's why i just asked a brother to answer you.

Oyindidi:
You get trust issue, how you take know them dey spread their legs?

I'm refined and holistic in my analysis, many of those girls na gutter girls jare, gutter girls, they have no good to offer a man when they hit 30s

Jupxter:
This thread is on fore, i love this. What a blessed day to be here

See as that post tickle you

Oyindidi:
See as that post tickle you

you nko? Yu leave kids to hang with us here. I dey sure say heineken dey your hand as we dey speak self

Jupxter:
The bigger picture is gradually rolling, and its clear to see guys need to be a lil more patient, the game is in favor of the guys....


Any smart lady should force her way into marriage between 21-25 thesedays, beyond this point, the beauty starts to fade as attention dwindles in swift pursuit, then the guy's value start to push up...

There's a reason why across time and cultures men have been lords of women. It's not a grand patriarchal conspiracy, it's the way of life of humans. Women aren't capable of leading men even though men can lead women without any problem.

Matriarchal societies hardly amount to much because women aren't the adventurers men are. Feminism likes to tell women they have been held back but they aren't. Look at all the countries led by women or gynocentrism they are in decline. The world needs men to progress, otherwise we go extinct as a race.

Oyindidi:
Kumuyi married a 60 years old woman. You made look as though 30 years and above can't get married.

A woman's "logical" argument.

Oyindidi:
Lefulefu, you see my missed call today?

yes i see am.i tried calling ur number in d afternoon but e come say switched off.

Jupxter:
I'm refined and holistic in my analysis, many of those girls na gutter girls jare, gutter girls, they have no good to offer a man when they hit 30s

There are some decent ladies that are 30yrs and above

Belafonte:
There's a reason why across time and cultures men have been lords of women. It's not a grand patriarchal conspiracy, it's the way of life of humans. Women aren't capable of leading men even though men can lead women without any problem.

Matriarchal societies hardly amount to much because women aren't the adventurers men are. Feminism likes to tell women they have been held back but they aren't. Look at all the countries led by women or gynocentrism they are in decline. The world needs men to progress, otherwise we go extinct as a race.

Women aren't capable of leading men even though men can lead women without any problem....Men handle power with ease, give a woman power and it destroys her...they arent built and wired for power...Also, feminism has schooled women that being a wife is slavery, lets test this doctrine the next 10-15 years, lets watch how many of them end