₦airaland Forum

Les:
I have told you ladies several times without number never to settle down with a man who isn't constantly on a path if self development, emotionally, socially, spiritually, financially and otherwise but you won't listen, now look at the mess a morally degraded man has put you through all in the name of marriage. I wish you well my sister, and I suggest you join a good church and be active in terms of service, and see how God will pick up ur matter from there. You self work on yourself emotionally and spiritually!

That is it, the path... The path tells alot about the individual. Why do you personalize this comment? Do you know the oP personally?


Whatever the case maybe, the die has been cast, mind donating something cause of the kids? Nothing is too little.


This is the best counsel on this thread though : I suggest you join a good church and be active in terms of service, and see how God will pick up ur matter from there.






Cc: Shayebaby read this comment

shaybebaby:
Elebi oshi.
GTFOH!

You need to stop pleasuring me. Are you trying to make me õrgasm?

Belafonte:
You need to stop pleasuring me. Are you trying to make me õrgasm?

Glad I could establish your insanity so others don't take the words of psychotic dickweed serious.

As you were!

shaybebaby:
Glad I could establish your insanity so others don't take the words of psychotic dickweed serious.

As you were!

Sigh*.

LadyPresh1:
PM is limited here.
Please you can help alot if you do pm me.
Thanks

Sent a mail. Waiting for your reply...

Jupxter:
Hahaha,albeit words are cheap, people say what they don't mean is the situation.

People encourage people to break their marriages, but when the time for responsibilities come, they won'tlift a finger, cheerleaders of destruction. Empty heads they are... hypocritical f00ls, anyone that celebrates or advises divorce is the real enemy, divorce must remain the last resort, and even when it hits, the divorceeshould be received with a sober mind, and not celebrated like its a matriculation, sumthin this empty heads don't understand

More oil on your head jare

Good talk! Some women are evil. They are probably going through worse o but they will advise a woman going through less to divorce, take your children away from the useless man, men are evil, they will come up with all kinds of pictures to convince the woman etc. Then the mumu will listen and then divorce. When wahala start, the so-called divorce advicer will disappear into her home (to continue to fix her marriage) why the mumu that listened is left to face and carry her cross alone.

Advocates of evil

ice4u999:
Good talk! Some women are evil. They are probably going through worse o but they will advise a woman going through less to divorce, take your children away from the useless man, men are evil, they will come up with all kinds of pictures to convince the woman etc. Then the mumu will listen and then divorce. When wahala start, the so-called divorce advicer will disappear into her home (to continue to fix her marriage) why the mumu that listened is left to face and carry her cross alone.

Advocates of evils

That's it bro spot on. Check the counts of ladies that have visited this thread, the number that have sent congratulatory messages, against the few that have shown genuine concern, you'll see where the truth lies, this is a generation of hypocrisy. Want to test anyone, bring up an issue that requires them spending from their wallet on causes that doesn't apply to them, then you will see character revealed first hand. Tueee ( Spits ) Hypocrites everywhere bro

Why we should never support abusive husbands, we should lend more support to women who suffer at the hands of these evil men than empty words...Nigerians are not really givers sha, so i wouldn't blame much. Not all of us are high up there, but from our little, we should be able to spare just a bit...it'll go a long way to help

Jupxter:
Belafonte, you're not gonna kill me. Lool. Lol. Rofl...You're cracking me up brov. Ubunja hasn't be much active lately. That's one honest man doing the work on God in restoring men-folk to "its glorious position.. "

i dont think i will be writting any more Miseducations coz some posts are turning up in other blogs butchered, cut, modified and diluted.
i dont expect every man to agree with my view points but for someone to reproduce my posts heavily edited to reflect and push his own agenda is just disrespect.
the 15 posts i was ready to upload are going straight to my Ubunja's Miseducation eBook and any plagiarisation will be prosecuted.
the MensCode website just killed my appetite for posting on NL.

ubunja:
i dont think i will be writting any more Miseducations coz some posts are turning up in other blogs butchered, cut, modified and diluted.
i dont expect every man to agree with my view points but for someone to reproduce my posts heavily edited to reflect and push his own agenda is just disrespect.
the 15 posts i was ready to upload are going straight to my Ubunja's Miseducation eBook and any plagiarisation will be prosecuted.
the MensCode website just killed my appetite for posting on NL.

Ubunja, tenlightenment is the key, the more you dish out, the purer your soul becomes. Yes, credit will come when due, but you will face many of these stuffs on the way up. As per your website, why not get a website designer skilled in Javascript to share codes with you, so when you paste contents, it appears laminated and your contents can't be copied, instead of throwing away your passion completely? I don't know the code personally, but there are codes that protect your contents from being copied, they appear like a picture rather than the usual text form on your website. Many Indian websites do this.... Wait a minute, Shayebaby, aint you a web designer?



I'm starting a mentoring website too very soon, and i'm applying this same technique

Jupxter:
Ubunja, tenlightenment is the key, the more you dish out, the purer your soul becomes. Yes, credit will come when due, but you will face many of these stuffs on the way up. As per your website, why not get a website designer skilled in Javascript to share codes with you, so when you paste contents, it appears laminated and your contents can't be copied, instead of throwing away your passion completely? I don't know the code personally, but there are codes that protect your contents from being copied, they appear like a picture rather than the usual text form on your website. Many Indian websites do this.... Wait a minute, Shayebaby, aint you a web designer?



I'm starting a mentoring website too very soon, and i'm applying this same technique

i dont mind "copy-paste" anyone is free to copy paste my posts.
but "copy-edit/modify-paste" is a turn off.

ubunja:
i dont mind "copy-paste" anyone is free to copy paste my posts.
but "copy-edit/modify-paste" is a turn off.

You're a dispenser bro, deal with it, these stuffs will happen. Your consolation is the miseducation posts are been dispersed one way or the other, suffice to say, your objectives are achieved through them, if you'll settle for the effect of your posts and not tilt towards due credit denied you. If enlightnment is sufficient for you, i kindly like to encourage you to pick your tools up again and continue the fight. Allowing pitfalls, and snags to pull you back is a bigger turn off



You remember the hit song " blurred lines " by Pharrell, and his team and the controversy around that song?

Apparently, Pharell may have been right, as he claimed no one can easily develop pure original content anymore, and people would need to " steal " if the need be, to improve on content, develop them, and re-publish them. But sorry bro, it feels unfair.

Jupxter:
That is it, the path... The path tells alot about the individual. Why do you personalize this comment? Do you know the oP personally?


Whatever the case maybe, the die has been cast, mind donating something cause of the kids? Nothing is too little.


This is the best counsel on this thread though : I suggest you join a good church and be active in terms of service, and see how God will pick up ur matter from there.






Cc: Shayebaby read this comment

Totally at odds with what you, belamorte and saggy ass were wanking over with glee. However you know me, remove the church angle and you know I'd be in total agreement.

shaybebaby:
Totally at odds with what you, belamorte and saggy ass were wanking over with glee. However you know me, remove the church angle and you know I'd be in total agreement.

Sowwie mummy ( The glee was the issue, totally wrong, i'll take the silent corner )

Jupxter:
You're a dispenser bro, deal with it, these stuffs will happen. Your consolation is the miseducation posts are been dispersed one way or the other, suffice to say, your objectives are achieved through them, if you'll settle for the effect of your posts and not tilt towards due credit denied you. If enlightnment is sufficient for you, i kindly like to encourage you to pick your tools up again and continue the fight. Allowing pitfalls, and snags to pull you back is a bigger turn off



You remember the hit song " blurred lines " by Pharrell, and his team and the controversy around that song?

Apparently, Pharell may have been right, as he claimed no one can easily develop pure original content anymore, and people would need to " steal " if the need be, to improve on content, develop them, and re-publish them. But sorry bro, it feels unfair.

i choose to stick with ebooks.
if anyone steals then he would have a real problem on his hands

ubunja:
i choose to stick with ebooks.
if anyone steals then he would have a real problem on his hands

The effect will be limited, you need speedy spill out process bro, however short, you could use short/few posts and then direct readers to get the ebooks, you know the problem with modern day generation is people dont make out time to read and people hardly read

Jupxter:
The effect will be limited, you need speedy spill out process bro, however short, you could use short/few posts and then direct readers to get the ebooks, you know the problem with modern day generation is people dont make out time to read and people hardly read

dont matter
quality over quantity

ubunja:
dont matter
quality over quantity

aiite, starting my mentorship blog, i'm stick with web...goodluck to us both bro

shaybebaby:
I bet in your delusions you thought wanking each other off that you and your cohorts did all over the thread was helpful.

Cvntbreath!

shaybebaby:
Totally at odds with what you, belamorte and saggy ass were wanking over with glee. However you know me, remove the church angle and you know I'd be in total agreement.

You are a moooron!

If I want to wankk, I would wankk over the face of a girl like you. And you would honestly think it is raining white custard!

A woman is explaining her marriage has collapsed, and at no stage did she even bother in her outpour to wonder why her husband would behave in such a way, and your dumbarse did not think WTF?

So what were you expecting?

She is a woman, she should not have responsibilities and accountabilities?

That I should join in and start a sympathy and "men are so evil" party?

She obvious has issues she has to take responsibilities for for her not to even wonder about what triggered his behaviour. But you were expecting me to come and join hands with you and start your feminist rant shyt? I look like a Real Man Binnnnnch to you?

Worse still is when I know you black women well.

If it was a white girl now or a young girl now, I can give benefit of doubt. But knowing you black girls and the kind of arseholes you can be, you should be grateful I am just doing my Looku Looku!

When we see una behave anyhow you want towards black men with impunity and without contrition, then you want us to come and join your pity party when karma catches up with some? Amadioha na ata ahuhu gi otu! (May the God of Thunder fire your pusssy!)

You want us to think the men are mad when they choose to behave like that? And that you are just "victims"?

Ko ni da fun iwo feminists e! (E no go better for your feminist views)

Looku Looku movement!

https://image.freepik.com/free-icon/eyes-looking-through-eyeglasses_318-52502.jpg

ubunja:
i dont think i will be writting any more Miseducations coz some posts are turning up in other blogs butchered, cut, modified and diluted.
i dont expect every man to agree with my view points but for someone to reproduce my posts heavily edited to reflect and push his own agenda is just disrespect.
the 15 posts i was ready to upload are going straight to my Ubunja's Miseducation eBook and any plagiarisation will be prosecuted.
the MensCode website just killed my appetite for posting on NL.

Menscode.com? Haven't heard about it.

peacettw:
@op, hang in there. Be determined, be focused. Love yourself and live. Accept it all so that you can move on quickly by healing faster.

Ignore nitwits whose tasks are to make you feel like it's all your fault. Maybe some but surely not all of it. Reject negativity. Be independent.

I will not lie, the journey will not be smooth but hey nothing ever is.. The guys ranting that they are now bad boys (ridiculous I know) also had a rough past with a girl, never recovered and now have their synapses all messed up. Rise above all that, remain good cos if you follow their logic, then you might as well be a glorified prostitute and a first grade witch (morgana standard with a touch of hela in thor) with a singular mission to torment guys eternally (ridiculous? yeah I know).

Will stop talking now. This is your cross, so deal with it like we all deal with ours. And yes, like the bad boy gangs are also dealing with theirs, only difference is that they don't know it yet.

Later dear. Got to prepare the kids for school

No! Women are the ones that have their synapses (abi Schnapppes lo de pe ni) messed up.

I don't even bother discussing with females anymore because I know many are not receptive to feedback. All they think about is "me, me, me, me, me" and follow the stupid feminist mantra of modern day "he should accept you just the way you are".

Feminism have destroyed many of you. Many have no interest in self-development or the best interests of men. It is all about themselves is the rule. And to many (if you ask them to list what they think), the best interest of men are aligned to doing the things that are in the best interest of a woman. I spot it even on NL. Schnapppes yin ti tan (Your Schnapppes is finished).

If I look at the amount of people that have PMed me personally for advice on improving in relationships and interacting with the opposite sex, only 1 has ever been a girl.

Women have no interest in equality and equity when they feel they have an advantage. They abuse the advantage at will and enjoy the privilege.

When the boots switches to the other side, they now want the other side to join in the pity party. Get da fck ourrahere!

Looku Looku!

Belafonte:
Menscode.com? Haven't heard about it.

MensCabal:
Ubunja your article has been featured on the cabal

Here is the link

http://www.menscabal.com/2018/01/here-is-why-you-should-never-act-like.html

you took my post " A Woman Has 2 Hearts" and butchered it to suit your narrow ideas making it about Nice Guys
you gave it a whack title, removed some material and ruined the last 2 paragraphs
NOT COOL.
remove my name from it.i can no longer see it as my own.thank you.

Sagamite:
No! Women are the ones that have their synapses (abi Schnapppes lo de pe ni) messed up.

I don't even bother discussing with females anymore because I know many are not receptive to feedback. All they think about is "me, me, me, me, me" and follow the stupid feminist mantra of modern day "he should accept you just the way you are".

Feminism have destroyed many of you. Many have no interest in self-development or the best interests of men. It is all about themselves is the rule. And to many (if you ask them to list what they think), the best interest of men are aligned to doing the things that are in the best interest of a woman. I spot it even on NL. Schnapppes yin ti tan (Your Schnapppes is finished).

If I look at the amount of people that have PMed me personally for advice on improving in relationships and interacting with the opposite sex, only 1 has ever been a girl.

Women have no interest in equality and equity when they feel they have an advantage. They abuse the advantage at will and enjoy the privilege.

When the boots switches to the other side, they now want the other side to join in the pity party. Get da fck ourrahere!

Looku Looku!

It hurts to see friends fight one another, in all honesty, i blessed the day i met you, Shayebaby is my sister oh, a similar minded person like you if you both weren't in this situation...Jeez..Not fair watching this happen


Anyways

THIS IS MODERN DAY WOMAN FOR YOU, EXACTLY LIKE YOU STATED IT, ACCEPT ME JUST LIKE I AM NOT GIVING HERSELF TO DEVELOPMENT, WHILE PRESSING AND PRESSING, AND TESTING THE GUY TO SEE IF HE'S DESERVING OF THEM, A FLAWED MYOPIC SELFISH PERSPECTIVE ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS....

I know many are not receptive to feedback. All they think about is "me, me, me, me, me" and follow the stupid feminist mantra of modern day "he should accept you just the way you are".

Feminism have destroyed many of you. Many have no interest in self-development or the best interests of men. It is all about themselves is the rule. And to many (if you ask them to list what they think), the best interest of men are aligned to doing the things that are in the best interest of a woman.


Women have no interest in equality and equity when they feel they have an advantage. They abuse the advantage at will and enjoy the privilege.


JOINING THE LOOKU LOOKU PARTY, LETTING WOMAN BE BY THEMSELVES....I'M LIGHTER THIS WAY, NO EMOTIONAL STRAIN OF ANY SORT, NO EXPLAINING TO ANYONE WHY I DID THIS OR WHAT I REALLY MEANT

It will be fun see them do the give me a husband or i die dance when they hit 91


[img]https://media1./images/cac376ad23d0173364d5b01180ab0766/tenor.gif?itemid=10333324[/img]


It's also fun to watch ladies trim down on expectations



[img]https://media1./images/6ce53060df5a52134ccb618a9e2e8783/tenor.gif?itemid=9694076[/img]



It's even more fun when they turn 40 still single and become " needless " intercessors



[img]https://media1./images/9e4b725fca1628d32c53e2ef90331143/tenor.gif?itemid=8408818[/img]

Sagamite:
No! Women are the ones that have their synapses (abi Schnapppes lo de pe ni) messed up.

I don't even bother discussing with females anymore because I know many are not receptive to feedback. All they think about is "me, me, me, me, me" and follow the stupid feminist mantra of modern day "he should accept you just the way you are".

Feminism have destroyed many of you. Many have no interest in self-development or the best interests of men. It is all about themselves is the rule. And to many (if you ask them to list what they think), the best interest of men are aligned to doing the things that are in the best interest of a woman. I spot it even on NL. Schnapppes yin ti tan (Your Schnapppes is finished).

If I look at the amount of people that have PMed me personally for advice on improving in relationships and interacting with the opposite sex, only 1 has ever been a girl.

Women have no interest in equality and equity when they feel they have an advantage. They abuse the advantage at will and enjoy the privilege.

When the boots switches to the other side, they now want the other side to join in the pity party. Get da fck ourrahere!

Looku Looku!

I checked my post again and again and nowhere did I see your name mentioned anywhere in my post. You must think highly of yourself what with all the PMs and shit all serving to inflate the already self inflated ego of yours. Now listen, you little twerp, I only interact with people with some degree of intelligence. Your kind had better find your type as I am sure they are littered somewhere in your glorified PMs. Now run along and be pleased that you got my attention as any typical irritant would. This will be your last. Silly things out there looking for relevance in anything.

ubunja:
you took my post " A Woman Has 2 Hearts" and butchered it to suit your narrow ideas making it about Nice Guys
you gave it a whack title, removed some material and ruined the last 2 paragraphs
NOT COOL.
remove my name from it.i can no longer see it as my own.thank you.

Don't know plagiarism laws work, but isn't there a way you can get them to pull the article?

peacettw:
I checked my post again and again and nowhere did I see your name mentioned anywhere. You must think highly of yourself what with all the PMs and shit all serving to inflate the already self inflated ego of yours. Now listen, you little twerp, I only interact with people some degree of intelligence. Your kind better find your type as I am sure they are all littered somewhere in your PMs. Now run along and be pleased that you got my attention as any typical irritant would. This will be your last.

Why not receive the message and hold on to which is firm, after subjecting it to test, 1 Thess advocates this. Our sisters do not improve themselves as the men, check the posts on the family and romance seciton of this forum, it is littered with men improve this, do this better, and ladies only want men to prove themselves while they neglect the need to improve on themselves, the truth saves, helpyour sisters, i know you're a truth seeker, help your sisters who dont understand this now, so they can become better, and stop the subjecting men to continous needless tests, why they dont subject themselves to the same test...Leave the messenger, embrace the message, God has worked through cattles, donkeys in time past

ubunja:
you took my post " A Woman Has 2 Hearts" and butchered it to suit your narrow ideas making it about Nice Guys
you gave it a whack title, removed some material and ruined the last 2 paragraphs
NOT COOL.
remove my name from it.i can no longer see it as my own.thank you.

You can report the wbesite for lifting your content bro

Jupxter:
Why not receive the message and hold on to which is firm, after subjecting it to test, 1 Thess advocates this. Our sisters do not improve themselves as the men, check the posts on the family and romance seciton of this forum, it is littered with men improve this, do this better, and ladies only want men to prove themselves while they neglect the need to improve on themselves, the truth saves, helpyour sisters, i know you're a truth seeker, help your sisters who dont understand this now, so they can become better, and stop the subjecting men to continous needless tests, why they dont subject themselves to the same test...Leave the messenger, embrace the message, God has worked through cattles, donkeys in time past

I understand that there is that extra pressure for men to improve themselves. I get it. I also know that it goes both ways and the females should also seek perfection as well. My concern is with the op who appears to be going through a rough patch. My dead, the truth remains that in situations like this, the men always fare better at least in our society.

Jupxter:
Why not receive the message and hold on to which is firm, after subjecting it to test, 1 Thess advocates this. Our sisters do not improve themselves as the men, check the posts on the family and romance seciton of this forum, it is littered with men improve this, do this better, and ladies only want men to prove themselves while they neglect the need to improve on themselves, the truth saves, helpyour sisters, i know you're a truth seeker, help your sisters who dont understand this now, so they can become better, and stop the subjecting men to continous needless tests, why they dont subject themselves to the same test...Leave the messenger, embrace the message, God has worked through cattles, donkeys in time past

I understand that there is that extra pressure for men to improve themselves. I get it. I also know that it goes both ways and our females should also seek for perfection as well. My concern is with the op who appears to be going through a rough patch. My dear, the truth remains that in situations like this, the men always fare better at least in our society. Personally, I work with the mantra that noone is perfect. I don't ask for men to be saints as I know that I can't attain that status as well. But if I can tolerate your faults then please be ready to accept mine as well. I only draw the line in physical violence, that I can't really deal with....

Sagamite:
You are a moooron!

If I want to wankk, I would wankk over the face of a girl like you. And you would honestly think it is raining white custard!

A woman is explaining her marriage has collapsed, and at no stage did she even bother in her outpour to wonder why her husband would behave in such a way, and your dumbarse did not think WTF?

So what were you expecting?

She is a woman, she should not have responsibilities and accountabilities?

That I should join in and start a sympathy and "men are so evil" party?

She obvious has issues she has to take responsibilities for for her not to even wonder about what triggered his behaviour. But you were expecting me to come and join hands with you and start your feminist rant shyt? I look like a Real Man Binnnnnch to you?

Worse still is when I know you black women well.

If it was a white girl now or a young girl now, I can give benefit of doubt. But knowing you black girls and the kind of arseholes you can be, you should be grateful I am just doing my Looku Looku!

When we see una behave anyhow you want towards black men with impunity and without contrition, then you want us to come and join your pity party when karma catches up with some? Amadioha na ata ahuhu gi otu! (May the God of Thunder fire your pusssy!)

You want us to think the men are mad when they choose to behave like that? And that you are just "victims"?

Ko ni da fun iwo feminists e! (E no go better for your feminist views)

Looku Looku movement!

https://image.freepik.com/free-icon/eyes-looking-through-eyeglasses_318-52502.jpg

Elebi part two, your hunger is not letting you too thinking straight abi?

Ewo l'epistle? Does your post tally with any of my previous posts?

Abunu!

peacettw:
I understand that there is that extra pressure for men to improve themselves. I get it. I also know that it goes both ways and the females should also seek perfection as well. My concern is with the op who appears to be going through a rough patch. My dead, the truth remains that in situations like this, the men always fare better at least in our society.

One thing about truth seekers is we all mean the same thing but dont patiently listen to the perspectives each of us come withmuch more patiently.I've been in a few failed relationships my friend, i've never took on the role of fault-finding in any woman, i'm always free minded, not seeking for excuses to disqualify, but rather qualities that ilike, but on the contrary, these same women i overlooked their negatives orlows will always fault-find, nag, subject to needless tests, complain bitterly, yet do not even stop to think the other party is enduring, tolerating, and is been subjected to strain...There's the princess of mee-mee land attitude, a sense of entitlement, prove you're worth me, why they subject themselves to almost no qualifications, may men not die too young cos of our sisters....The sense of entitlement has to be done away with and replaced with tolerance relationships will work best if both parties are tolerant of the flaws of one another....

Jupxter:
One thing about truth seekers is we all mean the same thing but dont patiently listen to the perspectives each of us come withmuch more patiently.I've been in a few failed relationships my friend, i've never took on the role of fault-finding in any woman, i'm always free minded, not seeking for excuses to disqualify, but rather qualities that ilike, but on the contrary, these same women i overlooked their negatives orlows will always fault-find, nag, subject to needless tests, complain bitterly, yet do not even stop to think the other party is enduring, tolerating, and is been subjected to strain...There's the princess of mee-mee land attitude, a sense of entitlement, prove you're worth me, why they subject themselves to almost no qualifications, may men not die too young cos of our sisters....The sense of entitlement has to be done away with and replaced with tolerance relationships will work best if both parties are tolerant of the flaws of one another....

Kk then.. It's sad that you had to go through all that but surely you can't think that all females are cut from the same cloth..and a few bad experiences shouldn't make you treat us all like we are dirt just cos you get better results that way. It is simply not fair...