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Belafonte:
Flesh and blood hath not revealed this to you, my friend.

Hahaha,

men who hear from gods huh?

marvin902:
kinda in your position right now..
don they post am since august last year..
would have bought her the phone before the end of the year..
buh she won come dey choose on top my money..
am now contemplating putting her out of her misery

buying a phone for a girl can be likened to giving a robber firearms. They'll use to your own detriment.

mgtow:
You see that love of a thing? That's what they use to scam guys.

"If you really love me, you will..."

Be wise!

im used to that line... It doesn't move me any longer. I do what I want to do and not on the basis of trying to prove that I love you.

Letzdothething:
hahahaha if you truely Iove her hmmm that one strong oh.
It's not as though if you were broke she would stay.

Lol... I'm afraid I can't even vouch for her on that. I don't trust anything on skirts

Letzdothething:
Hahaha,

men who hear from gods huh?

I dey tell you.

Amadaz:
yiure so on point... My babe have been on my neck to get a phone for her after she lost her phone but on a second thought I said to myself....if I buy this phone she would use it to chat and connect with some dude she thinks is better than me and richer than me, so I decided to play her each time she talks about it. I prefer her sharing phones with her mum or siblings

Correct guy. They are extremely disloyal, especially the younger ones. There is one that use to visit me when i was in school. She once asked me to recommend a workout for her, that can increase her backside(can you imagine). I told her to do sit up.

Amadaz:
buying a phone for a girl can be likened to giving a robber firearms. They'll use to your own detriment.

that's if you decide to tell yourself that your partner wont go outside..
for me i always expect the unexpected with ladies..
i don't put my trust on anybody so if she fvcks i don't feel a thing

mgtow:
Don't fvck small small girls in your area learn to keep your business private. Besides they can't take care of themselves so could very easily accidentally get pregnant and she could be so stewpid to point a finger at you. Who is going to believe your cries that you always used protection?

Pay as you go, is the way to go.

My biggest problem with women is their hypergamous nature and as such, I never go above and beyond for anyone. If pursuing a babe is going to stress me unduly financially, emotionally and pschologically, I cut my losses and run. Nigerian guys need to be better at doing a cost benefit analysis when it comes to women. If the cost of the undertaking is worth more than whatever benefit you feel might accrue to you, then it is not worth it. Most of the time what is the man's benefit? To thrust back and forth between the thighs of a woman before spilling forth seed. Some men pass through hoops and unspeakable ordeals (to the detriment of their own dignity and self respect) to achieve this aim which begs the question: Is it really worth it?

TIPS:

1. Never go for a girl if she shows zero interest in you. Go for the ones who "innocently and unassumingly" orbit around you. She messages you randomly, compliments you, calls you to just say hi, etc. We all have admirers but most guys are blind to green light or as I have come to discover lately, they don't even bother to decode the subtle signals that these ladies are passing because like me, they have decided that it's really not worth the stress.

2. If she calls you 3 to 4 times, make sure you only call her once or twice.

3. Never be the first one to say I love you. It makes you appear needy and clingy. If she says it reply. If she doesn't, don't bring it up.

4. If a woman tries to use her pvssy to exert some form of control over you, disqualify her immediately. For instance if she says "Hmm if you don't buy me that Peruvian hair I asked for you're not touching me tonight. You'll never get a piece of this." Reply with: "Who wants to touch a ugly baboon like you? Keep dreaming, mumu!" Always let her know she can't control or manipulate you by dangling her pvssy in front of you like a carrot. Invalidate her and put her in place. Wreck her self esteem. They know deep down that they are all hoes, and in their quiet moments they feel bad about it. Use this knowledge to your advantage..

5. If you are in a relationship and you notice her slipping away or changing in front of you, resist your impulses to MAN UP. What do I mean by manning up? Don't start giving her more attention or start calling her more or showering her with gifts, you will lose her faster because she is already on her way out and will see you as a beta male who can't get something better if or when she leaves. If you notice her slipping away - DO NOTHING. Act like you don't even notice. Preferably, stop making any effort altogether. JUST STOP. Assume a siddon-look disposition and she will think twice before leaving you. If she does, good riddance. What you are doing is valuing and respecting yourself above all else.



The media has brainwashed men in thinking they need to jump through hoops or pass through the jaws of the tiger to win the affection of a lady you love. The result of this is an overabundance of supplicating men and a bunch of females with an over-exaggerated and over-inflated sense of worth. Refuse to be part of the crowd. Stand up tall and proud, which is what a real man should be. You will discover that the women that want to be in your life will jump through hoops and do whatever it takes to be in your life. I'm speaking from experience.

I took the time to write this because the dating game is stacked against men and most times we end up the losers, holding the short end of the stick. However this phenomenon is not new. The dissatisfaction has spread from Asia down to the West, as more and more men are feeling more alienated and deciding altogether that relationships and marriage aren't worth it any more. And how can it be worth it? Over there the woman you have married and invested in can destroy your life on a whim by taking away almost everything you have ever worked for. The white girls aren't any better guys. No where is safe. In the near future women will begin to complain about a real scarcity of men and it will be obvious for all to see, especially as they grow older and options begin to dwindle. Shebi wen you don flash green light tire and nobody gree respond you go dey run go shiloh? Contunu!

The major problems of woman have always been their unrealistic expectations. Nothing is ever enough. Once you realize this you won't even stress yourself no more. Life is eazi mehn!

mgtow=men going their own way

kense88:
Correct guy. They are extremely disloyal, especially the younger ones. There is one that use to visit me when i was in school. She once asked me to recommend a workout for her, that can increase her backside(can you imagine). I told her to do sit up.

Lol... If eventually she gains the backside, she uses it to attract some other dude she thinks better than you. That's why in my case I prefer to keep her handicap by not buying her the phone she requested.

Real matters my brethren...men gats dey focused because it's hard to see a stress free gal these days..plenty pressure man dey face for this country person go come add girlfriend wahala join..men gats dey on a low..just get one steady pussy like a Fwb then focus on ur hustle..na so the tin go this year

Letzdothething:
you are right bro. The amount of attention can lead one to doom. this January man needs to set priorities right and plan for the future well.
This thread has made me see that am not the only weird one out. No time

You're definitely not the weird one out.

mgtow:
Don't fvck small small girls in your area learn to keep your business private. Besides they can't take care of themselves so could very easily accidentally get pregnant and she could be so stewpid to point a finger at you. Who is going to believe your cries that you always used protection?

Pay as you go, is the way to go.

My biggest problem with women is their hypergamous nature and as such, I never go above and beyond for anyone. If pursuing a babe is going to stress me unduly financially, emotionally and pschologically, I cut my losses and run. Nigerian guys need to be better at doing a cost benefit analysis when it comes to women. If the cost of the undertaking is worth more than whatever benefit you feel might accrue to you, then it is not worth it. Most of the time what is the man's benefit? To thrust back and forth between the thighs of a woman before spilling forth seed. Some men pass through hoops and unspeakable ordeals (to the detriment of their own dignity and self respect) to achieve this aim which begs the question: Is it really worth it?

TIPS:

1. Never go for a girl if she shows zero interest in you. Go for the ones who "innocently and unassumingly" orbit around you. She messages you randomly, compliments you, calls you to just say hi, etc. We all have admirers but most guys are blind to green light or as I have come to discover lately, they don't even bother to decode the subtle signals that these ladies are passing because like me, they have decided that it's really not worth the stress.

2. If she calls you 3 to 4 times, make sure you only call her once or twice.

3. Never be the first one to say I love you. It makes you appear needy and clingy. If she says it reply. If she doesn't, don't bring it up.

4. If a woman tries to use her pvssy to exert some form of control over you, disqualify her immediately. For instance if she says "Hmm if you don't buy me that Peruvian hair I asked for you're not touching me tonight. You'll never get a piece of this." Reply with: "Who wants to touch a ugly baboon like you? Keep dreaming, mumu!" Always let her know she can't control or manipulate you by dangling her pvssy in front of you like a carrot. Invalidate her and put her in place. Wreck her self esteem. They know deep down that they are all hoes, and in their quiet moments they feel bad about it. Use this knowledge to your advantage..

5. If you are in a relationship and you notice her slipping away or changing in front of you, resist your impulses to MAN UP. What do I mean by manning up? Don't start giving her more attention or start calling her more or showering her with gifts, you will lose her faster because she is already on her way out and will see you as a beta male who can't get something better if or when she leaves. If you notice her slipping away - DO NOTHING. Act like you don't even notice. Preferably, stop making any effort altogether. JUST STOP. Assume a siddon-look disposition and she will think twice before leaving you. If she does, good riddance. What you are doing is valuing and respecting yourself above all else.



The media has brainwashed men in thinking they need to jump through hoops or pass through the jaws of the tiger to win the affection of a lady you love. The result of this is an overabundance of supplicating men and a bunch of females with an over-exaggerated and over-inflated sense of worth. Refuse to be part of the crowd. Stand up tall and proud, which is what a real man should be. You will discover that the women that want to be in your life will jump through hoops and do whatever it takes to be in your life. I'm speaking from experience.

I took the time to write this because the dating game is stacked against men and most times we end up the losers, holding the short end of the stick. However this phenomenon is not new. The dissatisfaction has spread from Asia down to the West, as more and more men are feeling more alienated and deciding altogether that relationships and marriage aren't worth it any more. And how can it be worth it? Over there the woman you have married and invested in can destroy your life on a whim by taking away almost everything you have ever worked for. The white girls aren't any better guys. No where is safe. In the near future women will begin to complain about a real scarcity of men and it will be obvious for all to see, especially as they grow older and options begin to dwindle. Shebi wen you don flash green light tire and nobody gree respond you go dey run go shiloh? Contunu!

The major problems of woman have always been their unrealistic expectations. Nothing is ever enough. Once you realize this you won't even stress yourself no more. Life is eazi mehn!

Professor of relationship

donsimo:
Look if a girl like you, she won't ask you for a dime, in fact she will cook for you, give you money.

My girlfriend hands over her entire salary to me.
She sends me card sef.

Oh lord this lie go fit kill person

Yoshy:
You're definitely not the weird one out.

Perhaps you are right.

Thegeneralqueen:
Oh lord this lie go fit kill person

You can't do it doesn't mean others can't you know

Thegeneralqueen:
Oh lord this lie go fit kill person

Not every girl is Like you biko.

donsimo:
Not every girl is Like you biko.

it's a shame that most guys on this thread can't own up to their responsibilities......i mean if you don't spend on her who will

Letzdothething:
You can't do it doesn't mean others can't you know

Go back to the club where you belong and stop quoting me...... stingy guy

Thegeneralqueen:
Go back to the club where you belong and stop quoting me...... stingy guy

No, i won't trade words with you. have a nice day

Letzdothething:
No, i won't trade words with you. have a nice day

That's so good of you..... now go hustle hard to make your girlfriend proud...... wise boy

kense88:
Correct guy. They are extremely disloyal, especially the younger ones. There is one that use to visit me when i was in school. She once asked me to recommend a workout for her, that can increase her backside(can you imagine). I told her to do sit up.

You had me laughing so hard my colleagues thought something was not right with me

Recommending sit ups when she wants to increase her backside

You too much joor

Ignored*

Thegeneralqueen:
it's a shame that most guys on this thread can't own up to their responsibilities......i mean if you don't spend on her who will

Lol, we aren't married so they are not our " responsiblities".

Letzdothething:
To date girls these days is like hard labour especially when you are trying to put your life together as a bachelor.

The major problem I have with a crush now is that she is broke, the second time we met she told me she had no transport on her. Am now wondering for how long will I be doing this kind of thing. As in am trying to put myself together and sometimes giving out as little as 5k to a girl would seem like heaven wants to fall.

The relationship just got started and am feeling discouraged already even though she's very pretty and I like her much I don't want t start what I can't finish.

Guys please how do you cope with demanding and broke girls?

Jennifer15:
... Don't live in pains, make it clear to her that you are still trying to fix ur life. U better do that before she renders u useless. Date a girl that has something doing abi u wan chop her beauty or na u be papa ni? No insult abeg.

Jenny baby had said it all ..... wow
am surprised & happy that this is coming from a young pretty lady. You ain't looking bad, those eyes of yours are charming.


Mr letsdowhatever, you don't give out what you don't have. As a matter of fact, If you continue doing so, when will it end.

Just a crush you say? not even a soulmate, Pls come off it.

I still believe that any woman that cherishes you for what you are & not who you are would never ask you for a dine ( i.e. if she knows your current predicaments) no matter the condition she might have seen herself.

Just be stable in whatever you are doing, cause women loves success in all ramifications and see them dance to your tune.

Freeman50:
Jenny baby had said it all ..... wow
am surprised & happy that this is coming from a young pretty lady. You ain't looking bad, those eyes of yours are charming.


Mr letsdowhatever, you don't give out what you don't have. As a matter of fact, If you continue doing so, when will it end.

Just a crush you say? not even a soulmate, Pls come off it.

I still believe that any woman that cherishes you for what you are & not who you are would never ask you for a dine ( i.e. if she knows your current predicaments) no matter the condition she might have seen herself.

Just be stable in whatever you are doing, cause women loves success in all ramifications and see them dance to your tune.

Someone that earns way above an average Nigerian graduate can't be thought to be in a predicament

Meanwhile, Your forth paragraph caught my attention. That too cannot be trusted. Because guess what? What I am now is quite scarce so which average lady wouldn't "cherish" that? It's really not that hard to figure out you know. Alsoz this is Quite evidenced in the comparison between being broke and my present situation.

Thanks though

donsimo:
Lol, we aren't married so they are not our " responsiblities".

it is your responsibility to spend on me Once I'm your girlfriend

Thegeneralqueen:
it is your responsibility to spend on me Once I'm your girlfriend

Lol, not interested.

donsimo:
Lol, not interested.

Don't even try to be because you've not worked hard enough so don't keep your hopes high

Thegeneralqueen:
Don't even try to be because you've not worked hard enough so don't keep your hopes high

Hahaha, I don't need you.
Besides my girl will kill you. Literary.

donsimo:
Hahaha, I don't need you.
Besides my girl will kill you. Literary.

Both you and your girlfriends IQ are not up to fake China phones..... I hope it helps

donsimo:
Hahaha, I don't need you.
Besides my girl will kill you. Literary.

why do you stress yourself. it's obvious the person behind the moniker seeks attention and online quarrel or something.

Belafonte:
Flesh and blood hath not revealed this to you, my friend.

Lmao