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khiaa:
I'm not placing blame on anyone but, this is a very young ''relationship", a time when a couple should be having fun getting to know each other not being a burden.

I don't know but maybe the description of a relationship is different here than it is in Nigeria.

I concur with you, but scribbling from your point of "Burden", I think the lady should be blamed for initiating the act of requesting when the relationship is still young, hereby indirectly prompting the man to request for laundry service, don't you think so?


Which country?

donstan18:
For some, not all.

Washing machine can help, you know

I meant hand washing hence my comment of any girl who washes......

donstan18:
I concur with you, but scribbling from your point of "Burden", I think the lady should be blamed for initiating the act of requesting when the relationship is still young, hereby indirectly prompting the man to request for laundry service, don't you think so?


Which country?

Yes her request for money was a burden to him just like his request for her to do chores was a burden for her. It doesn't matter that she initiated the request because he reciprocated with one also. He could have said no.

United States.

sorry to say this buh your friend is dating a parasite..
and if hes still with her..
then hes really a goddamn fool

AZeD1:
I meant hand washing hence my comment of any girl who washes......

Not all brO,
Some women sees no challenge in laundry chores.

AZeD1:
I meant hand washing hence my comment of any girl who washes......

Not all brO,
Some women sees no challenge in laundry chores.

khiaa:
Yes her request for money was a burden to him just like his request for her to do chores was a burden for her. It doesn't matter that she initiated the request because he reciprocated with one also. He could have said no.

United States.

Initiator matters in every thing we do in life, , my blames goes to the lady if I must concur with your nice point.

United State, that's cool, how dependent are ladies over there in a relationship?

donstan18:
Initiator matters in every thing we do in life, , my blames goes to the lady if I must concur with your nice point.

United State, that's cool, how dependent are ladies over there in a relationship?

Most try to be responsible for her own needs and most believe in a 50/50 relationship which isn't reality.

Relationships are a give and take situation and sometimes one may seem to give more than the other while the other may seem to take more therefore I don't think It could be 50/50 all the time.

I'm just rambling when I'm too sleepy too analyze relationships so I'm saying goodnight.
We can discuss this at a later time if you want.

Goodnight.

khiaa:
Most try to be responsible for her own needs and most believe in a 50/50 relationship which isn't reality.

Relationships are a give and take situation and sometimes one may seem to give more than the other while the other may seem to take more therefore I don't think It could be 50/50 all the time.

I'm just rambling when I'm too sleepy too analyze relationships so I'm saying goodnight.
We can discuss this at a later time if you want.

Goodnight.

Have a good night

We'll continue later, sleep tight.

khiaa:
How can she be totally dependent on him in only three weeks time, and what does feminism have to do with this scenario?

She's dependent on the guy obviously. Imagine asking for hair and transport fare.


Feminism has nothing to do with this tbh, I just asked her because I was trying to get her point of view.

makydebbie:
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Always on threads with any word that starts with "Fem..." Make sure you marry a man named Femi.

JoeClef:
Always on threads with any word that starts with "Fem..." Make sure you marry a man named Femi.

Your assertion is wrong tho.