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"Blood oath and abortions"
When the foundation is faulty, what can the righteous do?

pocohantas:
It's sad how the relationship started and that's the point it should have been addressed. When I saw, dumped after oath and abortion, I smiled. I wonder why some ladies think that doing abortion 'for' a guy would make him eternally subservient. The decision to go on with the abortion was hers. So ladies need to tone down on the pity party.

In a relationship, love with your head...be you male or female.
Stay away from abusive partners too. She chose to remain in that relationship. Now the young man has pulled the plug and she wants to revenge? Nah! She should move on. He did wrong, but she aided him. She should transfer that energy to positive things. Lessons learnt.

Ladies should do away with padlock boyfriends. Those guys with no future ambition, that hold you on lock down for years. In the end, you'll feel so battered, tattered and vindictive like this lady.

meeennnhhh...I like your sense of responds today.. keep up that good sense

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Nofin

if you say so, nsogbu adiro

Before finishing the story, I knew majority of the posters will heap the bulk of the blame on the lady whose only mistake was agreeing to date a psychopath. She should be thanking her stars that such an evil criminal is out of her life. She should forge ahead and leave him to karma, God will direct a man that will love and treat her right. She can still concieve naturally with blocked tubes.

OfficialOjonimi:
To be candid, the guy has no blame because d girl allowed her self to be fooled all through. She shuld free d guy, move on n pray 2 God 4 4givness n d numerous attrocities committed. All the new plans are just trial n error n can't change anything as it can bring dem 2geda again.

A guy that forced a seventeen year old to sleep with him has no blame. He forced her to abort his pregnancies, yet he's not to blame. He physically assaulted her several times but he's not to blame. she wanted to quit but he threatened to kill her if she dares leave and went on to harass her suitors yet he's not to blame. After damaging her physically psychologically and wasting her time, he dumped her for someone else. When a man does same to your daughter in future, don't put any blame on him. Give him a round of applause and a warm handshake.

chronique:
Dude took an oath with her when she was young and naive so she doesn't leave him, and finally decided to break it up due to his own selfish desires when he found someone he felt was better. That's after chasing serious suiotrs away... Naah. Me self get sisters and I wouldn't allow them to be toyed with like that. See, if what she said is the truth,nigga deserves to receive the storm. No jokes.

Receive which storm?
Can your sisters hang around such a man for 9yrs?
All the girls you left, how may storm have you received?

These things will keep happening, it's painful...but ladies need to learn and be one step ahead.

There is one somewhere in this section, asking if he should go spiritual on his girlfriend. No one can love you like you, make we dey use our head in relationships.

the reason why I keep warning girls...stop dating in your teens...your are never there yet...


stop listening to those who call you big girl...that your cookie will be bang mercilessly and the consequences of it is your baggage

IFearGod:
Am I the only one that believe this is a well scripted super story? Walk outta the thread and shut the door!

Sounds too far fetched but you will be shocked such hings happen. I know of a case where the woman aborted over a dozen time till her womb became non-working and the man left her to go marry someone else.

Both lives turned out very miserable.

dominique:
Before finishing the story, I knew majority of the posters will heap the bulk of the blame on the lady whose only mistake was agreeing to date a psychopath. She should be thanking her stars that such an evil criminal is out of her life. She should forge ahead and leave him to karma, God will direct a man that will love and treat her right. She can still concieve naturally with blocked tubes.



A guy that forced a seventeen year old to sleep with him has no blame. He forced her to abort his pregnancies, yet he's not to blame. He physically assaulted her several times but he's not to blame. she wanted to quit but he threatened to kill her if she dares leave and went on to harass her suitors yet he's not to blame. After damaging her physically psychologically and wasting her time, he dumped her for someone else. When a man does same to your daughter in future, don't put any blame on him. Give him a round of applause and a warm handshake.

conceive naturally with block tube receive sense

pocohantas:
It's sad how the relationship started and that's the point it should have been addressed. When I saw, dumped after oath and abortion, I smiled. I wonder why some ladies think that doing abortion 'for' a guy would make him eternally subservient. The decision to go on with the abortion was hers. So ladies need to tone down on the pity party.

In a relationship, love with your head...be you male or female.
Stay away from abusive partners too. She chose to remain in that relationship. Now the young man has pulled the plug and she wants to revenge? Nah! She should move on. He did wrong, but she aided him. She should transfer that energy to positive things. Lessons learnt.

Ladies should do away with padlock boyfriends. Those guys with no future ambition, that hold you on lock down for years. In the end, you'll feel so battered, tattered and vindictive like this lady.

Your posts always make sense

dominique:
Before finishing the story, I knew majority of the posters will heap the bulk of the blame on the lady whose only mistake was agreeing to date a psychopath. She should be thanking her stars that such an evil criminal is out of her life. She should forge ahead and leave him to karma, God will direct a man that will love and treat her right. She can still concieve naturally with blocked tubes.

Trado or orthodox?

Ekiseme:
if you say so, nsogbu adiro

Odinma

only one vice admiral in the country as we speak. The chief of naval staff.

why is he not in prison already

Things we do for love. " Good riddance to bad rubbish " The Lady should move on just like the guy.

pocohantas:
Receive which storm?
Can your sisters hang around such a man for 9yrs?
All the girls you left, how may storm have you received?

These things will keep happening, it's painful...but ladies need to learn and be one step ahead.

There is one somewhere in this section, asking if he should go spiritual on his girlfriend. No one can love you like you, make we dey use our head in relationships.

I have never dated a girl for 9 years... In fact,most of my relationships have been short. I've never put a lady through misery in any relationship. Most of my relationships didn't last cos most of the time,a good no of the exes travelled abroad and I called it quit cos I wasn't interested in long distance relationship. I've tried 2 of such(ldr) and it didn't work out... Point is,I could never have received a storm cos I've not being the callous heartless dude. That being said,my sisters can't even be in such unions cos they ain't bimbos.

Abeg let her move on. After all she opened her legs and received the guy's d*ck for her to be pregnant. The guy dumped her...yes...if he didn't, she probably would have dumped him. We all get dumped at the end of the day. Doing all those things she plans to do is just being petty.

Ishilove:
Trado or orthodox?

Mixture of both, I read I testimony on the IVF thread though she has one blocked tube and the other was not properly positioned. The doctors told her that the chances of her get him pregnant naturally was as low as one in a thousand and she has already had one failed IVF. She eventually got pregnant naturally while she was prepping for her second IVF. She had earlier done some corrective surgery to unblock the tubes.

ReinaFarine:
I've read the whole thing thrice and I'm still speechless... Taking vengeance on the guy and his new gal all sounds cool and ish.. But I believe in karma.
To me, the more time she spends in court cases, and police statements and ish will be more unnecessary conversations and meeting with said cultist. As hard as it is the best vengeance she can do is move on and be a better person without him. It is hard, she gave him her a big part of him she will never get back, but that's done. Right now, she should focus that energy she wants to use in ruining him on building herself.. The time she should have spent planning on the best way to hurt him should be converted to how she can make herself better. All the help she might need (navy guy, friends, money spent for cult proceedings, living in fear of retaliation from his 'brotherhood') she should use on herself.

He has had enough of her. He no longer deserves her tears or smile, a space in her head, her beautiful calculative mind or even the tiniest attention from her. He is a guy she used to know.. Stooping so low to tart dragging court settlement and arguments with the good for nothing, woman-beating, lazy, trashy piece of shit excuse of a wannabe 'cultist' is way above her right now.. She's more than him and his bimbo so called 'Ride-or-die' bitch of new piece of tramp...

Ignore both of them.. If possible, change environment, he was a lesson, you've learnt something. You are the author of your own happiness, don't kill yourself trying to please a man.. Find joy in yourself. Make yourself proud. Be the woman the The Prince of England will sell his soul to be her partner. Be the woman every man dreams of being with. Concentrate on your studies.. Start planning your own personal business(career).
It is hard, yes.
Have the picture of the woman you admire and live everyday trying to become her. You'll be too busy being successful to remember your juvenile love mistakes.

The whole oath thing is dead if you believe that.

And little girls like the tramp living on his watery alcohol and drugs ridden semen are all attention seeking whores. Ignore her.
Think of the kind of snub Meghan Markle will give her and live your life as if she doesn't exist. Only respond through the cops never personally if she still approach and threatens you unprovoked.

Though I highly suggest change your vicinity..

#GirlPower.
#Whatdoesn'tkillyoumakesyoustronger.
#PinkPride

you've said it all!!!!

dominique:
Mixture of both, I read I testimony on the IVF thread though she has one blocked tube and the other was not properly positioned. The doctors told her that the chances of her get him pregnant naturally was as low as one in a thousand and she has already had one failed IVF. She eventually got pregnant naturally while she was prepping for her second IVF. She had earlier done some corrective surgery to unblock the tubes.

Can you please give me the link?

ReinaFarine:
I've read the whole thing thrice and I'm still speechless... Taking vengeance on the guy and his new gal all sounds cool and ish.. But I believe in karma.
To me, the more time she spends in court cases, and police statements and ish will be more unnecessary conversations and meeting with said cultist. As hard as it is the best vengeance she can do is move on and be a better person without him. It is hard, she gave him her a big part of him she will never get back, but that's done. Right now, she should focus that energy she wants to use in ruining him on building herself.. The time she should have spent planning on the best way to hurt him should be converted to how she can make herself better. All the help she might need (navy guy, friends, money spent for cult proceedings, living in fear of retaliation from his 'brotherhood') she should use on herself.

He has had enough of her. He no longer deserves her tears or smile, a space in her head, her beautiful calculative mind or even the tiniest attention from her. He is a guy she used to know.. Stooping so low to tart dragging court settlement and arguments with the good for nothing, woman-beating, lazy, trashy piece of shit excuse of a wannabe 'cultist' is way above her right now.. She's more than him and his bimbo so called 'Ride-or-die' bitch of new piece of tramp...

Ignore both of them.. If possible, change environment, he was a lesson, you've learnt something. You are the author of your own happiness, don't kill yourself trying to please a man.. Find joy in yourself. Make yourself proud. Be the woman the The Prince of England will sell his soul to be her partner. Be the woman every man dreams of being with. Concentrate on your studies.. Start planning your own personal business(career).
It is hard, yes.
Have the picture of the woman you admire and live everyday trying to become her. You'll be too busy being successful to remember your juvenile love mistakes.

The whole oath thing is dead if you believe that.

And little girls like the tramp living on his watery alcohol and drugs ridden semen are all attention seeking whores. Ignore her.
Think of the kind of snub Meghan Markle will give her and live your life as if she doesn't exist. Only respond through the cops never personally if she still approach and threatens you unprovoked.

Though I highly suggest change your vicinity..

#GirlPower.
#Whatdoesn'tkillyoumakesyoustronger.
#PinkPride

Additionally, you can still make the guy and his new girlfriend take an undertaking so they would not hurt you in the future.

long epistle...don't love (I'm not sure that was even love sef) without carrying your brain along

Ishilove:
Can you please give me the link?

The VIC thread is over 200 pages, I'm not if I will be able to fish out the exact page.

Either one of the threats below
https://www.nairaland.com/773873/anyone-trying-ivf-iui-icsi

https://www.nairaland.com/749722/there-solution-blocked-tubes

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Stupid op stupid post stupid girl. Y some girls no ever get sense

After all this story, NOT one idiot man will fall a victim as husband to this 'old school' lady?

Ladies should learn to keep their virginity & stop defilling themselves day & night only to come out on internet to arm their shame with sympathy

jargons...

dominique:
The VIC thread is over 200 pages, I'm not if I will be able to fish out the exact page.

Either one of the threats below
https://www.nairaland.com/773873/anyone-trying-ivf-iui-icsi

https://www.nairaland.com/749722/there-solution-blocked-tubes

Thanks a lot

I so feel for her.
To all other ladies in similar rship, advise yourself now and quit. Don't allow a man make u lord of the rings.

Any rship that is over 2 years with no tangible step being taken is dicey.

To the teens, shun blood covenants. I have seen many men dt still left the babes after many years and abortions to marry a fresh... After dt blood covenant, the Babe brain resets, she starts living with the guys, many unprotected sex plus plenty abortions. The girl is even lucky she had only 2 in 9years. Very lucky. Most times, it is uncountable.

@poster, advise the babe to forget the guy. She needs time to herself to heal. No rship for now. Focus on herself and career. In 2years time, if she sees d guy, she will regret she ever dated such a guy.

As for her blocked fallopian tube, there is a solution. It is not only caused by abortion. Some virgins have blocked fallopian tubes. It is caused by infections that may be picked from toilet and they lasted a long time without being treated. Some were gotten in secondary school toilets but could not be treated due to one reason or the other. Some can also be gotten from infection after abortion.

She can treat it with castor oil massage and serraptase supplement. I have seen ppl who succeeded unblocking their tubes with the above.

Google is ur friend. Use to search how to do it yourself. U don't need any doc for this.

People don't like those who preach and believe in chastity..
They call them holy holy.

They say they are too religious.

People do not like those who love God more than men.

If this story is true, this girl wouldn't have experienced this, if she lived a life of chastity with fear and love for God.

This is the truth.

Fear God and keep his commandments. That is the whole duty of man

Why we no dey meet people like this?

Slept with her @ 17 (supposed RAPE)
EVERY THING IS RAPE THESE DAYS

Chrysaetos:
Sounds too far fetched but you will be shocked such hings happen. I know of a case where the woman aborted over a dozen time till her womb became non-working and the man left her to go marry someone else.

Both lives turned out very miserable.

Aborted a dozen time? Are you serious?

pocohantas:
Receive which storm?
Can your sisters hang around such a man for 9yrs?
All the girls you left, how may storm have you received?

These things will keep happening, it's painful...but ladies need to learn and be one step ahead.

There is one somewhere in this section, asking if he should go spiritual on his girlfriend. No one can love you like you, make we dey use our head in relationships.

Who come be this person