I am grieved,The boy i saw when he was given birth to,The boy i backed,The boy i trained etc.
We all started living with my grandfather when we were born because he(grandfather) wants an happy family.
Everything changed last year,the family separated because we(grand children) want to live with our parent.
My 10 years old cousin got admission into SS1 in a private school last year,he started coming home with much cash but the mother(A single parent) over looks it because she do give him huge cash as pocket money.
On wednesday he came home around 12pm from school,stole his mums 30k to buys a BMX bicycle,the mother was angry to the extend he called my elder he told him everything.We had to return the bicycle but we couldn't recover the whole cash because the bicycle seller turned it to a fight, but we settled everything.
The mum took him to school for him to be punished but revelations started revealing itself
1.It been long he attended school,every blessed morning he do leaves home saying he's going to school which is false
2.His school fees which was given to him by his mum he spent the whole 50k.
3.He's a gambler,he rolls dice.
4.He's a smoker.
We haven't descipline him because we believes we(my elder brother and i) should tell him the dangers of his behaviour but he still smoke yesterday in an hiding place but my neigbhour caught him.
What should i do...
I'm suggesting the mum should send him to navy or army boarding school.
The mum is tired of him.
I told him that if he joins any cult i wouldn't mind joining the Nigeria force just to take him down..

Please help me

Find a way to take him to army school sharp sharp... Nothing you can do anymore... He is already getting ready to become a future criminal

The mum is at fault here though.. She needs to be flogged.

spiritedtete:
Find a away to take him to army school sharp sharp... Nothing you can do anymore... He is already getting ready to become a future criminal

The mum is at fault here though.. She needs to be flogged.

Please how is the mums fault,she loved him wholeheartedly because he's her only child

Ur Cousin is an ajo nwa si owerre ba nne ya afo

Tk hm 2 church
E has marine spirit

Oladimejyy:
Please how is the mums fault,she loved him wholeheartedly because he's her only child

She must have been so soft on that boy and allow him have his way all the time. And this isnt love

OkpaAkuEriEri:
Ur Cousin is an ajo nwa si owerre ba nne ya afo

Tk hm 2 church
E has marine spirit

This is not a church matter... This is a physical issue here And he needs a physical approach... Army boarding school will "bend him" or "make him hard"... Either way the former is more feasible

spiritedtete:


She must have been so soft on that boy and allow him have his way all the time. And this isnt love

Very soft.The silly boy even threaten the mum that he will kill himself when the mum was disciplining him,I had to give a terrible blow on his neck because i was furious

Oladimejyy:
Very soft.The silly boy even threaten the mum that he will kill himself when the mum was disciplining him,I had to give a terrible blow on his neck because i was furious

She already knows the mum... And will continue to do what he likes as long as she stays with her.

Please take the boy away from the mum.... How i wish that boy was mine... He go hear am... With love combine

Army boarding school...

we call them dragon.

spiritedtete:


She already knows the mum... And will continue to do what he likes as long as she stays with her.

Please take the boy away from the mum.... How i wish that boy was mine... He go hear am... With love combine

The silly boy even told my grand father this afternoon when he was interogated that he deliberately took the money.He didnt show any remorse at all

I am finding too hard to believe that a ten year old was given his school fees.

physical torture(beating) is not the best way to make him change it will just be adding more salt to the wound.
like the poster above side take the boy away from the mum. The mum is petting him so much as he is the only child and he will just be growing worst as far as he will continue to leave with his mum.

mikeywise:
I am finding too hard to believe that a ten year old was given his school fees.

The boy is wise,honestly the boy do count 500k for his mum

Oladimejyy:
I am grieved,The boy i saw when he was given birth to,The boy i backed,The boy i trained etc.
We all started living with my grandfather when we were born because he(grandfather) wants an happy family.
Everything changed last year,the family separated because we(grand children) want to live with our parent.
My 10 years old cousin got admission into SS1 in a private school last year,he started coming home with much cash but the mother(A single parent) over looks it because she do give him huge cash as pocket money.
On wednesday he came home around 12pm from school,stole his mums 30k to buys a BMX bicycle,the mother was angry to the extend he called my elder he told him everything.We had to return the bicycle but we couldn't recover the whole cash because the bicycle seller turned it to a fight, but we settled everything.
The mum took him to school for him to be punished but revelations started revealing itself
1.It been long he attended school,every blessed morning he do leaves home saying he's going to school which is false
2.His school fees which was given to him by his mum he spent the whole 50k.
3.He's a gambler,he rolls dice.
4.He's a smoker.
We haven't descipline him because we believes we(my elder brother and i) should tell him the dangers of his behaviour but he still smoke yesterday in an hiding place but my neigbhour caught him.
What should i do...
I'm suggesting the mum should send him to navy or army boarding school.
The mum is tired of him.
I told him that if he joins any cult i wouldn't mind joining the Nigeria force just to take him down..
lalasticlala,Seun,Mynd44,Ishilove,Dominique please help me

How can a 10 year old boy be in SS1?

Did he enter secondary school at the age of 6?

UjuJoan2:


How can a 10 year old boy be in SS1?

Did he enter secondary school at the age of 6?

His education is very,i mean absolutely fast

Oladimejyy:
Please how is the mums fault,she loved him wholeheartedly because he's her only child

I agree with the poster that the Mom is at fault 100%.


God through the Holy Bible commanded us never to spare the rod when a child err because sparing the rod means spoiling the child. Same God stated that He "chastises those he loves".

Your Aunt, his mum has already failed in discharging her duties. she refused to show him love by administering disciple when she ought to but took to pampering instead. It is a shame and highly unfortunate.

My man, only prayer and advice can change the boy right now as no amount of punishment would reconstruct his attitude. In fact, it will make him more hardened!!!

trust me, i have seen and handled more terrible kids than this one. the problem here is that he was allowed to harden before solution was sought. as that child is now, he has seen and felt all that you or his mum or any other family member may do to him, as such, he fears non of you neither does he have regards for any of u. the solution her is to show him sumtin that he has never felt. Make him realize that there are worsts things, scarier things in life than he has seen already. how do you do this? now listen; either take him to a military academy and dump him der, or get a few new faces and carry out a 'fake' kidnap and 'fake' assasination attempt on him. act a little drama, let him see knives, cutlasses, maybe a gun too, make it look real like he has had a very close shave with death. at the end, allow him to escape from where he is kept. believe me, when he thinks of all he saw in the hands of the 'assasins/kinappers', he will mellow. this strategy has worked on even the most evil child, believe me

P.S: the idea is for him to feel he was kidnapped for money rituals, and God saved him from death, so he would turn a new leaf from there automatically

He's being neglected by his mother.

He's also lacking a father figure in his life.

I'm coming let book space first.

DEVIL @ WORK!

But who gives a 10 year old #50,000 to go pay his school fee personally? !

Oladimejyy:
I am grieved,The boy i saw when he was given birth to,The boy i backed,The boy i trained etc.
We all started living with my grandfather when we were born because he(grandfather) wants an happy family.
Everything changed last year,the family separated because we(grand children) want to live with our parent.
My 10 years old cousin got admission into SS1 in a private school last year,he started coming home with much cash but the mother(A single parent) over looks it because she do give him huge cash as pocket money.
On wednesday he came home around 12pm from school,stole his mums 30k to buys a BMX bicycle,the mother was angry to the extend he called my elder he told him everything.We had to return the bicycle but we couldn't recover the whole cash because the bicycle seller turned it to a fight, but we settled everything.
The mum took him to school for him to be punished but revelations started revealing itself
1.It been long he attended school,every blessed morning he do leaves home saying he's going to school which is false
2.His school fees which was given to him by his mum he spent the whole 50k.
3.He's a gambler,he rolls dice.
4.He's a smoker.
We haven't descipline him because we believes we(my elder brother and i) should tell him the dangers of his behaviour but he still smoke yesterday in an hiding place but my neigbhour caught him.
What should i do...
I'm suggesting the mum should send him to navy or army boarding school.
The mum is tired of him.
I told him that if he joins any cult i wouldn't mind joining the Nigeria force just to take him down..

Please help me

Poor home training and upbringing;even the use of English in this post needs 'home training'...
Who gives a 10 year old 50k to pay school fees by himself...
Both the grandfather and single mum should be called out;what nonsense...
If the boy likes,he should self destruct.... Nobody really cares.

Oladimejyy:
The boy is wise,honestly the boy do count 500k for his mum

Lies

Suspend him from school and take him to a military handler. Let him spend some months there.

Problem child

10 years old? I'm not understanding

That was how Snoop Dogg started. Don't be quick to judge you never know his destiny

LIES...10 YEARS, SS1?

mikeywise:
I am finding too hard to believe that a ten year old was given his school fees.

My thought too.
I want to believe that the OP meant the boy is in JS1, not SS1.
But then, how can the mother give a 10yr old 50k to pay his own school fees

Lies