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What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by topty11(m): 12:51pm On Feb 11, 2018
Ladies, what make you cheat in a relationship? say it and let other men learn.
Men, what make you cheat in a relationship? say it and let other ladies learn.

There are important lessons these confessions will teach others.
If you are brave enough then drop some lines. Thank you all in advance.

Should you want to write to me personally, Send a mail to topzeal333@gmail.com

Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by newyorks(m): 12:54pm On Feb 11, 2018
Distancesmileysmiley
Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by obiorathesubtle: 12:55pm On Feb 11, 2018
I'm wired to cheat..

Nothing really triggers my cheating spirit..

I'm just addicted to cheating.. cheesy

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Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by Nobody: 12:57pm On Feb 11, 2018
Bad food, running stomach and possibly purge.

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Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by dingbang(m): 1:01pm On Feb 11, 2018
Lack of sense
Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by XhosaNostra(f): 1:04pm On Feb 11, 2018
Lol, so what are we (ladies) expected to learn from this?

Quite frankly, I don't care why men cheat. All I know is, it's a deal breaker for me. So he can take those excuses & shove them up his ass.

Will read the comments just for laughs though smiley

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Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by Kobicove(m): 1:05pm On Feb 11, 2018
Boredom
Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by GabrielAganyi(m): 1:09pm On Feb 11, 2018
obiorathesubtle:

I'm wired to cheat..

Nothing really triggers my cheating spirit..

I'm just addicted to cheating.. cheesy

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Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by YOUNGELDER1(m): 1:30pm On Feb 11, 2018
Laziness
Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by Nobody: 1:45pm On Feb 11, 2018
XhosaNostra:
Lol, so what are we (ladies) expected to learn from this?

Quite frankly, I don't care why men cheat. All I know is, it's a deal breaker for me. So he can take those excuses & shove them up his ass.

Will read the comments just for laughs though smiley
What makes YOU cheat? That's d question.
Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by XhosaNostra(f): 1:55pm On Feb 11, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

What makes YOU cheat? That's d question.

I don't cheat. As in having sex with other people whilst IN a relationship.

But I'll tell you what makes my interest to wane though. It's when I don't feel emotional supported by my partner. I have a great deal of emotions & I understand that it could be overwhelming sometimes. But I still need to be heard & told everything is going to be alright. That's the only thing I'd say starts to make other men more attractive in my eyes. I'll admit, I have a roving eye & crush a lot, but I'd never really cross the line.

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Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by xynerise: 2:00pm On Feb 11, 2018
I only cheat with my eyes undecided
Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by Nobody: 2:02pm On Feb 11, 2018
XhosaNostra:


I don't cheat. As in having sex with other people whilst IN a relationship.

But I'll tell you what makes my interest to wane though. It's when I don't feel emotional supported by my partner. I have a great deal of emotions & I understand that it could be overwhelming sometimes. But I still need to be heard & told everything is going to be alright. That's the only thing I'd say starts to make other men more attractive in my eyes. I'll admit, I have a roving eye & crush a lot, but I'd never really cross the line.
I guarantee you will cross it soon. Its just a matter of time. You have one of the greatest cheating triggers. As if I knew.
Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by OhiOfIhima: 2:03pm On Feb 11, 2018
newyorks:
Distancesmileysmiley
You are rite... It was d same distance dat ditch me to it but I told my bae later shaa... Wel, d bae has become an ex now Shaw.
Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by XhosaNostra(f): 2:06pm On Feb 11, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

I guarantee you will cross it soon. Its just a matter of time. You have one of the greatest cheating triggers. As if I knew.

Lol, I don't think so. I have self control. If it does happen, it'd probably be emotional cheating because I'm also very cautious about being taken advantage of, especially when it comes to sex.
Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by FriendofGod: 2:09pm On Feb 11, 2018
I am a virgin so I can't answer the question yet.

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Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by FriendofGod: 2:10pm On Feb 11, 2018
obiorathesubtle:
I'm wired to cheat..
Nothing really triggers my cheating spirit..
I'm just addicted to cheating.. cheesy

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Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by Nobody: 2:13pm On Feb 11, 2018
XhosaNostra:


Lol, I don't think so. I have self control. If it does happen, it'd probably be emotional cheating because I'm also very cautious about being taken advantage of, especially when it comes to sex.
Trusting yourself is already a weakness.

Emotional cheating lacks control about sex. You're d best mechanic of ur emotions and not some man.

Its ur husband I pity.

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Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by Tomoyayi(m): 2:20pm On Feb 11, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

Trusting yourself is already a weakness.

Emotional cheating lacks control about sex. You're d best mechanic of ur emotions and not some man.

Its ur husband I pity.

Do you know what self control is?
A woman in love never cheats.

Waiting for the quotes o.
grin

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Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by Nobody: 2:22pm On Feb 11, 2018
Tomoyayi:


Do you know what self control is?
A woman in love never cheats.

Waiting for the quotes o.
Do you know what deep emotions are?

Your myopics are so kpetekpete.

Wetin u don see?
Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by XhosaNostra(f): 2:25pm On Feb 11, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

Trusting yourself is already a weakness.

Emotional cheating lacks control about sex. You're d best mechanic of ur emotions and not some man.

Its ur husband I pity.

I beg to differ. Because a relationship is a partnership. I'm a fair person. I have no qualms supporting my partner emotionally if he lets me in. I expect the same in return. Period. What's the point of being in a relationship if I can't be transparent with you with how I'm feeling? I don't see it. If I shouldn't vent or share my frustrations with you, then you're no use to me. Fullstop. See, some people require financial support, sexual needs met etc. All I want is for someone to LISTEN. That is all! A failure to do that, I'm sorry, but I'll start ogling others & plan my exit strategy. Btw, I'm very vocal, so they'll see it coming.

Enough about me. What makes you cheat or entertain the thought?
Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by traeces(m): 2:26pm On Feb 11, 2018
XhosaNostra:
Lol, so what are we (ladies) expected to learn from this?

Quite frankly, I don't care why men cheat. All I know is, it's a deal breaker for me. So he can take those excuses & shove them up his ass.

Will read the comments just for laughs though smiley

I know who used to hold your position but who is currently cheating on her husband with reckless abandon.
Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by XhosaNostra(f): 2:29pm On Feb 11, 2018
traeces:


I know who used to hold your position but who is currently cheating on her husband with reckless abandon.

Ok. Is the husband innocent in all this? Just curious.
Also you have a choice, take it or leave. Why remain in a situation that serves you no purpose?
Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by Nobody: 2:30pm On Feb 11, 2018
XhosaNostra:


I beg to differ. Because a relationship is a partnership. I'm a fair person. I have no qualms supporting my partner emotionally if he lets me in. I expect the same in return. Period. What's the point of being in a relationship if I can't be transparent with you with how I'm feeling? I don't see it. If I shouldn't vent or share my frustrations with you, then you're no use to me. Fullstop. See, some people require financial support, sexual needs met etc. All I want is for someone to LISTEN. That is all! A failure to do that, I'm sorry, but I'll start ogling others & plan my exit strategy. Btw, I'm very vocal, so they'll see it coming.

Enough about me. What makes you cheat or entertain the thought?
You know my advice for you?

Start challenging yourself now. Reduce the measure of ur dream emotional expectancy from ur spouse(not bf). Keep ur nature but set limits of expectancy for yourself. No man will understand fully or will be there fully for you emotionally. He'll do as much as he can, ur best efforts will do more.
Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by XhosaNostra(f): 2:35pm On Feb 11, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

You know my advice for you?

Start challenging yourself now. Reduce the measure of ur dream emotional expectancy from ur spouse(not bf). Keep ur nature but set limits of expectancy for yourself. No man will understand fully or will be there fully for you emotionally. He'll do as much as he can, ur best efforts will do more.

*nods*

You haven't answered my question though.

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Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by Tomoyayi(m): 2:41pm On Feb 11, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

Do you know what deep emotions are?

Your myopics are so kpetekpete.

Wetin u don see?

I said female abi, even guys.
Obviously you've never fallen in love before so you won't understand.

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Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by Nobody: 2:43pm On Feb 11, 2018
Tomoyayi:


I said female abi, even guys.
Obviously you've never fallen in love before so you won't understand.

Maybe I shd take ur sister as my second wife, then you'll believe the truth than just quoting blank
Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by Tomoyayi(m): 2:56pm On Feb 11, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

Maybe I shd take ur sister as my second wife, then you'll believe the truth than just quoting blank


I no get sister, tongue

You are seeing this from only one side, does it mean you don't trust yourself Or you don't trust your wife?

Women are emotionally charged creatures, the signs will be there, It's up to you to See it. Some are even vocal, it's up to you to listen.
Before a man or woman cheats, something always changes.

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Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by Nobody: 3:00pm On Feb 11, 2018
Tomoyayi:



I no get sister, tongue

You are seeing this from only one side, does it mean you don't trust yourself Or you don't trust your wife?

Women are emotionally charged creatures, the signs will be there, It's up to you to See it. Some are even vocal, it's up to you to listen.
Before a man or woman cheats, something always changes.

A person who finds excuses to cheat actually wants it before.

God did not make u emotional to swing to another man at d slightest emotional challenge just bcus you're a complex emotional creature
Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by Splinz(m): 3:04pm On Feb 11, 2018
kiss cheesy
Must something makes one to cheat? Can't someone cheat in peace naturally again?
Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by NeeKlaus: 3:13pm On Feb 11, 2018
But they said Variety is the spice of life. Who am I to oppose that valid and complete truth?? cheesy
Re: What Makes You Cheat? Say It! by Nobody: 3:40pm On Feb 11, 2018
NeeKlaus:
But they said Variety is the spice of life. Who am I to oppose that valid and complete truth?? cheesy
My brother!!!

It's not cheating, u jst help in reducing tear and wear in ur lady, that is one.
Variety is there 4 utilisatn.

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