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Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by Nobody: 3:01pm On Feb 11, 2018
I will always maintain that no one should strive to make another person happy at the expense of themselves or no one should expect any favor in return for a good deed.

Thus, a lot of thought must be given to any decision to render help to anyone in this life.

Such a difficult way to learn a vital life lesson, take heart bro sad
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by minasota(f): 3:01pm On Feb 11, 2018
Ok
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by macino1(m): 3:01pm On Feb 11, 2018
Hmm
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by Justbeingreal(m): 3:02pm On Feb 11, 2018
Chai
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by nawtyme: 3:03pm On Feb 11, 2018
TheOliveSeed:
Her reasons are legit enough.
Death would have been more legit. Fvcking entitled bunch
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by lexy2014: 3:04pm On Feb 11, 2018
TheOliveSeed:
Her reasons are legit enough.
make she return d kidney abi?is that not legit enough?
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by luminouz(m): 3:04pm On Feb 11, 2018
kimbraa:
I don't understand people. Is she meant to compensate him with marriage if she doesn't see a future with him now simply because he gave her his kidney out of his own volition? Well, she said she was going to think about it, and she has every right to say "yes" or "no". The guy is matured enough sef.
SMH for u!!!
U can be so hypocritical at times eh!!!

On d story!!!!
I swear I have never seen this Kain of SAVAGE friendzoning!!!
It was so Savage it completely nonplussed me!
See d excuse she gave sef!!!! Without him u are DEAD!!!
As for dat guyhuh I no know wetin to talk....d girl no even get ya time since d mid 1990s n yet u no move ONhuh N to endure such Savage clapback after ya proposal is even making me hurt on ya behalf!!!! undecided
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by goodnewscliff(m): 3:06pm On Feb 11, 2018
flexyfit:
Arrant nonsense... Na all this kind of things dey make people no dey help...madam give him back his kidney mbok
i love dis gal......heheheehehe....make d guy diehuh....i mean which guy go donate one teeth give one sickler all in d name of love only to be rejected.....mtchewwwwww[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] undecided
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by ofuonyebi: 3:07pm On Feb 11, 2018
This means the general dictum that one good turn, deserves another...does not work here..

Of course, true love for marriage should be separated from personal sacrifice...help should not be used to take cheap advantage of a woman..

good one...mr man should look for a bone of his bone elsewhere...while God will compensate for his sacrifice of providing a kidney for the needy

woman...QED!
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by Edopesin: 3:07pm On Feb 11, 2018
Chikita66:
If you like give her your life, if she is someone like me that don't want you and will never change her mind about wanting you, she still will reject you. [s]Sorry bro, next time don't gamble with such things. Calculate your risks well.[/s]
thats inhuman
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by fotadmowmend(m): 3:07pm On Feb 11, 2018
That kidney won't work well for her oooo
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by Nobody: 3:07pm On Feb 11, 2018
luminouz:
SMH for u!!!
U can be so hypocritical at times eh!!!
What's the hypocrisy in what I said? Someone did something to save someone's life out of love, and that automatically means she should say "yes" to his proposal? Why do most of you think rendering help automatically gives you a pass to someone? SHM.
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by Rubbiish(m): 3:07pm On Feb 11, 2018
IamAirforce1:
Some mumu things Men do for love

Smh
See who is smh for mumu things
You that stopped watching football & no longer relate with your friends because of woman, na u bold dey talk? undecided
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by NairaMaster1(m): 3:08pm On Feb 11, 2018
I will collect my kidney back by fire by force. Shuuuwo!!!!
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by Nobody: 3:09pm On Feb 11, 2018
Jesuuu....... Apostle must hear this.

Funke.......
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by luminouz(m):
kimbraa:
What's the hypocrisy in what I said? Someone did something to save someone's life out of love, and that automatically means she should say "yes" to his proposal? Why do most of you think rendering help automatically gives you a pass to someone? SHM.
Ok..
Hope u can render that kindn of help to a guy n stomach your rejected proposal!!!
If u can? Then case closed!!!
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by HajimeSaito(m): 3:09pm On Feb 11, 2018
benebaby77:
No problem with that... But she must return that Kidney back to me.....

Make some women dey fear God nah. Somebody who willingly donated one of his kidney to you and yet you rejected his proposal....

But it seems that the guy has long been friendzoned without knowing.....
So she just HAS to marry him because he donated a kidney
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by macphilip: 3:11pm On Feb 11, 2018
All of you are saying the man should collect his kidney back abi!!!
what about all the free sex and different styles she would have
been giving the man nko?
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by tiwasiaife(m): 3:12pm On Feb 11, 2018
Some women are like bush meat any favour done to them they will carry it and enter the bush
Omelu nwanyi melu ukwu nku
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by luminouz(m): 3:14pm On Feb 11, 2018
HajimeSaito:
So she just HAS to marry him because he donated a kidney
Nope!!!
But her reply was brutal n somehow
N don't fvvking say 'because of a kidney'..he saved her life!!!
U talk like this cuz u ain't experienced dat stuff before!!!
Think about the level of love that will make a man part with his kidney n give someone he is not related to!!!
Something I know u will never do...not in this life!!
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by Acidosis(m): 3:15pm On Feb 11, 2018
Simple something.


Whenever she finds her ideal man, tell her to give you your kidney. Her ideal man should be able to provide her with one.

It is very important to get back your kidney; you, your wife or children may need it in the future.
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by Lexusgs430:
He gave her his kidney, positioning himself in the future to also give her his heart and receive her heart in return......


This contract was not signed, but implied....... She must now return the kidney........
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by YelloweWest: 3:15pm On Feb 11, 2018
Give him back his kidney!
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by Nobody: 3:17pm On Feb 11, 2018
Gofwane:
That guy is a professional montol.

honestly i cannot donate my kidney to anybody, even if it is my family cheesy not to talk of one mumu hashawo wey go follow another bad guy the moment i die. It is even better to sell it like hushpupi did grin
Wait. You mean hushpupi sold his kidney?
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by tuoyoojo(m):
if the trap fails to catch the prey, it must return the bait back to the
hunter

give him back the kidney o or else.....
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by ibkgab001: 3:18pm On Feb 11, 2018
XhosaNostra:
I'd never donate an organ to someone I'm not related to by blood. Never. After they gonna go & cheat or disappear into the sunset with my kidney grin I believe that's the only thing that would drive me into a murderous rage. MF, I gave you a new lease on LIFE & Imma cancel it!
Not even my family God forbid
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by Lexusgs430: 3:18pm On Feb 11, 2018
macphilip:
All of you are saying the man should collect his kidney back abi!!!
what about all the free sex and different styles she would have
been giving the man nko?
The sex was enjoyed by both parties...... You think it's only the male species, that enjoys sexual rendezvous?
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by Odingo1: 3:18pm On Feb 11, 2018
For me, I help people without looking for a pay back,when a woman is not your wife, any help you render to her, you shoud be able to take it if the woman throw it at your face. Dont go extra miles if you cannot bear it when it goes wrong.
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by HungerBAD: 3:20pm On Feb 11, 2018
Fernandowski:
Kill yourself for a lady and she will come to your burial crying in another mans arms
This one is deep.
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by Tapout(m): 3:21pm On Feb 11, 2018
AuroraB:
She didn't say 'no' entirely.
She needs to get well first and think over it.
The man should exercise patience angry
na so.. grin You that is talking, how many of those guys that you told "i will think about it" did you ever think off?? sad
which ever way you want to analyse it, the summary is that he was rejected.
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by Nobody: 3:21pm On Feb 11, 2018
Friendzone level 99. The woman is evil. She took his kidney to survive but doesn't want to drop her heart. She must just drop that heart. Even if it's for 1 year marriage and then divorce.
Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by Nobody: 3:25pm On Feb 11, 2018
luminouz:
SMH for u!!!
U can be so hypocritical at times eh!!!

On d story!!!!
I swear I have never seen this Kain of SAVAGE friendzoning!!!
It was so Savage it completely nonplussed me!
See d excuse she gave sef!!!! Without him u are DEAD!!!
As for dat guyhuh I no know wetin to talk....d girl no even get ya time since d mid 1990s n yet u no move ONhuh N to endure such Savage clapback after ya proposal is even making me hurt on ya behalf!!!! undecided
Oh! You modified. grin

First off, from the story, they've been friends but the dude caught feelings along the line while the girl dearly loved their friendship. Giving his kidney was what a true friend would do and what she owes him in return is appreciation for giving her life back.

Secondly, from her response, she doesn't love him but like him 'cause if she did, she won't have said she wanted to think about it as she values their relationship more than marriage.

You should understand something. That you gave a lady something out of your own volition, no matter its worth doesn't mean the second you propose she has to say yes. Saying yes when there's no love will be compensating the guy for what he did and marriage where the love is unrequited is the worse marriage anyone should go into. Love is the basis on which any marriage would flourish and then we will look at compatibility in other areas. And don't forget it's a life time commitment.

I assume you're old enough to understand this.
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