morning pals... kk this got to me so i actually had to share it on here to get a wider view so as not to advice the friend involved wrongly.
A close friend of mine actually showed me the convo he had with his bae last night, having seen the convo he asked for my opinion.
* He is strict and str8 forward person.
*He also confirms the gal loves him and he never for once had doubts uptill this moment.
*Relationship is not his priority but he loves the gal in person and has never put anyone above her.

So n landers.. pls emulate and drop one or 2 advice. thanks

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Ur friend shd give her time...

She's not worth calling the next day.

ify84:
Ur friend shd give her time...

3months into dating ooo.. And ex'd 1year ago...

see da way she's replying with one one word.you sure thats his bae ? cause it doesnt seem like it from this conversation

Besto:


3months into dating ooo..
And ex'd 1year ago...

He should threaten to leave... And see her reaction

IamLucy:
see da way she's replyin one one.you sure thats his bae ? cause it doesnt seem like it from this conversation

lolz.. my thoughts too.
I believe the ex call really got deep into her of which made her confused @ that moment

guy pack your load and waka before you father another man pikin speaking out of experience

just kick d foolish gal outta ya lyf!

dude that "ex" is her boyfriend and you're just the side nigga

kaycii1:
just kick d foolish gal outta ya lyf!

exactly.she sounds foolish.

pain to my eyes.people still chat like this?!

Surely some girls always surprise me. That's how my girlfriend went to visit her ex and almost got raped. That's if she wasn't raped though. Although I forgave her but my mind keeps going around that event and a possible unprotected rape

That's why I hardly take these women folk serious.

Bro is on a long thing....

Besto:


lolz.. my thoughts too.
I believe the ex call really got deep into her of which made her confused @ that moment

thats a lame excuse.please dump her already

She just needs permission to be bleeping both of you....

She likes egusi soup but would not mind the taste of ogbono aswell



U self..take ur heart back from her...and bleep with no major string attachment...but always wear condom..inshort double ur condoms from now!

Clear the air with her!

Define your relationship and if it requires you to move on, don't be hesitant.
Exes are the hardest to get rid of.

Which one is marriage suitor again

Been in this situation before, I told her to choose and she said it's difficult, I told her am done. She was shocked tho but I wasn't ready to be no one's second choice, was on a Christmas season like this too. Brother my advice for you, take a walk

at least she told u her mind instead of deceiving u.u should be grateful .all u have to do is to show her more love and make her believe u are better and more worthy of her than her ex.my opinion

cruzita:
at least she told u her mind instead of deceiving u.u should be grateful .all u have to do is to show her more love and make her believe u are better and more worthy of her than her ex.my opinion

extremely wrong advice.

Ur friend needs no further advice. That girl is disinterested. She simply wants to continue stringing ur friend along. She still loves her ex? Fine. She should go and rekindle her old flame. But tell ur friend to dump her sorry ass!

From the chat, one thing is obvious. Your friend is the new ex while the other dude is her new BF. It's official!

cruzita:
at least she told u her mind instead of deceiving u.u should be grateful .all u have to do is to show her more love and make her believe u are better and more worthy of her than her ex.my opinion

more love bawo? abeg dude shld come and take t/fare and go on a journey jare
guyman, dnt even try to force it or impress her. give her space and let her decide for herself. shikena!!!

Let him leave her alone.

She aint worth it

guy u well so

wetin u still dey do wit this kinda girl

she got no love & respect for u

You better run for your life or else..

cruzita:
at least she told u her mind instead of deceiving u.u should be grateful .all u have to do is to show her more love and make her believe u are better and more worthy of her than her ex.my opinion

U mean competition for love...
Greatful ni... Relationship is now a favour to one party ni.

Relationship ain't his priority, so trust me I knw that will be his last option.

STFUareyouGod:
From the chat, one thing is obvious. Your friend is the new ex while the other dude is her new BF. It's official!

Lol

Let her be