john650:

He should have let her die. No better deserving suitor cared to give their kidney to her. Nice guys always come last.

Indeed. OJB's wife gave him her kidney, despite him having two other wives. Why didn't you lots help her wail and tell us how undeserving men are. Nice guys come last indeed.

More reason I hate taking things from men.
Create a thread saying you guys always expect something inreturn for good deeds, and lots of you will land like hawks to counter.
But check out majority of male comments...mtcheeew.

pocohantas:


[s]Very senseless post.
Men have done same and more to women who sacrificed for them.
Quote me when you have something sensible to say, not gender blaming.[/s]

You are just ranting because African men worship una pussy and behave like dunces, when you are dying somebody step in to rescue you from shackles of death then you turn against the person, helping some girls like you is just like helping a snake to escape from the trap that will choke it to death.

Odingo1:

You are just ranting because African men worship una pussy and behave like dunces, when you are dying somebody step in to rescue you from shackles of death then you turn against the person, helping some girls like you is just like helping a snake to escape from the trap that will choke it to death.

Oga where were you when OJB's wife, wife...not gf, gave him kidney? Abi don't you know how many wives he had?


Who beg you for help?
I pity girls who receive help from men.
Gerrout!

pocohantas:


Oga where were you when OJB's wife, wife...not gf gave him kidney?
Abi don't you know how many wives he had?


Who beg you for help?
I pity girls who receive help from men.
Gerrout!

Na girls like you self na your boyfriend will be paying school fees for and be giving good pocket money after weekend marathon sex visiting and yet you will not regard it as receiving help from men.

XhosaNostra:


Lol, now that's cruel.

Certain family members though, yes, but my favourites, I'd ponder about it.

abi?no mind am...na fear of death dey worry am!

Odingo1:

Na girls like you self na your boyfriend will be paying school fees for and be giving good pocket money after weekend marathon sex visiting and yet you will not regard it as receiving help from men.

Answer the question I asked na. Your hypocrisy is staring you right in the face and you're now yarning trash.
Nonsense...

pocohantas:


Answer the question I asked na. Your hypocrisy is staring you right in the face and you're now yarning trash.
Nonsense...

Even if OJB have five wives and one out the five gave him kidney,is he not responsible for all the wives , one man can marry many wives and all the wives will love their husband.

Odingo1:

Even if OJB have five wives and one out the five gave him kidney,is he not responsible for all the wives , one man can marry many wives and all the wives will love their husband.

Hahahaha. You're a dreamer.
Don't be deceived dear.

He had one good woman, the first wife at that. Yet he married two more. It was the woman's choice to give him, and if she did it despite him adding two more wives to her...then she has a truly good heart.
There are so many women, including evil men like you, who would never make that sacrifice...

Yemea1:
Hmmmmmmm

I always know say na only black man fit mumu like this

IamAirforce1:
Some mumu things Men do for love
Smh

I always know say na only black man fit mumu like this

coolestofall:
I wish more pple can emulate her. She simply said hw she felt even though she'll b forever grateful 2 him.

Oga proposer, next time u self propose b4 giving out ur remaining kidney.

Y Black man go always fall mugu

A "saviour" doesn't have any rights over anyone. If someone wants to save another, that's his choice - but it creates no obligations on either party. No one "owns" you. No one can do a deed that makes them your master and owner.

If he had proposed before giving her his kidney, and she refused his proposal, would he have left her to die because she didn't agree to marry him? I suppose not, unless he's a cruel being.

There's no rule that says whenever people do you a great favor, you SHOULD DO WHAT THEY WANT.

Accepting help from someone shouldn't make you a PRISONER to the person's wishes. There are favors you can never repay and those you will never repay.

Call me petty, cos I'm definitely getting my kidney back. I'm not father Xmas

pocohantas:


Hahahaha. You're a dreamer.
Don't be deceived dear.

He had one good woman, the first wife at that. Yet he married two more. It was the woman's choice to give him, and if she did it despite him adding two more wives to her...then she has a truly good heart.
There are so many women, including evil men like you, who would never make that sacrifice...

I will make such sacrifice if the woman is my wife but for my girlfriend I will never do that .

i been think say na Nigeria man....we no d disappoint

TheOliveSeed:
Her reasons are legit enough.

Are you alright!?... her stupid reasons are not legit!, why take the organ in the first place!?, God forbid bad thing!

Next time, you propose to her on one knee with your kidney your hand.

Odingo1:

I will make such sacrifice if the woman is my wife but for my girlfriend I will never do that .

If you were the wife in question, will you do it?

Can the man still collect his kidney from her if he really wants to? If yes, how please?

john650:

He should have let her die. No better deserving suitor cared to give her their kidney. Nice guys always come last.

I dey tell u! Reminds me of this film those days, Last american virgin: dis bobo nice liked a girl, but as usual wit confused girls, she preferred a popular bad guy in school. d bad guy impregnated her n dumped her, only 4 bobo nice to pay 4 abortion n nurse her back to health, even passed over an opportunity to sleep wit her while she was recovering.
Long story short, she went back to d bad guy, n can't 4get d song playing while bobo nice was driving home after catching her kissing d bad guy at a party: ' I did my best, but I guess my best wasn't good enough'

....a kidney does not equate love to me any way ...however that woman can't leave more than 10yrs medically except by God's Grace. She may have played safe my opinion sha.

dvkot:
worst part is that the puccy wasn't even tight cos she was a hoe

Lol, Samson wouldn't have wasted his time and strength on a stadium-like pussy.

kimbraa:
I don't understand people. Is she meant to compensate him with marriage if she doesn't see a future with him now simply because he gave her his kidney out of his own volition? Well, she said she was going to think about it, and she has every right to say "yes" or "no". The guy is matured enough sef.

I used to like your post but this is outright stupid. Does a dying lady have any future? I'm a doctor. I understand the risk that guy took. For the rest of his life, he is going to watch his diet and drinks. His lifestyle will change. He will not involve in energy consuming exercises. He will not be able to run optimally in times of danger.. Etc. In fact, to some extent, his sex life has been compromised. Yes, he can survive on a kidney but he must not overwork it.


Jesus gave his only life yet some people rejected his rejected his marriage proposal.


Is she meant to compensate him with marriage if she doesn't see a future with him now

The question above is annoying. I am trying so hard not to use abusive words.

That question is akin to saying

Are we meant to compensate Jesus because he died for us?

That lady doesn't deserve life same way the people who reject Jesus do not deserve life.. Your judgment can't be better than God's standard judgment to people who neglect sacrificial love.

God's judgment is that if you don't accept his sacrificial show of love, u will perish. In similar fashion, if this lady doesn't accept this guy's sacrifice... She doesn't deserve to live.


P. S: Everything above is null and void if you not a Christian. If you are, explain why people who reject Jesus's marriage proposal should perish in hell... If u can do so, I will know you are objective in your thinking and not always in a quest to exude feminism

pocohantas:


If you were the wife in question, will you do it?

Yes if only among the wives I am the most loved by the man , if not he should carry his cross or let the other wife he love much go give him kidney , I no dey for monkey dey work baboon dey chop ni.

Aunty,pls give me back my kidney. I'm not doing again. I want to use it.

That is the right iliac region meant for appendectomy.
The kidney is far from that location

Something isnt right in this story

Just gimme my kidney

That's why she's still not married at her old age. Nonsense.

IamShiningStar:
nne I wonder oo! how some people think ehnn, especially my naija peeps dey baffle me oo! So you must be compensated for doing good or helping out a friend in dire need? oooh! odikwa egwu oo!

note/ they are best friends for Pete's sake! the guy helped her knowing fully she may turn down his proposal or may not. And you heard the man said he can never regret giving her life, marriage or no marriage! And some folks are here talking what I don't know!

Naija folks really have a long way to go in learning how to love for real without expecting anything in return!

All these self centered ladies.


Here's my prayer for you and kimbraa

May you both sacrifice something of great value to someone and may that person reject your show of love.



If you can stomach that, then you ain't hypocritical

Picture that a lady defied her father's instructions to not marry a guy. She got disowned by her father. She lost every affiliation with her family and friends for the guy. Yet, after eloping with the guy.. She suddenly discovers that the guy is married and has said he could not marry her for whatever reasons

Would you have said all this nonsense you people have been saying on this thread?

Apparently not, you would have cursed the guy and called the babe foolish.

Now this scenario depicts a girl who can easily go back to her family and plead for forgiveness. The topic of this thread is a fvucking kidney.


There's so much hate in my heart right now for you ladies who have decided not to be humane.


I wish I could inject your eyes with hot sulphuric acid.

Chikita66:
If you like give her your life, if she is someone like me that don't want you and will never change her mind about wanting you, she still will reject you. Sorry bro, next time don't gamble with such things. Calculate your risks well.

But not like the issue of this. A person who can save a life is worth more than million things better marriage. Even apart from that, she should feel aorta of true love in him.

pocohantas:
The girl did what I would do.
I owe no one marriage for a kidney.

That seems like subtly blackmailing me to accept the proposal.
I won't marry him for that.
I will appreciate the gesture...most definitely.

Here's my prayer for you

May you sacrifice something of great value to someone and may that person reject your show of love


Be a true woman of integrity and say Amen to that. Whatever you can do to others, you should be able to accept too.

HajimeSaito:


I am a Christian. And if you bothered to get your facts straight, you would understand that unconditional love means love without expectations of reward. That is what makes it "unconditional!"
If you saw a building on fire, and there was a beautiful girl trapped in the building, would you rescue her only on the condition that she marries you? Would that be a fair condition? Shouldn't you just be happy that you saved another human beings life?

Explain why people who dont accept Jesus marriage proposal or sacrificial love will perish in hell

I mean he died of his own accord no one asked him to. It isn't obligatory on the people to accept his proposal abi?