Love is a two way thing, I love her so much that I find myself doubling my hustle 10x just to make her happy.... As my queen I shower her with love in form of words, gift and financial provision. But in her case it's when she feels like it.
I feel maybe it's cuz she isn't the emotional type, maybe that's why I do not feel like her king...

She is a good person but I need that psychological boost when I run out and it seems she's not having that natural effect cuz I feed off positive energy and vibes. I thought it was something I could manage in a life time of marriage

Please note I am not seeing anyone outside my relationship, so no second woman is causing this. It's a worry and I wanna know genuine one before I let go

So what is your inquiry?

My inquiry is if what am thinking and feeling is real or have a solid reason, because I feel like going into a life time relationship with her might not make me truly happy.

If you feel you wont be happy with her on a lifetime relationship, then discharge from the relationship now and advance to other prospects.

However, sometimes feelings are temporary, so wait a little, the stronger the feeling, that may say it all.

Thanks Mr green that is a good advice... I will have to cross examine myself continuously.

If you're trying to dodge your Valentine responsibilities, why not be a gentleman about it?

Join a host of us for the Ash Wednesday service, my man.

CaptainJeffry:
If you're trying to dodge your Valentine responsibilities, why not be a gentleman about it?

Join a host of us for the Ash Wednesday service, my man.

ditch her and save your self from further heartbreak

CaptainJeffry:
If you're trying to dodge your Valentine responsibilities, why not be a gentleman about it?

Join a host of us for the Ash Wednesday service, my man.

dude if you know you've lost interest in her..
i suggest you leave her

Well I faced same situation with my Lady. had to sit her down and express how I felt bout the situation.
she really improved after it all tho it took a while but was a gradual process. just be patient, and don't seem to be too emotional by seeking too much attention and finally don't give her the key to control the relationship else she'll be the king while u serve. Gracias

CaptainJeffry:
If you're trying to dodge your Valentine responsibilities, why not be a gentleman about it?

Join a host of us for the Ash Wednesday service, my man.

Haha nah bro am not, Valentine will never ever be a challenge. We plan getting married by April... So many things that cost way way above Valentine gift have been paid for and purchased.

akkard:
Well I faced same situation with my Lady. had to sit her down and express how I felt bout the situation.
she really improved after it all tho it took a while but was a gradual process. just be patient, and don't seem to be too emotional by seeking too much attention and finally don't give her the key to control the relationship else she'll be the king while u serve. Gracias

Hmm very good advice, I feel maybe also it's because I have matured over the years.
cuz as a teenager up to when I was 25 I usually didn't use to give a bleep about the feelings of ladies I dated but all of a sudden I find my self caring, driven and not self centered.
So the effect she's gat on me is very different from all I have known all my life.

I suggest u talk to her about it, communication is very vital in any kind of relatnship, come to think of it, do u spend quality time with her? I mean just the two of you together.

Grayjoy:
I suggest u talk to her about it, communication is very vital in any kind of relatnship, come to think of it, do u spend quality time with her? I mean just the two of you together.

Yes I do spend quality time with her, but of recent I haven't because we had some misunderstanding which kinda brought out my old egotistic self haha.. But it's kinda cool off cuz I still see her as my wife to be

tradepunter:


Yes I do spend quality time with her, but of recent I haven't because we had some misunderstanding which kinda brought out my old egotistic self haha.. But it's kinda cool off cuz I still see her as my wife to be

ok o, wish u all d best bro.

Thanks men... By the way I wanted to know something does one job have influence on character? I have worked in the financial markets for 12 years and engage risk everyday in my work life, does that mean I love risk? And does it subconsciously filter into my personal life?