ubunja:
marriage=financial support
financially independent women=less interested in marriage

And what about women who marry financially incapacitated men and continue labouring to feed the man and raise kids?

JoyceMeyersFan:
Hope they know they are the ones who will
`become pregnant and old
`have a lot of emotions with no one to share with because men aren't interested in emotional talks
`not make any major decision, career-business-personal, without first considering the home and kids, while the man is carefree, focusing on his dreams and pursuing it with all he has got.
`take care of the home and kids with no one appreciating and the man expecting to be appreciated because it appears he is the one slaving for the family.
`ask for money you won't spend on yourself but on the home, while you have lots of needs that you can't mention
`get blamed when the man cheats, when he doesn't have money to give his relations
`get blamed when there are no kids, when the kids are misbehaving or not well kept
`YOU CAN ADD YOURS

Whats your point please? Don't be so Negative please. Women no longer sit at home waiting for a man to solely provide ok

ubunja:

lol bobo, there is formula with human sexuality that once you get it its like a key that opens all mysteries and makes everything clear as day.

make I just sabi like you this game.

JoyceMeyersFan:
And of what use is Sharing a man's name?

no insult intended but ask your mum she'd tell you

lefulefu:
lol i don't know why ladies easily get influenced by their friends

this is one thing i detest about some ladies if their friends says no then your chances are very slow as if their friends hold their destiny,they're not just independence in chosing what they want

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Whats your point please? Don't be so Negative please. Women no longer sit at home waiting for a man to solely provide ok

Guess that was the only part u saw. I am still trying to see where I wrote that sef

bobokeshington:


no insult intended but ask your mum she'd tell you

Ask her what exactly? Nigerians and their system of making simple things appear complex. Why make a point u can't explain.

the world is changing now and most of the things you said women get blamed for are now being turn to us men....wen you don't get pregnant, you think its only the woman that suffers, hmmm..the man dey wahala self o.they will say u r sterile or impotent or not man enough...we tend to suffer emotionally also but the man in us will not allow us show it....I was more existed than my wife on getting married n on our wedding day.....I was even the most excited wen she put to bed...n.a. me dance pass cos it was after 4 years of marriage..so my dear, men are also existed..for me, I was more excited than my wife from the engagement to child birth....

JoyceMeyersFan:

Ask her what exactly? Nigerians and their system of making simple things appear complex. Why make a point u can't explain.

Look sharing a man's name is a pride to a woman

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Whats your point please? Don't be so Negative please. Women no longer sit at home waiting for a man to solely provide ok

Anyway if you read the topic, you will see the essence of the post was to bring out the negative. It's left for you to comment the positive or go make your own post to portray only the positive.

sirBLUNT:
this is one thing i detest about some ladies if their friends says no then your chances are very slow as if their friends hold their destiny,they're not just independence in chosing what they want

and its not that most of these their friends have their interest at heart. Some of these their friends give them bad advice with the hope that their relationship eventually collapse.

JoyceMeyersFan:

And what about women who marry financially incapacitated men and continue labouring to feed the man and raise kids?

yes that happens. but its in the minority. as humans we generalize in favour of where the majority is. a person can get shot by a gun and survive, yet we always say "guns kill". and a person can live 30yrs with Aids but we still say "Aids kills". we go with what happens with the majority. the small minority is an exception, a miracle, we cant count on. even a president cant have 100% all votes but is still declared loved by all people. so the few women who support their men are indeed wonderful beings, but they are such a tiny minority they cant be used to describe women generally

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Wealth is now a measure of success, end?? those folks who can't raise a family are failures too.. success is multifaceted.

lefulefu:
and its not that most of these their friends have their interest at heart. Some of these their friends give them bad advice with the hope that their relationship eventually collapse.

exactly! some of the advice are even born out of jelousy from such friend and they won't even know cos i see no reason why you should allow someone to tell you who to date...thats why if a girl ask me for an advice a guy i love to keep neutral by looking at it from 3 different dimension because in life we seek for advice not because we don't know what to do but because we don't want to do the right thing...

sirBLUNT:
exactly! some of the advice are even born out of jelousy from such friend and they won't even know cos i see no reason why you should allow someone to tell you who to date...thats why if a girl ask me for an advice a guy i love to keep neutral by looking at it from 3 different dimension because in life we seek for advice not because we don't know what to do but because we don't want to do the right thing...

some ladies just need to wise and be wary of the type of friends they keep. It will be these same friends after badmouthing the guy and discouraging the lady not to date him will also do a U turn and meet d guy and be badmouthing the lady dating the guy so they can have the guy for themselves. I swear ehn some of the friends some ladies keep is the reason why their lives tend to be messed up.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Whats your point please? Don't be so Negative please. Women no longer sit at home waiting for a man to solely provide ok

Yes true. Including runs girls too who are desperate to marry a rich man while they fucck around. Fuccking around isn't sitting at home too you know.

RadicallyBlunt:

Yes true. Including runs girls too who are desperate to marry a rich man while they fucck around. Fuccking around isn't sitting at home too you know.

Get your head out of the gutter please. I was referring to working class wives. Why marry a rich man and still fucck around huh?

sirBLUNT:
this is one thing i detest about some ladies if their friends says no then your chances are very slow as if their friends hold their destiny,they're not just independence in chosing what they want

My brother whether before or inside marriage, I'm yet to see a girl who don't depend on friends for advice. D problem is d friends they run too in hard times; themselves have fish brain. Those friends don't give them a focused advice, instead they give dem advice borne out of vengeance and reacting from a short foresight.(most girls don't think far ahead) and the outcome is usually serious gbege!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Get your head out of the gutter please. I was referring to working class wives. Why marry a rich man and still fucck around huh?

I'm not exactly familiar with the term runs girls but Nigerians tend to throw it around a lot, my experience staying here has had a lot of unanswered questions.

Good job dear keep up the work

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NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Get your head out of the gutter please. I was referring to working class wives. Why marry a rich man and still fucck around huh?

Na ur head dey for kpotokpoto. You na working class? If u see a man to offer u huge money for what's btwn ur legs won't you oblige?

As if we don't know ur type. Kpetekpete human being.

Ivorianaija:


I'm not exactly familiar with the term runs girls but Nigerians tend to throw it around a lot, my experience staying here has had a lot of unanswered questions.

Means girls who sleep with men for money but not so apparent like the street hookers.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Means girls who sleep with men for money but not so apparent like the street hookers.

We have some of those in Ivory Coast but I don't think its as serious as it is in nigeria

RadicallyBlunt:

Na ur head dey for kpotokpoto. You na working class? If u see a man to offer u huge money for what's btwn ur legs won't you oblige?

As if we don't know ur type. Kpetekpete human being.

See me see wahalla ooo.. I actually have a job as a graduate. Are u even a graduate? Garage tout. I also know your type, you'll give access to your ass for a fix.... Bloody junky.

Ivorianaija:


I'm not exactly familiar with the term runs girls but Nigerians tend to throw it around a lot, my experience staying here has had a lot of unanswered questions.

Here in Nigeria, while d men look for jobs. D women look for men. They believe in getting money from men than working for it and so would do anything to get the money including sleeping around yet would not like to addressed as such. Dats what runs girl means

Ivorianaija:

We have some of those in Ivory Coast but I don't think its as serious as it is in nigeria

Good

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
See me see wahalla ooo.. I actually have a job as a graduate. Are u even a graduate? Garage tout. I also know your type, you'll give access to your ass for a fix.... Bloody junky.

Your level of foolishness is excellent!

RadicallyBlunt:

Your level of foolishness is excellent!

Yours is fantastic.

RadicallyBlunt:

Your level of foolishness is excellent!

I have come to notice that most to all Nigerians have a natural talent for insulting people.

lefulefu:
lol i don't know why ladies easily get influenced by their friends

Until they lose out on many good things and that guy that really loves them before they realize they have been played.

Ivorianaija:

I have come to notice that most to all Nigerians have a natural talent for insulting people.

Yeah on Nairaland, blunt truth doesn't go down well with many and so breeds insults

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Yours is fantastic.

Suddenly I found someone my dog is wiser than. It calls for celebration.