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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Tohzara(m): 8:19am On Feb 18, 2018
KingGBsky:


[s]LGBTQIA horde... You simply can imagine.
Its so sad that tour lives are being run by the what you see on TV about the Americans and Europeans.
So all this to make love to a fellow man.
Infact this is nothing but sexual madness more than what even animals will indulge in.
The write up you are quoting was written by someone like you trying to justify the reason for a man to have sex with another man.
Nonsense.[/s]
You're still a billion light years away from enlightenment, mate. It's better you get your ass into the right ship now, so you can get there in time. It would be a shame to die ignorant and benighted.

Fools who're not as foolish as you would have the justification to spit on your grave.

Go learn something that'll do you some good.

Mark Twain once said, "The person who doesn't read good books has no advantage over the person who can't read them," and there's a lot of truth in that.
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by KingGBsky(m): 8:22am On Feb 18, 2018
Tohzara:
You're still a billion light years from enlightenment, mate. It's better you get your ass into the right ship now, so you can get there in time. It would be a shao
e to die ignorant and benighted.

Fools who're not as foolish as you would have the justification to spit on your grave.

Go learn something that'll do you some good.

Mark Twain once said, "The person who doesn't read good books has no advantage over the person who can't read them," and there's a lot of truth in that.

shocked so for all the books in the world the ones you read is the one that would make you have sex with your fellow man.
Today is sunday I pray God gives you sense.

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 8:26am On Feb 18, 2018
KennedicalEnergy:

It is better to be a cultist and an armed robber than to be a gay.
And you think what you typed there makes any sense at all?

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Tohzara(m): 8:26am On Feb 18, 2018
KingGBsky:


[s] shocked so for all the books in the world the ones you read is the one that would make you have sex with your fellow man.
Today is sunday I pray God gives you sense.[/s]
This is why I tend to avoid any conversation with retãrds. Damn the clowns who claimed all men are created equal. Some are not even fit to be my footstool.

I'm deeply convinced even a lobotomy can't save you from your horrid fate. You've been mentally punctured beyond redemption.

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by schumastic(m): 8:30am On Feb 18, 2018
Annibel:


I'm not joking too... DM biko

Good morning, aii add 96 at the back n send a msg. Would be waiting.
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 8:32am On Feb 18, 2018
Tohzara:
Shankieboy, I understand your predicament, and deeply sympathise with you.

First of all, I'm glad you're still alive and took it upon yourself to come out to seek for help----it would have been quite sad and extremely tragic had you given in to your suicidal thoughts. I'm happy for you.

I want you to realize that coming out as a homosexual in Nigeria, at times, depending on the orientation of the kind of people in your locality (who're very likely to be bestial and benighted), can be likened to a cow walking into an abbattoir, or a person identifying as a Jew in Nazi Germany.

However, that is an EXTERNAL problem, and there can always be a way to get around it. The aspect that give me much concern on the matter is the INTERNAL toxin----your feeling of GUILT!

It should be understood---perfectly understood---that you've never received any direct, or personal revelation from this God who allegedly declared your sexual orientation forbidden and shameful. Everything you know about him is what some people told you-----SECOND HAND INFORMATION. So, you should remain open to the possibility that it's all lies.

You should have noticed by now, that the rules in his book do not meet the needs and requirements of an ever-changing, evolving human race, but have remained stagnant and static, reflecting the moral ideas and beliefs of the people of the era in which they were written or composed. All they needed to do was lay claim to divine authority in order to impose them on others. But ask yourself these: is God hurt or harmed by the fact that you're homosexual? Does it take anything from him? Would any sane God create you with such urges, and despite the fact that HE DOESN'T NEED ANYTHING TO BE WHOLE, FULFILLED & COMPLETE, promise you eternal perdition if you tried to live according to the nature HE GAVE YOU?

You know the answer, bro. So, try and get that religious guilt out of the way. Stop seeing yourself as a pathetic sinner with bestial, iniquitous, damnable, and shameful impulses. You're a human being, and your feelings are natural and legitimate! ONLY CONTROL-FREAKS would say otherwise.

I want you to note these facts, and maybe choose to live by them. They might be very helpful:

1) In this world, others CAN TELL YOU WHAT TO DO, you cannot do whatever you want, or live however you want. Why? Because it would constitute anarchy if such were to be allowed. There will always be rules and restrictions, codes of morality and comportment----the normal and the abnormal.

2) You own your life, indeed. You define yourself, absolutely. You decide what you do, and what to do with you. As long as your actions or lifestyle do not hurt, harm or have any negative effect on anyone in PARTICULAR or society in GENERAL, either DIRECTLY or INDIRECTLY, nobody has the right to tell you what to do, what to be, and how to live.

If you had committed suicide, it would have been an insult to yourself, a self-damning sentence, condemning yourself for being you----it would have been a SIN---a REAL SIN---killing yourself for a sin you didn't commit. What could be more awful and despicable?

You're a homosexual, and have committed no crime. Do not allow anyone to make you hate yourself. If they judge you----you shouldn't join them in passing the damning judgement on yourself. Whether they accept you or not, you should accept yourself. If they think they can make you feel bad, tell them you can make yourself feel good. Your feelings or mental health should never depend on people's whims and caprices. Their attitude shouldn't determine your fate. You should put it IN YOUR OWN HANDS.

And you shouldn't be depressed anymore. You owe no one happiness but yourself. And no one deserves to be happy at your expense. You're doing great injustice to yourself by feeling guilty for doing nothing wrong. You're costing yourself SO MUCH. You need to snap out of it, mate. No one can tell you what to be, if what you are is neither a threat to you, nor a threat to society. Be a blessing to yourself if others refuse to bless you regardless of your sexuality.

Never allow your homosexuality to generate suicidal thoughts or lead you into depression ever again.


Oh My! This is the best intellectual piece I have ever read on NL. I doff my hat for you! You're one in a kind. Objectivity and open mindedness should guide our thoughts, rather than sentiments. Good one.

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Tohzara(m): 8:45am On Feb 18, 2018
BandAid:



Oh My! This is the best intellectual piece I have ever read on NL. I doff my hat for you! You're one in a kind. Objectivity and open mindedness should guide our thoughts, rather than sentiments. Good one.
Thank you, boss! smiley

Your signature is Golden.
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by KingGBsky(m): 8:48am On Feb 18, 2018
BandAid:



Oh My! This is the best intellectual piece I have ever read on NL. I doff my hat for you! You're one in a kind. Objectivity and open mindedness should guide ouro
thoughts, rather than sentiments. Good one.

OMG I'm I day dreaming or what?
Nigerians support gay more than I ever expected.
Wow shocked
What else will one expect from our so called leaders of tomorrow.
Like seriously seriously.
This is so so crazy!
We follow the footsteps of Europeans and Americans so keenly with what we see on TV.
There great things this people have achieved also whatever is stopping you people from learning from that and try to better your lives and the society instead of grooming sexual irrelevance.

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Tohzara(m): 8:56am On Feb 18, 2018
KingGBsky:


OMG I'm I day dreaming or what?
Nigerians support gay more than I ever expected.
Wow shocked
What else will one expect from our so called leaders of tomorrow.
Like seriously seriously.
This is so so crazy!
We follow the footsteps of Europeans and Americans so keenly with what we see on TV.
There great things this people have achieved also whatever is stopping you people from learning from that and try to better your lives and the society instead of grooming sexual irrelevance.
FACEPALM.

How does anyone's sexuality affect the progress of the nation? Are you this antagonistic towards ideals and values vitiating our energies in the course of transforming society? Practices that put brakes on our advancement or cause the stagnation of our nation's rivers and streams?

I saw one fool in a comment above stating it to be better being an armed robber or cultist than to be gay.

That's the average Nigerian youth for you. Retãrded piece of shiit with extremely misplaced priorities.

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 8:57am On Feb 18, 2018
KingGBsky:


OMG I'm I day dreaming or what?
Nigerians support gay more than I ever expected.
Wow shocked
What else will one expect from our so called leaders of tomorrow.
Like seriously seriously.
This is so so crazy!

1. I reserve the right to air my views just as you. I have no right to pull you down because my views and yours are at divergence.

2. I think it is high time we Nigerians start criticising and dissecting issues devoid of our narrow and parochial religious beliefs and sentiments. By that, we will go far in life.

3. Talking about 2. above, please enlighten me further on why someone's sexual orientation should be of pain and serious concern to you and anyone else. How does it hurt or injure you or anyone for that matter? Be dispassionate as possible in your response. I wouldn't want you to lace your response with religion sentiments because different religions are adopted by individuals. Therefore, they cannot form the basis for collective reasonings and judgment.

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 9:12am On Feb 18, 2018
escodotman:
All those your examples have been well explained by science! Anatomy and Genetics have given the reasons why those phenomenon exist but I'm yet to see where any for homosexuality.
Very good! Now let's imagine there was a time green eyed people were considered evil, demonic, blah blah blah. But now that science has found an explanation for it, they're accepted, and its now considered normal.

So would you say that because we haven't advanced to the point where we can give a definitive explanation for homosexuality, that its wrong and abnormal? Even when its been observed to occur in more than 1500 other animal species? Apart from religious prejudice, what rational reason do you have for hating gay people? If your bible still insisted that green eyed people were demons, would you hate them too? If you had a kid with a European and he/she was green eyed, would you kill them?

'I don't understand it yet' doesn't mean 'its wrong'. History has proven that hundreds of times.

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by fearlesschicken: 9:13am On Feb 18, 2018
so many ignorant and bigoted people in one post, if you have nothing important to say why not shut your trap?

if you don't like gays, what in the fvck are you doing on this thread. Someone is considering suicide here and you had to bring your bigoted self to come and start arguing about what is good and not?

@op please I have sent you a pm. please respond.

@nspodcast1 check this out

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Iqguy: 9:15am On Feb 18, 2018
AnonyNymous:

Trust you? Who are you? Lol. There are already gay people serving in the US army. (Since 2010, and they even consider that 'late'). Trannies too (since 2016). You shouldn't misinform people in an attempt to drive your point.

Apparently that's what you get for arguing with ignorants, they don't read.
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 9:21am On Feb 18, 2018
biggy26:

Will u give him your brother?
Did she mention at any point that her brother is gay?
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Iqguy: 9:26am On Feb 18, 2018
KingGBsky:


LGBTQIA horde... You simply can imagine.
Its so sad that tour lives are being run by the what you see on TV about the Americans and Europeans.
So all this to make love to a fellow man.
Infact this is nothing but sexual madness more than what even animals will indulge in.
The write up you are quoting was written by someone like you trying to justify the reason for a man to have sex with another man.
Nonsense.

Actually it was written by me, after I decided to read. I had tortured myself for 2 years trying to be straight and Christian until I decided to do a lot of reading. the more you become enlightened the more you decide to think for yourself and apply reason rather than act based on emotions, religious sentiments and all, that is exactly why Nigeria is not progressing; such thought patterns have been shown millions of times over NEVER TO CREATE PROGRESS. And like said before because all your hypocritical minds can see is sex, you believe this is all about wanting to have sex with someone or a butthole.
You apparently do not know what homosexuality is maybe you should ask a gay person. Do you realise that heterosexuals take part in anal sex probably even more than gay people. Do you know there are gay people who have never had sex and some who have stopped having sex? but again I don't think you read at all so all these might be new to you.

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Iqguy: 9:34am On Feb 18, 2018
escodotman:
What do you mean how long did it take scientists to explain genetic anomalies?? I don't understand you at all because homosexuality had been in existence even before Jesus came to this world, during the time of Sodom and Gomorah, that was many thousands of years ago!! It would never take science that long to explain it if it has any Genetic or Anatomical inference. It means it is not and never will be a product of nature!
Do you read at all, do you even know how genetic studies are done. Do you know if those principles have been applied to the study of homosexuality. What if I tell you they have and that they prove that homosexuality is as genetic in basis as hypertension and Diabetes Mellitus or some other chronic illness.
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Iqguy: 9:37am On Feb 18, 2018
nothernstar:
pls can give him your husband, brother or boyfriend to do it with.
Again hypocritical Nigerians who are obsessed with sex and think everyone is like them, that everything is about sex. Why will she give her husband, brother or boyfriend when they are not gay, Do you think at all? honest question.

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by TributeLifeStyl: 9:39am On Feb 18, 2018
Bros stare at a hot chick for hours , you will be healed
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Iqguy: 9:44am On Feb 18, 2018
LZAA:

lol of course he won't publicly
Americans dont joke with their defense
trust me when i tell ya u will never see a tranny combatant
And to think that there are thousands of Men to Women and Women to men who have served and currently serve in the US Armed Forces, all you just had to do was google. Last year, alot of them were even on the news channel speaking in courts as to why public funds (tax payers money) as part of their entitlement should cover for their gender reassignment surgery bills. And they won.
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by KingGBsky(m): 9:47am On Feb 18, 2018
Iqguy:


Actually it was written by me, after I decided to read. I had tortured myself for 2 years trying to be straight and Christian until I decided to do a lot of reading. the more you become enlightened the more you decide to think for yourself and apply reason rather than act based on emotions, religious sentiments and all, that is exactly why Nigeria is not progressing; such thought patterns have been shown millions of times over NEVER TO CREATE PROGRESS. And like said before because all your hypocritical minds can see is sex, you believe this is all about wanting to have sex with someone or a butthole.
You apparently do not know what homosexuality is maybe you should ask a gay person. Do you realise that heterosexuals take part in anal sex probably even more than gay people. Do you know there are gay people who have never had sex and some who have stopped having sex? but again I don't think you read at all so all these might be new to you.

Bro everything you have written here are all wrong mentally.
Homosexuality heterosexuality is all mental degradation to satisfy lost.
It doesn't mean it is right.
Please listen to me.
I don't know why I'm still continuing this conversation but my message is the act of it all.
I love men I respect men so when I hear alot about this sexual behavior I don't seem to think much more about the females because I see thiers as an act or foley but when it comes to men especially young men it hurts me.
Your orientation is wrong my dear. It does not account to anything natural to be involved sexually with your fellow man.
This thing had been going on for generations now and the cause is lust. People go deep in lost and try to do things that are out of the natural and study have it that if you continue a habbit for more than 28days it will stick with you.
Now coming to this generation people and nations are embracing this lifestyle simply because people are not deterring from it. Its an habbit generated from lost and you would agree with me that every habit can be detached from.
Do not say anyone was born into homosexuality.
The taught if sexual pleading in both male and female is what generated to this idea of having fun with a fellow of same sex in the first place.
Get your priority right abandon sexual pleading, live life enjoy it, work hard, be happy and make others happy when its tine to get married get married and disassociate yourself from this man to man idea please.

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Iqguy: 9:48am On Feb 18, 2018
TributeLifeStyl:
Bros stare at a hot chick for hours , you will be healed
How old do you think this guy is, probably know his early twenties. Do you honestly think he has never seen a hot chick in his life. Depends on where he lives, he probably has seen hotter chicks than you, His brain is not just interested, his mind was made different from yours. We just have to accept all our differences.
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Gourdoinc(m): 9:51am On Feb 18, 2018
this one Na Mumu topic, where ignoramuses argue with big big grammar all in the quest to sound "enlightened ".
Mr OP, if drilling a man's anus is what gives you pleasure, very well do so with another consenting partner. just keep such rubbish away from the public space. if you feel you shouldn't be doing such, that alone is your moral compass. try to seek practical solutions for a change. you can do it, whether being gay is bad or good is dependent on how you feel internally and individually about it. if you like it, do it, if you don't like it, don't do it. but whichever preference you have or choice you wanna make. please keep ya fuuccking sex life to yourself. spare us the non sense

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Iqguy: 9:51am On Feb 18, 2018
KingGBsky:


Bro everything you have written here are all wrong mentally.
Homosexuality heterosexuality is all mental degradation to satisfy lost.
It doesn't mean it is right.
Please listen to me.
I don't know why I'm still continuing this conversation but my message is the act of it all.
I love men I respect men so when I hear alot about this sexual behavior I don't seem to think much more about the females because I see thiers as an act or foley but when it comes to men especially young men it hurts me.
Your orientation is wrong my dear. It does not account to anything natural to be involved sexually with your fellow man.
This thing had been going on for generations now and the cause is lust. People go deep in lost and try to do things that are out of the natural and study have it that if you continue a habbit for more than 28days it will stick with you.
Now coming to this generation people and nations are embracing this lifestyle simply because people are not deterring from it. Its an habbit generated from lost and you would agree with me that every habit can be detached from.
Do not say anyone was born into homosexuality.
The taught if sexual pleading in both male and female is what generated to this idea of having fun with a fellow of same sex in the first place.
Get your priority right abandon sexual pleading, live life enjoy it, work hard, be happy and make others happy when its tine to get married get married and disassociate yourself from this man to man idea please.

How long did you have to practice for heterosexuality to be your lifestyle?

Do you even know what lust is. Do you know there are gay couples who've been with just each other for 40 years, even when laws of their country were against them.
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 9:52am On Feb 18, 2018
Just read through all the pages. Glad there are lots of rational minded people. All hope isn't lost.

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by nothernstar: 9:53am On Feb 18, 2018
Iqguy:

Again hypocritical Nigerians who are obsessed with sex and think everyone is like them, that everything is about sex. Why will she give her husband, brother or boyfriend when they are not gay, Do you think at all? honest question.
I said so cos she was supporting gay. That's why I suggested for her to give her husband or boyfriend to be satisfying him. Since she can give him an advice that can help him.
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Iqguy: 9:56am On Feb 18, 2018
KingGBsky:


Bro everything you have written here are all wrong mentally.
Homosexuality heterosexuality is all mental degradation to satisfy lost.
It doesn't mean it is right.
Please listen to me.
I don't know why I'm still continuing this conversation but my message is the act of it all.
I love men I respect men so when I hear alot about this sexual behavior I don't seem to think much more about the females because I see thiers as an act or foley but when it comes to men especially young men it hurts me.
Your orientation is wrong my dear. It does not account to anything natural to be involved sexually with your fellow man.
This thing had been going on for generations now and the cause is lust. People go deep in lost and try to do things that are out of the natural and study have it that if you continue a habbit for more than 28days it will stick with you.
Now coming to this generation people and nations are embracing this lifestyle simply because people are not deterring from it. Its an habbit generated from lost and you would agree with me that every habit can be detached from.
Do not say anyone was born into homosexuality.
The taught if sexual pleading in both male and female is what generated to this idea of having fun with a fellow of same sex in the first place.
Get your priority right abandon sexual pleading, live life enjoy it, work hard, be happy and make others happy when its tine to get married get married and disassociate yourself from this man to man idea please.

It is not a habit, I cannot agree with you and it's simply because even when o was in primary 3, I liked a boy in my class, it wasn't anything sexual, it wasn't any learned habit, I was probably 6 or 7 years then, I probably had never seen a phone or watched any TV portrayal of anything gay, I was still in primary school in a relatively rural area of orhuwhorun in the year 2000.
And stop making it sound like women are less than men because it is a lie.

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by KingGBsky(m): 9:57am On Feb 18, 2018
AnonyNymous:
Just read through all the pages. Glad there are lots of rational minded people. All hope isn't lost.

All hope isn't lost to be gay.
Man loving Man.
You people are a disgrace to God's creature.
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Iqguy: 10:02am On Feb 18, 2018
nothernstar:
I said so cos she was supporting gay. That's why I suggested for her to give her husband or boyfriend to be satisfying him. Since she can give him an advice that can help him.

So she doesn't have a right to support her ideologies? and the reasonable way to argue in favour of your ideology is to make an obviously unreasonable statement?
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by KingGBsky(m): 10:05am On Feb 18, 2018
Iqguy:


It is not a habit, I cannot agree with you and it's simply because even when o was in primary 3, I liked a boy in my class, it wasn't anything sexual, it wasn't any learned habit, I was probably 6 or 7 years then, I probably had never seen a phone or watched any TV portrayal of anything gay, I was still in primary school in a relatively rural area of orhuwhorun in the year 2000.
And stop making it sound like women are less than men because it is a lie.


Its a Curse from God and Curse goes from generation to generation ROM 1:25-31
When I said it was a habit I wasn't referring to this generation I was referring to when it all started.
Years even dated BC.
So yes people of this generation can be born into it all resulted from lust of the past.
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by donstan18: 10:06am On Feb 18, 2018
Mariinee:
Lmao, thank you dear. I am 20 now .

No wonder

Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 10:10am On Feb 18, 2018
donstan18:


No wonder
No wonder what? Lol.
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Iqguy: 10:12am On Feb 18, 2018
KingGBsky:



Its a Curse from God and Curse goes from generation to generation ROM 1:25-31
When I said it was a habit I wasn't referring to this generation I was referring to when it all started.
Years even dated BC.
So yes people of this generation can be born into it all resulted from lust of the past.

Did you even think this through. What scientific facts do you have to spew what you just did. Scratch that, where in religious text did they write that people become gay because of the lust of ancient people. Ha I'm ashamed of such reasoning from a 1st century youth, no wonder someone will confidently tell you snake swallowed 36 million Naira, they've seen you as experts in believing delusions.

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