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snowden9:
Who says dating or having sexual affairs with an under 18 girl is a crime in Nigeria? Please show me evidence in the Nigerian constitution. if it is, why are our senators and step brothers from the north getting married to them with ease, even with support (certificate) from a law court. Abeg jor op fire down. nothing do you.
catch them young and they won't depart from you.
nobody should come and attack me now o. I'm not doing it but I wouldn't stop the op either with false info

FluidQueen:
oh, you're one of the good, smart guys! Nice to meet you.

It's just sarcasm tho. Reverse psychology.
I simply just Concur to every derogatory utterance being thrown at me. That way the opposing team simply loses armor and eventually, I win.

king08:
HI everyone , Please I need an advice from you all, I am a university graduate and I also own a registered company, Am currently 22 years old.
I saw a lady yesterday when I took a cab, the Lady is extremely beautiful, when I first saw her my body started doing me somehow, She was a secondary school girl but very matured, I haven't met someone beautiful like that before in my life, I really like this girl cos of her beauty, as a sharp guy I talked with her a while and she gave me her contact details.
The question is can I be in a relationship with a secondary school girl?? Is nothing wrong with that??

Please advise me

lalasticlacla
mynd44

Tollzara:
Thank you. Same here.

Lol. I get it. Until there are no more cheap shots to fire or diversion tactics to employ, then they'll have to deal with the real issue.

FluidQueen:
lol. Exactly. Took the words right outta my mouth.

FluidQueen:
legally, it does.


But since we're in Nigeria, you could hook up 12 year olds if you may.
Have a nice day.

FluidQueen:
legally, it does.


But since we're in Nigeria, you could hook up 12 year olds if you may.
Have a nice day.

Tollzara:
I've noticed their tendency to 'confuse' feminism with misandry is usually a deliberate tactic on their part. It's a way of making you stuck in the stage of trying to make unnecessary clarifications that are bound to make any further discussion impossible----as per my experience.

Allowing them to have a field day throwing around convenient tags does help in bypassing that stage and exposing their stupidity. But, it doesn't always help in educating them. At times, it thickens their cloud of delusion and pushes them further away from any form of redemption from the very disease of being hung up on dead trees of ideas that go as far back as the stone age. They remain locked in the limbo between 1495 and 1500.

It's however understandable----adults almost rarely abandon entrenched ideologies, especially ones that benefit them. So the only meaningful way to further the cause is the orientation of school children who're still forming their world view, ideas, and beliefs.

Wangsy:
I like the way you talk. VERY MATURE

pawshjai:
wait oooo...its onli number dah u collected nd u are alredy tlkin abt love nd dating.....pls lets liv dks guy he x not serious...besyds its obvious u after her body...which min u onli tinkn of sex sex sex...liv d gurrl biko.matured or not matured...dahs how u guys wif rides ll jes automaticali biliv evry gurl will wnt to date u....next pls!!!!

FluidQueen:
I acquiescence with all you've said. Especially the last paragraph. The kids, they're the Building blocks of the future. Imbedding these ideologies in them would undoubtedly make Our posterity well abreast with Choice, feminism and just life itself.

The adults, however Unfortunate as it sounds, make the present. I'm afraid we'd still have to make them unlearn, understand, then learn again for it to really be cemented to their skulls. It worked for me, all hope isn't lost yet. Fingers crossed.

Litblogger:
No, it isn't.

Tollzara:
True. Not every one of them is beyond redemption yet. Although some have crossed the irrational rubicon already. But there's still hope.

FluidQueen:
in their case. They can't be saved. .
We'd just let them Wallow in their mental slavery.

king08:
I said I meet the girl you are still saying something else, She is beautiful, am not after sex, cos I did not mention sex.. I own a very big company here worth Millions , and am still very young, why the hell will I go online and be taking ladies number? It seems you are jealous abi,? .

pawshjai:
lol....jealous kwa....okoooo issorite i no talk again....u cme here for advice....i gave u one nd u are refusing it...u want us to tell u to go on...lol...das wah he wants to hear...brother carry go...

mind u...wah does hvin a big company worth million got to do wif all des...see dem proud bragging brothers

king08:
LOL, Oya sorry, it is you dat mentioned sex, like that was my intentions, your advice ain't clear, and more also am not bragging please... Oya advice me wella

pawshjai:
m not adviving again.....yeme ayone*in baby"s voice"....lev me alone...advice e af finish in my hand to type

Kobicove:
Child abuse

FluidQueen:
is she up to 18?

I don't care about her physical attributes.

henrygold100:
lukatew. Wen did they start pressing ur brezz. See her mouth like minor

king08:
HI everyone , Please I need an advice from you all, I am a university graduate and I also own a registered company, Am currently 22 years old.
I saw a lady yesterday when I took a cab, the Lady is extremely beautiful, when I first saw her my body started doing me somehow, She was a secondary school girl but very matured, I haven't met someone beautiful like that before in my life, I really like this girl cos of her beauty, as a sharp guy I talked with her a while and she gave me her contact details.
The question is can I be in a relationship with a secondary school girl?? Is nothing wrong with that??

Please advise me

lalasticlacla
mynd44

Xinzu:
I'm 65 and I'm dating a 21 year old

Eveezy:
Yall gals are just giving advice based on say him na University graduate, d truth about d matter is dt, under norms, na secondary school girls d op suppose date sef.

I personally finished my final exam at age 19, clocked 20 at home, while awaiting Nysc, I dated girls while in school, infact all were older Dan me, I never felt comfortable, I got so used to older girls dt I didn't ve d patience to convince a younger one ND I feel it's Nt right.

Now look at dis, I was a minor, ND older girls dated me, didn't dey commit a crime?
When a matured guy dates a younger girl, people girls scream like "guy u fall my hand" I can remember one 30 year old girl once who was throwing herself at me, I tried severally to tell her my age, but I don't know probably cos of what I ve achieved she felt I was lieing, dis Babe d only conversation she wanted to ve with me was family, marriage ND sex, I wasn't interested cos I want a younger girl, ND if she saw me talk to a gal of probably 22, d gal go come dey warn me say "Evi no fall my hand, no dey allow small pickin dey use u do yeye"