Lionessza:




I just hate this notion that women have to stay in bad relationships for the sake of their kids . What good are you to your kids If you are miserable, won't you frustrate them as well without even knowing about it. This is societal blackmail on women , "you leave your marriage then that means you don't care about your kids " , bullshyt cooked up by religious bigots .

Exactly! Double standards. Because some of them see nothing wrong when it's the man that leaves his family for whatever reason. They'll still find a way to blame that on the woman, like it was her fault. Everything is justifiable when the shoe is on the other foot.

urbanemind:
I tire for ladies sometimes, maybe Guys should stop caring and let's see how well they'd like it.

Lolz! Dont mind them. Although some babes comments sound so annoying to be honest but i guess they don't intend to do such in reality. Let them continue chuckling jives.

Psoul:


Nonsense. Look at ppl that really want to get married. See how women reason especially wen their money is involved. When it is about man's money, there reasoning change.
This is why someone said that men should not marry a woman that is up to 30yrs and has money.

Where is the nonsense in what I wrote ? . Like I said, this is between both partners, if the man wants to protect the assets he acquired before me , he has every right to do so. I'm not afraid to start working with him to build new ones , that belong to the union. Yes , weak men can't handle such women .

MhizAJ:
She tried

Ordinary 2 bedroom flat and he fainted
If to say na duplex nko

Funny enough this same man will still fvck different girls right in that flat that his hard-working girlfriend got for him

I don't think it's wise to invest in a man or do any thing good for/to them

*** To all those quoting me, I can't invest in a man especially a Nigerian man,they will not only disappoint you but leave you the moment they are financially stable....They are not worth it...Most of them have empty skull with nothing to offer equally**

If you are dumb,quote me

If this was the other way round, you won't talk about how she would bring in different guys there, Nigerian girls una matter tire me

Theoigios:


Really? Did you say she will regret it?

So you're judging a guy you don't know because you know a lot of stupid ones?..

i can't believe my eyes.

Believe them.

Slickest:

Only obsessed girls will do dat... u type lyk one though...

I am

Lionessza:




Divorce is a disaster on its own , but when necessary, one has to consider it .

And I agree

hmmm... this is super story........

Psoul:


Sorry, u have bn living under the illusion that marriage is useless apart from just bringing kids into this world.
Continue this way and see hw it may turn against u.
Well, u are not to be blamed for now. U are just passing through ur juvenile orgasm. When the orgasm comes and pass, sense of maturity will befall u and u will start seeing foolishness is ur yesterday's reasoning.
Though some ppl fail to get matured even when maturity keep beckoning on them. I pray this not to be ur case.

Ok, Obi-Wan Kenobi.

XhosaNostra:


I don't plan to be squatting in any man's house. I'm not the type.

Hahahahaah......Okwu onu (words of mouth)

I pray u make it my dear.

U remind me those days back in secondary school and university. U will beliv that immediately u comes out from school, u will become the President of the Country.
Or U will land urself a job that will fetch u 10million naira per month.
U will think that bn the best student in ur class will automatically make u a best human on earth.
We equate our confine classroom to the whole world...hahahahaahahah
When u comes out u will meet other best students like u and the competition will start. Then u will kw that classroom and open world are two different things.
Mommy enjoy ur fantasy for now. Soon the reality will stand face to face with you. Then try to apply this ur confided classroom fantasy method and let's see what result u will get. Umu Nwanyi sef

MissJoy29:
To the male folk above and below me who complain about Nigerian girls and their demanding, yet stingy ways, I recommend you change your taste. Where do you even meet these set of girls?
On second thought, MEN deal with ladies, while Boys deal with girls. Proper ladies dont become burdens in their relationship/marriage. So choose the category you belong to & quit whining.

To the female folk above and below me, please can you stop painting us all in bad light by being too petty, immature and hateful. It's not a big deal to be supportive of a man. So far as you are not being naive and foolish about it.

Kindness is kindness. Whether from a man to a woman or vice-versa. I wonder how marriages of the future will be like when we have ladies who don't believe in "there's love in sharing & giving". I wonder the kind of love that I love that will make me withold something I know my partner needs which I have. No matter what anyone of you says here, it's not genuine love if you don't give. Note that I didn't say, " if you don't ASK". I will explain later.

Seriously, we have so much hate in us. When will this vicious cycle end? The cycle of making the next man/woman pay for the sins of the last man/woman. That I believe is the root of all these issues. It's an endless process. Nobody wants to put an end to it yet we are all complaining.

PS: men, run away from leeches. Any lady that over demands from you(especially when they know you can't afford a lot of these things) doesn't love you.

Ladies, kindly get a life. Stop embarrassing yourselves.

Generally, be careful about people you render help to cos not every one deserves it.

I admire your pensive approach, ur kind is rare... those girls that demand are those ones their fathers cannot even cater for himself, so they feel their responsibility belongs to their boyfriend. And we have some guys who are already hating here, like its nothing, well the guys loyalty paid off, dare to be loyal and committed...

XhosaNostra:


Guys wear G-strings over there?

not common, even in Ghana, Ivory Coast, Benin republic, but I was only saying I bought them for ladies o

do you wear g strings or u don't wear any Cox I hear ladies saying they not gonna be wearing pants anymore

Psoul:


Hahahahaah......Okwu onu (words of mouth)

I pray u make it my dear.

U remind me those days back in secondary school and university. U will beliv that immediately u comes out from school, u will become the President of the Country.
Or U will land urself a job that will fetch u 10million naira per month.
U will to be the best student in ur class and think that will make u a best human on earth.
We equate our confine classroom to the whole world...hahahahaahahah
When u comes out u will meet other best students like u and the competition will start. Then u will kw that classroom and open world are two different things.
Mommy enjoy ur fantasy for now. Soon the reality will stand face to face with you. Then try to apply this ur confided classroom fantasy method and let's see what result u will get. Umu Nwanyi sef

When there's a will, there's a way.

skales67:


Can I ask you a question? If you get to meet a guy you love and he proposes marriage to you and opts for a prenup, would you have mixed feelings or just overlook it?

Be sincere

Firstly, I wouldn't just accept a marriage proposal from some guy I just met. We would have dated , giving us time to know more about each other and that includes each other's financial standing. If he has acquired significant assets without me then I would sign the prenup and we would start from scratch to acquire new assets for the marriage. I think its fair.

OkunrinMeta:


I think that's a perfect approach. We are what we are

Yes , sir we are.

Martin0:


not common, even in Ghana, Ivory Coast, Benin republic, but I was only saying I bought them for ladies o

do you wear g strings or u don't wear any Cox I hear ladies saying they not gonna be wearing pants anymore

Oh, ok.

Lol, I'm not going to answer that.

Well, the gift was not bad but to balance the eqation if i were the guy what she is trying to tell me is to work harder so as to suppresse her to with something more bigger. It will give me says incase she try using d house against me when there is little misunderstanding.

XhosaNostra:

Believe them.

What did your ex do to you?

XhosaNostra:


When there's a will, there's a way.

Gbagaam.

It takes more dan just a will to make that way a path.
Wisdom fall on u

Lionessza:


Lol, I don't like hungry guys . Sorry .

OK how about when I got some big black diamond

XhosaNostra:


I am

it ain cool... let trust nd love b d base...

Lionessza:




Lol, I'm sorry to sound rude but this a dumb decision on her part. How about he put a ring on it first and we can move in together to a new house ? .unless she is married and this is her " happy hour boy" . I don't get it. When you kick them out back to the sewer, they usually kill you . They have by now gotten used to sitting on a sofa and can't imagine sitting on top of a stone again lol..

And u think putting a ring on it guarantees he won't cheat on her in that same house?...who knows she might have gotten the money from servicing some sugar daddies sef.

XhosaNostra:

Oh, ok.
Lol, I'm not going to answer that.

why

Theoigios:


What did your ex do to you?

Not everything is about a man or a personal experience. I don't live in a bubble. I see what other people are going through & I take notes. Finish.

XhosaNostra:


Oh, ok.

Lol, I'm not going to answer that.

Which old lady wears g-strings anyway?

XhosaNostra:



Exactly! Double standards. Because some of them see nothing wrong when it's the man that leaves his family for whatever reason. They'll still find a way to blame that on the woman, like it was her fault. Everything is justifiable when the shoe is on the other foot.

Exactly! Men leave their families every damn day and no one blinks an eye . You would never hear these religious beings saying things like , " what a wicked man, he can't even put his children's happiness before his" . What you will hear is them quoting bible verses , " a man can only leave his home , only when driven away by a wicked wife " . .

Slickest:

it ain cool... let trust nd love b d base...

Trust should have been a city in Rome, because it takes time to build.

Empress2014:
Girlfriend abi sugarmama??

My thoughts exactly, no normal girlfriend in naija who works for her money genuinely will do this. It's either she's his sugar mummy or an extreme sugar daddy servicer olosho.

Opentokwowledge:
And I agree

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Lionessza:




Exactly! Men leave their families every damn day and no one blinks an eye . You would never hear these religious beings saying things like , " what a wicked man, he can't even put his children's happiness before his" . What you will hear is them quoting bible verses , " a man can only leave his home , only when driven away by a wicked wife " . .

LMFAO @ when driven away by a wicked wife.

XhosaNostra:


Trust should have been a city in Rome, because it takes time to build.

If u can mount cctvs for ur hubby then you feel you're better than he is..

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I would move a guy into my house lol. But if we get married then , we would have to get a prenup ( whatever you came with into the marriage , it's yours and upon divorce we won't touch there . But whatever we achieve during the union we should share) I think that's fair enough for both sides. [/quote

I hope our men are seeing this and learning...
I'm learning.