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Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by omoelerin1: 7:05pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
Emmyblaqie:Your Dad is playing with the time of his old age. 1 Like |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by Nobody: 7:09pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
If you can look back in retrospect and smile, then it is not as terrible as mine....I've absolutely nothing to smile about growing up with my dad. I hated him and I still do....My theory is this: If your dad was born in the late 50's, 60's and so on, then he was part of the generation who ruined and failed this generation with their style of parenting..... 8 Likes |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by westernized: 7:18pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
chillychill:Ibile la won eleyi....Lemme try "ti eniyan ba ta ara ile e ni opo, ko le ri ra lowon... e be lyk say i get am 1 Like |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by Nobody: 7:24pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
Shroud: relax dear,i wore the shoe i knew where it pained me 7 Likes |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by lilcutie8916(m): 7:34pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
I am very grateful that I had very lovely parents. |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by Moboj: 7:37pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
I'll give a little tip House of Gidigbo,whoever knows the meaning Op it's the country's culture If killing wasn't a sin,some of us won't have thought twice to end our parents then One thing for sure,the next generations cant suffer this.The greatest forgiveness is for us to let go of the past and put up a smile when we see them Stories are better left unsaid 4 Likes |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by gregyboy(m): 7:49pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
kamsibabylove: Hmm..u just hit d nail on d quote my dad gives me when he finds any fault in my doings .“ all my money have spent for You is a waste” nd goes ahead telling visitors or neighbours ..i got use to it at a point still looking for d best reasons y parent's. Are manner less to thier children |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by Twizzy30(m): 7:54pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
My dad.... I have no words to describe him, negative, hot tempered, wicked, stingy, there was no love between him and his children, he loves comparing us to other kids and even our cousins. Since 2 years ago, he has decided not to have anything to do with my elder brother and i, it's just my mum and brother doing thier best 3 Likes |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by wayne4loan: 7:58pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
Mznaett:mannerless generation |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by piagetskinner(m): 8:11pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
nawa oo people have gone true a lot oo... chai. your own is to the extreme.... I was raised with iron hand as well..no friends,no satellite dish, no going out..I was made to always read my books ...anytime I failed I was beaten terribly...and when I even passed(above average) I wasn't encouraged..there were still faults to be found I was insulted quite a lot because I'm the firstborn...I even wondered at a time if I was adopted.. but I looked on the bright side..part of the discipline I received helped me in my university days...I didn't Hangout..few friends..no parties..school- fellowship- house but I count it all joy...I have. smoother relationship with my dad now... as a parent its always good to be friends to your kids, they'd be encouraged to share their struggles and deep secrets with you..but when you're always hostile To them they'd withdraw |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by Lacoolmley: 8:16pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
Some parents are very wicked and toxic to their children and expect them to continue to swallow it for eternity. Control freaks that keep pushing their kids to the wall and when the react, they bring out the Bible and lay curses on their children thinking it would work. God is watching and will definitely repay them. 11 Likes |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by Annie2059: 8:40pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
SonOfAfonja: I concur absolutely.. same with mine |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by Nobody: 8:42pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
your dad was Adolf Hitler reincarnate. 1 Like |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by Pedrocross4568(m): 8:47pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
dayleke:. I reason this too. Thank God for my parents |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by Nobody: 8:48pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
gregyboy: the thing tire o |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by lereinter(m): 9:02pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
i can relate with your story, but quite some differences from mine in some cases a man and his wife should not bring forth children to this world they are just selfish |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by Emmyblaqie: 9:12pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
[color=#006600][/color][quote author=omoelerin1 post=65422318] Your Dad is playing with the time of his old age. Old age u say...dis z wot he has been doin since I was little nd in primary skul. I've heard my mum crying nd telling him dat he doesn't love us. He treats us like we ar sumone's else's family nd he's being forced to take care of us weda he lyks it or nt. U wnt undstnd sha...notin lyk old age cos he's nt even close to old. |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by Emmyblaqie: 9:19pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
[color=#006600][/color] Lacoolmley:[color=#006600][quote author=Lacoolmley post=65423700] Thank u very much..diz z my Dad. Much worse dan u described sef!! |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by Dafreeguy(m): 9:35pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
kamsibabylove: That's more like a curse o! Ur pman no try |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by Iseoluwani: 10:02pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
UrennaNkoli: Well u just wrote about my family, everything including the football, nothing missing. EXCEPT THAT MY DAD IS DIVORCED NOW WITH MY MUM AND HAS RE MARRIED. EVEN THE WIFE HAS GIVEN BIRTH UR Bro took the right step in moving out, this was my greatest mistake. I didn't move I remained. I spent a year to beg my dad to allow me do introduction now my wedding is next month n he wants me to live with him. My life is so frustrated now .. My dad even told me he doesn't have time to attend my wedding Smh.... I so much dislike my father |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by Iseoluwani: 10:11pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
KOPT55: Me too. I don't even believe I have family |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by Nobody: 10:48pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
kunletexs:u are right, she influenced me in almost every aspect of my life. looking back, I can tell u she really loved us(didn't felt that way then tho, I was a child) but thank God 4 everything now. |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by chillychill(f): 11:37pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
westernized: wasere my ti wa n ti wa paddy.. u get am |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by lenghtinny(m): 11:42pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
My Dad was a disciplinarian but he handled me with diplomacy while growing up because I was his last kid and he had me when he was getting old ( I heard he was extremely strict when he was much younger). After his death, one of my over zealous elder brother felt he's the one in the best position to fill his shoes but he was really bad at it.... He tried so hard to instill fear into me but it got to a point I'd to let him know that he was my brother not my father... We only lived together for few months before I left because I couldn't tolerate his excesses any longer... He was just this maniac that thinks the only way to control people is by frightening them because he always did the same to his girlfriend, treating her like a five year old kid... It's being years now since I last saw him, till this day I hate his guts.... I hope he's changed cos he has a kid now... No one deserves to be raised by such people... |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by EzekielMab(m): 11:46pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
kamsibabylove: How old are you now ? |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by westernized: 11:48pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
chillychill:No forget to buy guguru and epa to reward me o 1 Like |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by chillychill(f): 11:53pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
westernized: u no want garri to top am? |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by lilyheaven: 12:23am On Feb 28, 2018 |
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Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by lilyheaven: 12:50am On Feb 28, 2018 |
I 2 Likes |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by Jyde89: 1:25am On Feb 28, 2018 |
Reading all this horrible stories about parents from you guys,i just can't help but love my parent the more; we didn't have that much while growing up but they made us feel like royalties, telling us they didn't want us to experience the same thing they experienced while growing up. Op I'm sure your father was more richer than mine, my father was a Danfo driver then and my mom was a simstress ; but you'd think we had middle class parent the way we carried ourselves outside the home. Mom is late now though(still miss her like crazy) but i pray God quickly pick my call so i can repay dad for being such a good father. Unfortunately Dad is gone too. Can't believe the empty feeling his departure has left me with. The guy was 74yrs for crying out loud, but that's what happens when you have super parents. Well it's official guys; I'm now an official member of the Orphan Association of Nigeria. I hope one day, God will grant me the strength to tell you all how much he and my mom sacrificed for us. Especially him, that guy suffer no be small; I just heard about some of the things he went through after his demise which made me love and respect him the more. That guy fought and worn the battle of life for his children. Adieu Papa Samuel. 4 Likes |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by horia: 1:50am On Feb 28, 2018 |
UrennaNkoli:this is the part I like about the life of a woman. Though my sisters don't like like like like like like like me saying it. So much fun when you recall the memories, so much stories to tell. So much, makes you a Mother. |
Re: Did You Have This Kind Of Parent As A Kid? How Did You Survive? by baugustine(f): 2:23am On Feb 28, 2018 |
PapaNnamdi:Hahahahaha is your neighbour your father PapaNnamdi:Hahahahaha is your neighbour your father |
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