MrCuteking:
I got a lucrative job last year and decided to go online to look for a female friend. We chatted on facebook and got to know each other better. When we had lunch together she ordered for fried rice and chicken but I didn't bother because she told me it was her best food. We continued and became used to each other. When push comes to shove, I made my intention known to her. We started dating and since then, I've been struggling to save money because its been based on satisfying her needs. We discuss daily on phone and we spend more than 2hrs with my airtime. She told me about her dark past and she even lost count of the number of guys she had slept with. Many atimes , she compares me with her ex, telling me that she doesn't like to ask for money but her ex will just send her money for her upkeep. Last month I bought her a dress of 4k but she rejected it and said "You don't know my taste". When ever she comes to my place I do give her atleast 5k but she never gets satisfied with the transport fare and yet we both stay in Lagos. Nothing is ever enough for her. She only got a new job this month but has not yet been paid. I've been thinking and looking at her pix, wondering what she has ever done to make me happy...Beyond sex, she hasn't offered me anything. I love her but I don't really know why. What should I do?

RuthDaniels:
You need not suffer our eyes or cringe our brains with your tales as logic demands, when you are with someone who doesn't add value to your life but rather diminish the little you are fortunate to have, you kick the fellow out. Do we need to spell that out for you?


BTW as for your topic, It is not always what a woman has to offer but what you are man enough to get out of her. Make her your sex object and she will be, make her your partner or helpmate and she will be. What often kill you guys is pride and ignorance!

Brooke60:


Look for 'your helpmate, your friend, someone that will help you to grow in all aspects of your life'
This is just FWB.....Let her know the status of the relationship though and stop inconveniencing yourself just for 5 mints sex (Unless you last more than 5mints )

Mrbolt555:
Nothing. Enjoy ur money by urself. U dont need a girl. Trust me! I know u will feel lonely at times just get busy. Thank me later. All they will do is take and take from u and will never give. Even the sex that u think you'll get alot. See wud start denying you off it! Nigga just Fvuck & Run! I have never had a girl in my life and i wud never!

MrCuteking:


Please, how do I make her my helpmate?

RuthDaniels:
Good question!

Demand! When you make little demands, give her responsibilities, make her take part in decision making of what happens in your life and your relationship.
Act broke, give her a chance to provide or struggle for you two at times. A sane woman will feel needed, challenged and will want to prove how useful she is.

You must know though, not all women are sane. Some are just with you to get what you can offer.

MrCuteking:

You are right but its not that easy to find in Nigeria.

RuthDaniels:
Good question!

Demand! When you make little demands, give her responsibilities, make her take part in decision making of what happens in your life and your relationship.
Act broke, give her a chance to provide or struggle for you two at times. A sane woman will feel needed, challenged and will want to prove how useful she is.

You must know though, not all women are sane. Some are just with you to get what you can offer.

You are wise

RuthDaniels:
Good question!

Demand! When you make little demands, give her responsibilities, make her take part in decision making of what happens in your life and your relationship.
Act broke, give her a chance to provide or struggle for you two at times. A sane woman will feel needed, challenged and will want to prove how useful she is.

You must know though, not all women are sane. Some are just with you to get what you can offer.

MrCuteking:


I have started working on this. You are a genius. I just hope it works.

I'm glad I helped sir, good to know you are not giving up yet. My prayer is with you

roarik:
she's just there for d money,believe me..u ain't d only one she's dating....look for ur help mate bro

RuthDaniels:
You need not suffer our eyes or cringe our brains with your tales as logic demands, when you are with someone who doesn't add value to your life but rather diminish the little you are fortunate to have, you kick the fellow out. Do we need to spell that out for you?


BTW as for your topic, It is not always what a woman has to offer but what you are man enough to get out of her. Make her your sex object and she will be, make her your partner or helpmate and she will be. What often kill you guys is pride and ignorance!

walepackage:
you just said it all.You are the one to define your relationship by yourself.If its for kpanshy sake or serious matter and she will definately adjust her ways or you let go of her.