Safiaaa:
Its very rare to find men who can’t be manipulated with sex. That’s every mans weak point, and women know this and that’s why they use it to their advantage. If more men could halve self control, then women will not be able to use their pussy to get what they want from you. But unfortunately, that will never happen. Women will continue to take adantage of your weakness. And men will continue to shout that’s all they offer when indirectly that’s all you value. It’s a cycle

donstan18:


@Bolded, that was too raw

Having generally said and known that women do the offering" while me do the "Demanding", do you think such sexual mentality can be equally reversed and mutually neutralized amongst partner?

Safiaaa:
Its very rare to find men who can’t be manipulated with sex. That’s every mans weak point, and women know this and that’s why they use it to their advantage. If more men could halve self control, then women will not be able to use their pussy to get what they want from you. But unfortunately, that will never happen. Women will continue to take adantage of your weakness. And men will continue to shout that’s all they offer when indirectly that’s all you value. It’s a cycle

Grayjoy:
the honest truth is that, men are naturally wired to be more sexually inclined than women, just d way d women folks love money more than the male folks. Have u ever considered why we have different crimes in d world just to get money? Most of these culprits just wan2 more than enough pussy at their disposal so they get wat d owners of the pussy can't resist which is money at all cost. It is nature even 4rm bible days, talk abt samson, solomon dat got plenty women just because of his wealth and fame etc. So it goes on and on, men love sex women love money. It's nature bt self control matters alot.

Grayjoy:
We do say men get d sex due to the following reasons 4rm my point of observation.
1. Men are more outspoken about their sexually which makes the female folks to believe dat d existence of men so much depend on sex, so we all feel it's a favour 4rm d lady.
2. Some men feel like it's an achievement wen u sex d beautiful dat many guys are drooling over, although d lady herself enjoys the sex, but mentally we feel it's an achievement on d part of dis guy.
3. How will u rate a lady who speaks much about d sex and how much she enjoys it? i.e to say d society makes us to mentally picture it as a gift 4rm a lady if she agrees to sex u, although many ladies view it dat way. But in reality, sex should be enjoyed by both partners. That is wen ur involvement with her is nt d sex aspect and hers with u is nt whatever she will gain after d sex.
And to crown it all, a woman's body is delicate and
sacred and should be preserved 4 sum1 she loves and spend her life with, and whatever u get dat is nt meant 4 u automatically becomes a gift.
HOPE MY POINTS ARE ON POINT THOUGH.

Safiaaa:
yeah I agree100%. It’s a never ending cycle. You are what you attract. You can’t get angry at women that offer only their pussy when that’s all you value. Value more and you shall receive more. My personal opinion anyway.

donstan18:


Lol, we have such men

Permit me to say that we have many of them that can hardly be manipulated sexually .

I personally do not think "Sex" can be a man's weak or spot point, if it was, why then do men dumb ladies for another lady when that same lady can give them sex which you claimed to be the weak point of man

Again I ask ma'am, if more men start having this very control you scribbled of, what would be the fate of women who gets what they want with pussy how do you think they intend getting what they want.


But wait, do you mean men don't offer sex?

makydebbie:
But why are most of you all not really answering the question?

"Can we say men offer nothing except sex? " is the question and everyone is emotional.

RuthDaniels:
Lol!
The cliche "women have nothing to offer than sex" is mostly used by guys! There is a difference between a man and a guy. A man in this context is one who is matured, sane and also understands the diversity of human. He understands his counterpart, the woman. He knows how to make best of his woman. So I will be basing any further argument on this description.

RuthDaniels:
The society made women on the offering side when it comes satisfying sexual urges. Women are expected to give only when it is asked but must not ask, they are not allowed to express their sexual feelings. This is the Genesis of the offering mentality.
Lol.. @ Countering cliche, although it sounds perfect.

Some men offer sex. The world has revolved, women are getting more expressive, there are fvckboys and jigolos out there who satisfy women's need in exchange for money or other materials. They are in minority though.

I would rather say, men demand sex more not offer.

Grayjoy:
We do say men get d sex due to the following reasons 4rm my point of observation.
1. Men are more outspoken about their sexually which makes the female folks to believe dat d existence of men so much depend on sex, so we all feel it's a favour 4rm d lady.
2. Some men feel like it's an achievement wen u sex d beautiful dat many guys are drooling over, although d lady herself enjoys the sex, but mentally we feel it's an achievement on d part of dis guy.
3. How will u rate a lady who speaks much about d sex and how much she enjoys it? i.e to say d society makes us to mentally picture it as a gift 4rm a lady if she agrees to sex u, although many ladies view it dat way. But in reality, sex should be enjoyed by both partners. That is wen ur involvement with her is nt d sex aspect and hers with u is nt whatever she will gain after d sex.
And to crown it all, a woman's body is delicate and sacred and should be preserved 4 sum1 she loves and spend her life with, and whatever u get dat is nt meant 4 u automatically becomes a gift.
HOPE MY POINTS ARE ON POINT THOUGH.

makydebbie:
But why are most of you all not really answering the question?

"Can we say men offer nothing except sex? " is the question and everyone is emotional.

Admin401:


@bolded, are you still describing a women? or an object? lol

Lol, by that I meant how to get the best from his woman. I will modify to avoid ambiguity

makydebbie:
But why are most of you all not really answering the question?

"Can we say men offer nothing except sex? " is the question and everyone is emotional.

greiboy:
No

it cannot be reversed in the Nigerian society

It has been reversed to an extent in most advanced societies though, as we have now seen ladies openly ask men out and seen ladies propose to men, although there is still remnant of that mentality.

In Nigeria, it is highly unlikely.

Makes one wonder why Africa women are advocating for equal rights

Not my headache tho

makydebbie:
Your points are very on point. I learnt something here this night.

donstan18:


@Bolded, I'm preparing a thread for that soon


I think it can only be reversed with a high contribution of men.

The question should be.

How many men tends to resist sexual manipulation by ladies, hence prompting women to ask for it.

How possible is that in Africa ?

Safiaaa:
Explain the bolded again. That question doesn’t make sense to me.

Now if women couldn’t use sex as a manipulative tool then their options would be limited. But let’s not forget that men are visual beings. Sometimes you don’t have to have sex with them to get what you. If you look very attractive, nice body, you can get what you want. I’ve personally received money randomly, got things for free and had free rides from just being ‘attractive’ to a man. In this life we all take advantage of what we can, that’s just life.

Men are on the receiving end most times with sex,because they hunt, initiate and crave it more than women. That’s just the truth.

greiboy:
I actually answered the question. I thought he meant "why do men always claim ladies only offer sex."

I simply said he asked the question in a wrong way, that women hoard sex and make it an offer as against men just claiming women offer sex for no reason.

donstan18:


Lol... One of the questions I asked which is yet to be answered.

So I ask ma'am, can we say such?

Gungnir:
@donstan18
It's dump not dumb.

donstan18:



Perfect!

You made a point concerning how less women tend to demand or ask for sex due to African societal view or tag, it's either they are tagged cheap or less dignitary conscious. You are right.

Concerning the fvckboi offering sex, it's minor, it can supersede the rate in which women hoard and offer sex when they want.

If we are to agree that men demand, not offer.

Are aswell suppose to agree to the motion that Women have no right over sexual satisfactory complaint , since they offer what was demanded of them

donstan18:


Thanks man

RuthDaniels:
My nd44 what do you think about this topic.

Ub unja

Neyoor

donstan18:


@Bolded, I'm preparing a thread for that soon


I think it can only be reversed with a high contribution of men.

The question should be.

How many men tends to resist sexual manipulation by ladies, hence prompting women to ask for it.

How possible is that in Africa ?

donstan18:


You have a clear and good point brO!

I perfectly understood you.


But, you said a woman's body is delicate, scared and should be preserved for someone she loves, don't you think women aswell deserves a man who preserves his body

Safiaaa:
very impossible African men love sex diee, esp naija ones. Gosh it’s actually shameful Lool.

Do you know statistically men who prioritise sex too high tend to be less successful in life? Do your research.

donstan18:


@My bolded.

I meant, since weak point is seen as the spot by which you can be manipulated or convinced, if we are to agree with your that sex is the weak point of most men.

Why then do men dumb ladies?, despite the fact that their assumed weak point is "Sex", how about ladies capitalizing and attempting their weak point which is "Sex" to avoid being dumped.

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Your last line is true, men hunt and crave for it, hence giving women higher edge over them in sex.

Neyoor:


Either offer sex or make sex, this is only peculiar to sex outside marriage. When you are married, you make love and don't offer sex. Making love is mutualistic hence the reason for the uniqueness of its contextual and literal meaning. in my mother's tongue, they called it "Ibalopo" which is the art of making love.

However, sex outside wedlock could be regarded as anything, according to why and what people indulging in it are getting from it. Ladies offer sex same as men, for the financial reason, pleasure and other personal beliefs.