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Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by Amarabae(f): 8:42pm On Mar 10, 2018
The bitter truth is that men offer little to nothing to an independent strong woman.
#fact!

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Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by majekoam(m): 8:47pm On Mar 10, 2018
Ive seen both the threads.

I am not one for swearing but...

My Verdict:

THERE ARE MANY MEN AND WOMEN ON NAIRALAND WHO NEED TO GROW THE F*CK UP.

Immature Nonsense from both sexes.

We all have our stories/experiences about the opposite sex... say things that will add to people's lives positively or SHUT THE HELL UP.

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Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by marvin906(m): 8:48pm On Mar 10, 2018
Amarabae:
The bitter truth is that men offer little to nothing to an independent strong woman.
#fact!



in other word's they don't need a man in their life cause they have nothing to offer...
abeg let me ask what does women have to offer to rich men

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Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by Cutehector(m): 8:51pm On Mar 10, 2018
All these effeminate dudes trying to prove to confused people what men have to offer..

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Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by majekoam(m): 8:51pm On Mar 10, 2018
Amarabae:
The bitter truth is that men offer little to nothing to an independent strong woman.
#fact!

Assuming that you are an independent strong woman....is that how you feel about your husband?

I clicked on your profile and it says "wife to a king"

A bit odd.

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Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by ranmoor: 8:53pm On Mar 10, 2018
U guys should leave her. She probably has little change more than the man and that is going into her head. I have a lot like u at work, home and even as family. Don't worry, by the time you are 50 u will understand the role of a man
Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by Amarabae(f): 8:53pm On Mar 10, 2018
majekoam:


Assuming that you are an independent strong woman....is that how you feel about your husband?

I clicked on your profile and it says "wife to a king"

A bit odd.
You misunderstand me.
Cool down and read my comment again
Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by Shugavee(f): 8:55pm On Mar 10, 2018
Amarabae:
The bitter truth is that men offer little to nothing to an independent strong woman.
#fact!
exactly
Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by Nobody: 8:55pm On Mar 10, 2018
Shugavee:
this is of mutual importance!!!reasonable conitribition! But Physically speaking removing the lovedovi stuff (love trust n all that) what is a man relevants in a marriage than sex! Especially regarding independent woman!! I love ur last paragraph btw!!!

A mans relevance in marriage is too numerous to mention wink

Namely:

1. A financial provider for the home
2. Culture - positive ones that assist in training the kids
3. A protector for the wife and kids
4. Sex/Romance - The wife's readily available meat (Rated 18 grin: I don't need to explain this)
5. Security
6. Stability
7. Credibility
8. A helping hand around the house for manly chores (fixing electrical faults, DIY jobs around the house etc)
9. Laughter (if you are with someone that makes you laugh and happy you forget the stress of the office and happenings of the day)
9. Strength (same as Pride)
10. Friendship (same as companionship) - someone who understands you and drives you crazy (in good or bad ways)

Same goes for the women too, they bring a whole lot to the marriage.

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Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by marvin906(m): 8:56pm On Mar 10, 2018
Shugavee:
exactly

what do you have to offer to a wealthy man.. do head like MasterCard..

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Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by marvin906(m): 9:02pm On Mar 10, 2018
efesodje:


A mans relevance in marriage is too numerous to mention wink

Namely:

1. A financial provider for the home
2. Culture - positive ones that assist in training the kids
3. A protector for the wife and kids
4. Sex/Romance - The wife's readily available meat (Rated 18 grin: I don't need to explain this)
5. Security
6. Stability
7. Credibility
8. A helping hand around the house for manly chores (fixing electrical faults, DIY jobs around the house etc)
9. Laughter (if you are with someone that makes you laugh and happy you forget the stress of the office and happenings of the day)
9. Strength (same as Pride)
10. Friendship (same as companionship) - someone who understands you and drives you crazy (in good or bad ways)

Same goes for the women too, they bring a whole lot to the marriage.






dude why undecided
efesodje:


A mans relevance in marriage is too numerous to mention wink

Namely:

1. A financial provider for the home
2. Culture - positive ones that assist in training the kids
3. A protector for the wife and kids
4. Sex/Romance - The wife's readily available meat (Rated 18 grin: I don't need to explain this)
5. Security
6. Stability
7. Credibility
8. A helping hand around the house for manly chores (fixing electrical faults, DIY jobs around the house etc)
9. Laughter (if you are with someone that makes you laugh and happy you forget the stress of the office and happenings of the day)
9. Strength (same as Pride)
10. Friendship (same as companionship) - someone who understands you and drives you crazy (in good or bad ways)

Same goes for the women too, they bring a whole lot to the marriage.






dude why
Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by Shugavee(f): 9:03pm On Mar 10, 2018
efesodje:


A mans relevance in marriage is too numerous to mention wink

Namely:

1. A financial provider for the home
2. Culture - positive ones that assist in training the kids
3. A protector for the wife and kids
4. Sex/Romance - The wife's readily available meat (Rated 18 grin: I don't need to explain this)
5. Security
6. Stability
7. Credibility
8. A helping hand around the house for manly chores (fixing electrical faults, DIY jobs around the house etc)
9. Laughter (if you are with someone that makes you laugh and happy you forget the stress of the office and happenings of the day)
9. Strength (same as Pride)
10. Friendship (same as companionship) - someone who understands you and drives you crazy (in good or bad ways)

Same goes for the women too, they bring a whole lot to the marriage.
physically oo!!! Not abstract nouns!! Apart from sex i dont see what is there again
Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by tosyne2much(m): 9:04pm On Mar 10, 2018
There's a lot of things a guy can offer a lady in relationship such as guidance, career choosing; moral, financial and spiritual support.

When you are dating a lady, she should be able to see changes in her life. She should be able to look back at her life and give gratitude to have met you.

What another thing a guy can offer a lady in relationship is to help reshape her life, support and encourage her when the world rejects her. If she has attitude problem or she's battling with inferiority complex, it's your duty as a man to make her feel highly of herself

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Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by Nobody: 9:05pm On Mar 10, 2018
marvin906:







dude why undecided






dude why

cheesy dude the babe asked a question and she deserves an answer.

Forget those silly dudes saying I am effeminate or soft for answering her. She needs to know what we contribute in an ideal home.
Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by Nobody: 9:06pm On Mar 10, 2018
Shugavee:
physically oo!!! Not abstract nouns!! Apart from sex i dont see what is there again

Shugavee it seems you are set in your mindset about men and their contributions. You don't need my help anymore then. Now I am vexing angry cheesy

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Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by marvin906(m): 9:08pm On Mar 10, 2018
efesodje:


cheesy dude the babe asked a question and she deserves an answer.

Forget those silly dudes saying I am effeminate or soft for answering her. She needs to know what we contribute in an ideal home.


even if you put the truth in her face..
that chick won't still agree

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Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by Shugavee(f): 9:11pm On Mar 10, 2018
efesodje:


Shugavee it seems you are set in your mindset about men and their contributions. You don't need my help anymore then. Now I am vexing angry cheesy
its okay u tried but still hvnt seen a good answer cause men ask nonsense questions to belittle women!!! So waiting 4 a more convincing answer that make men ask nonsense questions!!! How physically relevant r men to a union!!! Love n all that come from both sex to make it work!!! Thanks 4 acting reasonably
Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by majekoam(m): 9:11pm On Mar 10, 2018
Shugavee:
So u guys seriously hv nothing to say grin smh!!

Ive got some questions if you would oblige me with answers.

Are you married?

Would you ever like to be married?

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Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by majekoam(m): 9:13pm On Mar 10, 2018
Amarabae:

You misunderstand me.
Cool down and read my comment again

This one right? "The bitter truth is that men offer little to nothing to an independent strong woman"

Im perfectly cool. Just trying to understand your point of view.

Please elaborate what you mean.

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Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by MIKOLOWISKA: 9:16pm On Mar 10, 2018
shuda stfu if u didn't want strangers discussing your life
Shugavee:
lol please answer question!! Dont bother urself abt my life
Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by MIKOLOWISKA: 9:18pm On Mar 10, 2018
they've answered you but you can't read and that is why you will remain single
Shugavee:
Abeg u people should answer question!! N stop fooling urselves!! Probably because u men offer nothing than sex espeacially to an independent woman
Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by Shugavee(f): 9:21pm On Mar 10, 2018
If ur pained?? Kill urself
Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by Amarabae(f): 9:22pm On Mar 10, 2018
majekoam:


This one right? "The bitter truth is that men offer little to nothing to an independent strong woman"

Im perfectly cool. Just trying to understand your point of view.

Please elaborate what you mean.
Yep that's it.
Let me elaborate.
Before I met my husband, I was already working and being paid well, I was so financially independent.
When I met him, what I expected of him is just his love, he is a very rich guy with investments,
I was not interested in his money then because I was financially independent then,
The same way with many working class career ladies out there who are making it big, they don't expect any other thing from a man except his love, because apart from his love, there is nothing a man will give that they are lacking.
You get it now?
Men are important, Women are too.

Successful independent women see relationship as 50-50affair, we are not financial parasites.
We are no weaker vessels,
I am too feministic to accept such nonsense

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Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by Nobody: 9:23pm On Mar 10, 2018
See guys taking a dose of their own medicine with squeezed faces... No one has answered the op's question to satisfaction.
Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by majekoam(m): 9:25pm On Mar 10, 2018
Amarabae:

Yep that's it.
Let me elaborate.
Before I met my husband, I was already working and being paid well, I was so financially independent.
When I met him, what I expected of him is just his love, he is a very rich guy with investments,
I was not interested in his money then because I was financially independent then,
The same way with many working class career ladies out there who are making it big, they don't expect any other thing from a man except his love, because apart from his love, there is nothing a man will give that they are lacking.
You get it now?
Men are important, Women are too.

Successful independent women see relationship as 50-50affair, we are not financial parasites.



So You have just answered the OP's question. What do men have to offer.

One of the things men have to offer is LOVE.

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Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by Nobody: 9:27pm On Mar 10, 2018
Shugavee:
Abeg u people should answer question!! N stop fooling urselves!! Probably because u men offer nothing than sex espeacially to an independent woman
I offer COMMON SENSE to Ladies, since they lack sense right from in utero....
Ur write up depicts such....

Ladies don't meet me and remain the same (arid).
I, infuse sense from my genome into them.

Do you care for some..??

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Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by Amarabae(f): 9:28pm On Mar 10, 2018
majekoam:


So You have just answered the OP's question. What do men have to offer.

One of the things men have to offer is LOVE.
yes men can offer love to a woman but is 50-50, because women can offer love back to a man.
I understand the op.
Misogynists make it look like women offer nothing to a man but a man can offer many things to a woman in a relationship
Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by majekoam(m): 9:32pm On Mar 10, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
See guys taking a dose of their own medicine with squeezed faces... No one has answered the op's question to satisfaction.

Men have so much to offer. If you have a Miopic view that men have nothing to offer then make it a prayer point that no man should ever assist you with anything again. The guys who ramble nonsense on the other thread are equally.

"See guys taking a dose of their own medicine with squeezed faces"

Immature....
Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by AlexCk: 9:34pm On Mar 10, 2018
Lol

Honestly believe a man/woman offers alot in a relationship.

When u look at our parents, or friends/colleagues that are in a relationship(marriage/dating), one will notice what they try to do to make a relationship solid.

I believe as a guy, being supportive, inspiring her, loving her irrespective of her flaws, making her feel comfortable, safe, beautiful,... understanding, etc are what we offer.
Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by majekoam(m): 9:36pm On Mar 10, 2018
Amarabae:

Yep that's it.
Let me elaborate.
Before I met my husband, I was already working and being paid well, I was so financially independent.
When I met him, what I expected of him is just his love, he is a very rich guy with investments,
I was not interested in his money then because I was financially independent then,
The same way with many working class career ladies out there who are making it big, they don't expect any other thing from a man except his love, because apart from his love, there is nothing a man will give that they are lacking.
You get it now?
Men are important, Women are too.

Successful independent women see relationship as 50-50affair, we are not financial parasites.
We are no weaker vessels,
I am too feministic to accept such nonsense

Yours and other womens comments on this thread go beyond feminism. Feminism is the empowering of women to be treated as equals. What you are doing is diminishing and denigrating men. That isnt feminism...
Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by Shugavee(f): 9:37pm On Mar 10, 2018
U men can say nonsense but when its thrown back at u guys!! U guys start crying !!! Women should make their own money n stop depending on men but when told to learn to cook n do chores they start screaming foul play!!! Whats a mans physical relevance in a union?? Smh
Re: Guys What Do U Offer A Woman!! by marvin906(m): 9:38pm On Mar 10, 2018
Shugavee:
its okay u tried but still hvnt seen a good answer cause men ask nonsense questions to belittle women!!! So waiting 4 a more convincing answer that make men ask nonsense questions!!! How physically relevant r men to a union!!! Love n all that come from both sex to make it work!!! Thanks 4 acting reasonably



when I said this chick is suffering from being dumped..
you guy's think am joking

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