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Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by FitnessDoctor: 9:20pm On Dec 06, 2017
Homeboiy:


Ok I will reply u

I have sent it.

Thank you so much
Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by IwillSucced(m): 10:00pm On Dec 06, 2017
NoChill:
Please here in Imo we have a commissioner for happiness so any time we are depressed all we need do is to stand in queue and wait for our turn to hammer the kpekus.

Guy that woman nor senior your mama
Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by CuddleBear(f): 10:45pm On Dec 06, 2017
supaNOVAE:
Regardless there is always hope.
Nope actually.
Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by supaNOVAE(m): 11:49pm On Dec 06, 2017
CuddleBear:

Nope actually.
you said so
Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by DaAwesome1(m): 7:31am On Dec 07, 2017
my parents depress me alot cos im prolly weird guy not the kinda son they wanted always interfering im my affairs. always reminding me hw I am compared to my mates. shii too much for me nd am just 19

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Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by Nobody: 8:33am On Dec 07, 2017
My depression is always financially related grin.

I get depressed when I don't have money on me.

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Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by TechPanda(m): 4:22pm On Dec 07, 2017
IwillSucced:

Guy that woman nor senior your mama
I taya oh
Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by FitnessDoctor: 9:50pm On Dec 12, 2017
TechPanda:

I taya oh
Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by IwillSucced(m): 10:31pm On Dec 14, 2017
TechPanda:


I taya oh

grin grin grin
Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by edudguy(m): 10:43pm On Dec 14, 2017
IAMSASHY:
Growing wt our second son:big bro invited me to live wt hm, I ws happy dat atleast, I cn change environment and mix with pple, I neva new I ws going in2 hell part 2. I finally went to hm, and dere it started again, bro wl snd 2 get something 4 hm, after I hv left, he wl quietly follow me behind 2 see if a guy wl stop or talk me, u no guys na, dey must surely try to show up,even u form deaf and dumb, dey keep preaching and following u abt. Wen I finally gets home, bro wl list hw many guys Dat talked to me on d road and den serious beatings begin to fall, I remember fainting during one of his beating, I had 2 cul dad, he wsnt happy abt it, he had to come take me home.
From frying pan to fire
Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by edudguy(m): 10:46pm On Dec 14, 2017
IAMSASHY:
Growing up wt first son:d same story bt straight to d point, he came home after work one nite and discovered dat I didn't eat d food his wife cooked b4 dey both left 4 work. He sed I shud tell hm who took me out dat made me nt eat ahome, he pulled his belt and I ran outside, I sat outside for abt 2hrs and after much thinking, d only tin Dat came in2 my head ws 2 open our well and jump inside, Wat ws I living for? Mum or siblings? I went towards d well and ws trying to lift d cover, I totally forgot dat nobody goes to the d well at night,(it ws12midnight), luckily, landlord ws still outside, he heard d nose and demanded 2 no who ws dere, he flashed torchlight at me, came close and ws asking Wat I ws doing dere, I couldn't alter a word, only tears. It ws hell growing up, i cn now see d advantages bt d fear and inability to mix or talk to pple has refused to let go.
Is it safe to say your family are terrible people (no offence)
Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by FitnessDoctor: 12:28pm On Dec 15, 2017
cc: lalasticlala please can this reach frontpage, so that more people can have a chance to share and get solutions.
Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by khiaa(f): 8:49am On Mar 13, 2018
NairalandSARS:
I have been suffering from Major depressive disorder for a very long time now.

Hello dear smiley
How have you been? What did you want to talk to me about? That depression can be a starter If you want to discuss it.
Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by NairalandSARS: 9:18am On Mar 13, 2018
Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by khiaa(f): 1:33am On Mar 15, 2018
Nig4Greatness:
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I got same email from same person twice but just ignored it as I do others with similar intents.thought I read something like my moniker instead earlier.

I asked him why did he choose me to ask for money and he said because he read where I helped someone before so he wanted my help. After I read it I suspected him to be a scammer then galaxi confirmed it. I'm sorry, I mistakenly put your name at first, I guess you were on my mind. wink I changed it as soon as I realized the booboo. grin
Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by Kaymercury(m): 7:51pm On Mar 16, 2018
hmm depression!Depression is the worst thing that can ever happened to human. I started my business when I was 18 though it was small scale business I keep running till I grown to lemme say semi large scale feeling happy,joyous all those feelings young and making it stuff until last year when my greatest worse nightmare visited me.I joined a cooperative Society I keep on depositing till I applied for a loan of a million naira,the loan was granted and I still collected another loan from one monthly contribution I was involved in plus my other capital I started rice business.things was going fine already eyeing 2008 Toyota Camry.
like a flash customs officials first seized my goods I settle them 2nd time as well settled 3rd time it was seized by the federal patrol until this moment my goods is still in their possession it firstly seems like a joke but its actually a reality I nearly committed suicide, thought of breaking the law came my worst nightmare all my investment vanished in a day.
How will I settle the loans I obtained? the cooperative,the monthly contribution! how am I going to be feeding myself with no source of income,how will I settle my bills, how?it was terrific.September 16 2017 was the day I detested so much in my life God I hate that date.
well life must surely continue,but how?feeding,clothing,electricity bills etc I do gave help whenever someone asked me friends families etc but all changed when my problems started nobody was ready to help me those that wanted to help has no power to do so. well man must survive started doing all type of jobs I see.imagine!I was a millionaire this time last year but here I am a THOUSANDNAIRE surviving on irrelevant deals shame,depression all those stuffs well all the loans I obtained is almost refunded with less than 100k in the next 2months I will settle it by God's grace then I will apply for fresh one and re strategize depression is an enemy it takes a lot of courage to overcome it.this is my story

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Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by Kaymercury(m): 7:51pm On Mar 16, 2018
hmm depression!
Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by BlueScholar(m): 8:23pm On Mar 16, 2018
honjohnbright:
It's a very painful experience.. cry

Personally, there have been several times I had suicidal thoughts due to unemployment and the inability to foot my basic needs. I come online and see my juniors posting baby dedication pictures, wedding pictures, vacation pictures, pictures from their offices in multinational organisations, top banks Et Al... then I look at myself as jobless and as broke as I am. After series of unsuccessful interviews, age is no longer on my side for any good job. No concrete experience... what will become of me? Forever struggling? No! Why shouldn't I just end all these by jumping off from this 3Rd floor ?

Oh.. less I forget, no reasonable girl was willing to accept my advances... they all keep saying one thing "John you're a great guy and I know you'll make a fine husband ...but"

What other reasons do u have to live?

It takes grace to overcome depression really. I'm not doing so much better yet but definitely not as before, and when I look back, I bless God's name for saving me.

I needed to read this, I'm also the stage you were before but hopeful. Thank you

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Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by BlueScholar(m): 8:29pm On Mar 16, 2018
FitnessDoctor:


Underachievement is a big turn on for depression. It makes you feel lesser than you actually are, but there is something else too. You don't have to wait for someone, or some company to build your world for you, to give you that killer job that will propel you to the places of your dreams. You can get there yourself, you can make it yourself, you can build your own world without working for anyone.

All you need to do is simply be positive, be positive throughout, even if you see people enjoying their lives, be positive, always remind yourself that those people once had a time when they struggled, when they cried and worked hard through the night, now today their hard work has paid off and the only reason why it paid off is because they were positive throughout and they never gave up.

Time may not be on your side, but if you yourself, your mind is on your side then you can scale through. There are lots of opportunities out there and all you need to do is expand your limits, don't limit yourself to anything because the Nigerian economy provides you an advantage whereby mechanical engineers can work as bankers. So never limit yourself but expand your limits.

Depression makes you give up on things and you stop solving problems and start complaining about them which will never make them go away. Once you start becoming positive, you will send a message to your brain that you are not a quitter, that you are ready to take those unseen opportunities by force (because they are really there) and in time you will get there. What separated University Student Mark Zuckerberg in 2003 from the Billionaire Entrepreneur Mark Zuckerberg in 2017 is simply positivity, time and hardwork.

If you need anything I will always be there to help you through it.

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

wow I never seen depression define so succinctly before. I suffer from it while I was in uni and that made me shut down, I stop trying, became anti social, make pealing up carry overs till I finally snap out of it during my spill year but then it was too late to change my grade. now that I'm through with NYSC with little to no hope I feel depression creeping in slowly. so thank you for this comment
Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by BlueScholar(m): 8:33pm On Mar 16, 2018
IAMSASHY:
Growing wt our second son:big bro invited me to live wt hm, I ws happy dat atleast, I cn change environment and mix with pple, I neva new I ws going in2 hell part 2. I finally went to hm, and dere it started again, bro wl snd 2 get something 4 hm, after I hv left, he wl quietly follow me behind 2 see if a guy wl stop or talk me, u no guys na, dey must surely try to show up,even u form deaf and dumb, dey keep preaching and following u abt. Wen I finally gets home, bro wl list hw many guys Dat talked to me on d road and den serious beatings begin to fall, I remember fainting during one of his beating, I had 2 cul dad, he wsnt happy abt it, he had to come take me home.

sorry to hear about that. Thank God your dad saved you
Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by BlueScholar(m): 8:34pm On Mar 16, 2018
IAMSASHY:
I suffered depression while growing up, it ws hell, dere alot 2 write but I shall try 2 make it short, all dese happened tru out my teenage years
Growing up wt mum: anytime she sends me on errands and I return later dan wen I suppose 2, as soon as I step into d compound, she rushes at me, grabs my clothes, tear dem all and start beating me accusing of visiting one guy or d oda(eva since she told me dat if I go close to a guy and talk to hm, dat I wl b pregnant, it put so much fear in me, so her accusation ws far from truth). Dis happened severally, I hated her, dat ws her own way of training me bt it ws hell. Evry month, she ensures dat I show her my menstrual pad jst 2 b sure am nt pregnant, I lived like a stranger in my father's house, d only time I mix wt my frnds is in skul, I must nt go out or hv a visitor ahome, sometimes I doubted if she ws truly my mum.

that's quite sad.
Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by OLAFIMIX(f): 8:59pm On Mar 16, 2018
Am so lonely too
Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by KhadyM(f): 9:36pm On Mar 16, 2018
Not quite sure if it was really depression.
There are times I have felt so low and simply too fatigued to do things which gave me pleasure in the past, constantly felt so lonely and hopeless, and found myself breaking down in the middle of the night, not to mention feeling so exhausted with life all the time. Thank God I have never even thought about suicide. But I am getting better, and what has really helped me is having a relationship with God, and leaving social media. God has honestly changed my life for the better, I can attest to that.

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Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by Nobody: 10:16pm On Mar 16, 2018
the very moment u are depressed... mix 1 litre of codein syrup with 10 1000mg of tramadol add a little caffein and slices of Nincotine and stir with ethanol or aromatic schnapp.... drink all on empty stomach and lye down... when you wake u ll be fine but flying and ascending.... hehe
Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by onecornerboy(m): 10:24pm On Mar 16, 2018
DaAwesome1:
my parents depress me alot
cos im prolly weird guy
not the kinda son they wanted
always interfering im my affairs.
always reminding me hw I am compared to my mates.
shii too much for me
nd am just 19
same with me here whatever i do is nt just enough for them
Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by Chapelbeatz(m): 11:05pm On Mar 16, 2018
I actually lost someone.its painful oooo. A law graduate. So life can just end like that.kai so death is real. Is like depression is understatement ma sef.
Just like that. Kai death.
Re: Ever Suffered From Depression??? Please Share Your Story (photos) by xxgig(m): 11:46pm On Mar 16, 2018
Late december to a greater part of January 2018, i noticed i was depressed. i was not too willing to engage in conversation, was jobless and broke. i wouldn't say i have over the causes of my depression. but i can confidently say, i have grown to control it. how do i do this, i go off social media, stay away from peoples status and care less about what the other person as achieved. find comfort in God's word and i became stronger everyday.

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