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Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Nobody: 3:51pm On Mar 13, 2018
Well, I have nothing to say before broke guys will flood my mention grincheesy.
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Cadec007(m): 3:52pm On Mar 13, 2018
Preshy561:
okay. speak for yourself then. undecided
okay but not all guys are sex oriented
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Preshy561(f): 3:53pm On Mar 13, 2018
Cadec007:
okay but not all guys are sex oriented
speak for yourself..I haven't seen undecided
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by bizzy500: 3:55pm On Mar 13, 2018
Preshy561:
by their response you shall know the ones that are useless.
chai I don't blame those guys...if you are useful they won't run...we all knw the only thing you can offer grin
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Cadec007(m): 3:57pm On Mar 13, 2018
Preshy561:
speak for yourself..I haven't seen undecided
seriously? You mean all the guys you met were sex sex sex?:-/ Hmmmmmm well i am not...... i am totally diff. B-)
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Nobody: 3:58pm On Mar 13, 2018
FluidQueen:
I still think it's what it is tho.

Look at our fore fathers for example, They barely did house chores. It was regarded as a woman's Job. You'd hardly see married men Sweeping the house or doing the dishes. God forbid they Carried their Empty Plates to the kitchen. A thousand years later, It still is Regarded as A woman's job.
Well but it's kind of hard to believe though because how is sweeping of the floor, washing of plate or doing other chores makes me less of a man?

Any guy with such mentality is still a layman..
we go to school, we live alone in our hostels,, we do this things and even make sure our room is tidy when a lady wants to visit,, we even spray the room with perfumes,, just to prepare for the lady coming.

So i don't find it reasonable for a guy not to help with house chores....
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Preshy561(f): 3:58pm On Mar 13, 2018
bizzy500:
chai I don't blame those guys...if you are useful they won't run...we all knw the only thing you can offer grin
says the guy that attacked my comment because of how truthful it is.
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by MissRaine69(f): 4:00pm On Mar 13, 2018
I don’t subscribe to the mindset that you have to “need” someone. Men or women for that matter. You complement what he has and he compliments what you have, thus stricking a balance. I am good at most things but I have my shortfalls he will have areas he is a master of and areas that are outside his remit. This is what determines weather a relationship will work or not.

If you view a man has just been good for sex, you clearly have been meeting incompatible men or you clearly short changing yourself somewhere. Regardless of how you want to look at it a farm cannot have two cockerels.
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Preshy561(f): 4:00pm On Mar 13, 2018
Cadec007:
seriously? You mean all the guys you met were sex sex sex?:-/ Hmmmmmm well i am not...... i am totally diff. B-)
okay..congrats.
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Cadec007(m): 4:04pm On Mar 13, 2018
Preshy561:
okay..congrats.
thanks
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by xpressng(m): 4:06pm On Mar 13, 2018
feminists be wanting equality. but still scream their ass out when they see cockroaches. and call the male to come help lol
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Cadec007(m): 4:07pm On Mar 13, 2018
MissRaine69:
Regardless of how you want to look at it a farm cannot have two cockerels.
lols

Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Cadec007(m): 4:09pm On Mar 13, 2018
xpressng:
feminists be wanting equality. but still scream their ass out when they see cockroaches. and call the male to come help lol
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Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Shugavee(op): 4:09pm On Mar 13, 2018
Cadec007:
no we can.... infact we should...... i wasn't aware and don't know what you posted on ur previous thread but i think its 70-30 to the males if you want to rate who needs who. :->
lol what d0 a man physically offer a woman!!! Please dont start all the talks "love sercurity blah blah, i mean physical
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Shugavee(op): 4:10pm On Mar 13, 2018
xpressng:
feminists be wanting equality. but still scream their ass out when they see cockroaches. and call the male to come help lol
we are equal but not the same!!!
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by UDUJ(m): 4:12pm On Mar 13, 2018
Shugavee:
lol what d0 a man physically offer a woman!!! Please dont start all the talks "love sercurity blah blah, i mean physical
cheesy grin You have started again O cheesy
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Shugavee(op): 4:14pm On Mar 13, 2018
UDUJ:
cheesy grin You have started again O cheesy
grin grin grin not my fault he wasnt around when the dicussion began!!! I believe he might hv something to say!! So am willing to hear him out
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by UDUJ(m): 4:15pm On Mar 13, 2018
Shugavee:
grin grin grin not my fault he wasnt around when the dicussion began!!! I believe he might hv something to say!! So am willing to hear him out
Ok no wahala smiley
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by xpressng(m): 4:18pm On Mar 13, 2018
Shugavee:
we are equal but not the same!!!
really..? explain pls..
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Cadec007(m): 4:23pm On Mar 13, 2018
Shugavee:
lol what d0 a man physically offer a woman!!! Please dont start all the talks "love sercurity blah blah, i mean physical
physically? we offer them the joy of motherhood.
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Cadec007(m): 4:26pm On Mar 13, 2018
Shugavee:
lol what d0 a man physically offer a woman!!! Please dont start all the talks "love sercurity blah blah, i mean physical
our love isn't it enough?
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by bizzy500: 4:34pm On Mar 13, 2018
Preshy561:
says the guy that attacked my comment because of how truthful it is.
maybe we re both saying d truth
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Shugavee(op): 4:55pm On Mar 13, 2018
Cadec007:
our love isn't it enough?
is more than enough baby grin
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Shugavee(op): 4:56pm On Mar 13, 2018
Cadec007:
physically? we offer them the joy of motherhood.
n who offer men the joy of fatherhoodhuh
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Opentokwowledge: 4:57pm On Mar 13, 2018
Shugavee:
So you see a lot of guys nowadays when a woman comes out and says a man is supposed to take care of me, supposed to suit my bills and all that and you see men all over the comment section saying" can't you make your money and be independent?? and don't be a liability" and so many other things but when the table changes and women are like I'm not your slave so you guys learn how to do chores so you can help in the home and you can assist your wife, they will start complaining n say the bible say this n that,,, but they 4get the bible said they are the ones to till the soil, so my previous thread was to make men remember their usefulness is just finacial n they should take pride in it n stop complaining cause the more women become independent the more men's usefulness to women depreciates, e.g linda ikeji apart from the fact we want love n companionship, she pysically needs nothing from a man than sex!! Most men think because they spend money on a woman, they hv the privilege to ask stupid questions!!! See if we all start making money 4 ourselves, u see more lesbians cause most women won't take the nonsense u men do,,,,,i want women to become independent, nothing as joyful to me than that!!! But a friendly reminder to men,

1. If u want an independent woman hv something better to offer than money be useful at home

2. Stop complaining!!!! U need us more than we need u guys!!!

3. If u believe a woman has no entitlement to ur money,(ur gf or wife)fine! put in mind u hv no entitlement to her submission, her cooking or her doing chores in ur house!!

I believe we all do our roles with love not it being forced!! If u love her u provide, n she loves u she will make u happy,
No entitlement whatsoever!! If its forced then its not meant to be!!!

#unapologeticfeminist
Is this what your mother taught youhuh
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by UDUJ(m):
Chikita66:
Well, I have nothing to say before broke guys will flood my mention grincheesy.
You are looking very good these days. Your dp is on point wink
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Nobody: 5:01pm On Mar 13, 2018
Shugavee:
So you see a lot of guys nowadays when a woman comes out and says a man is supposed to take care of me, supposed to suit my bills and all that and you see men all over the comment section saying" can't you make your money and be independent?? and don't be a liability" and so many other things but when the table changes and women are like I'm not your slave so you guys learn how to do chores so you can help in the home and you can assist your wife, they will start complaining n say the bible say this n that,,, but they 4get the bible said they are the ones to till the soil, so my previous thread was to make men remember their usefulness is just finacial n they should take pride in it n stop complaining cause the more women become independent the more men's usefulness to women depreciates, e.g linda ikeji apart from the fact we want love n companionship, she pysically needs nothing from a man than sex!! Most men think because they spend money on a woman, they hv the privilege to ask stupid questions!!! See if we all start making money 4 ourselves, u see more lesbians cause most women won't take the nonsense u men do,,,,,i want women to become independent, nothing as joyful to me than that!!! But a friendly reminder to men,

1. If u want an independent woman hv something better to offer than money be useful at home

2. Stop complaining!!!! U need us more than we need u guys!!!

3. If u believe a woman has no entitlement to ur money,(ur gf or wife)fine! put in mind u hv no entitlement to her submission, her cooking or her doing chores in ur house!!

I believe we all do our roles with love not it being forced!! If u love her u provide, n she loves u she will make u happy,
No entitlement whatsoever!! If its forced then its not meant to be!!!

#unapologeticfeminist
what did this to you?

Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Nobody: 5:06pm On Mar 13, 2018
UDUJ:
cheesy I am one of the broke guys cheesy

Meanwhile you are looking very good these days. Your dp is on point wink
Thanks tongue.
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by wristbangle: 6:38pm On Mar 13, 2018
The purpose of courtship/dating had long been defeated whilst people do it for selfish reasons.

Agreed a man needs to spend for his girlfriend which must be in a prudent and purposeful way.

If a woman thinks all she could offer is her body and domestic duties, then she doesn't really know her role. Being a woman requires supporting your man who respects, loves and cherish you.

In relationship and marriage, we need to help each other, share responsibilities to achieve a common goal for the future.
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by slimiyke(m): 6:50pm On Mar 13, 2018
Chikita66:
Thanks tongue.
You're just new here yet you've made more appearances than most old members....what's responsible? No lectures? No job? abi na addict? I hope you're not the type that would let social media bring problems into their home? Uche gi dikwa ya ooo
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Nobody: 9:59pm On Mar 13, 2018
slimiyke:
You're just new here yet you've made more appearances than most old members....what's responsible? No lectures? No job? abi na addict? I hope you're not the type that would let social media bring problems into their home? Uche gi dikwa ya ooo
Biko abughi onye ohuru ebe a, na kwa echecki, Na kwa acaculati.
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Shugavee(op): 10:16pm On Mar 13, 2018
wristbangle:
The purpose of courtship/dating had long been defeated whilst people do it for selfish reasons.

Agreed a man needs to spend for his girlfriend which must be in a prudent and purposeful way.

If a woman thinks all she could offer is her body and domestic duties, then she doesn't really know her role. Being a woman requires supporting your man who respects, loves and cherish you.

In relationship and marriage, we need to help each other, share responsibilities to achieve a common goal for the future.
please there are so much that both spouse can do to keep things together, but i said physically!!! Read my post with an openmind
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