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Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Shugavee(f): 3:19pm On Mar 13, 2018
So you see a lot of guys nowadays when a woman comes out and says a man is supposed to take care of me, supposed to suit my bills and all that and you see men all over the comment section saying" can't you make your money and be independent?? and don't be a liability" and so many other things but when the table changes and women are like I'm not your slave so you guys learn how to do chores so you can help in the home and you can assist your wife, they will start complaining n say the bible say this n that,,, but they 4get the bible said they are the ones to till the soil, so my previous thread was to make men remember their usefulness is just finacial n they should take pride in it n stop complaining cause the more women become independent the more men's usefulness to women depreciates, e.g linda ikeji apart from the fact we want love n companionship, she pysically needs nothing from a man than sex!! Most men think because they spend money on a woman, they hv the privilege to ask stupid questions!!! See if we all start making money 4 ourselves, u see more lesbians cause most women won't take the nonsense u men do,,,,,i want women to become independent, nothing as joyful to me than that!!! But a friendly reminder to men,

1. If u want an independent woman hv something better to offer than money be useful at home

2. Stop complaining!!!! U need us more than we need u guys!!!

3. If u believe a woman has no entitlement to ur money,(ur gf or wife)fine! put in mind u hv no entitlement to her submission, her cooking or her doing chores in ur house!!

I believe we all do our roles with love not it being forced!! If u love her u provide, n she loves u she will make u happy,
No entitlement whatsoever!! If its forced then its not meant to be!!!

#unapologeticfeminist

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Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by eezeribe(m): 3:20pm On Mar 13, 2018
OK

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Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by libero05(m): 3:26pm On Mar 13, 2018
U mite as well bring ur flat ass to b banged all day, cos dts d only tin ur flat yansh nd head cn offer..we nw have yahoo girls, go do yahoo oloshooooo

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Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Cadec007(m): 3:27pm On Mar 13, 2018
Shugavee:
But a friendly reminder to men.

2. Stop complaining!!!! U need us more than we need u guys!!!


#unapologeticfeminist
ok i agree with others but this?. I dunno y my instincts tells me otherwise.

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Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Preshy561(f): 3:27pm On Mar 13, 2018
remove sex from relationship and you will find out that most of these guys are useless..

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Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by FluidQueen(f): 3:29pm On Mar 13, 2018
Lol. grin


But I had no idea the bible said the role of the Woman is strictly Chore duty. grin that book tho!

I still think That Men and Women shouldn't have to conform to the Societal definition of Gender roles if they don't want to. If the Woman Wants to be the provider, She could. If they both Want to. Then, No problem.

House chores could also be shared. Shouldn't even be debatable for Christ sake! I do the dishes, You sweep the house. I cook, You wash the plates. I feed the kids, You bathe them. C'est fini!

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Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by UDUJ(m): 3:31pm On Mar 13, 2018
FluidQueen:
Lol. grin


But I had no idea the bible said the role of the Woman is strictly Chore duty. grin that book tho!

I still think That Men and Women shouldn't have to conform to the Societal definition of Gender roles if they don't want to. If the Woman Wants to be the provider, She could. If they both Want to. Then, No problem. House chores could also be shared. Shouldn't even be debatable for Christ sake! I do the dishes, You sweep the house. I cook, You wash the plates. I feed the kids, You bathe them. C'est fini!

I agree with this. 50-50 no wahala

Today is a quarrel free day for me smiley

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Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Cadec007(m): 3:34pm On Mar 13, 2018
FluidQueen:
Lol. grin


But I had no idea the bible said the role of the Woman is strictly Chore duty. grin that book tho!

I still think That Men and Women shouldn't have to conform to the Societal definition of Gender roles if they don't want to. If the Woman Wants to be the provider, She could. If they both Want to. Then, No problem. House chores could also be shared. Shouldn't even be debatable for Christ sake! I do the dishes, You sweep the house. I cook, You wash the plates. I feed the kids, You bathe them. C'est fini!
graçias you nailed it.
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Shugavee(f): 3:35pm On Mar 13, 2018
Cadec007:
ok i agree with others but this?. I dunno y my instincts tells me otherwise.
please lets not go back to this cheesy
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by FluidQueen(f): 3:35pm On Mar 13, 2018
UDUJ:


I agree with this. 50-50 no wahala

Today is a quarrel free day for me smiley
Eh... thank you. tongue

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Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by FluidQueen(f): 3:36pm On Mar 13, 2018
Cadec007:
graçias you nailed it.
anytime. smiley

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Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Cadec007(m): 3:36pm On Mar 13, 2018
Preshy561:
remove sex from relationship and you will find out that most of these guys are useless..
what happened to 'some'?

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Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Nobody: 3:36pm On Mar 13, 2018
grin
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Shugavee(f): 3:39pm On Mar 13, 2018
FluidQueen:
Lol. grin


But I had no idea the bible said the role of the Woman is strictly Chore duty. grin that book tho!

I still think That Men and Women shouldn't have to conform to the Societal definition of Gender roles if they don't want to. If the Woman Wants to be the provider, She could. If they both Want to. Then, No problem.

House chores could also be shared. Shouldn't even be debatable for Christ sake! I do the dishes, You sweep the house. I cook, You wash the plates. I feed the kids, You bathe them. C'est fini!
Chores n housework is their definition of the bible's submission!!

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Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Fredmatic(m): 3:39pm On Mar 13, 2018
[quote author=Preshy561 post=65803088]remove sex from relationship and you will find out that most of these guys are useless..

Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Cadec007(m): 3:40pm On Mar 13, 2018
Shugavee:
please lets not go back to this cheesy
no we can.... infact we should...... i wasn't aware and don't know what you posted on ur previous thread but i think its 70-30 to the males if you want to rate who needs who. :->
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by bizzy500: 3:40pm On Mar 13, 2018
Preshy561:
remove sex from relationship and you will find out that most of these guys are useless..
the guys you've meet undecided

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Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Preshy561(f): 3:40pm On Mar 13, 2018
Cadec007:
what happened to 'some'?
so,what happened to most undecided
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Preshy561(f): 3:41pm On Mar 13, 2018
bizzy500:
the guys you've meet undecided
the one I am quoting..undecided
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Preshy561(f): 3:41pm On Mar 13, 2018
bizzy500:
the guys you've meet undecided
the one I am quoting..undecided
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Nobody: 3:41pm On Mar 13, 2018
This is a clear case of misplaced priority..

I stopped taken you serious when you said Linda ikeji needs nothing from a man..

I guess you are still in your early teen age of 17 years, so you will not understand life,,
not until you are 30 and not married then you began to understand why Beyonce refuses to divorce her husband or why feminist like chimammanda are happily married..
.The only thing i feel for you is pity.
pity because you are about to destroy your life by your fake ideology..

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Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by bizzy500: 3:44pm On Mar 13, 2018
Preshy561:
the one I am quoting..undecided
have we date before undecided
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Nobody: 3:44pm On Mar 13, 2018
Op, that no3. So how much will i need after i married Linda Ikeji for her to be submissive?
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by chivic(m): 3:45pm On Mar 13, 2018
A man should be able to take responsibility for his family and wife.But not taking responsibility for all his girl friend or even fiancée's need.Its a very wrong mentality.

But for the sake of peace in the home,men and women should first of all do the traditional role they are known for and gradually assist each other in those other roles when necessary to meet up with the 21st century reality. But if its causing problem,they should kindly revert back to thier traditional roles and pray that things will be better.
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Cadec007(m): 3:45pm On Mar 13, 2018
Preshy561:

so,what happened to most undecided
kinda overemphasized.......men are emotional too even if you take away sex many would still be in the R-ship.
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Preshy561(f): 3:45pm On Mar 13, 2018
bizzy500:
have we date before undecided
by their response you shall know the ones that are useless.
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Nobody: 3:46pm On Mar 13, 2018
FluidQueen:
Lol. grin


But I had no idea the bible said the role of the Woman is strictly Chore duty. grin that book tho!

I still think That Men and Women shouldn't have to conform to the Societal definition of Gender roles if they don't want to. If the Woman Wants to be the provider, She could. If they both Want to. Then, No problem.

House chores could also be shared. Shouldn't even be debatable for Christ sake! I do the dishes, You sweep the house. I cook, You wash the plates. I feed the kids, You bathe them. C'est fini!
You know it's kind of foolish that something like house chores will become a subject of debate in relationship .

As in,, have we not been doing our house chores since we were young?

why is it now a subject of debate?
The op is only looking for cheap attention..

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Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by ubunja(m): 3:46pm On Mar 13, 2018
Shugavee:
So you see a lot of guys nowadays when a woman comes out and says a man is supposed to take care of me, supposed to suit my bills and all that and you see men all over the comment section saying" can't you make your money and be independent?? and don't be a liability" and so many other things but when the table changes and women are like I'm not your slave so you guys learn how to do chores so you can help in the home and you can assist your wife, they will start complaining n say the bible say this n that,,, but they 4get the bible said they are the ones to till the soil, so my previous thread was to make men remember their usefulness is just finacial n they should take pride in it n stop complaining cause the more women become independent the more men's usefulness to women depreciates, e.g linda ikeji apart from the fact we want love n companionship, she pysically needs nothing from a man than sex!! Most men think because they spend money on a woman, they hv the privilege to ask stupid questions!!! See if we all start making money 4 ourselves, u see more lesbians cause most women won't take the nonsense u men do,,,,,i want women to become independent, nothing as joyful to me than that!!! But a friendly reminder to men,

1. If u want an independent woman hv something better to offer than money be useful at home

2. Stop complaining!!!! U need us more than we need u guys!!!

3. If u believe a woman has no entitlement to ur money,(ur gf or wife)fine! put in mind u hv no entitlement to her submission, her cooking or her doing chores in ur house!!

I believe we all do our roles with love not it being forced!! If u love her u provide, n she loves u she will make u happy,
No entitlement whatsoever!! If its forced then its not meant to be!!!

#unapologeticfeminist
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by FluidQueen(f): 3:46pm On Mar 13, 2018
Shugavee:
Chores n housework is their definition of the bible's submission!!
Hahahahahahaha. . grin
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Preshy561(f): 3:46pm On Mar 13, 2018
Cadec007:
kinda overemphasied.......men are emotional too even if you take away sex many would still be in the R-ship.
okay.
speak for yourself then. undecided
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Nobody: 3:47pm On Mar 13, 2018
[quote author=Fredmatic post=65803511][/quote]
Cum again guys or girls?
Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by FluidQueen(f): 3:51pm On Mar 13, 2018
DrinkLimca:
You know it's kind of foolish that something like house chores will become a subject of debate in relationship .

As in,, have we not been doing our house chores since we were young?

why is it now a subject of debate?
The op is only looking for cheap attention..
I still think it's what it is tho.

Look at our fore fathers for example, They barely did house chores. It was regarded as a woman's Job. You'd hardly see married men Sweeping the house or doing the dishes. God forbid they Carried their Empty Plates to the kitchen. A thousand years later, It still is Regarded as A woman's job.

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