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tosyne2much:
It amazes me how how you are still bent on dating someone that treats you with so much disrespect & disregard.

Some girls are just so heartless. No matter how much you try to please them, they will still betray you. Shower them with love and they will still take you for granted

Tosin, love isn't by force. It has to be mutual in a relationship. If u see the signs why still force it and make yourself feel like you are been owed something.
Well, the Op must be a joker cos his story is incredible. Except he was under the influence of a very powerful spell.

[color=#000099][/color]you no get sense.. Begging her to stay away from the guy shows how yeye u are.. If in your next relationship U discover your girl is glueing to another guy, carry your things and run ASAP, she is not yours and can never be.... You can't beg a lady for her love... They are very selective with that(sometimes in an unwise way though).

chyy5:
I Think Is Right To Walk Away This Time.

The woman I so much love has been taken me for granted.
There is a guy in Malaysia that takes her time all the time.
I have tried severally to stop her from contacting the guy but she still does.
I am not the kind of guy that beats up a lady otherwise I would have beaten her up very well.
The so called Malaysian guy doesn't provide any of her needs.
Infact from their heartbreaking chats I read, there was a time the guy told her she is free to date any other guy for money that she shouldn't depend on him for any benefit.
My gal told him that she's not in for money.
This is a gal I love with all my heart. I've been enduring this for long thinking she will change. I've had heart to heart talk severally with her telling her how pained I am. Yet every night she will be on whatsapp call with this guy for close to 3 hours after work.
Their whatsapp chat breaks my heart each time I intrude to read.
She keep telling the guy that she doesn't have anybody and even when the guy argued she told him he will confirm when he sex her.
It kept me weak yet I continued loving her.
Just last week my cousin that is to travel to the states told me to come over to her place. Meanwhile my gal has been having issues with accommodation. Where she stays isn't really OK and her rent will expire ending of this month. I taught it wise to rent the place for my gal. I took her to the place and we concluded with my cousin; she agreed to leave the place for her and even auctioned all her property for her which supposed to amount over 200k but my cousin decided to collect 150k because of me.
I collected her account details and told her I will transfer the money to her including the house rent so she can pay the landlord to avoid extra agent fee.
As we were going back, my gal was busy apologising to her Malaysian guy why she wasn't able to pick his calls because the guy has been calling when we were there.
She told the guy she went out with her house agent to search for an accommodation. I was mad.
I am now being referred to as house agent.
I forcefully collected her phone to call the guy. She almost died. She throw herself on the bed and was crying pleading I shouldn't call.
I left her house.
Meanwhile she's having issues raising deposits since she's a DSA. As God may have it I have some funds to help her out but due to her behaviour I've decided to move on
She's been calling and pleading but I know is all because of the house and deposits since she's not willing to let the guy go
I love her so much and it breaks my heart.
I have called her severally and pleaded with her how hurtful I feel seeing her chats with that guy yet she continued.
This is a guy that doesn't care about her needs but she kept glued to him.
I've endured much hence I am walking away. It pains, yes it pains but I have no choice.

Pls walk out jejely.... I bet if d guy comes back even if you r married to her he must sex her

chyy5:
I Think Is Right To Walk Away This Time.

The woman I so much love has been taken me for granted.
There is a guy in Malaysia that takes her time all the time.
I have tried severally to stop her from contacting the guy but she still does.
I am not the kind of guy that beats up a lady otherwise I would have beaten her up very well.
The so called Malaysian guy doesn't provide any of her needs.
Infact from their heartbreaking chats I read, there was a time the guy told her she is free to date any other guy for money that she shouldn't depend on him for any benefit.
My gal told him that she's not in for money.
This is a gal I love with all my heart. I've been enduring this for long thinking she will change. I've had heart to heart talk severally with her telling her how pained I am. Yet every night she will be on whatsapp call with this guy for close to 3 hours after work.
Their whatsapp chat breaks my heart each time I intrude to read.
She keep telling the guy that she doesn't have anybody and even when the guy argued she told him he will confirm when he sex her.
It kept me weak yet I continued loving her.
Just last week my cousin that is to travel to the states told me to come over to her place. Meanwhile my gal has been having issues with accommodation. Where she stays isn't really OK and her rent will expire ending of this month. I taught it wise to rent the place for my gal. I took her to the place and we concluded with my cousin; she agreed to leave the place for her and even auctioned all her property for her which supposed to amount over 200k but my cousin decided to collect 150k because of me.
I collected her account details and told her I will transfer the money to her including the house rent so she can pay the landlord to avoid extra agent fee.
As we were going back, my gal was busy apologising to her Malaysian guy why she wasn't able to pick his calls because the guy has been calling when we were there.
She told the guy she went out with her house agent to search for an accommodation. I was mad.
I am now being referred to as house agent.
I forcefully collected her phone to call the guy. She almost died. She throw herself on the bed and was crying pleading I shouldn't call.
I left her house.
Meanwhile she's having issues raising deposits since she's a DSA. As God may have it I have some funds to help her out but due to her behaviour I've decided to move on
She's been calling and pleading but I know is all because of the house and deposits since she's not willing to let the guy go
I love her so much and it breaks my heart.
I have called her severally and pleaded with her how hurtful I feel seeing her chats with that guy yet she continued.
This is a guy that doesn't care about her needs but she kept glued to him.
I've endured much hence I am walking away. It pains, yes it pains but I have no choice.

Toxic

IamAirforce1:
I honestly feel bad seeing my fellow guys been manipulated by women ..

Only few women would love you 100% the rest are after something they don't have.

Girls show these signs of gold digging 2 weeks into your relationship with them and never ignore these signs.

OP, saw these gold digging signs in her but ignored it and now she has shown him her true gold digging colour
But the guy still never get sense.

what will you gain insulting him? Comment if not compulsory if you lack resonable advise, people like this gives NL bad names. You're simply pathetic!

chyy5:
I Think Is Right To Walk Away This Time.

The woman I so much love has been taken me for granted.
There is a guy in Malaysia that takes her time all the time.
I have tried severally to stop her from contacting the guy but she still does.
I am not the kind of guy that beats up a lady otherwise I would have beaten her up very well.
The so called Malaysian guy doesn't provide any of her needs.
Infact from their heartbreaking chats I read, there was a time the guy told her she is free to date any other guy for money that she shouldn't depend on him for any benefit.
My gal told him that she's not in for money.
This is a gal I love with all my heart. I've been enduring this for long thinking she will change. I've had heart to heart talk severally with her telling her how pained I am. Yet every night she will be on whatsapp call with this guy for close to 3 hours after work.
Their whatsapp chat breaks my heart each time I intrude to read.
She keep telling the guy that she doesn't have anybody and even when the guy argued she told him he will confirm when he sex her.
It kept me weak yet I continued loving her.
Just last week my cousin that is to travel to the states told me to come over to her place. Meanwhile my gal has been having issues with accommodation. Where she stays isn't really OK and her rent will expire ending of this month. I taught it wise to rent the place for my gal. I took her to the place and we concluded with my cousin; she agreed to leave the place for her and even auctioned all her property for her which supposed to amount over 200k but my cousin decided to collect 150k because of me.
I collected her account details and told her I will transfer the money to her including the house rent so she can pay the landlord to avoid extra agent fee.
As we were going back, my gal was busy apologising to her Malaysian guy why she wasn't able to pick his calls because the guy has been calling when we were there.
She told the guy she went out with her house agent to search for an accommodation. I was mad.
I am now being referred to as house agent.
I forcefully collected her phone to call the guy. She almost died. She throw herself on the bed and was crying pleading I shouldn't call.
I left her house.
Meanwhile she's having issues raising deposits since she's a DSA. As God may have it I have some funds to help her out but due to her behaviour I've decided to move on
She's been calling and pleading but I know is all because of the house and deposits since she's not willing to let the guy go
I love her so much and it breaks my heart.
I have called her severally and pleaded with her how hurtful I feel seeing her chats with that guy yet she continued.
This is a guy that doesn't care about her needs but she kept glued to him.
I've endured much hence I am walking away. It pains, yes it pains but I have no choice.

Nice one Bro, take one day at a time and you won't remember this scum in a month..

karli4nia:
Tosin, love isn't by force. It has to be mutual in a relationship. If u see the signs why still force it and make yourself feel like you are been owed something.
Well, the Op must be a joker cos his story is incredible. Except he was under the influence of a very powerful spell.

May God bless you bro

Ori OP yi i ko pe rara; in fact, i don't know who get brain pass between you and Mosquito... If you dare ask me why; walahi, i go swear for you.

tosyne2much:
May God bless you bro

Bless u2 Bro man.

the person whose comments the mods have been hiding must be an EVILMAN

chyy5:
I Think Is Right To Walk Away This Time.

The woman I so much love has been taken me for granted.
There is a guy in Malaysia that takes her time all the time.
I have tried severally to stop her from contacting the guy but she still does.
I am not the kind of guy that beats up a lady otherwise I would have beaten her up very well.
The so called Malaysian guy doesn't provide any of her needs.
Infact from their heartbreaking chats I read, there was a time the guy told her she is free to date any other guy for money that she shouldn't depend on him for any benefit.
My gal told him that she's not in for money.
This is a gal I love with all my heart. I've been enduring this for long thinking she will change. I've had heart to heart talk severally with her telling her how pained I am. Yet every night she will be on whatsapp call with this guy for close to 3 hours after work.
Their whatsapp chat breaks my heart each time I intrude to read.
She keep telling the guy that she doesn't have anybody and even when the guy argued she told him he will confirm when he sex her.
It kept me weak yet I continued loving her.
Just last week my cousin that is to travel to the states told me to come over to her place. Meanwhile my gal has been having issues with accommodation. Where she stays isn't really OK and her rent will expire ending of this month. I taught it wise to rent the place for my gal. I took her to the place and we concluded with my cousin; she agreed to leave the place for her and even auctioned all her property for her which supposed to amount over 200k but my cousin decided to collect 150k because of me.
I collected her account details and told her I will transfer the money to her including the house rent so she can pay the landlord to avoid extra agent fee.
As we were going back, my gal was busy apologising to her Malaysian guy why she wasn't able to pick his calls because the guy has been calling when we were there.
She told the guy she went out with her house agent to search for an accommodation. I was mad.
I am now being referred to as house agent.
I forcefully collected her phone to call the guy. She almost died. She throw herself on the bed and was crying pleading I shouldn't call.
I left her house.
Meanwhile she's having issues raising deposits since she's a DSA. As God may have it I have some funds to help her out but due to her behaviour I've decided to move on
She's been calling and pleading but I know is all because of the house and deposits since she's not willing to let the guy go
I love her so much and it breaks my heart.
I have called her severally and pleaded with her how hurtful I feel seeing her chats with that guy yet she continued.
This is a guy that doesn't care about her needs but she kept glued to him.
I've endured much hence I am walking away. It pains, yes it pains but I have no choice.

it really baffles me u know..i used to think the reverse was the case that the only reason y the lady should stay glued to a malaysian guy shoukd b because of money..take ur love where it will be appreciated.it hurt for a while but it will pass.

chyy5:
I Think Is Right To Walk Away This Time.

The woman I so much love has been taken me for granted.
There is a guy in Malaysia that takes her time all the time.
I have tried severally to stop her from contacting the guy but she still does.
I am not the kind of guy that beats up a lady otherwise I would have beaten her up very well.
The so called Malaysian guy doesn't provide any of her needs.
Infact from their heartbreaking chats I read, there was a time the guy told her she is free to date any other guy for money that she shouldn't depend on him for any benefit.
My gal told him that she's not in for money.
This is a gal I love with all my heart. I've been enduring this for long thinking she will change. I've had heart to heart talk severally with her telling her how pained I am. Yet every night she will be on whatsapp call with this guy for close to 3 hours after work.
Their whatsapp chat breaks my heart each time I intrude to read.
She keep telling the guy that she doesn't have anybody and even when the guy argued she told him he will confirm when he sex her.
It kept me weak yet I continued loving her.
Just last week my cousin that is to travel to the states told me to come over to her place. Meanwhile my gal has been having issues with accommodation. Where she stays isn't really OK and her rent will expire ending of this month. I taught it wise to rent the place for my gal. I took her to the place and we concluded with my cousin; she agreed to leave the place for her and even auctioned all her property for her which supposed to amount over 200k but my cousin decided to collect 150k because of me.
I collected her account details and told her I will transfer the money to her including the house rent so she can pay the landlord to avoid extra agent fee.
As we were going back, my gal was busy apologising to her Malaysian guy why she wasn't able to pick his calls because the guy has been calling when we were there.
She told the guy she went out with her house agent to search for an accommodation. I was mad.
I am now being referred to as house agent.
I forcefully collected her phone to call the guy. She almost died. She throw herself on the bed and was crying pleading I shouldn't call.
I left her house.
Meanwhile she's having issues raising deposits since she's a DSA. As God may have it I have some funds to help her out but due to her behaviour I've decided to move on
She's been calling and pleading but I know is all because of the house and deposits since she's not willing to let the guy go
I love her so much and it breaks my heart.
I have called her severally and pleaded with her how hurtful I feel seeing her chats with that guy yet she continued.
This is a guy that doesn't care about her needs but she kept glued to him.
I've endured much hence I am walking away. It pains, yes it pains but I have no choice.

Na by force to get girlfriend? Smh

itsmeurLady:
I'm telling u , NL guys (some) can make mouth ehn, see them bashing OP, love does not have rules, all these ones forming tough have never been in a rship Cs once love hold u, smh it will take God to deliver you from its shambles especially when it's not the right one. I saw one forming James Bond up der and ppl were giving him 135 likes... In my mind, this one never jam!

OP I'm looking for someone like u oo, don't let anyone tell u are a fool for loving, I like sincerity and transparency in a relationship, it's my greatest turn on , material things can wait. As long as we are madly in love with ourselves, I'm okay . Not that one person will be taking your love for granted or one person will love one person more than the other person. Don't worry OP, your type is rare!!!!! Thumbs up, u will find someone better!


To the 007's in the house, I hail una but there is no Master/King in Love, there are no Rules!

Shut your crab bit*h
You believe in transparency as if you have never cheated before.

Guy you better change that stupid attitude and start bleeping ashawo so you build a stronger character towards women.
An esteem babe to you is an ashawo start bleeping ashawo and forget dating

victorian:
Definitely I won't cheat..
Am talking about myself and not every lady out there.

When I was still single, I cut off suitors who were stingy both home and abroad..

Mo raye oshi

I no come this life, come suffer for man hand.

I love you, I love you will not pay my bills. I work as well back then, and I still. Work till today.

But a man has to show his significance in my life, by contributing financially, morally, emotionally and all.

I cut off from all suitors disturbing my life with sweet words, and has God would have it, what made me cut off?
Anytime a guy woos me, and I agree.. I become broke after a while. Then true stinginess of the guy crops up. That it got to a stage, my friends whom I will borrow money from will ask me, but babe don't u have a guy who works, why ask us for money? It's somehow o.. I will feel so ashamed of myself. Then I will stutter and say he travelled. Some will assist while some will just walk from me.
Immediately I cut off from the stingy guy, my money starts coming from my work. And I will become buoyant again.

Same thing happens over and over again.

One New Year day, I just said enough it enough. I no want guy again
Everyone of you can go to blazes. If it's to fucvk, you can fucvk well.. If it's to eat my meal, you will sharpen teeth like hyena
Oya, I don't want to marry again. Every guy leave me alone!

Oya every guy wooing me, out of my life!
I drove everyone of them. They were like pests in my life. Even the ordinary male friends, I drove everyone away. Enough is enough.

Then I focused on God and serving him sincerely.

Everything businesswise started booming for me, and better this time. until I met a successful business entrepreneur. He has this mindset that a woman, no matter how successful she is, a man should at least take care of her and sow seeds in her life.
I realise he's not stingy. And my business didnt fall this time, in fact he even invested 1.5million into my business, after some months of dating.

I was shocked and.

And so? What should we do about it
Abeg face front

Abang52:
And so? What should we do about it
Abeg face front

Who call you?
E pain am.
Mtchewwwww.

LordKO:
@OP

You've no shame at all! Only small-minded people like you goes to places where they're tolerated. Noble people only goes to places where they're celebrated. The girl isn't to be blamed at all because she's obviously not the pretentious type, you won't say she hid her relationship with the Malaysian based guy (citing your submission) - which is her preference - from you.

Yes, the emotion of love is the strongest of all emotions and this is the reason why it's important for one to lay his/her principles before talk about looking and choosing a companion either for dating/marriage, so that in the event someone you fell in love doesn't possess at least 70% of the important attributes that can complement yours, you use his/her negative attitudes to neutralize the love emotional attachment towards her and automatically untangle yourself from her emotional grip and move on with your life.

Now, go and set your emotional firewall password with goodness and learn to always give same without being servile - and withdraw it from anyone that fails to sustain it with goodness too, but not necessarily in equal measures - and in so doing you will say bye bye to toxic relationship and heartbreak.

Love (and other attributes of goodness) isn't a sign of weakness but strength, however, unprincipled people like you and your ilks always make it to seem so, through actions and inactions like this.

Healthy relationship isn't negotiable.

how can one person make sooo much sense is this really from a naija guy??

lefulefu:
who told u the malaysian based guy is not sending her money .if he send her money u think she will tell u.the point to note here is that this ur babe no love u and neither does she love the malaysian based guy but she considers the guy a better option since he"s overseas based(foreign league) and you na home based(Eyimba FC). Her plan is to dump u and marry this guy and with luck this guy might take her to malaysia.this is her plan my guy.

sounds like the truth

xendra:
how can one person make sooo much sense is this really from a naija guy??

Hahaha. I'm a bona fide Nigerian - one with burning desire to become a better citizen. Meanwhile, believe you me that Eve truly ate the fruit. Lol.

xendra:
sounds like the truth

na waoh for dis ur dp oo. Adam couldn't have lied on Eve cos he had an innocent heart at dat time.

victorian:
Who call you?
E pain am.
Mtchewwwww.

E pain me, for wetin? 1.5 wey them give you

Abang52:
E pain me, for wetin? 1.5 wey them give you

Hehehehehehehehehe


See your finger, wey look like wetin, person take dey dig up grave and tunnels

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