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Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by Skinni(m): 12:23pm On Mar 15, 2018
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LOL

THIS GIRL IS SERIOUSLY MAD.

YOU'RE THE SAME PERSON THAT MAKES SURE TO CREATE A THREAD DAILY, ABOUT MEN. PARTICULARLY "BROKE" MEN.

YOU'RE THE SAME PAUPER THAT PREACHES DAILY, HOW GIRLS SHOULD ONLY GO FOR RICH MEN BECAUSE THE POOR MEN DON'T DESERVE LOVE. THEY DO NOT DESERVE AFFECTION, THEY DO NOT DESERVE SEX.


USING YOUR IDEOLOGY AND EQUATION OF SEX TO MONEY,

IT'S ONLY RIGHT TO REPHRASE YOUR QUESTION..

"The way some girls are screaming about these days, I really don't understand it. They'll say they can't marry a poor (broke) man, yet some of them have ran so many men dry. so who's going to marry those men



well, I've no option but to ask if you ladies are marrying for the money or love?




I HOPE IT ALL MAKES SENSE NOW, RIGHT?
WHERE'S DRINKLIMCA? undecided


Hahaha.. I don't comment on this kind of thread but you comment is damn funny.
Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by MhizAJ(f): 12:25pm On Mar 15, 2018
ubunja:

south africa is a big place...
Yeah
I know
Kwazulu-Natal
No more questions again ubunja
Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by ubunja(m): 12:28pm On Mar 15, 2018
MhizAJ:

Yeah
I know
Kwazulu-Natal
No more questions again ubunja
ever been to Jozi?
Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by MhizAJ(f): 12:34pm On Mar 15, 2018
ubunja:

ever been to Jozi?

Yeah
One of the liveliest places cool
Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by Nobody: 12:35pm On Mar 15, 2018
For me its love then her character..very important to me...not virginity.

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Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by ubunja(m): 12:35pm On Mar 15, 2018
MhizAJ:


Yeah
One of the liveliest places cool
when you come again hola at me. i'll show you how we do offline. i stay in the CBD.
Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by MhizAJ(f): 12:36pm On Mar 15, 2018
ubunja:

when you come again hola at me. i'll show you how we do offline. i stay in the CBD.

Okay
Are You in Jozi
Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by MetroBaba1(m): 12:39pm On Mar 15, 2018
BluntTheApostle:


Who the hell you think you are talking to like that angry Mmm? Mmm?

Well, too late for that now. I requested and it took you hours to reply. I might as well keep my question(s) to myself.

Children With No Home Training. And They Lack Respect. Just Imagine Her Reply

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Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by ubunja(m): 12:40pm On Mar 15, 2018
MhizAJ:


Okay
Are You in Jozi
as it says on my profile

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Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by Nobody: 12:41pm On Mar 15, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:




LOL

THIS GIRL IS SERIOUSLY MAD.

YOU'RE THE SAME PERSON THAT MAKES SURE TO CREATE A THREAD DAILY, ABOUT MEN. PARTICULARLY "BROKE" MEN.

YOU'RE THE SAME PAUPER THAT PREACHES DAILY, HOW GIRLS SHOULD ONLY GO FOR RICH MEN BECAUSE THE POOR MEN DON'T DESERVE LOVE. THEY DO NOT DESERVE AFFECTION, THEY DO NOT DESERVE SEX.


USING YOUR IDEOLOGY AND EQUATION OF SEX TO MONEY,

IT'S ONLY RIGHT TO REPHRASE YOUR QUESTION..

"The way some girls are screaming about these days, I really don't understand it. They'll say they can't marry a poor (broke) man, yet some of them have ran so many men dry. so who's going to marry those men



well, I've no option but to ask if you ladies are marrying for the money or love?




I HOPE IT ALL MAKES SENSE NOW, RIGHT?
? undecided

...cheesy

Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by UDUJ(m): 12:48pm On Mar 15, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:




LOL

THIS GIRL IS SERIOUSLY MAD.

YOU'RE THE SAME PERSON THAT MAKES SURE TO CREATE A THREAD DAILY, ABOUT MEN. PARTICULARLY "BROKE" MEN.

YOU'RE THE SAME PAUPER THAT PREACHES DAILY, HOW GIRLS SHOULD ONLY GO FOR RICH MEN BECAUSE THE POOR MEN DON'T DESERVE LOVE. THEY DO NOT DESERVE AFFECTION, THEY DO NOT DESERVE SEX.


USING YOUR IDEOLOGY AND EQUATION OF SEX TO MONEY,

IT'S ONLY RIGHT TO REPHRASE YOUR QUESTION..

"The way some girls are screaming about these days, I really don't understand it. They'll say they can't marry a poor (broke) man, yet some of them have ran so many men dry. so who's going to marry those men



well, I've no option but to ask if you ladies are marrying for the money or love?




I HOPE IT ALL MAKES SENSE NOW, RIGHT?
WHERE'S DRINKLIMCA? undecided


The girl is a psycho. Too many teens in Nairaland now angry
Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by GoodBoi1(m): 1:09pm On Mar 15, 2018
Both. It's easier to believe your wife is cheating on you if you didn't marry her as a virgin. It affects trust on both sides
Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by Nobody: 1:32pm On Mar 15, 2018
Flowers95:
As a married woman, I can kindly say.

Women please love is secondary. Marry a man who is financially secure, a man who has a career not a job. Marry a man who has money, because love cannot carry a marriage especially when you hit that 10 year mark. The love will fizzle out.

Men marry a woman can take care of your children and home. Marry a woman who can make your house into a home. Stop looking for Miss independent because in a marriage you’ll realise that she’s taking your role as a man, therefore causing problems.

Not everybody will understand this, but with age and experience you will understand. Money is the biggest cause of divorce.
So wealthy couples that get divorced nko na wetin dey cause their divorce?
is it money too?
Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by FluidQueen(f): 1:38pm On Mar 15, 2018
Flowers95:
I can guess you’re under 25 and not married.
This is Old. Really cliche.

I specifically said date a man with a career not a job, there’s a huge difference. You can be somewhat financially independent, however when you are married tone it down. When you are married, your husband is there to take care of you, not screaming miss independent.
Hogwash.

Women and men alike should never Get involved in marriage without BOTH of them developing some kind of financial independence.
Even if you have money, never flaunt it in his face. Marry a man who is above you financially and who can take care of yourself and children.
So, he's allowed to flaunt his Money and i shouldn't ? Because? Is that what your bible tells you?
i've been married for long my dear. You will learn when you’re older, take care.
I don't care how long you've been married but that thing you are in is a SHAM. You obviously love his money and the things he buys for you. Not him.

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Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by Flowers95: 1:41pm On Mar 15, 2018
FluidQueen:
This is Old. Really cliche.

Hogwash.

Women and men should alike should never Get involved in marriage without BOTH of them developing some kind of financial independence. So, he's allowed to flaunt his Money and i shouldn't ? Because? Is that what your bible tells you? I don't care how long you've been married but that thing you are in is a SHAM. You obviously love his money and the things he buys for you. Not him.
okay dear, with time you will learn. Have a nice day.

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Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by Flowers95: 1:43pm On Mar 15, 2018
lefulefu:

So wealthy couples that get divorced nko na wetin dey cause their divorce?
is it money too?
money is not the only reason for divorce, but it’s the no1 cause. for the average joe, money is important.
Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by Nobody: 1:52pm On Mar 15, 2018
Flowers95:
money is not the only reason for divorce, but it’s the no1 cause. for the average joe, money is important.
nope
the number 1 cause that causes a marriage to break is infidelity not money.there are average and even below average married couples still living together
their are okada men,shoemakers with wives and kids.as they hustling outside their wives are also hustling.if there is love ,compassion and understanding b/w couples the marriage go survive.the only time money becomes an issue is if the woman married the man 4 his money.

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Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by UDUJ(m): 1:55pm On Mar 15, 2018
FluidQueen:
God!


Nairaland keeps regurgitating sad people with Screwed logic.
What happens if Something happens to Your husband's financial Well? And it eventually dries up and leaves him jobless and broke?


You'd be left with nothing! You'd be a sad, Depressed mentally retrogressive Woman Who's too lackadaisical to Stand up and fend for herself. He's your husband, not your father.

Stop spiting independent Women and Go attach something meaningful to Your life.

Come closer, I need to give you a kiss kiss kiss kiss
Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by FluidQueen(f): 1:58pm On Mar 15, 2018
UDUJ:


Come closer, I need to give you a kiss kiss kiss kiss
kiss kiss
Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by Flowers95: 2:17pm On Mar 15, 2018
lefulefu:

nope
the number 1 cause that causes a marriage to break is infidelity not money.there are average and even below average married couples still living together
their are okada men,shoemakers with wives and kids.as they hustling outside their wives are also hustling.if there is love ,compassion and understanding b/w couples the marriage go survive.the only time money becomes an issue is if the woman married the man 4 his money.
Okay, I’m assuming you are not married from the way you are talking. Come back to me in 5 years time. Have a lovely day sir.
Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by Flowers95: 2:20pm On Mar 15, 2018
lefulefu:

nope
the number 1 cause that causes a marriage to break is infidelity not money.there are average and even below average married couples still living together
their are okada men,shoemakers with wives and kids.as they hustling outside their wives are also hustling.if there is love ,compassion and understanding b/w couples the marriage go survive.the only time money becomes an issue is if the woman married the man 4 his money.
Infidelity is definitely not the no1 cause of divorce. After 5 years, please come back to me sir.
Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by Nobody: 2:21pm On Mar 15, 2018
Flowers95:
Okay, I’m assuming you are not married from the way you are talking. Come back to me in 5 years time. Have a lovely day sir.
Have a lovely day too ma
Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by Nobody: 2:22pm On Mar 15, 2018
Flowers95:
Infidelity is definitely not the no1 cause of divorce. After 5 years, please come back to me sir.
have already said my point
to each its own ma
Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by Nobody: 2:27pm On Mar 15, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:




LOL

THIS GIRL IS SERIOUSLY MAD.

YOU'RE THE SAME PERSON THAT MAKES SURE TO CREATE A THREAD DAILY, ABOUT MEN. PARTICULARLY "BROKE" MEN.

YOU'RE THE SAME PAUPER THAT PREACHES DAILY, HOW GIRLS SHOULD ONLY GO FOR RICH MEN BECAUSE THE POOR MEN DON'T DESERVE LOVE. THEY DO NOT DESERVE AFFECTION, THEY DO NOT DESERVE SEX.


USING YOUR IDEOLOGY AND EQUATION OF SEX TO MONEY,

IT'S ONLY RIGHT TO REPHRASE YOUR QUESTION..

"The way some girls are screaming about these days, I really don't understand it. They'll say they can't marry a poor (broke) man, yet some of them have ran so many men dry. so who's going to marry those men



well, I've no option but to ask if you ladies are marrying for the money or love?




I HOPE IT ALL MAKES SENSE NOW, RIGHT?
WHERE'S DRINKLIMCA? undecided

Brother it's obvious that the op has lost her body count,, her Jerusalem has been run through like lekki beach,, so she is using this thread to console herself..
Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by Gloryboy(m): 2:30pm On Mar 15, 2018
Because of both. And don't ask me if am a Virgin cos I am.
Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by Nobody: 2:39pm On Mar 15, 2018
FluidQueen:
This is Old. Really cliche.

Hogwash.

Women and men alike should never Get involved in marriage without BOTH of them developing some kind of financial independence. So, he's allowed to flaunt his Money and i shouldn't ? Because? Is that what your bible tells you? I don't care how long you've been married but that thing you are in is a SHAM. You obviously love his money and the things he buys for you. Not him.


Little girl you need to calm down.

All she has advised summarily are;

1. Marry a man with a future
2. Be humble

I know you want to flaunt your spontaneous teenage hormones on the internet but let it not affect your ability to clearly understand and process information.

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Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by FluidQueen(f): 2:45pm On Mar 15, 2018
AllforJesus7:



Little girl you need to calm down.

All she has advised summarily are;

1. Marry a man with a future
2. Be humble

I know you want to flaunt your spontaneous teenage hormones on the internet but let it not affect your ability to clearly understand and process information.
Old man, You need to mind your business and steer clear from my raging teenage hormones.

And ofcourse, I would be With Someone with my qualities. Someone with Ambitions.

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Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by madami123: 3:42pm On Mar 15, 2018
Virginity
Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by Only1mi(f): 9:26am On Mar 16, 2018
lefulefu:

nope
the number 1 cause that causes a marriage to break is infidelity not money.there are average and even below average married couples still living together
their are okada men,shoemakers with wives and kids.as they hustling outside their wives are also hustling.if there is love ,compassion and understanding b/w couples the marriage go survive.the only time money becomes an issue is if the woman married the man 4 his money.

Don't mind her, shouting I've been married for long, people need to understand that because they've been doing something for a while doesn't mean it's the right way. Secondly couples aren't the same, what works for hubby and I wouldn't necessarily work for other people. When I give people any form of advice, I always attach a disclaimer.

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Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by Nobody: 10:01am On Mar 16, 2018
Only1mi:


Don't mind her, shouting I've been married for long, people need to understand that because they've been doing something for a while doesn't mean it's the right way. Secondly couples aren't the same, what works for hubby and I wouldn't necessarily work for other people. When I give people any form of advice, I always attach a disclaimer.
GBAM!
Re: Are You Marrying A Lady Because Of Virginity Or Love? by abimic(m): 10:47am On Mar 16, 2018
Flowers95:
money is not the only reason for divorce, but it’s the no1 cause. for the average joe, money is important.
Ehn.. And u claimed to be married, obviously u love his money, when it disappears, u run for your life. Money isn't the core of marriage, it's just an integral part. Money is important whether married or not, so it's no yardstick since it affects both married and singles.

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