donstan18:


I know you do
I sure know, but I doubt if you know that I do.

I don't go with the crowd. Experience has also taught me that some guys who act all sanctimonious on NL , are evil.

So, don't doubt what I know.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Oh I remember the domestic husband stuff I thought you were a guy then.The one that has money pass this was what pastor lucifer said ooo that you like money.

That one is confused. Sometimes he says i donate my pussie and money to men. Other times he says otherwise.

Who doesn't like money? I like biko.

donstan18:


I am ME, I comment as guided by tutelary spirit, I hate you today and like you tomorrow, I support women today and go against them tomorrow.

I care less about respects from ladies on Nland, I just care less about it. The respect that matters to me is the ones I get outside here in real. So gladly erase the thought of expecting me to be objective so as to impress.

Do research on the different between gender equality and equity, you get to know how dumb and dull most Nland e-goat wannabe feminist turned themselves

I keep it unpredictable, you'll notice if you are smart enough.

Research is my hubby especially in relation to politics and I have researched on it.I don't comment on what I am not familiar with that is why I always go to the politics section.I don't care about impressions because I always go with my mind I don't know you in person so no need for impression.Just try to be objective at times that is all.

press005:
d way we youths argue over trivial issues amazes me...Y not just allow others to believe in whatever they feel like.....

At d end, experience and several encounters will help remould ur belief or misconception ..lets all shun all dis e-insults and bragging.

And there lies the problem with our society. People should display what's true and real instead of allowing the society to just believe whatever one says.

My advice to the so called married woman is to join a church women society since she seems to have so much time on her hands. So she stops constituting a nuisance online

AntiBrutus:


I don't go with the crowd. Experience has also taught me that some guys who act all sanctimonious on NL , are evil.

So, don't doubt what I know.



That one is confused. Sometimes he says i donate my pussie and money to men. Other times he says otherwise.

Who doesn't like money? I like biko.

I like money legitimate money.My sister I am sure you have heard of the saying money talks?I laugh sometimes when people say money is not everything I tell them money can buy almost everything infact everything except true love.

Chikita66:
/Nairaland feminist that will fight men and blame men for their frustrated life,

You hate the unmarried talk because you are not married but you are free to call someone else frustrated.

Hypocrisy at its finest.

Continue

Ladyhippolyta88:
Research is my hubby especially in relation to politics and I have researched on it.I don't comment on what I am not familiar with that is why I always go to the politics section.I don't care about impressions because I always go with my mind I don't know you in person so no need for impression.Just try to be objective at times that is all.

You can only see the objectivity in my comment if you view it clear and free mind.

zicoraads:

Who is Gre iboy?

I prefer that Lucifer guy as a competition. Grey'boy'? I don't compete with kids

He isn't a 'boy'. I don't know why he chose that 'suffix'. Lucifer ke? That one will kill me and kill you too. Don't prefer such a person pls.

Chikita66:
Amarabae I dislike this direction that you keep going, so because some ladies have views contrary to your feminist opinion that means they are looking for men or husband on nairaland that is why they are talking like that.


Are you listening to yourself right now, you are better than stooping so low to spew this.

If you're not a feminist, you're looking for husband on nairaland. You're also sex starved.
Says op and Amara.

They've forgotten life has shaped us into what we're and what we believe in. And not everybody can be as 'sane' as you.

Lol, leave Amara, instead of you to try and win anti feminists to your fold. Make them understand why they need to be feminists, why feminism will help us all in this 21st century. She already assumed that it's husband they're looking for here.

AntiBrutus:


I don't go with the crowd. Experience has also taught me that some guys who act all sanctimonious on NL , are evil.

So, don't doubt what I know.


.

Then lessen the gender bigotry thought you have about me.

donstan18:


You can only see the objectivity in my comment if you view it clear and free mind.

You done change mouth.Hahahaha you know I cannot see clearly without my glasses let me get my glasses sit down and read your post again.

donstan18:


Then lessen the gender bigotry thought you have about me.

Come and lessen it for me na...

makydebbie:


I feel Amara sometimes, I feel she makes sense on some issues. But I believe her ideology on feminism is flawed.


This was written by Miss.write in her thread on feminism.
This is what feminism is all about, it is for equality. But most of these folks have turned it to gender war. I saw a thread on fp where a feminist said, "The future is female" and I was like, as a feminist, the future should be any gender who is capable and has the nation's interest at heart. Not necessarily female. Whoever is capable should be it. I'm not a feminist but when I see posts from real feminists, I like and share.


How can you say the future is female and call yourself a feminist, you're a confused misandrist. Then a feminist will read this IQ reducing hogwash and say kudos? Nah that's hypocrisy.

Lol... I dont even know this Amara..until that Bliss incidence . I dont pay much attention to people like that .And honestly dont care!


Mzwrite so far remains the only Feminist on this thread,others are wannabes! She understands that feminism isnt about fighting the other gender,Its fighting for humanity.

You cant fight for humanity when you are inhuman! How do you preach love when you dont have? Equality cuts across all genders because humanity does. You dont correct violence against women with violence against Men.The world will be in chaos! These people just dont get it!

Amarabae:

You hate the unmarried talk because you are not married but you are free to call someone else frustrated.

Hypocrisy at its finest.

Continue

I choose to say you feminist on nairaland are frustrated, how can you say your fellow woman is sex starved and desperate cos she doesn't want to be a feminist, how can you come online to shame hour fellow woman all because of her not being a feminist, are we not in the same gender with you, you fighting against your fellow woman is that one part of the movement?


About the unmarried talk, I don't hate it cos am not married and you don't know my plans, so you slapping the whole marriage issue on our face will add little or no effect on us, at the right time we will all marry, don't worry I will give you my wedding invitation card when the time is due cos I can see that you see marriage as a huge achievement, I really hope you are happy where you are.

Black Women, Know your History and your culture, Learn it, Keep it!! Don't let the white man and his ways influence your realm of thought.. Know the Difference between your Ancient ancestors and theirs.


You were Powerful Queens, They were Not!

Ladyhippolyta88:
You done change mouth.Hahahaha you know I cannot see clearly without my glasses let me get my glasses sit down and read your post again.

Lol

U de mad

Komot for here osiso

Chikita66:
I choose to say you feminist on nairaland are frustrated, how can you say your fellow woman is sex starved and desperate cos she doesn't want to be a feminist, how can you come online to shame hour fellow woman all because of her not being a feminist, are we not in the same gender with you, you fighting against your fellow woman is that one part of the movement?


About the unmarried talk, I don't hate it cos am not married and you don't know my plans, so you slapping the whole marriage issue on our face will add little or no effect on us, at the right time we will all marry, don't worry I will give you my wedding invitation card when the time is due cos I can see that you see marriage as a huge achievement, I really hope you are happy where you are.

Teach her what it takes to be a sensible woman

Chikita66:
I choose to say you feminist on nairaland are frustrated, how can you say your fellow woman is sex starved and desperate cos she doesn't want to be a feminist, how can you come online to shame hour fellow woman all because of her not being a feminist, are we not in the same gender with you, you fighting against your fellow woman is that one part of the movement?


.

So one person's opinion is a yardstick for generalization?
Even chimamanda adichie will be insulted just like I was because of the OP postulation!
Of course Life is full of choices,
If you see a pro feministic thread, why not avoid it?
Instead of jumping in, generalizing and insulting around.

donstan18:


Lol

U de mad

Komot for here osiso

No I don't like using my glasses to read things on phone but because it is you my obim I am using my glasses to read your post I am still here.

AntiBrutus:

Come and lessen it for me na...

Lol
Oya position let me use my lessening tool

donstan18:


Teach her what it takes to be a sensible woman

You engaged me in an argument and ran away.

Weak azz thing.

Amarabae:

So one person's opinion is a yardstick for generalization?
Even chimamanda adichie will be insulted just like I was because of the OP postulation!
Of course Life is full of choices,
If you see a pro feministic thread, why not avoid it?
Instead of jumping in, generalizing and insulting around.

You supported her opinion, so I am not using only her opinion, you even went ahead to say we being anti feminist won't get us the ring, so who is a hypocrite now?


Then you are not adichie, adichie will give us reasons why we should be one and not call us sex starved and desperate

Amarabae:
You engaged me in an argument and ran away.
Weak azz thing.

No, you did.
You never replied my last mention due to fear.
Oluku

Amarabae:
You engaged me in an argument and ran away.
Weak azz thing.

No, you did.
You never replied my last mention due to fear.
Oluku

Amarabae:
You engaged me in an argument and ran away.
Weak azz thing.

No, you did.
You never replied my last mention due to fear.
Oluku

MissWrite:



Lol , SSG! I knew you were going to lure me into long talk.

A woman's social independence from a man doesn't mean she cannot want one. Or that she cannot want to be domestic. Or that she must never accept money from a man. It just means that she's a self-determining entity in society, complete by herself, and free to make choices where an arbitrary man's opinion on the matter is irrelevant. What I mean by that last bit? Choosing to be a teacher or a nurse because men find soldiering or engineering "too hard for a woman"; deciding to buy a hatchback instead of a proper sedan because men would find you "less approachable"; staying in your parents house until you're forty (when you're unmarried) so that men would think you're a good homely girl. So, generally censoring yourself, and refusing to start out your life because you haven't been joined with a man. That's the independence which feminism advocates: you are your own person.

We are not put in boxes of other people's expectations; whether that box be a "traditional housewife" or a "career girl". Feminism allows women value themselves, and give expression to their individual desires. Choice. If as a feminist you feel pressure to become a career woman even when you don't want to be one, then you have not been emancipated. (Please read my article on feminism. To the end)

A woman who has a full understanding of feminism is not going to be pressured by it. It is liberating and makes you (as a woman) the focus of your life. Men shouldn't be intimidated by it either, because a traditional man can still find what he is looking for in the PERSONAL values of a traditional girl. But the notion that feminism tries to kill is that "all women" must fit into this box simply because they're women; and "all men" must fit into that box because they're men. Thereby, it gives every individual (not just women, but men as well) freedom to express themselves beyond the traditional gender roles. Some people cannot handle a world without these boxes because then, whatever inadequacies that have been ascribed to the female gender (or male gender) become your personal inadequacies. So they prefer to hide in those boxes and have all women to be branded weak as a curtesy.

Someone once alluded to the fact that Beyonce's feminism was a sham because she's now married and submissive to a husband who has also got the temerity to cheat on her. What I see here is a person who is already so used to telling a woman what to be and how to react to her situations, doing more of the same. Feminism let's YOU BE YOU. The aim is to eradicate oppression. You are referring to Amara. She isn't less feminist for being married. She's done her basic responsibility as a feminist woman by exercising her right to choose for HERSELF and not society. We aren't all going to want the same things; that's the beauty of individualism. Or feminism.

I've rambled on............and I haven't given you the list you requested. But I don't think a long list is even required. The characteristic of a feminist woman: self esteem, self awareness, self love.

You are very sensible.

RuthDaniels:
Lol... I dont even know this Amara..until that Bliss incidence . I dont pay much attention to people like that .And honestly dont care!


Mzwrite so far remains the only Feminist on this thread,others are wannabes! She understands that feminism isnt about fighting the other gender,Its fighting for humanity.

You cant fight for humanity when you are inhuman! How do you preach love when you dont have? Equality cuts across all genders because humanity does. You dont correct violence against women with violence against Men.The world will be in chaos! These people just dont get it!

Lol, she's one of the feminists that'll open a thread and I'll read everything wholeheartedly.

How can you even preach about empowering your fellow woman when you're shaming them for something as cheap as sex?

Jeez!! Exactly!! You can't keep preaching love when you don't love all. If everyone focus on the female child and neglect the male child, the male child will grow up in hate, will hate the female folks. And probably kill us all because of this hate.


That being said, what's your favorite food and drink? You really deserve it right now. Too much sense in one post!

Amarabae:

Wow God bless you.
I owe you a pot of this soup below .
Nice write-up

Tecno k7 crew

Ladyhippolyta88:
No I don't like using my glasses to read things on phone but because it is you my obim I am using my glasses to read your post I am still here.

Awn

Oya come to daddy

Chikita66:
You supported her opinion, so I am not using only her opinion, you even went ahead to say we being anti feminist won't get us the ring, so who is a hypocrite now?


Then you are not adichie, adichie will give us reasons why we should be one and not call us sex starved and desperate

Why are you so emotionally fragile?
Little soft soul.

You called feminists frustrated and all kinds of names here,
So why trying to absolve yourself from the banter brouhaha?

Why you should be a feminist?
You as what kwanu?

Pipe down the anxiety attack

Chikita66:
You supported her opinion, so I am not using only her opinion, you even went ahead to say we being anti feminist won't get us the ring, so who is a hypocrite now?


Then you are not adichie, adichie will give us reasons why we should be one and not call us sex starved and desperate

Deal with her.
Teach her.
Enlighten her.



Teach her what it means to be reasonable