Who said as a woman you must marry a poor man before people know you are a wife material. What is wrong with marrying a good man that is rich. It's guys that are struggling that usually attack women that want to marry guys that are at least okay and care fend for them. Incase you don't know the meaning of bread winner is Sole provider. So know that to be a man is not a days job. If you are not ready leave the women in peace.


Then as a guy who said you must be struggling broke or poor to be able to get a good woman so you will say she struggled with yiu before you made it. You can make it and still marry a good woman. Stop harboring this backward mentality in your head.
As a guy you can help shape your wife into how you want with your money. Buy her the kind of clothes you like, if you need to take her to the gym please do or pump her with food so she can have body etc. Why do we have to always stress ourselves with 9 points to know he is the one or 13 signs to know she is not the one.

Its Gud To Start A Relationship With Prayer,

I will read this tomorrow morning when I am OK cuz right now I don't understand what the op wrote up there.

can't understand op's main motive.

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I will this tomorrow morning when I am OK cuz right now I don't understand what the op wrote up there.

Lol. He's simply asking that men let go of all the outdated rules they've always held on to...especially the one pertaining to money and women.

PrimadonnaO:


Lol. He's simply asking that men let go of all the outdsted rules they've always held on to...especially the one pertaining to money and women.

I honestly still don't understand... it's like I'm going insane tonight. I need a doctor

Offpoint:

I honestly still don't understand... it's like I'm going insane tonight. I need a doctor

PrimadonnaO:

hope you're not in Nigeria this one you're not sleeping by this time. I don't like girls who sleep late at nights cuz they're always suspicious in nature.

OP, your point is.... Men shouldn't keep a relationship simply because they're struggling/hustling...Reason being that they won't be able to fend for her needs, But should go into a relationship when they've made the cash and can equally pick a wretched girl and turn her world to suit his,,,,, right


What sort of mentality is that?


The sacrifice and love that we show these girls, they have never shown us back such love...


A guy married his girl friend that got her leg amputated.... But she would have left the guy for another man with two legs....

A guy married a girl that her bf and close friends dumped when she was with cancer... She would have been the first to dump the guy....


Hoes ain't loyal....

The best time to get a good girl is when you are broke......this is the truth.....once you are made my brother forget am, you go confuse sef. Anywhere you go once you are made na every girl go dey smile for you and wants you to take her home. However, if you are made don't go for broke girls abeg, they will be forming loyalty, they are only scared of losing the goodies coming to them from You, you wouldn't see their real character.

henryhemon:
The best time to get a good girl is when you are broke......this is the truth.....once you are made my brother forget am, you go confuse sef. Anywhere you go once you are made na every girl go dey smile for you and wants you to take her home. However, if you are made don't go for broke girls abeg, they will be forming loyalty, they are only scared of losing the goodies coming to them from You, you wouldn't see their real character.

keep wallowing in confusion, who says every girl smiles at any rich dude that comes her way?is that how you generalize? and who taught you that staying with a broke dude means he will cherish you once he's made?

so,you have not heard guys disappoint ladies before?so every damn frustration guys have been through is caused by ladies abii?

smh.

highqueen:

keep wallowing in confusion, who says every girl smiles at any rich dude that comes her way?is that how you generalize? and who taught you that staying with a broke dude means he will cherish you once he's made?

so,you have not heard guys disappoint ladies before?so every damn frustration guys have been through is caused by ladies abii?

smh.

Who is talking about frustration? Read what I wrote again slowly...as for the part that every girl smiles at a Rich dude go make your findings please. A Rich dude will easily get any girl of her choice than vice versa even without trying.

Yes not every dude will cherish a girl once they 're made but most will do same but girls hardly stay with a broke dude which comes to the point I made earlier and why I advised not to date a broke girl cuz their loyalty most times stems from the fear of losing the goodies been offered.

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hope you're not in Nigeria this one you're not sleeping by this time. I don't like girls who sleep late at nights cuz they're always suspicious in nature.

Slept by 8pm...woke up 11.35...went back to sleep again by almost 1am. Woke up 5am.

PrimadonnaO:



Slept by 8pm...woke up 11.35...went back to sleep again by almost 1am. Woke up 5am.

Are you pregnant? this one your sleeping pattern is like Nigeria NEPA LIGHT so.

Op simply means that the struggling guys or the ones that consider themselves broke should not beef a lady that prefers a guy that is ok financially.

Who will marry the rich ones?

Guys here only want to hear that you are with a guy that is not financially stable.

Once they hear a lady wants a guy that can hold his own financially, they flip and get aggressive.

Men are accepting of broke women but women aren't accepting of broke men and this needs to change. men need to start telling broke women to Bleep off.

ImaIma1:
Op simply means that the struggling guys or the ones that consider themselves broke should not beef a lady that prefers a guy that is ok financially.

Who will marry the rich ones?

Guys here only want to hear that you are with a guy that is not financially stable.

Once they hear a lady wants a guy that can hold his own financially, they flip and get aggressive.

Men are accepting of broke women but women aren't accepting of broke men and this needs to change. men need to start telling broke women to Bleep off

henryhemon:

Men are accepting of broke women but women aren't accepting of broke men and this needs to change. men need to start telling broke women to Bleep off

Hmmm...

The man is the main provider for the house.

Even a man's ego won't let a woman assume that position.

Even she also brings in.money, the man has to be able to provide and not rely on the woman's earnings

ImaIma1:


Hmmm...

The man is the main provider for the house.

Even a man's ego won't let a woman assume that position.

Even she also brings in.money, the man has to be able to provide and not rely on the woman's earnings

I do not rely on any woman's warning but she must be earning money for herself, time has gone when a man provides for everything even in the old days women provide cuz they farm and tend garden. A man can do the major provision, I cannot buy Recharge card, undies, sanitaries, little things she can do easily and there is absolutely nothing wrong if a woman helps out in the home, why is she working, what is the money being used for?? If she wants to eat Sharwama for instance she will wait for me? Abeg I no date that kind Babe. It's okay for a woman to be broke abi and go for a Rich dude but it is not okay for me to insist I don't want to date a broke woman? Well done.

henryhemon:


I do not rely on any woman's warning but she must be earning money for herself, time has gone when a man provides for everything even in the old days women provide cuz they farm and tend garden. A man can do the major provision, I cannot buy Recharge card, undies, sanitaries, little things she can do easily and there is absolutely nothing wrong if a woman helps out in the home, why is she working, what is the money being used for?? If she wants to eat Sharwama for instance she will wait for me? Abeg I no date that kind Babe. It's okay for a woman to be broke abi and go for a Rich dude but it is not okay for me to insist I don't want to date a broke woman? Well done.

When the time comes, you will understand better. It takes being in the situation to fully understand.

I am not talking about a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.

Marriage is more complex. Not black and white.

You can also insist on not dating a broke babe. No one is stopping you.

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Are you pregnant? this one your sleeping pattern is like Nigeria NEPA LIGHT so.

Lol. . It happens sometimes.

PrimadonnaO:

Lol. . It happens sometimes.

I understand, you were definitely thinking about your bobo Nwaamakpe

Offpoint:

I understand, you were definitely thinking about your bobo Nwaamakpe

That cracked me up seriously.

PrimadonnaO:


That cracked me up seriously.

you better confess so that I can write a prayer request on your behave. he's a very caring child/man