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Is cheating ever your fault, or is there a chance that
your actions could make your partner cheat on you?
Apparently, there are some things that could push your
partner into the arms of another man/woman and the
following are reasons why people have found themselves
cheating on their partner.
1. You lose yourself
Losing interest in your appearance and general well-
being can happen, especially after the chaos and stress
of kids enters a marriage. But you cannot allow this
happen as it could mean that your spouse begins to lose
interest in you.

2. Divided attention
If either partner is neglected for too long because the
other partner has eyes, time and energy invested in
something (even if the reasons are valid), he or she may
start to look elsewhere.

3. You play the blame game
Does it feel like your partner can do nothing right these
days? If you’re paying too much attention on what they
are doing wrong all the time, and never praise the things
they get right, your partner may have decided that he
was done being the fall guy or woman.

4. You no longer put effort into sex
You’re crazy busy, and tired, and stressed out — so is
your partner... or not.
Whatever you do though, never forget that sex is the
one thing you and your partner do together that makes
that relationship different from all the others in your life.
When it disappears, a big part of the marital bond does,
too.

5. Do you still even listen at all?
Your partner may have been expressing unhappiness for
a while now, either overtly or subtly. If the message just
hasn’t been getting through, they may have decided to
find a sympathetic listener — and more — somewhere
else.

What do you expect me to say?












Nice to be FTC tough

second to comment...others Will read my comment at least...

Is this all you people have to say?

Well op,these are valid points.

I will stab him if he cheats.

A person that will cheat will cheat no matter what.

UyaiIncomparabl:
I will stab him if he cheats.

When you can move on with your life.

UyaiIncomparabl:
I will stab him if he cheats.

Ayyyy

UyaiIncomparabl:
I will stab him if he cheats.

Abeg,you no fit.

UyaiIncomparabl:
I will stab him if he cheats.

Abeyance,u no fit

kabarka:
Abeg,you no fit.

Come marry me na, then annoy or cheat, then you go know if i fit do am or not.

OP no offense buh have seen loyal dude/girls
who can do anything to please their partner
buh at the end their spouse still cheat..
who wants to cheat will still cheat
whether their spouses are good or not

UyaiIncomparabl:
I will stab him if he cheats.

As a female nairalander said..simply place a curse on him

UyaiIncomparabl:
Come marry me na, then annoy or cheat, then you go know if i fit do am or not.

E show for ur face... I no just doubt u one second

dairykidd:
E show for ur face... I no just doubt u one second

Oboy no dey drag me back abeg!
Na front things like this.

UyaiIncomparabl:
I will stab him if he cheats.

Hmm..

What if you cheat?

emmachukwu99:
Hmm..

What if you cheat?

I will never cheat!