lifedynamics:
I don't see anything wrong with it... If you like call it "westernized cultutetor mentality"... See Ehn I'm a very simple guy who lacks this toxic African masculine pride (I have pride ooo and self esteem, but not a toxic one).That being said I would even prefer moving in with her so we'll have two houses. I would even prefer a richer wife cause all I see is more money and not less submission.
I don't want African submission(Slavery), I would've married a slave if that was the case... I need a partner and best friend.
Cause some of us will want to do man of the house, Iron Man... Sole provider and when you're tired and burned out you'll start pouring aggression on your wife and kids, all because you want to do superhero
Why would I want a broker wife, when we can use our money for a holiday or to buy stuff at a Gucci shop.
Don't let pride( toxic pride, cause pride is good)ruin your chance at a peaceful life. It all depends on your mentality and Sense of reasoning.

Burgerlomo:
There is nothing wrong with it as far as the man is ready to relinquish power, give up his authority as a man to become madam of the house

rebirthforgoody:





Too many things at a time

lifedynamics:
I don't see anything wrong with it... If you like call it "westernized cultutetor mentality"... See Ehn I'm a very simple guy who lacks this toxic African masculine pride (I have pride ooo and self esteem, but not a toxic one).That being said I would even prefer moving in with her so we'll have two houses. I would even prefer a richer wife cause all I see is more money and not less submission.
I don't want African submission(Slavery), I would've married a slave if that was the case... I need a partner and best friend.
Cause some of us will want to do man of the house, Iron Man... Sole provider and when you're tired and burned out you'll start pouring aggression on your wife and kids, all because you want to do superhero
Why would I want a broker wife, when we can use our money for a holiday or to buy stuff at a Gucci shop.
Don't let pride( toxic pride, cause pride is good)ruin your chance at a peaceful life. It all depends on your mentality and Sense of reasoning.

lifedynamics:


How? Omo Una like stress gan ooo... What does a man's value have to do with where he lives... We humans like to create artificial problems.
He moved in with his wife, maybe his rent was more expensive and unnecessary, or he's just keeping his house. Do you think she'll kick you out ? These things are only artificial fears the brain creates... Just like a female thinking a guy will look down on her if she makes the first move (Artificial fears)

lifedynamics:


How? Omo Una like stress gan ooo... What does a man's value have to do with where he lives... We humans like to create artificial problems.
He moved in with his wife, maybe his rent was more expensive and unnecessary, or he's just keeping his house. Do you think she'll kick you out ? These things are only artificial fears the brain creates... Just like a female thinking a guy will look down on her if she makes the first move (Artificial fears)

Burgerlomo:


I can see where you are going Madam Lifedynamics

tosyne2much:
Abeg forget that thing.. This is Nigeria not Yankee

AntiBrutus:
This question here is one reason, women will/should continue to marry up and men will marry down. It is good for everyone's sanity in the long run. Everyone is 'happy'.

May one man not return you to lack, all because of his ego...

lifedynamics:


LMAO... Check my previous comments... I'm as masculine as it gets
For ubunja to be my gee, then I must be a male

lifedynamics:
I don't see anything wrong with it... If you like call it "westernized cultutetor mentality"... See Ehn I'm a very simple guy who lacks this toxic African masculine pride (I have pride ooo and self esteem, but not a toxic one).That being said I would even prefer moving in with her so we'll have two houses. I would even prefer a richer wife cause all I see is more money and not less submission.
I don't want African submission(Slavery), I would've married a slave if that was the case... I need a partner and best friend.
Cause some of us will want to do man of the house, Iron Man... Sole provider and when you're tired and burned out you'll start pouring aggression on your wife and kids, all because you want to do superhero
Why would I want a broker wife, when we can use our money for a holiday or to buy stuff at a Gucci shop.
Don't let pride( toxic pride, cause pride is good)ruin your chance at a peaceful life. It all depends on your mentality and Sense of reasoning.

lifedynamics:
I don't see anything wrong with it... If you like call it "westernized cultutetor mentality"... See Ehn I'm a very simple guy who lacks this toxic African masculine pride (I have pride ooo and self esteem, but not a toxic one).That being said I would even prefer moving in with her so we'll have two houses. I would even prefer a richer wife cause all I see is more money and not less submission.
I don't want African submission(Slavery), I would've married a slave if that was the case... I need a partner and best friend.
Cause some of us will want to do man of the house, Iron Man... Sole provider and when you're tired and burned out you'll start pouring aggression on your wife and kids, all because you want to do superhero
Why would I want a broker wife, when we can use our money for a holiday or to buy stuff at a Gucci shop.
Don't let pride( toxic pride, cause pride is good)ruin your chance at a peaceful life. It all depends on your mentality and Sense of reasoning.

Smartii:
It's culture, norm for a lady to go join her hubby after marriage in his house but here, what if the bride has her own house and the groom lives in a rented apartment, so would It be okay for the man to move into his bride's apartment instead Or the bride should just move into the groom's rented apartment while the bride's apartment waste off?

Burgerlomo:

I can see where you are going Madam Lifedynamics

kazyhm:


Was it bride price or groom price that was paid ?
as you you won't even stay one year in you own rented apartment but move majestically to your wife's house from the wedding reception

Cadec007:
ur point?

kazyhm:


Go stay in your house first with your wife and observe her character carefully before you jumb into depression with your two legs

Burgerlomo:


Lol, I deliberately addressed you as Madam because nah only Man Madam fit pack to a woman's house.

lifedynamics:


Unfortunately, we need to stop that mentality, If it is right it doesn't matter the country it is from... That's why we dodge discipline a lot in Naij... We say "eko la wa" when breaking a law...isn't that daft?

tosyne2much:
Forget this thing you are saying here on Nairaland.. You only hear things like this on Nairaland.

I'm sure you will not want marry a man that will pack into your house

tosyne2much:
Forget this thing you are saying here on Nairaland.. You only hear things like this on Nairaland.

I'm sure you will not want marry a man that will pack into your house