You're beating your pregnant co-wife abi?

Mumu woman.

Surprise Jam Surprise....

I will make sure I treat their Bleep up. Sebi she no get life ni .... I don't take shit

Go to babalawo, tell him that you want her to carry the pregnancy for 6 months, den d baby should die inside her womb, so that she will learn to have her own family... after ask God for forgiveness, trust me He's a merciful God he'll have mercy and forgive you... thank me later

I called my hubby from the gate and he said he was home trying to sleep . Of course he was trying to sleep

She said u should forgive abi, so why are u bringing this here.
Forgive am nah.
Abi u wan make we ask u not to forgive?
Me no follow ooo. Sisi, abeg forgive.
After all she's not marrying him.

Abfinest007:
give him a chance for him to continue

Tufiakwa!!
Men are very useless. They take advantage of any slightest chance they see.
Tufiakwa again. Spits.
See goose pimples all over my body.
God forbid.
My dear tk heart. If u were employed i would've advised u divorce d idiot and move on with ur life bt u're not so accept d she-goat as a second wife.

I understand the woman.. Its not easy for a woman in her late 40 to b without a child not even husband. Seriously I bet you it is the woman who pressurised the man for sex, base on her looking for a child. If I am d woman I will put my self in her shoe and let it go. No big deal, let her have d baby, I am with my husband.but of course no one can tell what d husband will be doing later. Knacking continues..

Kobicove:
Don't be selfish...don't you know there's scarcity of good men?

There's love in sharing

May someone share your wife with you loruko Jesu!
Can I get an amen?

My dear this is a difficult situation, but apply wisdom on this case.

He that eateth bread with hath lifted up his heel against me..john 13:18.And, also know that a kiss is not a sign of love or whatever that is in anyway related to it.Jesus Christ was betrayed and sold by someone he ate and moved round the clock with,bro P also denied him,those he fed with breads and fishes thru stones at him,his disciples were no where to be found.And all the crowd watched him killed...madam take heart.

Kobicove:
Don't be selfish...don't you know there's scarcity of good men?

There's love in sharing

Is this a joke? SMH.

TERMINATE THE PREGNANCY.

Bad man .

wink2015:
TERMINATE THE PREGNANCY.

Via bluetooth?

And what has the innocent fetus done in this matter?

Cutehector:
Its so easy for people to say forgive...ok what If the woman was the one who got pregnant for another man and the husband caught them in the act.

Don't mind them.. Forgive and move on.

Making those kind of men always getting away with their stupidity.

I don't pity men, whose wives kill them in their sleep after finding out he has a concubine outside.




And for the useless 40years old neighbor, that's how some women end up giving birth to terrible creatures wey no look like human being. Or some even end up dying During labour time.. Smhhhh.

Do these desperate old layers know how many of them are dead trying to share another woman's husband or how many give birth to animals in unusual forms in the name of, am smart.

Please what do I do?

I am struggling to find words

sorry to hear that bv sense she is pregnent,just let her be the second wife and u be the first..

The last part of the story weaken me..... She just had that chance before menopause caught up with her...... Mmmmmm life Sha sometimes

Jesus christ some men are full of wickedness
First I will advice the woman to move her family from that place even if possible away from that town for her not to do bad thing that she will later regret or call on her God to destroy the pregancy for her or 100 take to ojubo osun lols She really need to make that man gbewu dani ...



And they will say woman are evil oooo come see this one oo putting her wife in a terrible acts that she won't even know what to do



To me at this stage what next is an agreement between her dirty husband and that witch...she should also dare them

Who else feel that this is a work of fiction?

I would advise you not to leave your marriage ,l think all your neighbour wants is a child right (no problem),pack out of the area , move very far ,as per your husband ,just try your best to ignore him, l know is very painful but men will be always be DOGS ,the next one will be worst ,trust me ,GOD will give you wisdom

MissRaine69:
Please what do I do?

I am struggling to find words

There is something u can do.

Your husband is useless sha.. Sorry to say.

Just keep praying, that God should remove the strange woman trying to break your home. Because your neighbor is indeed a strange woman.
While your husband? A strong prophet should tie him up spiritually so when he sees another woman, his manhood won't stand, no matter how tempting.

So Who knows she may end up having a miscarriage. So go to a white garment church and do the needful.

Why is she still confused? The marriage is over! Having a 'horseband' in 2018 is not what African women should be bragging about otherwise, they will develop high bp later on. 96% of African marriages are pure scam. But these females will not listen. Na to die put dem sabi.

victorian:







There is something u can do.

Your husband is useless sha.. Sorry to say.

Just keep praying, that God should remove the strange woman trying to break your home. Because your neighbor is indeed a strange woman.
While your husband? A strong prophet should tie him up spiritually so when he sees another woman, his manhood won't stand, no matter how tempting.

So Who knows she may end up having a miscarriage. So go to a white garment church and do the needful.

Let’s back track a bit here
That post I made was not because I am in that predicament it’s a response
To the original post

Zionista:
Who else feel that this is a work of fiction?

Some marriages are works of fiction.

Unfortunate event like this happens.
But woman, how come your husband was busy fucking the puna of ur 40 year old neighbour in ur compound right under your nose who is even ur friend, not that he just bleeped her while u went for Easter holiday, they must have been doing it right under ur nose...that means there is something wrong in ur marriage, the communication is abysmal.
You are unemployed and always home something is wrong, u were not doing what u were supposed to do as a wife.
Just take heart and move on, the Deed already done.

MissRaine69:

Some marriages are works of fiction.

Comedy central!

bukatyne:
The choice is yours:

1. Forgive and continue the marriage with a second wife;
2. Forgive and move on.

Make no mistake, the woman is not going anywhere....

If you have not had a child, then your marriage is automatically over. In this situation, your kids is your leverage so she would want to settle for a second wife.

You also do not have the right to tell her to abort/keep the baby.... it's not in your place to do so.

If you are going with option one, you can also tell your husband you wouldn't live with a co-wife/ babymama and you guys move out of the compound. He can come and see his child & 2nd wife at his own time.

This is really a tough one.

Goodluck.

P.S.: This is one of the reasons married ladies are told to shun single ladies especially older ones.

.....Nice one

Hope she is paying for the pregnancy?

MissRaine69:
Please what do I do?

I am struggling to find words

Calm down and pray over it,God will direct you on what to do. Don't be in a haste to take action. Two wrongs can not make a right. Don't ever emphasis on terminating the pregnancy dear. God will see you through, this too shall pass and you shall live happily.