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About The Word "Submission"! by Amarabae(f): 1:16pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
About the word "submission " Many men misunderstand it, Many abuse it Many hide under it to show their misogynistic attitude, But what do you understand by submission? Let's examine this. Joy is beautiful Joy is well educated and very intelligent, she read abroad. Joy is working and being paid well Joy gets married to John. John is handsome John is also educated, John is working too Now they are married, John wants joy to be submissive to him , Joy ask him "sweetheart what do you mean by submitting to you? John replies (in a typical African man understanding of submission) : 1.Submitting to me means that my word in this house is final, 2. When I am talking, you should be quiet 3. Whenever I want sex, you should spread your legs 4. I can cheat but you dare not cheat 5. I determine the number of babies we can have. 6.Never you raise your voice on me. Etc Joy asked him, :ok but why should I be "submissive to you " and not the other way round? How did you merit it? John replies : are you mad? Don't you know that I am a man and bla bla bla. The typical African man reasoning. How can you having a dick be the only qualification for a woman to be submissive to you? What kind of dumb mentality is that? You expect a woman to lick your asshole because you have a dick? And when you try to define the word "submission" It means yielding to a superior authority, You being under the control of another person or thing. So in the mind of the misogynists, a woman who they refer as weak vessel should yield to a man who is a strong vessel, No wonder many women are passing through a lot in marriages today, Tolerating a lot of nonsense, Because we are in a man dominated world, It pains me to see that many girls are still being brainwashed, You see them accepting the word "submission" Aunty submission, are you a slave? Will river Niger dry up if men starts submitting? You better wake up. You will see a man whose wife is feeding, A man whose wife is the breadwinner of the family yet he will be shouting submission! Funny idiosyncrasies I am not a slave, Marriage is not a slave camp, I will love you as the husband the same way you will love me. We will argue, I will not lick your asshole, I will stand on my right and defend it My opinion matters. And lastly I am NOT and will never be a weak vessel Feminism rejects that. We are strong and proud. Many men need a reorientation about issues like this especially the yet to marry ones. Many women are waking up, There is a reason why the divorce rate is high these days because tolerating rubbish has a limit, Our mothers went through a lot of anti women prejudices in the society and marriage, We refuse to go through the same, All thanks to feminism. A woman should love the husband deeply and the husband should love the wife deeply too. Respect her, she will respect you, Care for her, she will care for you. Stop manipulating women with the word "submission" I don't believe in it and will never. I am no slave. I love my husband and he loves me. Our marriage is not a slave camp. And thats how it should be. #thanks 8 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by Amarabae(f): 1:21pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Cc : greiboy. Get in here Shugavee get in |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 1:23pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Amarabae:Good one.Nigerian or Africa men are always quick to talk about submission but they forget that they ought to love. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by Amarabae(f): 1:26pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:Some of them, their wives are feeding them but they will still be shouting submission 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by donstan18: 1:26pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 1:29pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Amarabae:Unnecessary pride. Then they would come and read Ephesians or Corinthians the bible says I am the head and I ask myself is leadership not service. A leader is subject to the wishes of the people he/she is leading.Nigerian men are funny 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by Amarabae(f): 1:31pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
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Re: About The Word "Submission"! by Nobody: 1:32pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Amara, this is a decent slice of information, but it's critical to also highlight that not all men are misogynistic in nature. The article I countered you on was based on a guy ready to be subservient to his wife, which is almost the opposite of the equality feminism claims to be advocating. However, no one deserves to be treated like a slave in a romantic relationship neither should we endorse anyone in pursuit of a slavish relationship. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by lilmax(m): 1:33pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
romance section still like this? men forcing women to submit means oppression, so they should ditch it and should not be controlled women on the other hand forcing men to do away with the mentality, oppression too logic has been reduced, you are a Christian and you follow it up, you are not a Christian you fuc.k it do whatever works for you and your spouse according to your beliefs instead of creating worthless topics crap |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by Amarabae(f): 1:34pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
lilmax:
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Re: About The Word "Submission"! by Nobody: 1:37pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
If John outlined ur points above then he is nt learned as u said, the thing is marriage requires respect from both parties and not this submission theory. And the Irony is that many men today are d ones submitting don't know why u ladies are still complaining. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by Amarabae(f): 1:41pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Grayjoy:Feminism don't want any gender to submit, We want the word submitting to be eradicated. That's all. 1 Like |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by ubunja(m): 1:48pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
i pity any man who marries feminist sewage. when a girl tell me she's a feminist i spit 4 Likes |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by Newbeginnings(m): 1:50pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Amarabae: What is marriage Amarabae? |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by Nobody: 1:52pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Why does this God's gift and ability bestowed upon these girls to push a baby out of their vagina entitle them to female supremacy and denigration of men? Trash post Don't quote me 1 Like
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Re: About The Word "Submission"! by CAPSLOCKED: 1:52pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by CAPSLOCKED: 1:59pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Amarabae: I KNEW THIS THREAD HAD NO PURPOSE THE MINUTE I SAW YOU MENTION SHUGAVI. I MEAN, SHUGAVI OF ALL THE WOMEN ON THIS FORUM?? HAHA.. YOU CREATE A THREAD AND IMMEDIATELY USHER IN YOUR BAND OF THUGS TO STAND AS GATE KEEPERS, SO WHAT'S THE POINT? |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by Amarabae(f): 2:00pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Newbeginnings:That's a basic question. Can you define it, do so, so that I will know where you are driving to |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by Amarabae(f): 2:01pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
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Re: About The Word "Submission"! by Nobody: 2:01pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
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Re: About The Word "Submission"! by Amarabae(f): 2:02pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
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Re: About The Word "Submission"! by Nobody: 2:04pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
[quote author=Amarabae post=66533387][/quote] This girl don vex me.. make I go wear uniform
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Re: About The Word "Submission"! by Nobody: 2:06pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Amarabae:dat is what civilisation wants not feminism. |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by Amarabae(f): 2:15pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
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Re: About The Word "Submission"! by folake4u(f): 2:27pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Op wants to open a can of worms this hot Sunday afternoon . |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by Shugavee(f): 6:39pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Amarabae:100% legit!! Submission to them is a lighter word 4 slavery!! I belive if u n ur spouse love each other, non will be fighting 4 superiority!!! 1 Like |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by Jodha(f): 6:48pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
I don't totally agree with yhu sis.. .the Bible clearly stated that women should be submissive to their husband's... Submitting to a man doesn't make yhu a slave... It's just like accepting him as the head of the family... But that does not mean Yhu have no say in yhur home...a wise man will listen to his wife and respect her...a wise woman will obey and respect her husband... Chikenah.. 3 Likes |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by BluntBoy(m): 6:49pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
folake4u: Tell me about it. |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by Shugavee(f): 6:55pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Amarabae:i hate the word submission |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by folake4u(f): 7:02pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
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Re: About The Word "Submission"! by BluntBoy(m): 7:03pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
folake4u:Alright, I get it loud and clear |
Re: About The Word "Submission"! by folake4u(f): 7:13pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
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