Why do i have the feelings that there are more secrets your wife is hiding from you....my only advice is..try to have a heart to heart conversation with her away from home...tell her you are willing to forgive her and start a clean slate ONLY if she tells you the other things she is keeping away from you,if she insists there is no more secret then tell her you have forgiven her but if any surprises surfaces thats the end of the marriage because to be very honest all the lies are forgivable offences.

Bone dream. Nothing dey happen. Dreaming of death na good dream sef

lawman88:
Good day Nairaland, please take your time to read the story. I will try to be brief and precise
I got married to my wife last year and will have been living peacefully. She is very respectful but I found out that she concealed many things and not everything she told me before the marriage was true. I felt hurt and don't give her the due respect.

I use to quarrel her about the lies she told me before marriage and she will wet the pillow throughout the night. I have threatened divorce and she will commit suicide if I divorce her.

Here are some of the lies she told & I believe her because I thought she was a church girl: She told me she has HND but it was ND she has. She told me she was pregnant before we marry but she was not. She cut down her age by 8yrs.

Now, anytime I quarrel all the lies she told and deceived me to marry her, I will dream of death in the night. Some time I seen myself dead & being buried or I had fatal accident and died. Even yester night I quarrelled her & I had a dream that my dad died in a ghastly accident. Any time I didn't quarrel, I will not have bad dreams.

What will I do now? I don't know if I leave her I'm going to die. The discovery of the lies has taken all her love from my heart and I have told her eldest brother that I'm not comfortable with the marriage anymore. I'm feeling so bad that a church girl who always speaking in tongues and praying always could deceive me this way. Everything was lies and I thought she was saying the truth because of the way she was committed to church

if u want to hear the truth pls call me on this no 09052481459

deliciousgeh:
This is a delicate issue. Stop the quarrelling for now and solve the issue with serious prayers and seek counselling. Try not to take the issue to your pastor or parents. Take your wife out, spoil her, then have a heart to heart talk with her. Tell her the dreams, tell her you love her and won't divorce her but ask her to explain y you always have those kinds of dreams
. let her know you were hurt by the lies she told but that you are willing to forget it all if she can totally open up to any other secret she might be keeping. Please be very gentle with her o.

May u be rewarded for ur wisdom.
That's the best advice anyone can give this guy, ��

lawman88:
Good day Nairaland, please take your time to read the story. I will try to be brief and precise
I got married to my wife last year and will have been living peacefully. She is very respectful but I found out that she concealed many things and not everything she told me before the marriage was true. I felt hurt and don't give her the due respect.

I use to quarrel her about the lies she told me before marriage and she will wet the pillow throughout the night. I have threatened divorce and she will commit suicide if I divorce her.

Here are some of the lies she told & I believe her because I thought she was a church girl: She told me she has HND but it was ND she has. She told me she was pregnant before we marry but she was not. She cut down her age by 8yrs.

Now, anytime I quarrel all the lies she told and deceived me to marry her, I will dream of death in the night. Some time I seen myself dead & being buried or I had fatal accident and died. Even yester night I quarrelled her & I had a dream that my dad died in a ghastly accident. Any time I didn't quarrel, I will not have bad dreams.

What will I do now? I don't know if I leave her I'm going to die. The discovery of the lies has taken all her love from my heart and I have told her eldest brother that I'm not comfortable with the marriage anymore. I'm feeling so bad that a church girl who always speaking in tongues and praying always could deceive me this way. Everything was lies and I thought she was saying the truth because of the way she was committed to church

...... Bro you need to go for counciling

Seems you got hooked by a high level witch. Do your fasting and prayer and break up with her. She most likely can't have kids, will tie your destiny and continue lying to you. The reason the Bible talks about marrying and enjoying the wife of your 'youth' is to grow together. She's already all grown and set in her ways. Just let her go.

lawman88:
Good day Nairaland, please take your time to read the story. I will try to be brief and precise
I got married to my wife last year and will have been living peacefully. She is very respectful but I found out that she concealed many things and not everything she told me before the marriage was true. I felt hurt and don't give her the due respect.

I use to quarrel her about the lies she told me before marriage and she will wet the pillow throughout the night. I have threatened divorce and she will commit suicide if I divorce her.

Here are some of the lies she told & I believe her because I thought she was a church girl: She told me she has HND but it was ND she has. She told me she was pregnant before we marry but she was not. She cut down her age by 8yrs.

Now, anytime I quarrel all the lies she told and deceived me to marry her, I will dream of death in the night. Some time I seen myself dead & being buried or I had fatal accident and died. Even yester night I quarrelled her & I had a dream that my dad died in a ghastly accident. Any time I didn't quarrel, I will not have bad dreams.

What will I do now? I don't know if I leave her I'm going to die. The discovery of the lies has taken all her love from my heart and I have told her eldest brother that I'm not comfortable with the marriage anymore. I'm feeling so bad that a church girl who always speaking in tongues and praying always could deceive me this way. Everything was lies and I thought she was saying the truth because of the way she was committed to church

Have you considered the lies you told her before you married? Are you a God that does not tell lies? Truth and falsehood are parts of human nature and just deal with it. She is a human.

First of all I'm so sorry that you were basically deceived into marriage, it's not a good feeling at all.

I don't know what religion you are but the bible says that we wrestle not against flesh and blood. This is not a time for you to quarrel. Move close to God, read your bible, pray in the spirit and ask God to direct you. Have like two prayer points stuck in your head that you're always meditating on. Also, run to mfm prayer city for deliverance. They won't ask you for money, their own is to pray with you and counsel you. You can still see a marriage counselor after dealing with the spiritual part. Don't take what is happening to you lightly. I wish you best of luck.

be prayerful.

LZAA:

I haven't descend on him"
adult ed is really good o

Adebowale89 ignore this unrepentant fool. you're worth more than replying this Igbo boy, you know how they reason. I have been noticing his ad since yesterday


you don't cease to open your teeth whenever u learn new words from him, don't know who's more dumb btw you and your eastern leaders

ChiefSweetus:
Better run.

Lies are a ground for annulment of marriage, not even divorce. That is to say, the marriage never happened.

What good can come from a devilish foundation? You want to spend 50yrs with Satan's child, or who is the father of liars? #SayNoToHypocrites

Hmmm

ihatebuhari:
Marine spirit

Thank you, you know what's up

MYHUBBY:



Adebowale89 ignore this unrepentant fool. you're worth more than replying this Igbo boy, you know how they reason. I have been noticing his ad since yesterday


you don't cease to open your teeth when u learn new words from him, don't know who's more dumb btw you and your eastern leaders

Thank you, I was about saying that, dumb guy like that shouldn't be given attention. He kept repeating ad like someone that ranaway from yabaleft


Boring soul

preciousfeb:

I can relate with your experience very well. However, I have bad news for you. You just got urself married to a lady from the satanic kingdom. Any attempt to ought out will be paid with death on you except you will create your own spiritual stronghold to break lose. Let me tell you some of your experiences. She act like your queen because that's who she is to you spiritually. She controls people around you by telling you things about them that are either true or false. By this, she decides who come close to you and who does not. I pray God help you

This guy is saying the truth. OP needs an encounter with Jesus ASAP

well i think you should forgive her.

hmm this is not funny at all,you need serious prayer

JONNYSPUTE:
Fear is ur problem. Remove it and see urself free from all those dreams. As for ur wife and her lies,forgive her and forge ahead. Keep praying ,God will see u thru.

Many that is saying forgive her and move ahead is not easy brother's I have been there before but mine happen during friendship I withdraw myself out. Op PRAYER IS THE KEY . and try as much as you can to forgive her.

Your problem is not spiritual but physical, meet your wife and straighten up matter with her and be sincere with her for once. The day you try that and attempt to make happy all the fears and nightmare hunting you will surly cease

deliciousgeh:
This is a delicate issue. Stop the quarrelling for now and solve the issue with serious prayers and seek counselling. Try not to take the issue to your pastor or parents. Take your wife out, spoil her, then have a heart to heart talk with her. Tell her the dreams, tell her you love her and won't divorce her but ask her to explain y you always have those kinds of dreams
. let her know you were hurt by the lies she told but that you are willing to forget it all if she can totally open up to any other secret she might be keeping. Please be very gentle with her o.

I think this is one of the best advice i hv ever seen since i join nairaland......This person is truly reasonable..To the complainant, this is one of the best advice u can yield to.....

DeadRat:



Somebody Is In Trouble...


The Greatest Mistake A Man Can Make Is Marrying a Member Of The Village People Club (VPC)...


You Are Finished!

is this a solution?

.

I was discussing marital issue with my cousin that is a hardcore Christian he called me that I should to be very careful and prayerful in terms of marriage that after wedding you will find out 1 or 2 lies about your wife it need a mature mind to forgive and move ahead. He said in his own case during his courtship he believes everything his wife said all because she's a born again Christian HE DID NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIS WIFE UNTIL THE WEDDING NIGHT AND ALL BECAUSE THE LADY CLAIM SHE'S A VIRGIN. The first time he have sex with his wife she is not anything close to VIR not to talk of GIN but he has to move on and don't want the memory of that night to come to his mind again their are still together happy with each other with 3 kids . Op just let it go and stop hurting her with those lies she lied to you she must have apologized in many different ways.

This your story deep gan, but you should continue what you started. She seems like a good girl despite the lies. The dreams part doesnt look spiritual, i think you have too much on your mind God will save us from all these end-time girls looking for marriage. She went as far as faking tongues just to hook up with Op. and i am thinking of marrying a church girl. Chai!! There is God oo!!!

BROS STOP DREAMING ND DIE. THAT ADVICE ONE. 2. DIVORCE HER LET SEE, REMEMBER SHE IS ONLY TYING UR PROGRESS OF RAISING A FAMILY TO CALL URZ. if ur dad took tinz for granted u wouldnt hav bin here on earth. send her away SHEKINA

Bro u have already made d mistake. Those gals u see in churches aren't anything good. They are pretenders just there to get husbands.
In ur case, don't joke with ur dreams. There are others things ur wife is hiding from you. He might have entangled u somewhere spiritually.
The dream is just a warning from that alter about the consequences if u divorce her.
Do u believe in spiritual things? I mean prayers? Well, before I used to doubt but I have 1000 reasons to believe now.
If u don't have a good pastor I will introduce u to one. I mean real pastor not sow a seed pastor.
Right now u need a good spiritual standing to tackle this issue.
If I were u I will divorce her because even in law this is false representation and the marriage ought not to hold albi nitio.
The lies are much and there might be more.
But u can't just divorce her neglecting these warnings.

My Brother, it is your cross, you have to carry it. However, don't be afraid of those dreams rather take the case to God in prayer. In all, you have to apply wisdom in dealing with her, let her know how you feel about all the lies she told you earlier about herself. Don't quarel with her again by dealing with your thoughts, feelings and emotions towards her. God bless you.

Oga forgive yourself for being stupid and stop tormenting her. she cries all night and you go to sleep abi? why won't you dream of death? God has already forgiven her and her prayers are fighting battles for you. you dream of death because unforgiveness won't let you enjoy your marriage. bitterness alone can kill!

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I THINK THIS IS BEYOND PASTOR PASTOR LEVEL BECAUDE PASTOR WILL NEVER TL YOU TO LEAVE HER INSTEAD THEY WILL TELL YOU TO CONTINUE TO MANAGE HER AND TRY TO LOVE HER. YOU SHOULD ALSO TAKE NOTE HENCE YOI DONT DEVELOP HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE.
THE THING IS SHE IS SMATER THAN YOU, THAT IS WHY SHE VAN MINUS 8 YEARS FROM HER AGE AND YOU WILL NPT NOTIC IT. NOW DEALING WIYH A WOMAN THAY IS WAY SMATER THAN YOU IS RISKY BECAUSE ONCE YOU START HAVING KIDS IT WILL BE EASY FOR HER TO TAKE THE KIDS ON HER SIDE AS YOU GROW OLD. SHE WIKL FEED THEM WITH A LOT OF LEFT OVER LIES THAT SHE FED YOU WITH. MY BRODA MY BRODA YOU WIKL END OF BEING A LONELY OLD MAN..... YOU EVEN MAKE MISTAKE OF TELLING HER BRODA WHEN YOU KNOW YOU ARE NOT READY TO TAKE ACTION. MY BRODA MY BRODA I SEE PAINS WAITING FOR SOMEONE AT YHE END OF THE TUNNEL