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All bcoz of one gal's puuli dt lots of guys aff hang here n there on their ceilings... Guy, wake up and send me some money instead.... Me fit help ur life tmrrw, not a gal

bassey87:
There is this particular girl I met on social media. She is extremely beautiful with lots of guys trying to woo her. I am a financially stable dude with a good business that brings in steady income and continue to expand.

Though she never asked me for money I sent her money willingly because I was really having it. I was more concerned about her attention though I got very little of it because she was in a relationship at the time.

I guess she started having problems with her boyfriend and I really needed her attention so I could win her over to my side but she started dating a new guy immediately from what I saw in her post and pictures. I met her for the first time and tried to make love to her but she refused, I didn't feel bad about it because I really wanted her for myself and wanted a chance to access her character to know if I can build a life with her. She was willing to come sleep with me the next day but I left before she made the call that she is sorry about yesterday and will come spend the night with me.

After that anytime I sent her a message she hardly reply so I got fed up and stopped talking to her and changed my phone without updating her. I was surprised she contacted me again after a long time and we got talking. Within a couple of days she started telling me about her financial difficulties that she needed money urgently to solve some personal and family issues, but the way she dress in all her recent pictures doesn't tell of one in need of assistance though I don't care because I really like her. She has been showing concern and always check on me ever since.

Presently I am in a position to give her more than what she requested for but what I want is love but she is more concern about the money. I have been painting a picture of someone who is struggling and I expected her to have deleted me by now but that has not been the case. With her beauty I am even wondering why she came to me when she could easily get countless rich dude to give her all the money she wants by offering herself to them.

I did a little investigation and found out some of the things she told me about herself and family are true but I couldn't get anything relating to her financial status. I have now concluded to continue acting poor to see if she will go away because I can't make a financial commitment without getting anything back in return. I can't really tell what is on her mind and why she really came to me.

;DLol
give her the cash and keep being an admirer

MhizzAJ:
Clothes cover a lot of people's misery
You will see them looking all beautiful and smart outside but one kobo they don't have especially men they will use all the money they have to purchase clothes just to impress one babe somewhere that is busy fuçking some other guy

By the way don't be a stingy man
If you have the means to help,help without expecting anything in return
Must there be a commitment for you to help

it's not by force to be someone's boyfriend
Your time will come

Can you help a man financially? Can your ex contact you and ask you for financial assistance?

She is using you. Tell her you are broke for now and see how she will not call you again until she needs money again. You are becomming an official maga. Please don't give her your mumu button

Op tell her to come to your house. Tell her you must chop her first and you will give her 50k. Once you finish with her just give her 1000 for transport and tell her to expect the rest in her account. If you give her 1k and chop 50k from her body nothing spoil

MhizzAJ:
Clothes cover a lot of people's misery
You will see them looking all beautiful and smart outside but one kobo they don't have especially men they will use all the money they have to purchase clothes just to impress one babe somewhere that is busy fuçking some other guy

By the way don't be a stingy man
If you have the means to help,help without expecting anything in return
Must there be a commitment for you to help

it's not by force to be someone's boyfriend
Your time will come

clowns clowns

he doesn't love but needs her body

Na condition make Cray fish bend.

What nonsense is this man talking

Lame story.
Lame OP



Do whatever you like.
clearly, you deserve no meaningful advice.

delishpot:
She is using you. Tell her you are broke for now and see how she will not call you again until she needs money again. You are becomming an official maga. Please don't give her your mumu button

thank God a lady is telling op the truth. Op listen to this babe..she's telling u the raw truth.

bassey87:
There is this particular girl I met on social media. She is extremely beautiful with lots of guys trying to woo her. I am a financially stable dude with a good business that brings in steady income and continue to expand.

Though she never asked me for money I sent her money willingly because I was really having it. I was more concerned about her attention though I got very little of it because she was in a relationship at the time.

I guess she started having problems with her boyfriend and I really needed her attention so I could win her over to my side but she started dating a new guy immediately from what I saw in her post and pictures. I met her for the first time and tried to make love to her but she refused, I didn't feel bad about it because I really wanted her for myself and wanted a chance to access her character to know if I can build a life with her. She was willing to come sleep with me the next day but I left before she made the call that she is sorry about yesterday and will come spend the night with me.

After that anytime I sent her a message she hardly reply so I got fed up and stopped talking to her and changed my phone without updating her. I was surprised she contacted me again after a long time and we got talking. Within a couple of days she started telling me about her financial difficulties that she needed money urgently to solve some personal and family issues, but the way she dress in all her recent pictures doesn't tell of one in need of assistance though I don't care because I really like her. She has been showing concern and always check on me ever since.

Presently I am in a position to give her more than what she requested for but what I want is love but she is more concern about the money. I have been painting a picture of someone who is struggling and I expected her to have deleted me by now but that has not been the case. With her beauty I am even wondering why she came to me when she could easily get countless rich dude to give her all the money she wants by offering herself to them.

I did a little investigation and found out some of the things she told me about herself and family are true but I couldn't get anything relating to her financial status. I have now concluded to continue acting poor to see if she will go away because I can't make a financial commitment without getting anything back in return. I can't really tell what is on her mind and why she really came to me.

Chairman abeg move on with your life. Your comment seem contradictory. All u have said points to the fact u are in lust and not in love with this lady. The babe doesn't feel you and if u like empty ur account if won't change anything. U can't buy love. If u want to give her money, give her and expect nothing in return.

Don't feel special that she's asking u for money because u are definitely not the only person she's approaching. She's probably doing collections to buy something.

Take care.

wildfire2000:
;DLol

give her the cash and keep being an admirer

if she was my sister sef, I will ask her to continue asking...... Ozuo

lenghtinny:
You going through all this stress because of a woman....

You need to set your priorities straight

Guy Abeg you dey Lagos, I need but you 1 Andre.

So OP, Nobody in this whole wide world is close enough to tell you that You are mad You don fall my hand o. Girls 90% of them don't have brain...and they are all on nairaland. E.g MhizzAJ, so i should just give her my money like that ba? Because we plant money for my backyard. Your brain dey leek.

How much are we talking about here. Then I will comment

I just hate this writer for two reasons:

1. If a girl is in a relationship, kindly walk away. For God's sake the population of girls is even higher than that of guys. So, there are millions of girls out there

2. You are using money to buy a girl's heart. Tomorrow, when she goes asking for money u will start abusing ladies, saying that they are materialistic and offer nothing but sex in relationships

Honestly, I can't keep senseless people like this writer as a pal

MhizzAJ:
Clothes cover a lot of people's misery
You will see them looking all beautiful and smart outside but one kobo they don't have especially men they will use all the money they have to purchase clothes just to impress one babe somewhere that is busy fuçking some other guy

By the way don't be a stingy man
If you have the means to help,help without expecting anything in return
Must there be a commitment for you to help

it's not by force to be someone's boyfriend
Your time will come

The bolded got me cracked up ,lol

If you are going to have a sense of loss please don't give her.
If you are a cheerful giver, give her half of what she requested or you can give her all if you want. After all all those ones that appreciated you back by opening their legs for you didn't benefit ur life any better.

Just make sure you remind her you are doing this as a way of alleviating poverty in the land!
Men should stop being fools when it comes to sex.

I can't sleep with a girl that thinks I need the sex more or thinks she's rendering me a favor

propanet:
Don't ever help ladies.
They don't deserve it

Bros this tin u type harsh oooh be like one girl don do u strong thing b4..anywayz u still gat some good ones mayb u jst jam the bad one.

bassey87:
There is this particular girl I met on social media. She is extremely beautiful with lots of guys trying to woo her. I am a financially stable dude with a good business that brings in steady income and continue to expand.

Though she never asked me for money I sent her money willingly because I was really having it. I was more concerned about her attention though I got very little of it because she was in a relationship at the time.

I guess she started having problems with her boyfriend and I really needed her attention so I could win her over to my side but she started dating a new guy immediately from what I saw in her post and pictures. I met her for the first time and tried to make love to her but she refused, I didn't feel bad about it because I really wanted her for myself and wanted a chance to access her character to know if I can build a life with her. She was willing to come sleep with me the next day but I left before she made the call that she is sorry about yesterday and will come spend the night with me.

After that anytime I sent her a message she hardly reply so I got fed up and stopped talking to her and changed my phone without updating her. I was surprised she contacted me again after a long time and we got talking. Within a couple of days she started telling me about her financial difficulties that she needed money urgently to solve some personal and family issues, but the way she dress in all her recent pictures doesn't tell of one in need of assistance though I don't care because I really like her. She has been showing concern and always check on me ever since.

Presently I am in a position to give her more than what she requested for but what I want is love but she is more concern about the money. I have been painting a picture of someone who is struggling and I expected her to have deleted me by now but that has not been the case. With her beauty I am even wondering why she came to me when she could easily get countless rich dude to give her all the money she wants by offering herself to them.

I did a little investigation and found out some of the things she told me about herself and family are true but I couldn't get anything relating to her financial status. I have now concluded to continue acting poor to see if she will go away because I can't make a financial commitment without getting anything back in return. I can't really tell what is on her mind and why she really came to me.

The advice i have for you is that I need 500k for some business. Thereafter, we would see to this issue at hand.

Lolz. This dude wants something in return, my brother you don't love this girl, you wan just chop too, if you do, you wouldn't be asking for advice like this, love is an selfless act, if you have do it for her, we are not perfect, she might start developing feelings for you, she may start the kindness you have for her and maybe she might give you want you want... Lolz. But if she starts acting up after all you did , then I think its time to just move on, forget her. My own point of view tho

bassey87:
There is this particular girl I met on social media. She is extremely beautiful with lots of guys trying to woo her. I am a financially stable dude with a good business that brings in steady income and continue to expand.

Though she never asked me for money I sent her money willingly because I was really having it. I was more concerned about her attention though I got very little of it because she was in a relationship at the time.

I guess she started having problems with her boyfriend and I really needed her attention so I could win her over to my side but she started dating a new guy immediately from what I saw in her post and pictures. I met her for the first time and tried to make love to her but she refused, I didn't feel bad about it because I really wanted her for myself and wanted a chance to access her character to know if I can build a life with her. She was willing to come sleep with me the next day but I left before she made the call that she is sorry about yesterday and will come spend the night with me.

After that anytime I sent her a message she hardly reply so I got fed up and stopped talking to her and changed my phone without updating her. I was surprised she contacted me again after a long time and we got talking. Within a couple of days she started telling me about her financial difficulties that she needed money urgently to solve some personal and family issues, but the way she dress in all her recent pictures doesn't tell of one in need of assistance though I don't care because I really like her. She has been showing concern and always check on me ever since.

Presently I am in a position to give her more than what she requested for but what I want is love but she is more concern about the money. I have been painting a picture of someone who is struggling and I expected her to have deleted me by now but that has not been the case. With her beauty I am even wondering why she came to me when she could easily get countless rich dude to give her all the money she wants by offering herself to them.

I did a little investigation and found out some of the things she told me about herself and family are true but I couldn't get anything relating to her financial status. I have now concluded to continue acting poor to see if she will go away because I can't make a financial commitment without getting anything back in return. I can't really tell what is on her mind and why she really came to me.

Are you looking for a handbag or wife? All that is tripping you is her beauty........

And after rendering assistance, you came to announce it on nairaland; I don't know why some individuals after a commitment to give succor to others take pride in spreading it around.

lol

I laugh when I read comments from ladies that you should give without expecting something in return. Mumu girls.

OP made his money by providing solutions and expecting and getting his rewards. That's business. She is obviously not attracted to him. She come for the money o.

Bassey87, come out plain to her. Let her choose. Sex for the money or get out.

Make sure it's 5 times o. What an old prof can do, you can do better.

Also, don't even think of dating or marrying her. She will never choose you in heart. Don't waste your precious time.

Guy help her if you want to. Stop wasting our data. Few bucks to a stranger without benefit won't kill. Give her without putting a hook inside

MhizzAJ:
Clothes cover a lot of people's misery
You will see them looking all beautiful and smart outside but one kobo they don't have especially men they will use all the money they have to purchase clothes just to impress one babe somewhere that is busy fuçking some other guy

By the way don't be a stingy man
If you have the means to help,help without expecting anything in return
Must there be a commitment for you to help

it's not by force to be someone's boyfriend
Your time will come

will u say d lady was stingy with her time when she refused 2 give d guy any attention? d guy has 2 reciprocate her gesture, don't u think?

Run for your life bro bro

bassey87:
There is this particular girl I met on social media. She is extremely beautiful with lots of guys trying to woo her. I am a financially stable dude with a good business that brings in steady income and continue to expand.

Though she never asked me for money I sent her money willingly because I was really having it. I was more concerned about her attention though I got very little of it because she was in a relationship at the time.

I guess she started having problems with her boyfriend and I really needed her attention so I could win her over to my side but she started dating a new guy immediately from what I saw in her post and pictures. I met her for the first time and tried to make love to her but she refused, I didn't feel bad about it because I really wanted her for myself and wanted a chance to access her character to know if I can build a life with her. She was willing to come sleep with me the next day but I left before she made the call that she is sorry about yesterday and will come spend the night with me.

After that anytime I sent her a message she hardly reply so I got fed up and stopped talking to her and changed my phone without updating her. I was surprised she contacted me again after a long time and we got talking. Within a couple of days she started telling me about her financial difficulties that she needed money urgently to solve some personal and family issues, but the way she dress in all her recent pictures doesn't tell of one in need of assistance though I don't care because I really like her. She has been showing concern and always check on me ever since.

Presently I am in a position to give her more than what she requested for but what I want is love but she is more concern about the money. I have been painting a picture of someone who is struggling and I expected her to have deleted me by now but that has not been the case. With her beauty I am even wondering why she came to me when she could easily get countless rich dude to give her all the money she wants by offering herself to them.

I did a little investigation and found out some of the things she told me about herself and family are true but I couldn't get anything relating to her financial status. I have now concluded to continue acting poor to see if she will go away because I can't make a financial commitment without getting anything back in return. I can't really tell what is on her mind and why she really came to me.