₦airaland Forum

MhizzAJ:
Clothes cover a lot of people's misery
You will see them looking all beautiful and smart outside but one kobo they don't have especially men they will use all the money they have to purchase clothes just to impress one babe somewhere that is busy fuçking some other guy

By the way don't be a stingy man
If you have the means to help,help without expecting anything in return
Must there be a commitment for you to help

it's not by force to be someone's boyfriend
Your time will come

Especially men or ESPECIALLY WOMEN.....You must be kidding me....

MhizzAJ:
Clothes cover a lot of people's misery
You will see them looking all beautiful and smart outside but one kobo they don't have especially men they will use all the money they have to purchase clothes just to impress one babe somewhere that is busy fuçking some other guy

By the way don't be a stingy man
If you have the means to help,help without expecting anything in return
Must there be a commitment for you to help

it's not by force to be someone's boyfriend
Your time will come

Stop talking like a hoe.

bassey87:
There is this particular girl I met on social media. She is extremely beautiful with lots of guys trying to woo her. I am a financially stable dude with a good business that brings in steady income and continue to expand.

Though she never asked me for money I sent her money willingly because I was really having it. I was more concerned about her attention though I got very little of it because she was in a relationship at the time.

I guess she started having problems with her boyfriend and I really needed her attention so I could win her over to my side but she started dating a new guy immediately from what I saw in her post and pictures. I met her for the first time and tried to make love to her but she refused, I didn't feel bad about it because I really wanted her for myself and wanted a chance to access her character to know if I can build a life with her. She was willing to come sleep with me the next day but I left before she made the call that she is sorry about yesterday and will come spend the night with me.

After that anytime I sent her a message she hardly reply so I got fed up and stopped talking to her and changed my phone without updating her. I was surprised she contacted me again after a long time and we got talking. Within a couple of days she started telling me about her financial difficulties that she needed money urgently to solve some personal and family issues, but the way she dress in all her recent pictures doesn't tell of one in need of assistance though I don't care because I really like her. She has been showing concern and always check on me ever since.

Presently I am in a position to give her more than what she requested for but what I want is love but she is more concern about the money. I have been painting a picture of someone who is struggling and I expected her to have deleted me by now but that has not been the case. With her beauty I am even wondering why she came to me when she could easily get countless rich dude to give her all the money she wants by offering herself to them.

I did a little investigation and found out some of the things she told me about herself and family are true but I couldn't get anything relating to her financial status. I have now concluded to continue acting poor to see if she will go away because I can't make a financial commitment without getting anything back in return. I can't really tell what is on her mind and why she really came to me.

Please move on. She's not into you; She's into your money.

bassey87:
There is this particular girl I met on social media. She is extremely beautiful with lots of guys trying to woo her. I am a financially stable dude with a good business that brings in steady income and continue to expand.

Though she never asked me for money I sent her money willingly because I was really having it. I was more concerned about her attention though I got very little of it because she was in a relationship at the time.

I guess she started having problems with her boyfriend and I really needed her attention so I could win her over to my side but she started dating a new guy immediately from what I saw in her post and pictures. I met her for the first time and tried to make love to her but she refused, I didn't feel bad about it because I really wanted her for myself and wanted a chance to access her character to know if I can build a life with her. She was willing to come sleep with me the next day but I left before she made the call that she is sorry about yesterday and will come spend the night with me.

After that anytime I sent her a message she hardly reply so I got fed up and stopped talking to her and changed my phone without updating her. I was surprised she contacted me again after a long time and we got talking. Within a couple of days she started telling me about her financial difficulties that she needed money urgently to solve some personal and family issues, but the way she dress in all her recent pictures doesn't tell of one in need of assistance though I don't care because I really like her. She has been showing concern and always check on me ever since.

Presently I am in a position to give her more than what she requested for but what I want is love but she is more concern about the money. I have been painting a picture of someone who is struggling and I expected her to have deleted me by now but that has not been the case. With her beauty I am even wondering why she came to me when she could easily get countless rich dude to give her all the money she wants by offering herself to them.

I did a little investigation and found out some of the things she told me about herself and family are true but I couldn't get anything relating to her financial status. I have now concluded to continue acting poor to see if she will go away because I can't make a financial commitment without getting anything back in return. I can't really tell what is on her mind and why she really came to me.

JUST GIVE AND COLLECT MY BROTHER

bassey87:
There is this particular girl I met on social media. She is extremely beautiful with lots of guys trying to woo her. I am a financially stable dude with a good business that brings in steady income and continue to expand.

Though she never asked me for money I sent her money willingly because I was really having it. I was more concerned about her attention though I got very little of it because she was in a relationship at the time.

I guess she started having problems with her boyfriend and I really needed her attention so I could win her over to my side but she started dating a new guy immediately from what I saw in her post and pictures. I met her for the first time and tried to make love to her but she refused, I didn't feel bad about it because I really wanted her for myself and wanted a chance to access her character to know if I can build a life with her. She was willing to come sleep with me the next day but I left before she made the call that she is sorry about yesterday and will come spend the night with me.

After that anytime I sent her a message she hardly reply so I got fed up and stopped talking to her and changed my phone without updating her. I was surprised she contacted me again after a long time and we got talking. Within a couple of days she started telling me about her financial difficulties that she needed money urgently to solve some personal and family issues, but the way she dress in all her recent pictures doesn't tell of one in need of assistance though I don't care because I really like her. She has been showing concern and always check on me ever since.

Presently I am in a position to give her more than what she requested for but what I want is love but she is more concern about the money. I have been painting a picture of someone who is struggling and I expected her to have deleted me by now but that has not been the case. With her beauty I am even wondering why she came to me when she could easily get countless rich dude to give her all the money she wants by offering herself to them.

I did a little investigation and found out some of the things she told me about herself and family are true but I couldn't get anything relating to her financial status. I have now concluded to continue acting poor to see if she will go away because I can't make a financial commitment without getting anything back in return. I can't really tell what is on her mind and why she really came to me.

like seriously are you sure you are not admitted in a hospital right now?
because of woman? bro you be......

bassey87:
There is this particular girl I met on social media. She is extremely beautiful with lots of guys trying to woo her. I am a financially stable dude with a good business that brings in steady income and continue to expand.

Though she never asked me for money I sent her money willingly because I was really having it. I was more concerned about her attention though I got very little of it because she was in a relationship at the time.

I guess she started having problems with her boyfriend and I really needed her attention so I could win her over to my side but she started dating a new guy immediately from what I saw in her post and pictures. I met her for the first time and tried to make love to her but she refused, I didn't feel bad about it because I really wanted her for myself and wanted a chance to access her character to know if I can build a life with her. She was willing to come sleep with me the next day but I left before she made the call that she is sorry about yesterday and will come spend the night with me.

After that anytime I sent her a message she hardly reply so I got fed up and stopped talking to her and changed my phone without updating her. I was surprised she contacted me again after a long time and we got talking. Within a couple of days she started telling me about her financial difficulties that she needed money urgently to solve some personal and family issues, but the way she dress in all her recent pictures doesn't tell of one in need of assistance though I don't care because I really like her. She has been showing concern and always check on me ever since.

Presently I am in a position to give her more than what she requested for but what I want is love but she is more concern about the money. I have been painting a picture of someone who is struggling and I expected her to have deleted me by now but that has not been the case. With her beauty I am even wondering why she came to me when she could easily get countless rich dude to give her all the money she wants by offering herself to them.

I did a little investigation and found out some of the things she told me about herself and family are true but I couldn't get anything relating to her financial status. I have now concluded to continue acting poor to see if she will go away because I can't make a financial commitment without getting anything back in return. I can't really tell what is on her mind and why she really came to me.

I doubt if you have up to #1m in all your account.

Men ehh....

Some have sense , but no money
Some have money but no sense

Very very few can boast of both ...
And very very very many have misplaced priorities...
What a shame

DonPiiko:
Too much wisdom will not kee you, I only give a girl money once and that's it. If she like make she call me maga thats her business.

bro no try am again noting bad to give a girl money from d heart ave done it and today am regretting it also something like sis happen to me early dis year I fought she loved me but I discovered she dis not truly and another gals even stole my money trying to dupe me again last year I just weak for all these generation of ladies
I see d reason many of them are underground hustlers and olosho

bros don't give her a dime OK the best thing is to trick her and bang her den promise her money when she leaves den block her number she is a wicked lady and a lazy idiot who cares of her family background if they are poor na excuse she de give

don't be surprise these class of girls are easy bleeps when you scope dem with money

shame on many of out naija gals and the manipulative attitude

MhizzAJ:
Clothes cover a lot of people's misery
You will see them looking all beautiful and smart outside but one kobo they don't have especially men they will use all the money they have to purchase clothes just to impress one babe somewhere that is busy fuçking some other guy

By the way don't be a stingy man
If you have the means to help,help without expecting anything in return
Must there be a commitment for you to help

it's not by force to be someone's boyfriend
Your time will come

Most guys don't go into business deals they won't gain from and the OP and I are two of such guys!...

when he needed her attention she was using him to play, now she wants to use him as a rebound?...nah, things don't work that way.

young man don't ever help a lady.. help your male friends instead

Deckline:
So OP, Nobody in this whole wide world is close enough to tell you that You are mad You don fall my hand o. Girls 90% of them don't have brain...and they are all on nairaland. E.g MhizzAJ, so i should just give her my money like that ba? Because we plant money for my backyard. Your brain dey leek.

lol

bassey87:
There is this particular girl I met on social media. She is extremely beautiful with lots of guys trying to woo her. I am a financially stable dude with a good business that brings in steady income and continue to expand.

Though she never asked me for money I sent her money willingly because I was really having it. I was more concerned about her attention though I got very little of it because she was in a relationship at the time.

I guess she started having problems with her boyfriend and I really needed her attention so I could win her over to my side but she started dating a new guy immediately from what I saw in her post and pictures. I met her for the first time and tried to make love to her but she refused, I didn't feel bad about it because I really wanted her for myself and wanted a chance to access her character to know if I can build a life with her. She was willing to come sleep with me the next day but I left before she made the call that she is sorry about yesterday and will come spend the night with me.

After that anytime I sent her a message she hardly reply so I got fed up and stopped talking to her and changed my phone without updating her. I was surprised she contacted me again after a long time and we got talking. Within a couple of days she started telling me about her financial difficulties that she needed money urgently to solve some personal and family issues, but the way she dress in all her recent pictures doesn't tell of one in need of assistance though I don't care because I really like her. She has been showing concern and always check on me ever since.

Presently I am in a position to give her more than what she requested for but what I want is love but she is more concern about the money. I have been painting a picture of someone who is struggling and I expected her to have deleted me by now but that has not been the case. With her beauty I am even wondering why she came to me when she could easily get countless rich dude to give her all the money she wants by offering herself to them.

I did a little investigation and found out some of the things she told me about herself and family are true but I couldn't get anything relating to her financial status. I have now concluded to continue acting poor to see if she will go away because I can't make a financial commitment without getting anything back in return. I can't really tell what is on her mind and why she really came to me.

if u wish to help her,not out of compulsion or with strings attached.she may be in a delimma and seriously need ur help as a friend.but nawah for men oo,u guys can't give in anticipation for nuttin.
and wait oo u truly need an advice and u come here on NL to ask for it,i laugh in Spanish by there comments u shall know them.remember u have a sis even if u don't have u have family,riches does not stay at a place this world goes around.if she is deceiving u she must reap whatever she sow.

bassey87:
There is this particular girl I met on social media. She is extremely beautiful with lots of guys trying to woo her. I am a financially stable dude with a good business that brings in steady income and continue to expand.

Though she never asked me for money I sent her money willingly because I was really having it. I was more concerned about her attention though I got very little of it because she was in a relationship at the time.

I guess she started having problems with her boyfriend and I really needed her attention so I could win her over to my side but she started dating a new guy immediately from what I saw in her post and pictures. I met her for the first time and tried to make love to her but she refused, I didn't feel bad about it because I really wanted her for myself and wanted a chance to access her character to know if I can build a life with her. She was willing to come sleep with me the next day but I left before she made the call that she is sorry about yesterday and will come spend the night with me.

After that anytime I sent her a message she hardly reply so I got fed up and stopped talking to her and changed my phone without updating her. I was surprised she contacted me again after a long time and we got talking. Within a couple of days she started telling me about her financial difficulties that she needed money urgently to solve some personal and family issues, but the way she dress in all her recent pictures doesn't tell of one in need of assistance though I don't care because I really like her. She has been showing concern and always check on me ever since.

Presently I am in a position to give her more than what she requested for but what I want is love but she is more concern about the money. I have been painting a picture of someone who is struggling and I expected her to have deleted me by now but that has not been the case. With her beauty I am even wondering why she came to me when she could easily get countless rich dude to give her all the money she wants by offering herself to them.

I did a little investigation and found out some of the things she told me about herself and family are true but I couldn't get anything relating to her financial status. I have now concluded to continue acting poor to see if she will go away because I can't make a financial commitment without getting anything back in return. I can't really tell what is on her mind and why she really came to me.

come and be my boyfriend. Am looking for love too.

fuc her like 40times
and move ahead
and wen i mean fuc
hard fucs
d way i fuc. i fuc for 40mins.stil dnt cum.
they cry most times
im nt fuckin for pleasure
im fuckin cause im angry at biches
women are nutn but pusssys waiting to get bleeped.

all girls are poor and miserable
God continue to bless me
so i can splash dirry water on useless girls
i got two new biches im gonna fuc real hard


any gal i meet now
na 500 naira as transport
no more 5k. 7k.
wtf men i looked at my wardrope
fuc
e pay me say i use d money change my wardrope
no more love and i mean it.
fuc all d girls i followed dis few months
no one even sent me card or something reasonable

fuc daddy yo
and father xmas
im going back to the old me.
ive ran outta love

SoapQueen:
I admire the fact that you came clean. You love this girl, sadly, she doesn't feel same about you. Don't give her cash if your gut feelings tell you not to.


Try to move on.

Am impressed that this is coming from a lady ...99% of ladies on this thread will still call the guy stingy and wicked for not giving her the money.

It's sad to see a guy who genuinely likes a girl and is seeking for her attention but the girl in return does not care and later will want to play with his emotions by defrauding him.

bassey87:
There is this particular girl I met on social media. She is extremely beautiful with lots of guys trying to woo her. I am a financially stable dude with a good business that brings in steady income and continue to expand.

Though she never asked me for money I sent her money willingly because I was really having it. I was more concerned about her attention though I got very little of it because she was in a relationship at the time.

I guess she started having problems with her boyfriend and I really needed her attention so I could win her over to my side but she started dating a new guy immediately from what I saw in her post and pictures. I met her for the first time and tried to make love to her but she refused, I didn't feel bad about it because I really wanted her for myself and wanted a chance to access her character to know if I can build a life with her. She was willing to come sleep with me the next day but I left before she made the call that she is sorry about yesterday and will come spend the night with me.

After that anytime I sent her a message she hardly reply so I got fed up and stopped talking to her and changed my phone without updating her. I was surprised she contacted me again after a long time and we got talking. Within a couple of days she started telling me about her financial difficulties that she needed money urgently to solve some personal and family issues, but the way she dress in all her recent pictures doesn't tell of one in need of assistance though I don't care because I really like her. She has been showing concern and always check on me ever since.

Presently I am in a position to give her more than what she requested for but what I want is love but she is more concern about the money. I have been painting a picture of someone who is struggling and I expected her to have deleted me by now but that has not been the case. With her beauty I am even wondering why she came to me when she could easily get countless rich dude to give her all the money she wants by offering herself to them.

I did a little investigation and found out some of the things she told me about herself and family are true but I couldn't get anything relating to her financial status. I have now concluded to continue acting poor to see if she will go away because I can't make a financial commitment without getting anything back in return. I can't really tell what is on her mind and why she really came to me.

Hmmmm. So you want to give her money and sleep with her? So much for love. Why can't you give freely. Na devil go give something small collect big in return. Help her abeg how you go feel if person do am to your sister or daughter? Jesus love us well. Love like Jesus. Op you hear?

Bassey87 my advice to u is don't re enforce failure. If a gal acts improperly let her take correction 1st and show remorse. Once ure totally convinced u can help her out. Bt u must test her to be sure. Stop giving to lazy ass gals with no manners.

Then don't mind people saying she doesn't love u. All the guys shes dated did she love them? Gals theses days especially needy ones don't know who they love. They just go with whoever helps them for their issues sadly. Just try to gauge her character and values whilst getting her attention and see if she's more than just a beautiful face and body bt also sm1 with sm sense and goals.

prechbills1:
young man don't ever help a lady.. help your male friends instead

Thank you.

Many Ladies say am stingy I just laugh it off anytime they make such statement. It is only someone they can't manipulate they call stingy.

Why will I with all my responsibilities give free money to a lady who adds no value to my life, who thinks I should give her only because she is a Lady with an asz full of sh!t.

Beats my imagination.

I'll advice you to give your money to orphanages and beggars there Is more reward in that.

lefulefu:
girls are smart. They have men who spend on them and they manipulate them like remote control.these are their magas. In the university they manipulate those gullible young single lecturers. Promising them marriage in exchange for high grades.when they get what they want dey dump those naive single young lecturers. Some men allow themselves get manipulated to sponsor a girl through WAEC and jamb to the university and when she graduates she dumps him. Money that u could have saved to start a good business or sponsor urself overseas for further studies u use on one girl because she promise u marriage. Some men will even sell their father or grandfather's ancestral land and use d money to sponsor a random girl overseas and when she gets there and cut off links from them they start crying and posting sob stories on social media. Guys should try and work on their self esteem. Don't use money to impress a woman or use it to make her notice u. Women look down on men who depend on using money for a lady to get their attention. They will chop ur money ,dump and laugh at u and call u maga or mugu.

You get am bro. Which kain help? There are thousands of people that really need help cos they are helpless the OP can help as he said he has more than enough. The lady is trying to use the guy as a cash cow once he drops this one. No give her shi shi oga OP, look into your environment and help those really in need, not some slay Queen that has ran out of options.

CaptJeffry:
Oga if you have extra, give her to help out and not to win her heart. She doesn't love you so don't expect the gift to change that.

As you said, you got more than enough so you ain't loosing anything by giving a little.

Don't worry about love, it will come when the right, calm, understanding, peaceful and patient lady comes your way.

Bross, it's not about having enough and not want to give. The lady simply does not care about the guys feelings. She's probably just using his emotions towards her against him and that's wrong.

bassey87:
There is this particular girl I met on social media. She is extremely beautiful with lots of guys trying to woo her. I am a financially stable dude with a good business that brings in steady income and continue to expand.

Though she never asked me for money I sent her money willingly because I was really having it. I was more concerned about her attention though I got very little of it because she was in a relationship at the time.

I guess she started having problems with her boyfriend and I really needed her attention so I could win her over to my side but she started dating a new guy immediately from what I saw in her post and pictures. I met her for the first time and tried to make love to her but she refused, I didn't feel bad about it because I really wanted her for myself and wanted a chance to access her character to know if I can build a life with her. She was willing to come sleep with me the next day but I left before she made the call that she is sorry about yesterday and will come spend the night with me.

After that anytime I sent her a message she hardly reply so I got fed up and stopped talking to her and changed my phone without updating her. I was surprised she contacted me again after a long time and we got talking. Within a couple of days she started telling me about her financial difficulties that she needed money urgently to solve some personal and family issues, but the way she dress in all her recent pictures doesn't tell of one in need of assistance though I don't care because I really like her. She has been showing concern and always check on me ever since.

Presently I am in a position to give her more than what she requested for but what I want is love but she is more concern about the money. I have been painting a picture of someone who is struggling and I expected her to have deleted me by now but that has not been the case. With her beauty I am even wondering why she came to me when she could easily get countless rich dude to give her all the money she wants by offering herself to them.

I did a little investigation and found out some of the things she told me about herself and family are true but I couldn't get anything relating to her financial status. I have now concluded to continue acting poor to see if she will go away because I can't make a financial commitment without getting anything back in return. I can't really tell what is on her mind and why she really came to me.

Op pls borrow me the money to start mini importation business, I'll refund it in few months time with an interest pls. I'm a graduate still seeking for job and I don't want to hunt for one forever.

Sheuns:
You get am bro. Which kain help? There are thousands of people that really need help cos they are helpless the OP can help as he said he has more than enough. The lady is trying to use the guy as a cash cow once he drops this one. No give her shi shi oga OP, look into your environment and help those really in need, not some slay Queen that has ran out of options.

gbam!.. Her guys don chop and dump her.op seems to be her last option. He should help those who are really in need if he really wants to help someone.

bassey87:
There is this particular girl I met on social media. She is extremely beautiful with lots of guys trying to woo her. I am a financially stable dude with a good business that brings in steady income and continue to expand.

Though she never asked me for money I sent her money willingly because I was really having it. I was more concerned about her attention though I got very little of it because she was in a relationship at the time.

I guess she started having problems with her boyfriend and I really needed her attention so I could win her over to my side but she started dating a new guy immediately from what I saw in her post and pictures.

I met her for the first time and tried to make love to her but she refused, I didn't feel bad about it because I really wanted her for myself and wanted a chance to access her character to know if I can build a life with her. She was willing to come sleep with me the next day but I left before she made the call that she is sorry about yesterday and will come spend the night with me.

After that anytime I sent her a message she hardly reply so I got fed up and stopped talking to her and changed my phone without updating her. I was surprised she contacted me again after a long time and we got talking. Within a couple of days she started telling me about her financial difficulties that she needed money urgently to solve some personal and family issues, but the way she dress in all her recent pictures doesn't tell of one in need of assistance though I don't care because I really like her. She has been showing concern and always check on me ever since.

Presently I am in a position to give her more than what she requested for but what I want is love but she is more concern about the money. I have been painting a picture of someone who is struggling and I expected her to have deleted me by now but that has not been the case. With her beauty I am even wondering why she came to me when she could easily get countless rich dude to give her all the money she wants by offering herself to them.

I did a little investigation and found out some of the things she told me about herself and family are true but I couldn't get anything relating to her financial status. I have now concluded to continue acting poor to see if she will go away because I can't make a financial commitment without getting anything back in return. I can't really tell what is on her mind and why she really came to me.

You're a thief

You destroyed her relationship

Rubbish... If u av nothing to use money for, spend lavishly for your mother

You where just a maga in the nursery

You where just a maga in the nursery

You where just a maga in the nursery

deepwater:
OP giver her money and stop disturbing us.
You claim you have money, like stash of money, like money bag ... so give the needy WTF

I bet you are still broke but not as you use to be that is why you think you have plenty money..

Lemme tell you something brah...
If you truly get plenty money ehn... your swag and confidence go don change automatic...
Na the girl go they monkey for u anyhow! she go dey spread for your bed 24.... and guess what? you what even have time to Bleep her self as in you gonna be too busy making/counting money ...#Singing... I am counting my money, so i cant hear you!!!

u no get money, you just dey make noise
You started giving her coins when she didnt ask expecting her to open her legs (The babe be like niccur bring some notes and take the pussy)
You couldnt decode d code
Now she has decided to release the code raw to u (Niccur bring the notes and take the pussy WTF)

You run to Nairaland to cry? You cant release the notes or what?

On a more serious note,give her the money and dump that girl
never wife her, you cant get all the money there is
a bigger fish will swallow her sooner than you can quote deepwater
There is a reason she kept your contact all the while. You where just a maga in the nursery
She has been keenly monitoring your business and watch it grow
It is harvest time bro, time to dig u up and consume
Recall she went for another dude immediately she left the first guy
Dont think it was out from the blues
The second guy just left the nursery before you
and now she is done consuming him....

Be a man, dont pay for sex
Look for a better girl and stop flaunting your little money...

lefulefu:
Its like men don dey use and chop her without giving her money. She now feels u might make a better ATM for her. If i were u i won't even bother answering her calls or replying her chats ..not to talk of giving her money. I got better things to do with money than to dey throw money at a random girl on social media cos i want her to notice me.she wants to use u.

Thanks bro!...u've said it all!

There are better things to do with that money. She needs money but does not look like someone in need of it?.

Bro, if you are willing to help her please do,and it is not necessary you date her cos you want to help her financially. Guys really dont want to help ladies these days without laying them.
If God says she is yours she will definitely be...my take tho

bassey87:
There is this particular girl I met on social media. She is extremely beautiful with lots of guys trying to woo her. I am a financially stable dude with a good business that brings in steady income and continue to expand.

Though she never asked me for money I sent her money willingly because I was really having it. I was more concerned about her attention though I got very little of it because she was in a relationship at the time.

I guess she started having problems with her boyfriend and I really needed her attention so I could win her over to my side but she started dating a new guy immediately from what I saw in her post and pictures. I met her for the first time and tried to make love to her but she refused, I didn't feel bad about it because I really wanted her for myself and wanted a chance to access her character to know if I can build a life with her. She was willing to come sleep with me the next day but I left before she made the call that she is sorry about yesterday and will come spend the night with me.

After that anytime I sent her a message she hardly reply so I got fed up and stopped talking to her and changed my phone without updating her. I was surprised she contacted me again after a long time and we got talking. Within a couple of days she started telling me about her financial difficulties that she needed money urgently to solve some personal and family issues, but the way she dress in all her recent pictures doesn't tell of one in need of assistance though I don't care because I really like her. She has been showing concern and always check on me ever since.

Presently I am in a position to give her more than what she requested for but what I want is love but she is more concern about the money. I have been painting a picture of someone who is struggling and I expected her to have deleted me by now but that has not been the case. With her beauty I am even wondering why she came to me when she could easily get countless rich dude to give her all the money she wants by offering herself to them.

I did a little investigation and found out some of the things she told me about herself and family are true but I couldn't get anything relating to her financial status. I have now concluded to continue acting poor to see if she will go away because I can't make a financial commitment without getting anything back in return. I can't really tell what is on her mind and why she really came to me.

If you give that girl N1, you must give me too, since you have enough money to spend.
Don't give her anything, don't help her, let her go get it from someone else.

The problem is not that she rejected your proposal, the problem is she stopped communicating with you. Then all of a sudden, she just popped out from no where and started begging for money, I don't help such people.

Once you give her, she'll just disappear and appear when next she's broke.

Even if it were to be a guy, don't help such people, they are parasites.

She rejected you, yes, but that doesn't mean she should only think of you when she needs money. I mean, for how long are you going to continue like this?

I don't like it when people keep in touch with me only when they need something, be it a boy or girl.

In this case it's even a girl, fuucck her!

MhizzAJ:
Clothes cover a lot of people's misery
You will see them looking all beautiful and smart outside but one kobo they don't have especially men they will use all the money they have to purchase clothes just to impress one babe somewhere that is busy fuçking some other guy

By the way don't be a stingy man
If you have the means to help,help without expecting anything in return
Must there be a commitment for you to help

it's not by force to be someone's boyfriend
Your time will come

This is the bitter truth.

OP use that money she's requesting for and buy something for ur sister instead if u don't have anyone in a more serious situation to help. It's clear she has no feelings for u.

lwanga1993:
my dear go to bed.. you no get talk

Exactly.......