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| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by Peterosky(m): 9:55am On Apr 13, 2018 |
My dear brother, learn not to attach much emotions when asking out a girl whose answer to your love advances is not certain, yet always be ready to render help to even your enemies except where you fear that your help maybe used against you.In conclusion, if you have the financial ability to help her, please go ahead not minding the fact that she turned down your advances. And again, please kindly render the help without thinking about her looks since ones looks most at times does not define his/her financial challenges.Finally, don't expect her to say yes after rendering the help. Just give and forget about her. She will definitely come looking for you if the relationship was meant to be established. And please let her know that you are not helping her because you want her to consider your request but just to help a friend in need whom you Cherish so dearly. Then go home smiling and watch the magic this will do.But don't forget to thank me later. Wish you all the luck you desire. |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by slex(m): 9:55am On Apr 13, 2018 |
Poster guess what number you are on herbalist of guys to fall for her sob story and win a gift. A girl that makes asking for financial help her first impression is a no no from me but you and I are not the same. Think about it, she gives this same story to over 30 toasters and last last 18 pays. Only you know the amount she asked for so multiply it by 18 and that's your answer to your question. |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by ifihearam: 9:55am On Apr 13, 2018 |
MhizzAJ: |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by famiebee(f): 9:56am On Apr 13, 2018 |
bassey87:If you want to help do it...helping someone' shouldn't be attached to anything and what if you have your way and you jam bad luck through the process It will take you time, prayer's to recover oooo |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by unknownsolja: 9:58am On Apr 13, 2018 |
bassey87:because you be her aboki |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by SoapQueen(f): 9:58am On Apr 13, 2018 |
enonche85:Stingy? Why would anyone call him that? Even my dad, I don't feel like I have the right to ask him for money. Truth is, in life, no one owes us anything especially financial rewards. However, she might truly be in need but checking up on the guy just because of cash is tad insensitive. She knows he loves her and she wants to be a bit manipulative. It is what self-centered people do. Dem no dey ever shame. The Op should be be strong. This pain won't last forever. There's more to life. Regards. |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by ifihearam: 9:58am On Apr 13, 2018 |
Ladies!!!!!! I love girls who don’t show interest in me and portrays the hard to get..... you can do that for years and I won’t be bothered. Read my messages without replying. Ignoring my calls. PROVIDED you don’t ask me for any favor then I will respect you more if you dare. You are finished. |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by pafisayo(m): 10:00am On Apr 13, 2018 |
bassey87:Find a random girl/boy who’s in need of Help and give them what ever you plan on giving her. The truth is bitter but when a girl spends most of what she’s Got on clothing and material things they basically tend to always beg and beg and play the pity card to get from who ever is asking them out or trying to build a relationship with them .. the chances you are number 4on d list of those she’s playing the Finacial trouble tape for is very High .. same goes with some young dudes .. They display their Gucci’ shoes belt the Champagnes and the Good life all through Friday to Sunday on their status then on Monday they would play the i have one school ish bla bla bla for their supposed big Bro wey no sabi flex on Tuesday.. most times I basically just ignore . Don’t encourage her to live beyond her means |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by ifihearam: 10:02am On Apr 13, 2018 |
Peterosky:Nonsense. |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by Sterope(f): 10:02am On Apr 13, 2018*. Modified: 10:18am On Apr 13, 2018 |
bassey87 will not help where he cannot benefit from. The girl does not love him. A healthy human being will understand that you cannot force attraction or love. You cannot possibly love everyone that is interested in you even they would sacrifice their life for you. There are many women out there who would give you the moon yet you shun them. It is called life. It is unfair, deal with it. Those women you shun are also dealing with it. You knew she was not interested you still sent her money. Were you so desperate that you could care less about her feelings for you if only she would be with you? That is not love. You need to set a standard for yourself. Now she is in a tangle. It happens. She needs help and it seems genuine. You do not need to love her to help her. It is the emphatic thing to do. I leave you to Karma and your conscience. Time is all she needs. I pray she is able to surmount her troubles with or without your help. @soapqueen he never loved her! SoapQueen: |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by Sluvist(m): 10:03am On Apr 13, 2018 |
You play mumu role from the initial stage and she play sense on you, now that you tried to draw back, she pulls you closer with a request of what she believes is not beyond your capacity, and pretends to you with sweet words. You need to shine eyes, mumu. |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by SoapQueen(f): 10:07am On Apr 13, 2018 |
Sterope:I wanted to reply then I realized you prolly didn't read all, what's worse? You got my name wrongly. It is "SOAP" not "Slayqueen". Of all the names I hate in the world, Slay queen ranks highest. |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by benswagtt(m): 10:07am On Apr 13, 2018 |
deepwater:claps# u spoke well! |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by Cupie22(f): 10:09am On Apr 13, 2018 |
Bro,if you do have the ability to assist her financially please do.Guys dont really want to help ladies these days without a "reward" .Beautiful clothes does not mean she is good with finances. |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by Tlyon(m): 10:15am On Apr 13, 2018 |
MhizzAJ:good talk ma,just to add little as a guy i would say he should help if he can and stand by her when she's in need just as a friend,even if she come spend d night don't touch her just request she put you in prayer. i know she would bring herself to you bro. |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by ifihearam: 10:16am On Apr 13, 2018 |
famiebee:Shut up dia |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by enonche85(m): 10:17am On Apr 13, 2018 |
Addy003:God bless ur soul sir! ![]() |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by Nobody: 10:18am On Apr 13, 2018 |
Any woman who really loves you. Wont let you go, believe me. She find you back because you got the bills and gives her what loves most in you. But once its finished, She will treat you like tissue. Go make a life and marry your soul mate. Think twice or you will regret marrying the wrong person at a wrong hour of time. |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by enonche85(m): 10:22am On Apr 13, 2018 |
slex:20k x 18 = 360k |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by MChaze25(m): 10:22am On Apr 13, 2018 |
MhizzAJ:Wrong advice!!! Very common from a typical Nigerian girl to say stuff like this |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by chrisjohn234: 10:23am On Apr 13, 2018 |
If you give her she will continue requesting from you even after she gets married but one thing is for sure, you will eventually sleep with her so make your choice |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by ademola020(m): 10:23am On Apr 13, 2018 |
If you have you can help her |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by enonche85(m): 10:25am On Apr 13, 2018 |
SoapQueen:Am impressed I must say! |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by unipol(m): 10:28am On Apr 13, 2018 |
MhizzAJ:But it is by force to give someone money as alhaji bring,. bringi, get a job and stop making other intelligent hard working women look cheap and loose their respect. |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by perdollar(m): 10:32am On Apr 13, 2018 |
my ex too is currently begging me for money. being kind wanted to send her some but my current girl said no way. |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by Stormyweather(m): 10:33am On Apr 13, 2018 |
MhizzAJ:May your days be long for this. The boys that dress with all their money to impress a girl that is busy not interested in them but rather interested in the boy that doesn't care shit about his dressing. i am always in the shoes of the boys that dont dress up like a barbie doll yet i have them all over seeking attention |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by masks(m): 10:33am On Apr 13, 2018 |
lwanga1993:walahi!!! |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by solidman59(m): 10:38am On Apr 13, 2018 |
bro dont give your money to a babe you are not sure of. bassey87: |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by tundebaba234: 10:41am On Apr 13, 2018 |
prechbills1:they don't get it. these bitcches will never be loyal.she fuucked many men during the break and has been dumped.she is now looking for a mumu guy to settle down with. Bleep bitches they add nothing to a niigga |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by Kingjames11(m): 10:43am On Apr 13, 2018 |
bassey87:. [s] bassey87:. [/s] bassey87:.
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| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by tundebaba234: 10:48am On Apr 13, 2018 |
thunderbabs:she is fuccking a dude as we speak and this dumb OP gonna credit her when he can spend the money on his boys who will return the favor when he finds himself in a mess.Bleep hoes |
| Re: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by LaudGuy: 10:48am On Apr 13, 2018 |
wisino1:Make love keh, guy pump that coochie up like it offended you. Give her half the money and tell her to call you in 2 days for balance. when she does ignore. End of story |
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It will take you time, prayer's to recover oooo
that is why you think you have plenty money..
