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Hi guys, I have been dating lady for quite some time now. Everything started well and it felt like I had met an angel. But, in reality reverse is the case. For a few months now, we. Have been having a lot of quarrels, arguments and fights.

It appears we are not compatible. She has been in my house for the past few days and left angrily this morning over a little quarrels.

I am thinking of breaking up with her, but then I feel it is unnecessary for me to send her a break up message. I feel by the time she does not see my calls or messages, then she wil get the message.

What do you think?

Send her a break up message and mean it,so that she would not have false hopes and think you are dating.

Grab ur ball sack and text her .... ignoring doesn’t mean it’s over
Rada rada

What's rada rada?

AmazonTopaz:
Send her a break up message and mean it,so that she would not have false hopes and think you are dating.

Thanks for your comments. I am just scared she will do something stupid if I break up with her. She is ill tempered.

Lalas247:
Grab ur ball sack and text her .... ignoring doesn’t mean it’s over
Rada rada

Lol... The lady is crazy o, just scared of the outcome if I do that

Send that message. You'll be doing yourself a lot of good. Ill tempered? Send the message right away!

molybdenum0012:
Lol... The lady is crazy o, just scared of the outcome if I do that

Why u seff get crazy girlfriend

Just do it .. we got u

IamD18:
What's rada rada?

Think it means Iranu or nonsense , I’m not sure

molybdenum0012:
Thanks for your comments. I am just scared she will do something stupid if I break up with her. She is ill tempered.

If she has hot temper give her cold temper.Don't be scared tell her the truth so that you can have a clear conscience.As much as I don't agree with this words in it's entirety but at this point "a failed relationship is better than a failed marriage".

Lalas247:
Think it means Iranu or nonsense , I’m not sure

Alright, what's "lranu abacha"
Because i'v heard some shii like that

hmmmm

it that the only reason why u want to break up with her?
arguments and quarrels re meant to be in a relationship .....
That's why u are a man, men do understand things well than women so for that u have to be patient in a relationship

people never think and act thesame way

no body is perfect ,

IamD18:
Alright, what's "lranu abacha"

Because i'v heard some shii like that

That’s for low level dregs when you want to insult use that one

E.g
A guy says he licked a girl out on her period, you can insert (iranu Abacha ) it’s like saying eww or disgusting

Only kid send dat message stuf of a tin

if u don't want her any more '' Diplomatically Abandon her like she never exists ''

#MyOpinion

Lalas247:
That’s for low level dregs when you want to insult use that one

E.g
A guy says he licked a girl out on her period, you can insert (iranu Abacha ) it’s like saying eww or disgusting

Now, I get

You from south west?

IamD18:


Now, I get

You from south west?

No
East and south

Lalas247:
No East and south

Alright

mgdimagaladima:
hmmmm

it that the only reason why u want to break up with her?
arguments and quarrels re meant to be in a relationship .....
That's why u are a man, men do understand things well than women so for that u have to be patient in a relationship

people never think and act thesame way

no body is perfect ,

I understand that quarrels and arguments are meant to be in a relationship, but when they become too frequent I get tired. Imagine a scenerio whereby I have to practically watch every words I say to her because I don't know which will infuriate her. No matter what I say, she reads meaning to it and goes cold afterwards, demanding for apology.

I cannot count how many times I have apologized to this lady, even without even offending her. Sometimes, I told her frankly that I did not do anything wrong, so I will not apologize. Well, i will still do that to allow peace ro reign.

We cannot be in a room for 4 hours without quarreling either we talking or not. She told me she loves me because I can accommodate her anger and craziness. But to be candid, if I end up with her I will be the most misrable man on earth.

Blackfreedom:
Only kid send dat message stuf of a tin

if u don't want her any more '' Diplomatically Abandon her like she never exists ''

#MyOpinion

Thank you for your comments.. I might consider thisas option

molybdenum0012:
Hi guys, I have been dating lady for quite some time now. Everything started well and it felt like I had met an angel. But, in reality reverse is the case. For a few months now, we. Have been having a lot of quarrels, arguments and fights.

It appears we are not compatible. She has been in my house for the past few days and left angrily this morning over a little quarrels.

I am thinking of breaking up with her, but then I feel it is unnecessary for me to send her a break up message. I feel by the time she does not see my calls or messages, then she wil get the message.

What do you think?

Bros tell me truth. I'm sure all these wdnt a problem while u started, b4 u got a taste of d cookie. But nw after smashing her beyond recognition, all of a sudden d faults just appeared abi?

Bros fear God o.

molybdenum0012:
Thank you for your comments.. I might consider thisas option

U welkom bro

Lalas247:
Just do it .. we got u

you got him? Hmmmm... Will you be there for him when she comes to stab him with a knife while he is asleep?

coolestofall:
Bros tell me truth. I'm sure all these wdnt a problem while u started, b4 u got a taste of d cookie. But nw after smashing her beyond recognition, all of a sudden d faults just appeared abi?

Bros fear God o.

Well, I know you won't believe this, but it is the truth. She is a virgin and sworn to remain so until marriage. I know this because she told me and I confirmed it. I respect her decision and never go beyond my boundary.
So, it is not what you think.

Op no fear we dey behind you

molybdenum0012:
Well, I know you won't believe this, but it is the truth. She is a virgin and sworn to remain so until marriage. I know this because she told me and I confirmed it. I respect her decision and never go beyond my boundary.
So, it is not what you think.

Ur assumption is flawed cos I do blive u.
U've not given me any reason not 2 take u by ur word.

molybdenum0012:
Well, I know you won't believe this, but it is the truth. She is a virgin and sworn to remain so until marriage. I know this because she told me and I confirmed it. I respect her decision and never go beyond my boundary.
So, it is not what you think.

let am go joor, wetin come be your benefit for the relationship? Oga!!, You guys are just friends, that's all!

Don't send her a breakup message biko. It will worsen things. Just stop calling her and texting her. Dat will work and like u said..she Will get d message.

mgdimagaladima:
hmmmm

it that the only reason why u want to break up with her?
arguments and quarrels re meant to be in a relationship .....
That's why u are a man, men do understand things well than women so for that u have to be patient in a relationship

people never think and act thesame way

no body is perfect ,

its like u haven't seen some ladies with scary temper. When they get angry they will pick a knife or any dangerous implement in the house to use to attack u. Some will kick at ur tv or fling d kitchen kettle at u. And u expect op to remain with such a lady cos he's a man. Abegi wen a woman temper too hot its best the man walks away. These days that some ladies dey stab their men with knife out of anger ..its best a man knows d type of woman he's dating.

True love count no error.abeg forgive him oooh

molybdenum0012:
I understand that quarrels and arguments are meant to be in a relationship, but when they become too frequent I get tired. Imagine a scenerio whereby I have to practically watch every words I say to her because I don't know which will infuriate her. No matter what I say, she reads meaning to it and goes cold afterwards, demanding for apology.

I cannot count how many times I have apologized to this lady, even without even offending her. Sometimes, I told her frankly that I did not do anything wrong, so I will not apologize. Well, i will still do that to allow peace ro reign.

We cannot be in a room for 4 hours without quarreling either we talking or not. She told me she loves me because I can accommodate her anger and craziness. But to be candid, if I end up with her I will be the most miserable man on earth.

I understand ur predicament


just be patient
call her and tell her ur mind ...also tell her what u like and what u don't like.. if she refuse to obey then u can take a break