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Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by Charles4075(m): 7:28pm On Apr 21, 2018
nero2face:
Funny enough, u can't find one in Nigeria, they're all dependent, even de working class prefer to be spending ur own money while she save hers, selfishness is understatement
Don't mind them my brother.

They will tell you - my money is my money but your money is our money.

Can you imagine that nonsense?

Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by Safiaa(f): 7:34pm On Apr 21, 2018
greiboy:
hahaha

grin

First of all, what gave the impression that jay z is more intellectually gifted than Beyonce. is it based on awards and achievement in their careers? or the versatility of the pair? I hope it's not solely based on money?

Beyonce has won several awards and accolades in her chosen career, She can sing , act and she writes some of her songs. She has a career spanning over three decades amongst other achievements.

Secondly, I gave examples of popular successful and married women and you claimed they are all exceptions without giving any substantial counter claim, like you have always done


Thirdly, your only proof is a thread you created last year to complain about the same thing you have been complaining about through out this thread. I am sure you didn't notice that I also contributed to that topic and I countered you there, just like I am doing here right now cheesy in fact, majority of the male remarks on that thread countered your view


Finally, I asked you an important question and you claimed it made no sense to you, perhaps you need to go over the meaning of independent ladies and why domineering men prefer the non independent ladies to understand that question properly.
ok
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by Charles4075(m): 7:34pm On Apr 21, 2018
Cutehector:
lol.. It will be bad of me to call you a blockhead when I havnt had a physical encounter with you...

But if you are seriously interested in learning how to make a smoothie, I won't mind teaching you.. Of course physically.
Yea, teach her physically.

Correct guy.

Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by Nobody: 7:38pm On Apr 21, 2018
Safiaa:
ok
ok cheesy
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by TheUpsetGirl1(op): 7:50pm On Apr 21, 2018
greiboy:
ok cheesy
Chai.. you can kill someone with of your intellectual arguments.
Jay Z hasn't won notable awards in the past 6years.

Infact I'm bewildered at the way that girl reason.
I amazed some people still argue with her.

Always generalizing without facts
Always claiming what she isn't
Always backtracking
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by Nobody: 7:59pm On Apr 21, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:
Chai.. you can kill someone because of your intellectual arguments.
Jay Z hasn't won notable awards in the past 6years.

Infact I'm bewildered at the way that girl reason.
The last time Jayz had a real global hit was when he released "watch the throne" or something with Kanye west Some years back. I believe Beyonce has released close to three successful albums since then.

Beyonce played significant roles in successful movies such as the dream girls, Austin powers and the pink panther movie
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by lookingfly: 7:59pm On Apr 21, 2018
AntiBrutus:
Hmmm, I keep reading things like this and I wonder why I have been so unfortunate... Where do they find these generous brothers?
i don't think you offer the kpekus because of you do, you would have a generous one grin. So, you want to hold on to kpekus and still get free cash? Doesn't work that way, an eye for an eye undecided
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by nero2face: 8:13pm On Apr 21, 2018
ademijuwonlo:
The few of us who are independent are called "proud" by men
LMAO, she's telling that to a foreigner cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by Shugavee(f): 8:49pm On Apr 21, 2018
greiboy:
hahaha

grin

First of all, what gave the impression that jay z is more intellectually gifted than Beyonce. is it based on awards and achievement in their careers? or the versatility of the pair? I hope it's not solely based on money?

Beyonce has won several awards and accolades in her chosen career, She can sing , act and she writes some of her songs. She has a career spanning over three decades amongst other achievements.

Secondly, I gave examples of popular successful and married women and you claimed they are all exceptions without giving any substantial counter claim, like you have always done


Thirdly, your only proof is a thread you created last year to complain about the same thing you have been complaining about through out this thread. I am sure you didn't notice that I also contributed to that topic and I countered you there, just like I am doing here right now cheesy in fact, majority of the male remarks on that thread countered your view


Finally, I asked you an important question and you claimed it made no sense to you, perhaps you need to go over the meaning of independent ladies and why domineering men prefer the non independent ladies to understand that question properly.
nice argument , just one simple question, between Beyonce n Jay-Z who is richer?

Anyways u both made sense to me cheesy
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by Nobody: 9:09pm On Apr 21, 2018
Shugavee:
nice argument , just one simple question, between Beyonce n Jay-Z who is richer?

Anyways u both made sense to me cheesy
I made room for that in my argument
tongue
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by Shugavee(f): 9:13pm On Apr 21, 2018
greiboy:
I made room for that in my argument
tongue
grin grin goodnight
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by Nobody: 9:16pm On Apr 21, 2018
Shugavee:
grin grin goodnight
ka chifoo tongue
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by Shugavee(f): 9:18pm On Apr 21, 2018
greiboy:
ka chifoo tongue
u hv to explain that to me o!!
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by Nobody: 9:21pm On Apr 21, 2018
Shugavee:
u hv to explain that to me o!!
Good night In Igbo

I thought we are Igbos from Abia huh state cheesy

obi ngwa to be precise grin
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by nobsalis: 9:31pm On Apr 21, 2018
trustyshoess:
1. I'm a Nigerian lady
2. I'm independent
3. I prefer to spend my own money. That's the whole point of being independent in the first place
undecided
Evidence pls #politely
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by Shugavee(f): 9:34pm On Apr 21, 2018
greiboy:
Good night In Igbo

I thought we are Igbos from Abia huh state cheesy

obi ngwa to be precise grin
no imo but not too good with igbo especially writing!!

Sleep tight my dear kiss
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by Nobody: 10:44pm On Apr 21, 2018
nobsalis:
Evidence pls #politely
Lol what kind of evidence do you want? I also don't feel like I need to prove anything to anyone
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by nobsalis: 10:53pm On Apr 21, 2018
trustyshoess:
Lol what kind of evidence do you want? I also don't feel like I need to prove anything to anyone

Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 10:57pm On Apr 21, 2018
IamD18:
Nigerians are black.....Most Nigerians are black, which one is correct?

Lol, we enjoy gini shocked, Biko ekwukwele ozo cheesy

@Last paragraph, Ronaldo's fan told me he once permanently stayed at brass and osisoma, but now comes in and moves out, not that permanent like before. Gotten? grin
Black as a race or black as a skin colour?
Black as a race, correct.
Black as skin colour, incorrect.

Oh comm'n. You mean you don't get happy when you have someone that asks you for things once in a while tongue

You got me laughing sooooo hard with the last paragraph grin grin
I definitely get it tongue

The style of typing and the page you normally appear is unmistakable. The name is also similar. I had to even check the profile to verify its newness. cool
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by IamD18: 11:29pm On Apr 21, 2018
MissJoy29:
Black as a race or black as a skin colour?
Black as a race, correct.
Black as skin colour, incorrect.

Oh comm'n. You mean you don't get happy when you have someone that asks you for things once in a while tongue

You got me laughing sooooo hard with the last paragraph grin grin
I definitely get it tongue

The style of typing and the page you normally appear is unmistakable. The name is also similar. I had to even check the profile to verify its newness. cool
Let me buttress my point in another way. "Nigerian politicians are corrupt" , is this correct? cheesy


I get happy when being asked for something once in a while, but not when it's seen as my obligations undecided

Lol, cheesy, I know you'll be smart to decode, no need to ask the mod to ban you because I already know "world bank" is your hobby, right? grin grin

Lol cheesy, I got banned but will be free by monday grin, you knew it was me cheesy
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by purityval(m): 7:28am On Apr 22, 2018
MissJoy29:
Let's not bother about who expects the most. It will bring up another round of discussion. I expect to be bought a gift by my partner on my birthday. Otherwise it will cause problems. Same way my partner should expect a gift from me. It's that simple

Cc Purityval
Cassyrooy
Joycy...how are you honey?

In relationships expectations are abound from both parties involved. Weighing who expects more or less is no point of argument because individually their needs differs. While one expects more financial support the other might be demanding more sexual or emotional, not perculier to any gender.

Personal the only thing I expect in relationship/Friendship these days is that you call back when you see my missed call. Gifts or no gift is not a thing of concern to me. That I give doesn't mean you should give back and vice versa.

To the subject of discussion, some girls demand like hell and so some guys. It's not onesided.

BTW, IamD8 are by any chance from nsukka?
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f):
TheUpsetGirl1:
trash..
when you ask for money too much the "independence" clause has been ruined.

don't quote me next time please
You young girls of today. You think that by running off with your mouth ahead, you will become a super woman. After going through the thread you brag that you created as if there's 45 million naira prize tag attached to your creating a thread & seeing how you insult people who contribute, I realise I'm dealing with a "teenager" who still sees the world in pink rosy glasses. So, no point trying to even contribute cos I know you will see insult as an alternative to constructive criticism. And I can't have my daughter insult me. So child, behave.

PS: check what I wrote that you called trash and point out where I said anything about asking for money at all let alone asking for too much. You were so much in a hurry to sound trashy & rude that you didn't even comprehend what I wrote before quoting.
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 10:12am On Apr 22, 2018
purityval:
Joycy...how are you honey?

In relationships expectations are abound from both parties involved. Weighing who expects more or less is no point of argument because individually their needs differs. While one expects more financial support the other might be demanding more sexual or emotional, not perculier to any gender.

Personal the only thing I expect in relationship/Friendship these days is that you call back when you see my missed call. Gifts or no gift is not a thing of concern to me. That I give doesn't mean you should give back and vice versa.

To the subject of discussion, some girls demand like hell and so some guys. It's not onesided.

BTW, IamD8 are by any chance from nsukka?
I'm fine sweets. Happy Sunday.

A lot of people now see relationships as a trade by barter transaction. Due to lack of genuine love, care, selflessness etc. I like what you said about partners having different needs. It doesn't always have to be financial. A very wealthy man might just have emotional & sexual needs from his partner. It doesn't mean his needs are less. I don't know why we complicate these things.

True @it's not one sided. That sums the whole discussion up. grin
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 10:24am On Apr 22, 2018
IamD18:
Let me buttress my point in another way. "Nigerian politicians are corrupt" , is this correct? cheesy


I get happy when being asked for something once in a while, but not when it's seen as my obligations undecided

Lol, cheesy, I know you'll be smart to decode, no need to ask the mod to ban you because I already know "world bank" is your hobby, right? grin grin

Lol cheesy, I got banned but will be free by monday grin, you knew it was me cheesy
No. Incorrect. Not all. There will always be exceptions grin

I understand. That word "obligation" is what keeps me from overdoing things. It's only his obligation if he's my husband or to an extent, we are engaged. If not, I don't have the right to place unnecessary demands. That also informs my behaviour towards you too.

Oh I'm smart! grin
Why should I be banned when I didn't go to "UBA" or "the other one" to insult the customer care? grin cheesy tongue

Of course I knew it was you cool
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by TheUpsetGirl1(op): 10:28am On Apr 22, 2018
MissJoy29:
You young girls of today. You think that by running off with your mouth ahead, you will become a super woman. After going through the thread you brag that you created as if there's 45 million naira prize tag attached to your creating a thread & seeing how you insult people who contribute, I realise I'm dealing with a "teenager" who still sees the world in pink rosy glasses. So, no point trying to even contribute cos I know you will see insult as an alternative to constructive criticism. And I can't have my daughter insult me. So child, behave.


okay

PS: check what I wrote that you called trash and point out where I said anything about asking for money at all let alone asking for too much. You were so much in a hurry to sound trashy & rude that you didn't even comprehend what I wrote before quoting.
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 10:32am On Apr 22, 2018
Herrmes:
Lmao.
grin
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by 0monnak0da: 10:55am On Apr 22, 2018
The typical urban Nigerian girl grows up in a "yard" cooking with karosin and has a mercenary and transactional concept of sex and relationships. Many of them are poor ,hungry with a desire for things they cannot afford and see sex as means to getting them. Their pusses are their infrastruture and enabing environment

That is just what it is .

The typical urban Nigerian man therefore expeccts to pay for love and is trained from young to hustle. That's just the way it is

Personally I think it is better to negotiate a salary and stick to it with perfomance related bonuses as extra.
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 11:00am On Apr 22, 2018
cassyrooy:
I don't blame Tim or the broke girls that he dates, what you expect when selfworthy has been relegated because of some petty materials.

The phenomenal of broke girls wanting guys to spend on them can't be fully explained.

The nasty habit won't stop, because many of us (both girls and guys) won't own up to being broke, they see it as less dignifying, wetin I go lose if I come out say I dey broke? To me, nothing.

Tim has been fishing in the wrong side of the river and I hope he finds his way to the better sides.
True @self worth has been relegated to the background. It's so annoying. The funniest thing is that most of these ladies who form slay queens & flaunt expensive itens have already traded their self respect especially in the eyes of guys. I watch in amazement as grown up women turn to beggars and emotional blackmailers sometimes just to get a man to buy them lunch. Let me not say much here.

Yeah it won't stop. As long as you guys keep indulging the outrageous demands. We will keep on demanding. And you will keep on complaining.

A lot of men will continue to "save face" by never admitting they can't afford some things. They prefer to borrow & impress than to be called "broke"

Yeah. He probably needs to change his taste in women.
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by IamD18: 11:03am On Apr 22, 2018
MissJoy29:
No. Incorrect. Not all. There will always be exceptions grin

I understand. That word "obligation" is what keeps me from overdoing things. It's only his obligation if he's my husband or to an extent, we are engaged. If not, I don't have the right to place unnecessary demands. That also informs my behaviour towards you too.

Oh I'm smart! grin
Why should I be banned when I didn't go to "UBA" or "the other one" to insult the customer care? grin cheesy tongue

Of course I knew it was you cool
Lol, did you just say "NO" ? You mean you'v not being using and saying such? cheesy Joy u can lie oo grin , you had to condemn it wrong just to back up your points grin


I concur with you on that, if only ladies behave the way they discus on internet cheesy

Lol, grin this our code of typing will keep viewers pondering if we are mad grin grin, i'll soon visit ronaldo's fan in brass, it's just that the "World bank" manager won't all me to see "HER" friend, or will she? tongue

Lol, detective in the making cheesy
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by TheUpsetGirl1(op): 11:22am On Apr 22, 2018
MissJoy29:
True @self worth has been relegated to the background. It's so annoying. The funniest thing is that most of these ladies who form slay queens & flaunt expensive itens have already traded their self respect especially in the eyes of guys. I watch in amazement as grown up women turn to beggars and emotional blackmailers sometimes just to get a man to buy them lunch. Let me not say much here.

Yeah it won't stop. As long as you guys keep indulging the outrageous demands. We will keep on demanding. And you will keep on complaining.

A lot of men will continue to "save face" by never admitting they can't afford some things. They prefer to borrow & impress than to be called "broke"

Yeah. He probably needs to change his taste in women.
that's their problem
till guys start spending less on ladies, this mentality won't stop
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by TheUpsetGirl1(op): 1:14pm On Apr 22, 2018
MissJoy29:
You young girls of today. You think that by running off with your mouth ahead, you will become a super woman. After going through the thread you brag that you created as if there's 45 million naira prize tag attached to your creating a thread & seeing how you insult people who contribute, I realise I'm dealing with a "teenager" who still sees the world in pink rosy glasses. So, no point trying to even contribute cos I know you will see insult as an alternative to constructive criticism. And I can't have my daughter insult me. So child, behave.

PS: check what I wrote that you called trash and point out where I said anything about asking for money at all let alone asking for too much. You were so much in a hurry to sound trashy & rude that you didn't even comprehend what I wrote before quoting.
which young girls are you even talking about?? how old are you.. smh
Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by cassyrooy(m): 5:36pm On Apr 22, 2018
MissJoy29:
True @self worth has been relegated to the background. It's so annoying. The funniest thing is that most of these ladies who form slay queens & flaunt expensive items have already traded their self respect especially in the eyes of guys. I watch in amazement as grown up women turn to beggars and emotional blackmailers sometimes just to get a man to buy them lunch. Let me not say much here.
Some don't beg for things, they expect you to just give them and when not the case, they insult you and call you names? Emotional blackmail is the worse part of the terrible behaviour, some just cant do anything for themselves and on their own. We'll remain far off because these girls don't care about self worth, independence, respect and all.

Yeah it won't stop. As long as you guys keep indulging the outrageous demands. We will keep on demanding. And you will keep on complaining.
You're accusing the guys of promoting the behaviour? The good ones who don't spend on girls are tagged loser and broke, those who spend are considered maga, mugu and the likes.
This is a two-way street, you're as responsible as we are too.

A lot of men will continue to "save face" by never admitting they can't afford some things. They prefer to borrow & impress than to be called "broke"

Yeah. He probably needs to change his taste in women.
I've seen the people save face than admit, but the word is packaging, which the ladies easily fall for. But, a plain disclosure by a broke guy doesn't end well you know?
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