Blonchilli:

You deserve a medal. The home is responsible for any social ills. What kind of moral principles will they teach? A lot of broken kids are in the society because the home failed to protect them. Divorce is there, rape is there and these happens not because the society is bad but because people can't protect their homes from challenges that can be tackled within and without

in a generation where father and daughter are having sex and the dad doesn't see anything wrong with it,a generation where mothers are helping or supporting their sons for rape,what remains again.the society is just a reflection of what goes on in homes.forget our religious cloax,that one is just make belief

Just ENTER any public bus and you will be perceiving putrid odour and even lousiness,obnoxious behaviors and lack of regard for other road users and commuters.such behaviors didn't start on the streets,it's what they are used to doing at home they are exhibiting outside,hence a culmination of frustrated,repressed,angry ,dysfunctional and abused people which make up a society we see at work,on the road,in.religious institutions,banks and other social gathering

Mindfulness:


One of them was even telling her to beat up the girl. In the name of God again.

smh.it's just sick.no wonder rapists and pedophiles are getting bolder and multiplying.Even when they're caught,they have no remorse.what a sorry excuse for Christian women.disgusting

THEY all ought to be ashamed of themselves for that asinine post they put up there and apparently the internet never forgets,I have screen grabbed some.of their pictures and comments so that none of my female.loved ones will have any relationship with them

Who.wants to have a rape enabler as an inlaw.tuehhhh

SAMBARRY:
in a generation where father and daughter are having sex and the dad doesn't see anything wrong with it,a generation where mothers are helping or supporting their sons for rape,what remains again.the society is just a reflection of what goes on in homes.forget our religious cloax,that one is just make belief

Just ENTER any public bus and you will be perceiving putrid odour and even lousiness,obnoxious behaviors and lack of regard for other road users and commuters.such behaviors didn't start on the streets,it's what they are used to doing at home they are exhibiting outside,hence a culmination of frustrated,repressed,angry ,dysfunctional and abused people which make up a society we see at work,on the road,in.religious institutions,banks and other social gathering

Charity begins at home. Most people undermine the importance of raising kids right

Blonchilli:

Charity begins at home. Most people undermine the importance of raising kids right

exactly

Lawd, save females in this world, the woman even allow the foolish husband's mother to take the girl, how can someone be soo stupid to allow such, and they told her not to tell her family wtf!!! that means each and every member of that family including the stupid man's mother are or were paedophiles, evil beings

As for the stupid advice from foolish women up there, may such happen to their kids and unborn girls, nonsense

This is a clear case of retrogression and being un-educated.
Things are going in the reverse.
Things we once tagged abomination is what people are excusing amend making ridiculous remarks and offering evil advice over.

Report the man, counsel your sister and put the marriage on temporary hold till the man serves the consequences of his actions and gets help

JoannaSedley:
Women have downgraded to the lowest ebb in our society. What do you call a home? A house with a practicing pedophile in it....smh. Women are the enemies of themselves. I have never seen a more confused set of beings like women in my life.
A house filled with commited and about to be committed pedophilic crimes is what they are fighting for instead of tackling the monster head on. Instead of asking for the animal to be locked for defiling a small girl with an underdeveloped pelvis, his in law for that matter. My parents would have locked him up and my siblings will throw away the key after serious session of CIA styled waterboarding.

Imagine the advice.
Send her home like she is some piece of thrash, as if she is the one in the wrong, as if she is not the victim.
Keep a secret for a pedophile and continue living with him.
If this man can fvck his inlaw what do you think will happen to his daughters.

Thanks to religion. But surprisingly women are even often the most religious. The Holy books and the very concept of God are Misogynistic in Nature, How can you devote yourselves to such lifestyle and not expect the repercussions?

Women belong in the other room

Naija married women has it come to this? Covering up for rapists and paedophiles in order to save a God forsaken marriage? Who did this to you people?

Mindfulness:


Why would she divorce her husband? Being married is her greatest achievement.

More like being married is their greatest achievement... women and marriages/wedding I really don't get it. There's more to life than being married.

shaybebaby:
Keep a home that is already on fire? Fire burn their aiding and abetting arses along with the paedo!

Heartless bishes!

Honestly, if I talk as e dey for my mind...hmmm!

Yes, she has to keep her home.
The husband is the crown of the woman.

SAMBARRY:
LEAVE her.shebi it's her little sister he raped ,she should follow their advice until he rapes her grandma.a man that can rape an 11 year old,if he mistakenly sees the breez of her grandma or he sees the old woman sleeping naked,the thing that made his deek stand at the sight of 11 year old girl,is the same thing that will move him to ram his deek inside an 80 something year old grandma

I.am.sorry for those women still thinking men don't think with their deek,or the deek is not their brain.have you seen a castrated man before?they're almost like an slowpoke.that is where the brain is. so if you are married and YOU have anything that has a vagyna in.your house and you still sleeping with your 2 eyes closed I am.sorry for you.even if they cover the vajyna in rags ,it will not stop it o

Does the bolded include your dad?

dominique:
Naija married women has it come to this? Covering up for rapists and paedophiles in order to save a God forsaken marriage? Who did this to you people?

When you say has it come to this, you make it look like it just started. This has been happening for years.

Is it today, some men started abusing/impregnating their helps and wives sisters?

Disgusting and shamefull. Marriage na acheivement

JoannaSedley:
Women have downgraded to the lowest ebb in our society. What do you call a home? A house with a practicing pedophile in it....smh. Women are the enemies of themselves. I have never seen a more confused set of beings like women in my life.
A house filled with commited and about to be committed pedophilic crimes is what they are fighting for instead of tackling the monster head on. Instead of asking for the animal to be locked for defiling a small girl with an underdeveloped pelvis, his in law for that matter. My parents would have locked him up and my siblings will throw away the key after serious session of CIA styled waterboarding.

Imagine the advice.
Send her home like she is some piece of thrash, as if she is the one in the wrong, as if she is not the victim.
Keep a secret for a pedophile and continue living with him.
If this man can fvck his inlaw what do you think will happen to his daughters.

The woman never told us her husband deflowered the little gel. What if the gel life don already spoilt from their village? What if the gel seduced the man or even possessed with some familiar spirit? What do you do? Will you help devil to finish the work he started by tearing your family apart? That shows you don't want that family to stand in the first place. If not, where's the effort to fight for what you want? What about working on the man and helping the young gel then take her to her family?

Very complex situation. What if the little girl made the move. People will say why the man can't exhibit self-control. It's difficult

TEYA:

Does the bolded include your dad?

just take a look at her DP
and she how immoral her looks...

Some ignorant mofos who are not married are condemning the advice given to the wife. so deliberately the woman will expose her Husband to ridicule and end up embarrassing herself as well. the best advice is treat the girl and let her leave her house to avoid future occurrence and maybe take her husband for counselling, so if the husband is the bread winner, the wife will put him in jail and end up destroying her own family.
funny enough all these guys are sleeping with secondary school students as well. God will judge you All

This is where i have decided to faint after reading this.

dominique:
Naija married women has it come to this? Covering up for rapists and paedophiles in order to save a God forsaken marriage? Who did this to you people?

You want to know who this to us?, who else but the same people who advised a woman in an abused marriage to go back to her abusive husband so as not to offend God as only death should be the reason a couple separate and she eventually ended up in a body bag.

Alot of people have been conditioned to this things from birth .we grew up listening and being programmed this way.

The same people who will tell you a wise woman builds her home as if she is married to herself, she builds it while the so called husband sits and do nothing or like this pedophile tears it down .

The same people who will see you as a bad woman if you leave a marriage that had your life on the line.

The same people who would rather call for a deliverance instead of letting the law take its course .

The psychological conditioning of religion gives little or no room for logical and rational thinking.

I won't be surprised if the lady in question ends up covering up her husband, worse has happened and no one was the wiser simply because the wife decided to keep quiet and preserve and persevere.

That man ought to be thrown into a cell for the rest of his life but what do I know? I am not a desperate woman who would go to any length to keep her marriage!

Wat dafuck is wrong with those advisers??

TEYA:

Does the bolded include your dad?

anything that has a deek.anything you like interprete it to

So she should keep quiet just to save a marriage at the detriment of young girls around. It might be his own daughter next. That's how he will go about raping kids and making more potential voilent women for men to deal with in future. Most people font know what rape can do to people. It can turn them into anything. And it's worst when to custom finds out that the criminal was not punished for his crime.
Just imagine how you would feel if you notice that someone who robbed you and even shot at you and you last you eye as a result, was caught and just left to go free. I mean it's a different thing if you you decide to forgive them.
Women should stop this nonsense of saving marriage, marriage is not more important than that girl's future.

When society makes it seem as though "husband and home" is the most important thing in a woman's life.
These are the kind of responses you'll get.

Funny how all the crazy answers have God in them, religion also helps to contribute to this mess.


Hope all of them are arrested sha., the woman's husband, and these ridiculous souls who said they should,
"Cover the man's unclothedness"

SAMBARRY:
anything that has a deek.anything you like interprete it to

Thanks for the answer. I knew you were speaking from experience. Too bad your dad was a bad influence.

pocohantas:


When you say has it come to this, you make it look like it just started. This has been happening for years.

Is it today, some men starts abusing/impregnating their helps and wives sisters?

You're right, it has been going on for years. One case made frontpage a while back. A woman got a mother arrested she reported her husband to the police for raping her teenage daughter. The real enemy was her deranged husband but she chose to fight the mother of the victim. Shame on such women, God punish them all.

walex2:
Some ignorant mofos who are not married are condemning the advice given to the wife. so deliberately the woman will expose her Husband to ridicule and end up embarrassing herself as well. the best advice is treat the girl and let her leave her house to avoid future occurrence and maybe take her husband for counselling, so if the husband is the bread winner, the wife will put him in jail and end up destroying her own family.
funny enough all these guys are sleeping with secondary school students as well. God will judge you All

see another one justifying rape

Tuehhhhh.a man incapable of controlling his phenese will have a difficult time controlling his life

Gaddafiyusf:
Very complex situation. What if the little girl made the move. People will say why the man can't exhibit self-control. It's difficult2

This is preposterous!!!!