jamesharryson:


My dear, there is no advice better than the one given by the first two speakers who said he should protect her home, cover her husband and the little sister. It is the best thing to do. If you go the way you are saying, know that you are creating a bad name for your own family and children and also you ate keeping a stigma that may mar your little sister in the future. Remember that such gossips cannot be easily forgotten. My candid advice is for her to let go and bury the secrets. Pray for God's grace

SAMBARRY:
I am.expecting him.to.I have met several twisted,low down dirty and depraved men like him on nl so it's nothing new

jamesharryson:


My dear, there is no advice better than the one given by the first two speakers who said he should protect her home, cover her husband and the little sister. It is the best thing to do. If you go the way you are saying, know that you are creating a bad name for your own family and children and also you ate keeping a stigma that may mar your little sister in the future. Remember that such gossips cannot be easily forgotten. My candid advice is for her to let go and bury the secrets. Pray for God's grace

jamesharryson:


My dear, there is no advice better than the one given by the first two speakers who said he should protect her home, cover her husband and the little sister. It is the best thing to do. If you go the way you are saying, know that you are creating a bad name for your own family and children and also you ate keeping a stigma that may mar your little sister in the future. Remember that such gossips cannot be easily forgotten. My candid advice is for her to let go and bury the secrets. Pray for God's grace

pocohantas:


Honestly, if I talk as e dey for my mind...hmmm!

Yes, she has to keep her home.
The husband is the crown of the woman.

jamesharryson:


My dear, there is no advice better than the one given by the first two speakers who said he should protect her home, cover her husband and the little sister. It is the best thing to do. If you go the way you are saying, know that you are creating a bad name for your own family and children and also you ate keeping a stigma that may mar your little sister in the future. Remember that such gossips cannot be easily forgotten. My candid advice is for her to let go and bury the secrets. Pray for God's grace

pattybf:


Why do I feel this doesn't sound like you?

Has something happened to u all of a sudden?

Daeylar:


Loool,

Nice that you know you're not dealing with someone sane. the way you worded the post I felt I had to let you know.
Enjoy

Daeylar:
I hope nairaland is not corrupting me?

I cannot get angry at these kind of posts this night. I just laughed.
All is not well with you guys.
But I'm not surprised. People like you abound in this forum.
Even if you guys are trolling. It's in poor taste and very disturbing.

One of you even posted God will judge you, LMAO
Like I said. All is not right.
I said the bitter truth. I never supported the act from both

omoiyalayi:
She asked d admin to hid her identity & d admin did

But admin could not hide d identity of those horrible adviser

TEYA:

Lol you are the one I see as a sorry excuse of a human being! If you had no bad experience of an older male relative raping little girls while you were growing up you will not be pushed to generalise.

nana228:
This is worrisome. A husband is raping your 11 year old sister and these women are still advising her to stay in the marriage? Something is very wrong with some women. He will soon sleep with their daughter.

Somebody that is supposed to be in prison is who they are asking her to protect and send the poor girl home. The husband has destroyed this girl's life and people are only worried about a dead marriage. Can she still stay in that marriage? Will she allow him touch her again after the discovery? Can she leave her daughters with her husband?

allenbaker5:


I don't actually blame you for composing this crap, I blame religion and your imaginary god for giving you the idea that a home occupied by a paedophile is something that should be "covered." This is what religion has done to my people, too bad...

jimcaddy:
See ehn. There is no one response that will make everything perfect. Everyone with ideas and opinions that we have to respect. We can't all have the same opinions. Well I think she should take the sister out of the house. Seek counselling with her husband. Pray with him and for him. If you leave because of this, you won't be wrong. But it sucks leaving your matrimonial home. No one will open their homes for you to come in. Make your marriage work... No one will make it work for you. If you leave marriage, you may end up very frustrated.

jamesharryson:

I won't insult you, just as you have insulted me. But when a mosquito perches at the scrotal sac, no one tells a man that one needs to calculate well before taking certain actions. I am still standing on my point. Take care of your sister and keep the secret. Solve your problem without creating scene. Broadcasting the story is the same as tarnishing the image of your children, your sister and even you, that think you are doing a great thing for others. Just heed to my advice and thank me later.

Cutehector:
Its only when you are married that you will understand why these women advise such....

SAMBARRY:
see another rape enabler.do you ever learn?

You said pray? You didn't read the verse that says the prayer of the wicked (rape enablers like you giving pedophiles a conducive atmosphere to keep on perpetrating their wicked crimes) is an abomination in the sight of God.other translation says God ignores the prayer of the wicked and DID you also read the bible verse in proverbs that says God will make the ways of the wicked dark and slippery.there are curses in the bible just as there are blessings.it also said he who covers his sin shall not prosper (including his accomplice)

Continue praying as if God is not seeing the tears of the little girl.if you are a rape enabler you are not a Christian.you are wicked,ungodly,a reprobate and an enemy of God.you're not better than herds men who rape,kill,steal and destroy.it is not only witches that are agents of darkness.anyone who is an accomplice to every form of wickedness is an instrument in the hands of the devil

Cutehector:
Its only when you are married that you will understand why these women advise such....

Cutehector:
Its only when you are married that you will understand why these women advise such....

Daeylar:
You guys are much this night sha. defending the madness of the ridiculous advice given.

kingchris30:

in as much I hate this, it is actually true. but is high time we changed the system, we shouldnt be protecting home when we are dying inside and other peoples life are affected negatively.

Olulinks:

The woman never told us her husband deflowered the little gel. What if the gel life don already spoilt from their village? What if the gel seduced the man or even possessed with some familiar spirit? What do you do? Will you help devil to finish the work he started by tearing your family apart? That shows you don't want that family to stand in the first place. If not, where's the effort to fight for what you want? What about working on the man and helping the young gel then take her to her family?

SAMBARRY:
nice epistle.so the whole family joined in raping the child? Ok na

jamesharryson:


My dear, I am used to insults more than the one you have just given me. But I will always tell you what will help you and your generation. Some wars are better won by making peace. Now if I may ask you a question, if you care to answer, who will be jailed for this act? Your husband! Who will suffer the pains for this act most? You and your children! Who will move around with the stigma? You, your children and of course your husband! Who will the stigma affect most? Your sister that was used! I didn't use the word 'raped' for a reason and the reason is because if you didn't catch term red handed, would she has told you that it has been happening? No! Who will be left with much burdens of raising the children alon? You! Believe it or not, no matter how strong you think you are as a lady, you MST definitely feel it more. In conclusion, remember that the mad man does not get ashamed as his family does because of his madness. Cool down, digest my reasons and then thank me later. Leave sentiments and leave insults behind. He that wears the shoes knows where it itches. You might be rich and gainfully employed, but do you know the situation of the writer? Do you know if the husband that you are calling for the head is the bread winner? Use your senses