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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by akum78: 2:41pm On May 01, 2018
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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by TheAngry1: 2:41pm On May 01, 2018
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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by Biglittlelois(f): 2:41pm On May 01, 2018
Whatever suits your honey pot, choice differs.
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by devigblegble: 2:41pm On May 01, 2018
Sex sex sex team NO marriage
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by HigherEd: 2:41pm On May 01, 2018
Fghht
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by BillionaireKIZI: 2:43pm On May 01, 2018
for the women, car before marriage or marriage before car kiss
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by GURUGRAPHICS(f): 2:43pm On May 01, 2018
for where cheesy i like sex before marriage abeg.... angry
Im not that patient. undecided

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by asawanathegreat(m): 2:43pm On May 01, 2018
Bros I go do am well well b4 I go marry oo Akpako master
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by tech18: 2:44pm On May 01, 2018
lalanice:
Mtchwwwww..... So people should go committing funication and adultery upandan because of lame excuse of stories like this abi? What about all the plenty and legit reasons why sex outside marriage is wrong undecided all the diseases, heart breaks and abortions angry

Allow devil dey use you dey lie to the ignorant you hear??
nice comment! I love your comments.Say no to adultery and fornication.

Both Islam and Christianity forbid adultery and fornication.

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by HerexG(m): 2:45pm On May 01, 2018
lalanice:
cheesy cheesy cheesy OK o, so all the "sexually compactable" couple wen done marry shouldn't ever have issues talkless of divorcing na, and our grand parents who didn't test compatibility should never have stayed in such marriages too.

Like I said, dey allow devil dey decieve you oo.

You dey use the Stone age time dey compare now, my Dear open ya eyes this na 21st century biko
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by xynerise: 2:45pm On May 01, 2018
lipsrsealed

Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 2:47pm On May 01, 2018
after. but to each his or her own.
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by dasparrow: 2:47pm On May 01, 2018
As a believer in Christ Jesus, I don't support the idea of sex before marriage. The bible calls that fornication and God is against it. If you are against homosexuality, then you should also be strongly against fornication and adultery because those who practice these things can never make heaven.

Nigerians love quoting Bible to homosexuals referencing the bible but they won't remember the Bible when they are screwing their boyfriends and girlfriends whom they are not married to. Bloody hypocrites!

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 2:47pm On May 01, 2018
No correlation. Too bad people don't love truly these days

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by GrammarNazi1(m): 2:48pm On May 01, 2018
lalanice:
Mtchwwwww..... So people should go committing funication and adultery upandan because of lame excuse of stories like this abi? What about all the plenty and legit reasons why sex outside marriage is wrong undecided all the diseases, heart breaks and abortions angry

Allow devil dey use you dey lie to the ignorant you hear??
...fornication...

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by ajimuby: 2:50pm On May 01, 2018
lalanice:
Huncle why should I encourage what I don't practice
lol I don die....wee u keep qwayet
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by GrammarNazi1(m): 2:50pm On May 01, 2018
tech18:
nice comment! I love your comments.Say no to adultery and fornication.

Both Islam and Christianity forbade adultery and formication.
...forbid...

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by thatigboman: 2:50pm On May 01, 2018
Op, your story has no correlation with your question.
Im really pained because i have lost 2 great women to breast cancer.
One was married and died a few years later. The other was married with 7 grown up children. The last child was even in final year in the university when the woman died.

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by faithfull18(f): 2:52pm On May 01, 2018
I stand for sex after marriage. That's what God expects from us. Premarital sex is a no-no.


Visit my profile..

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by brightalo17: 2:53pm On May 01, 2018
Preshy561:

haunty,are you innocent?
Must she be innocent before stating her candid opinion or what she made no sense to you or what

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by Crixina(f): 2:53pm On May 01, 2018
I didn't read every thing, but I saw pressing of breast, sexx and cancer
Does sexxx help you detect cancer?
If you are going to have sexx before marriage, do the damn thing but not cos of lame excuses like these.
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by thatigboman: 3:00pm On May 01, 2018
ladiesreject:


Miss (or Mrs), which ever one.

Marriage and issue of life partner has nothing to do with church or God picking him/her for you.

Know what you want and go for it.
Someone like me cannot marry from Kogi State, Never!

If the girl like make she be virgin Mary.

My point is, keep religion aside.
Know the characteristics you want to see in your ideal husband, like age bracket, his height, his educational background, his financial status, his state of origin et'al.

The one that fits the bill and you're happy with is your husband.

All those God revealed to me that he's my husband or my prophet said this or that na WASH
chairman, why cant u marry someone just because she is from kogi?
Dont be surprised, u may marry a kogi girl.

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by profmallor: 3:00pm On May 01, 2018
And what if they are sexually ok before marriage, but things change afterwards, what next.



HerexG:


My Dear no Devil, we humans are the Devil's. Why would you want to spend your life with someone you are not sure if he or she is sexually OK. My Dear don't allow religion put you in a deep mess you can never correct in life.

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by itsmeurLady(f): 3:01pm On May 01, 2018
I created a thread for this today, if only we knew the dangers of premarital sex, it causes so much harm than good and dats the reason y d divorce rate is high and then most married couples are not happy in their homes simply because they pursued sex first before marriage... in The OP's case, u sed it yourself, u didn't ask for God's guidance, u were led by your fleshly desires that's y u got the result u got. You don't rush into marriage, u take time to know your partner and ask yourself if this is what God wants for you, not many people practice this and dats why we get heartbreaking results... Show me a man that Genuinely waited on God for his partner and crashed and I will show u a liar and a pretender!

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by Codebrain5464: 3:02pm On May 01, 2018
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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by tonio2wo: 3:04pm On May 01, 2018
HerexG:
As for me I'm of the opinion that "Sex before marriage" best suits our present age. I will use this short true life story to buttress my point. Please read this carefully and it should be a lesson to learn from, it's a true life story that happened to someone in my neighborhood just few months ago. The guy involved is a devoted church worker so he held strictly the church's "Sex after marriage"

It all started with "he's my brother in the Lord and she's my brother in the Lord". I got attracted to this my sister in the Lord Sis Funmibi, a devoted church worker as myself from the church but from another branch. So I thought to myself marrying a born again Sister from the church should be the best any man can ask for. After studying her character and her devotion to the church, I made my intention known to her. Sister Funmibi accepted my marriage proposal and fews days later we made our intentions known to our family and consequently the church. I was so excited that I have hit a jackpot for finding a lady like Sister Funmibi, as a church boy that I'm I must get married to her first before she can come into my house. So I kept fantasizing about our wedding night and her becoming my wife, so we further speed the marriage preparation up. I have always wanted to meet with my Fiancee's family church pastor for counseling but she will always stop me telling me that after all we are not getting there. To cut the story short, she chose a random church instead for our wedding. At this stage I have been blinded by her charms all I could think of is to bring her into my house.

Our wedding night wasn't as romantic as I thought it would be, we started making out kissing and carresing. I noticed each time I tried to press her left breast she she cry's out in pains saying " Please don't touch the left breast, you can touch the right one". I was like " waris happening here", she wouldn't even allow me to open the breast to see not to talk of sucking. We would have just sex without intimate pre-intimacy, I was thinking maybe it's because of her church background or that she's not yet used to me that's why she's behaving that way to me. She even finds it difficult to UnCloth or get dressed in my presence, I was like with time she should be able to change. Couple of months later Sis Funmibi my wife started falling sick, she will get better today but days later gets sick again. I will try to inquire from her Doctor what's exactly happening to my wife, he will mention one random common sickness. Until one day the doctor finally opened up to me that my wife has breast cancer. I was really devastated, I really felt cheated and deceived. She knew all these while that she has breast cancer and yet she kept it away from me. After battling to save her medically, spending the bulk of my resources to save her life, I finally lost her.

Now choose for yourself which is more ideal in our present world?

Her predicament has nothing to do with sex before or after marriage.

She just decided to keep her illness secret from you! Period!
And sorry for ur loss!


But lemmi ask o! would u have married her if she told u about d cancer?

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by buzodyke: 3:05pm On May 01, 2018
grin
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by ndcide(m): 3:05pm On May 01, 2018
ladiesreject:


Miss (or Mrs), which ever one.

Marriage and issue of life partner has nothing to do with church or God picking him/her for you.

Know what you want and go for it.
Someone like me cannot marry from Kogi State, Never!

If the girl like make she be virgin Mary.

My point is, keep religion aside.
Know the characteristics you want to see in your ideal husband, like age bracket, his height, his educational background, his financial status, his state of origin et'al.

The one that fits the bill and you're happy with is your husband.

All those God revealed to me that he's my husband or my prophet said this or that na WASH

You are two ignorant jare.. Go and have a relationship with God first before all these nonsense.

With all your likes and what suits you, you can't see tomorrow. The bible says, commit your ways to God and he will direct your paths.

Do you know tomorrow? Do you know the battles ahead?

You are too ordinary. Go first have a relationship with God.

For all, those who use the word "religion" freely are


mostly not Christians or true practicing Christians.

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by Treasure17(m): 3:07pm On May 01, 2018
There's no correlation between the subject matter and your narrative to start with. However, in my opinion and from the moral point of view pre marital sex is absolutely wrong no matter the circumstances cause of the consequences that follows.

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by Ishilove: 3:08pm On May 01, 2018
Bullshit. The reason given is not a cogent reason for having sex before marriage.

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by loluadebayo: 3:08pm On May 01, 2018
you Bleep before marriage or you don't. life go still Bleep you pants down.

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