Hello fellow Nairalanders, there is this lady I really love.She has a skin care spa and I do go there in the evening when coming back from work.
Her house is not very far from mine so I know her well.I have also asked her out, but she turned me down saying she has a boyfriend, which I later found out is false.I decided to distance myself from her but it seems not working.
She always call me to come keep her company her at the spa at weekends so,if I have no where to go,I do join her there.The more we see, the more I keep falling for her.

So yesterday,I told her how I feel about her,then she told me her parents won't be happy dating someone younger and moreover,I can't marry her.

There is no way I can stop seeing her because,we can see each other coincidentally

Please what should I do?

Just tell your heart to stop loving her. You already know it can't work out. Or do you think you can't love a younger lady the same you love her?




Bro even if it works na stress e go be for you.

Lets call a spade a spade, I'm very sure the op is about to dig his own grave with a shovel .

For the sake of your sanity, please steer clear from that banny....She ain't your mate,she knows that,and that's why she's been manipulating your feelings..... Whenever she calls you to roll over,tell her you're busy.. Keep on giving her such excuses.....

What the eyes doesn't see,the heart doesn't cherish..

Ignore her and you will be fine

Holly Gram u gat eyes 4 big fish man. WTF MAN

Op just wants to smash

Try and sort things out. At least a little apologies is ok. And please stop her from traveling so that you won't lose her. Thanks my own opinion passed

Op stop wooing her,she is just being nice to you, she doesn't like you. If you keep going to her place, she will just turn you to her puppet

Solofresh2:
Hello fellow Nairalanders, there is this lady I really love.She has a skin care spa and I do go there in the evening when coming back from work.
Her house is not very far from mine so I know her well.I have also asked her out, but she turned me down saying she has a boyfriend, which I later found out is false.I decided to distance myself from her but it seems not working.
She always call me to come keep her company her at the spa at weekends so,if I have no where to go,I do join her there.The more we see, the more I keep falling for her.

So yesterday,I told her how I feel about her,then she told me her parents won't be happy dating someone younger and moreover,I can't marry her.

There is no way I can stop seeing her because,we can see each other coincidentally

Please what should I do?

another falling brother

Stay away from naija women you people won't hear now.

Stay away from those baboons especially those baboons who own a Salon and beauty care stuff!
Those female baboons in this field are the real undercover ashawo

And what the hell will you be doing with a 26yrs old ape
Are you mentally unstable?

Our comments will not change her mind

its good to fall in love, but there are more important things in life.
you are just 21, find a passion. make money. see the world.
the beautiful ones are yet to be born.
money and love go together.

it seems wetin dey worry Nigerians lately na love nd sex Mata..

As far as her vG still has lubricant, then you are good to test and lose interest

You're still very young for what you're trying to put yourself through.

If you were 30 and she's 35, it's not a big deal, but at 21, you still have your life ahead of you.

Obey boundaries she set. Platonic friendships exist. U can't be growing feelings for every lady that comes close. For now you are the only one in love. One-sided love does not ignite a fire. Continue trying to impress her, if she does fall in love, she won't ever remember you are older.

Solofresh2:
Hello fellow Nairalanders, there is this lady I really love.She has a skin care spa and I do go there in the evening when coming back from work.
Her house is not very far from mine so I know her well.I have also asked her out, but she turned me down saying she has a boyfriend, which I later found out is false.I decided to distance myself from her but it seems not working.
She always call me to come keep her company her at the spa at weekends so,if I have no where to go,I do join her there.The more we see, the more I keep falling for her.

So yesterday,I told her how I feel about her,then she told me her parents won't be happy dating someone younger and moreover,I can't marry her.

There is no way I can stop seeing her because,we can see each other coincidentally

Please what should I do?

Don't do it bro it ain't worth it

Ok

You better go ahead of her, or level up. Otherwise, it'll surely end in hot tears

. Marry her if she is White or If she has Money

Young man,I feel you need to move on with your life and better yourself. For the record, better die that love thought. e get why.

Marry her sharp sharp no time....

The future is getting old....

Is not a big deal bro tell her

A girl of 15 is older than a boy of 20, not to talk of a lady who is 26 to a guy of 21, bro if you know u dont want to be manipulated and you very much cherish your sanity, please kill anything like love you have for her, you can have her as your friends with benefits but for love, don't even think twice about it.

Better go and read your books.

You want to date your Auntie? What rubbish. God knows I don't give audience to little minions in your age group. There's one 23 year old that's been currently on my neck until I gave him the red card. I have told him countless times that we can't date. Friendship sef na even manage. Wetin we wan dey discuss? Joeboy's dreads or the new girl he just smashed? All these mummy's bossom boys sef.

I billed him 500K. He japa.

I like my men in their 30s-50s with good credit balance, and not all these children still wearing diapers and don't even know what their future holds yet.

How adults come online to ask strangers on how to live there life's baffles me.....it's your life and the decision is yours .......take it!

Age is a number. But at 21 will the girl even give you attention. She is probably looking for husband except if you are ready to marry her today or tomorrow.

Give me her number, let me help you toast her..she will agree for you in 3 market days.

She no be your mate in age, exposure, she runs her own business and she has told you to your face she only wants you to keep her company in her shop whenever she is not attending to customers.
Know your level and focus on how to develop yourself at 21, forget about love with a more experienced lady, it will end in disappointment.