ubunja:

what else does a man need to bring? since you also no longer cook, clean or do laundry why must i bother?

don't make that mistake of marrying a woman that doesn't do all those things you stated, that's why you shouldn't mind the OP. I'm not single but I speak for my girls who are still single, not every 30's are bad o. Even some 20's are worse.

ayaomen:
don't make that mistake of marrying a woman that doesn't do all those things you stated, that's why you shouldn't mind the OP. I'm not single but I speak for my girls who are still single, not every 30's are bad o. Even some 20's are worse.

i hear you. but 30something women are way too close to menopause to give me peace. i want a woman who'll give birth young and grow with her child.imagine a 40 yr old mother of a 2 yr old? doesnt sound right. its a crime of nature.

ayaomen:
don't make that mistake of marrying a woman that doesn't do all those things you stated, that's why you shouldn't mind the OP. I'm not single but I speak for my girls who are still single, not every 30's are bad o. Even some 20's are worse.

Loud it sis

ubunja:
i dont expire like you.

Oooooooooooohhhhhh........ Burn

Are you approaching/Surpassed 30?

biacan:
All I see is a pain ex trying to generalise all ladies due to the broken heart he's currently suffering

ayaomen:
don't make that mistake of marrying a woman that doesn't do all those things you stated, that's why you shouldn't mind the OP. I'm not single but I speak for my girls who are still single, not every 30's are bad o. Even some 20's are worse.

Are you married?

ninetiethcrown7:


Are you married?

read over

ayaomen:
read over

Just answer the qestion. Which one is read over?

Read over what exactly?........................

OK I think I get, you are implying you are not single means you are married.

In my defense, when someone says they are not single it does not necessarily mean they are married.

biacan:
YoungDaNaval are you still alive this is too much

Laughs,, hey what are you trying to do?

spit at the kinda shallow mentality being displayed by some men

austyn0:
Laughs,, hey what are you trying to do?

Just checking on him to see if he's still alive you played a fast one on him

ninetiethcrown7:

Just answer the qestion. Which one is read over?

Read over what exactly?........................

OK I think I get, you are implying you are not single means you are married.

In my defense, when someone says they are not single it does not necessarily mean they are married.

its either you're single or married, no sitting on the fence. So what have my status gat to do with all I've been saying?

ubunja:
i dont expire like you.

lol..... dat is too harsh Na bro

engrelvis:
lol..... dat is too harsh Na bro

i agree.but sometimes they have to be reminded.

Lol i think the advice should be..stay away from ladies with uncontrollable anger issues. Irregardless of age..some babes get scarey temper issues.any Little disagreement dem go enter kitchen carry knife dey point am at u.others will carry mortar or pressing iron...wan use as weapon against u. I am sure dis lawyer saw this his wife had a demonic temper but he still went ahead to marry her.if u notice the girl u with has uncontrollable temper issues,she worships material things, is unfaithful..then pack ur bags and run for ur life.

biacan:
Just checking on him to see if he's still alive you played a fast one on him

You needn't do that or I play one on you too.

ayaomen:
its either you're single or married, no sitting on the fence. So what have my status gat to do with all I've been saying?

Nothing. You answered my deduction.

The crux of it is, I was implying that even in a relationship (minus marriage) you are technically still single.

But it's like you already know that. Kudos

ubunja:
i hear you. but 30something women are way too close to menopause to give me peace. i want a woman who'll give birth young and grow with her child.imagine a 40 yr old mother of a 2 yr old? doesnt sound right. its a crime of nature.

and non of the expired feminist loitering around here cared to reply this post. lmao!!!

biacan:
Just checking on him to see if he's still alive you played a fast one on him

Donstar come and carry your sister oooh!

YoungDaNaval:
Guys I beg you with the name of whatever God you believe in to please stay away from single ladies in their thirties. They are always frustrated, bittered and capable of doing undo whenever they're angry. Don't be deceived by their faithfulness before marriage ooh! coz you don't know what these ladies are capable of doing. God only helps those that help themselves, so please take this advice Serious for the sake of your parents, family, well wishers and unborn generation!!! Prevention they say is better than cure!


The link below is a yardstick. Marry a single lady in her thirties at your own peril!!!

https://www.nairaland.com/4494926/otike-odibi-burial-poster-wedding





A word is enough for the wise!

for your mind now, you'll believe say you don advise guys.

austyn0:
You needn't do that or I play one on you too.

Excuse me boy watch your mouth

biacan:
Excuse me boy watch your mouth

Did you take that to heart?

biacan:
Mpia gi eh

Bomb dey your mouth o

jessca048:
spit at the kinda shallow mentality being displayed by some men

We have our shallowness. Leave us.
Women have their shallowness.....until they hit the wall. Then all of a sudden men should be "stripped" of their power of more available choice to suit your low-quality ass abi?

If female hypergamy wasn't a thing, maybe old men would maintain themselves with old women.
But like we say, you women are your own worst enemies. A girl in her youthful prime would mostly ignore her struggling mates and aim up for established/set/older men...so blame your younger sisters for your old asses no longer being relevant, not men.

you were probably like that when you were younger too, so enjoy the fruits of your female tendencies.

Abeg shift!

Only unintelligent people will be labelling everyone according to their age. "Ladies in their 30s".."men in their 20s.

Unfounded statements

ubunja:
why would a woman be unmarried till 30

Uumm pursuing her goals and ambitions?? Marriage can limit someone's ambitions, you know

KhadyM:


Uumm pursuing her goals and ambitions?? Marriage can limit someone's ambitions, you know

like how? a wife cant study? a wife cant go to varsity?
choose between Love and Career Khady, you cant have it both ways. after qualifying and having a roaring career at 36, who'll want to wife up that "about to hit menopause" body? its OK if marriage was never in your plans.

ubunja:

like how? a wife cant study? a wife cant go to varsity?
choose between Love and Career Khady, you cant have it both ways. after qualifying and having a roaring career at 36, who'll want to wife up that "about to hit menopause" body? its OK if marriage was never in your plans.

You know full well how hard it is to pursue your ambitions once you start a family. Your spouse and children become your first priority.

KhadyM:


You know full well how hard it is to pursue your ambitions once you start a family. Your spouse and children become your first priority.

and you imagine at 35 with 5 yrs to go to menopause, rich and unable to marry average men it will be easier? will you compete with the nubile succulent 21 yr olds who are oven fresh?

and having a baby at 39 where will you get the time to raise it. when the child is 10 you're 49. imagine Parents Day at school as her friends ask your daughter "Sandra is that your grandma?"
c'mon khady. see sense.

ubunja:

and you imagine at 35 with 5 yrs to go to menopause, rich and unable to marry average men it will be easier? will you compete with the nubile succulent 21 yr olds who are oven fresh?

and having a baby at 39 where will you get the time to raise it. when the child is 10 you're 49. imagine Parents Day at school as her friends ask your daughter "Sandra is that your grandma?"
c'mon khady. see sense.

Lmao

ImaIma1:
Abeg shift!

Only unintelligent people will be labelling everyone according to their age. "Ladies in their 30s".."men in their 20s.

Unfounded statements

Don't mind him, even creating thread about it.

Whether he likes he or not, ladies in their 30s and 40s will marry and marry well wit kids popping out on the first year of their marriages. He can't stop the what's and desires of another man.

So op speak for your self and keep clear from ladies, 30 and above.

Nobody tie u to marry any of them.

ubunja:
i hear you. but 30something women are way too close to menopause to give me peace. i want a woman who'll give birth young and grow with her child.imagine a 40 yr old mother of a 2 yr old? doesnt sound right. its a crime of nature.

menopause starts in your 50s dumbass for most women . Idiots.