udemzy101:


Na so, and you think the gynecologist can not be compromise or you think they are right 100% of the time?

It has nothing to do with smashing, after all girls are asking for assurance, is it now a crime for a guy to ask too?


This is how they do it, immediately she's 1month pregnant, marriage preparation start, that's how most guys do it, so before it starts showing, everything will be over.

So what happens to the marriage if they lose that child and the lady is unable to give birth again?

Hanseel1:
with the way Nigerian ladies are fvcking dicks anyhow and having abortions as if there's no tomorrow I don't blame men who ask for such...

she must be 2months pregnant before the marriage is conducted... ✌

Who are the ladies fvcking? Spirits abi?

Lol

Na wetin be the pastor business for this matter sef?

well my future wife must be pregnant before marriage .and is my choice

Hanseel1:
with the way Nigerian ladies are fvcking dicks anyhow and having abortions as if there's no tomorrow I don't blame men who ask for such...

she must be 2months pregnant before the marriage is conducted... ✌

You people don't know, u have no control over all these things.
If such plan work with Mr A, it doesn't mean it will work with Mr B.

A guy was dating a young lady, of 23years old. He wanted her to get pregnant before marriage. Then viola! She got pregnant, he said let's wait first til 7months, before I pay dowry and do all the necessary rites of becoming a married couple. The parents of the girl weren't happy but they played along. 7month, belly big and baby is growing
He then paid her bride price, do church wedding in a moderate way and they were married, everyone is happy.

Close to the 9th month, she had complications. She was rushed to hospital. Doctor was like the babies have to be delivered , no more waiting for the due date, cos her water has broken. She did all her best to push but the baby in her womb is not coming out, they realised the baby was in a breach position, quickly they decided to go for Caesarean. A lady who laboured for hours, then later had do thru Caesarean the next day. Doctor opened her up, and carried out the baby but look and behold they notice the baby is dead.
They stitched the wife up, called the husband we are sorry but we've lost the baby. Wife cried uncontrollably, husband was so shocked. He couldn't even console his wife. His resentment towards her was just building
He stormed out of the hospital with tears in his eyes and called his mum, sisters and. In-laws to go console His wife and he just can't take this anguish. He left to only God knows where. The newly wedded wife was so bitter and sad.

She said upon carrying a baby for 9months, labour for 24hoirs, then her vagina and belly cut to remove a baby they thought would stay. And the pains of the aftermath effect of cesaerian? Ha! God why us? Where did we go wrong?
But that's how it went down. Nobody has control over it. No mater how well u calculate and plan how ones life will be.. Most times it doesn't work that way.

You are planning your own, Nature and unforeseen circumstances are planning theirs alongside yours. So what will u do?

Divorce her immediately?

Biglittlelois:
True words, a man that tells you to get pregnant before marriage doesnt love you, respect you, he just wants to breed, thats all.



FTC, nice

so what's wrong with asking a woman to get pregnant before i marry her? i see nothing wrong in that, if she don't like the idea she is free to look else were! love my butt!

Biglittlelois:



Guy there are barren women who were virgins till marriage, what do we call that? what will be, will be.

Bt the way sm gals lie. Man needs assurance too. Especially since divorce is not an option

What reasons then do you get married for? Just Love? I don't agree with that True words, a man that tells you to get pregnant before marriage doesnt love you, respect you, he just wants to breed, thats all.



FTC, nice[/quote]

victorian:






You people don't know, u have no control over all these things.
If such plan work with Mr A, it doesn't mean it will work with Mr B.

A guy was dating a young lady, of 23years old. He wanted her to get pregnant before marriage. Then viola! She got pregnant, he said let's wait first til 7months, before I pay dowry and do all the necessary rites of becoming a married couple. The parents of the girl weren't happy but they played along. 7month, belly big and baby is growing
He then paid her bride price, do church wedding in a moderate way and they were married, everyone is happy.

Close to the 9th month, she had complications. She was rushed to hospital. Doctor was like the babies have to be delivered , no more waiting for the due date, cos her water has broken. She did all her best to push but the baby in her womb is not coming out, they realised the baby was in a breach position, quickly they decided to go for Caesarean. A lady who laboured for hours, then later had do thru Caesarean the next day. Doctor opened her up, and carried out the baby but look and behold they notice the baby is dead.
They stitched the wife up, called the husband we are sorry but we've lost the baby. Wife cried uncontrollably, husband was so shocked. He couldn't even console his wife. His resentment towards her was just building
He stormed out of the hospital with tears in his eyes and called his mum, sisters and. In-laws to go console His wife and he just can't take this anguish. He left to only God knows where. The newly wedded wife was so bitter and sad.

She said upon carrying a baby for 9months, labour for 24hoirs, then her vagina and belly cut to remove a baby they thought would stay. And the pains of the aftermath effect of cesaerian? Ha! God why us? Where did we go wrong?
But that's how it went down. Nobody has control over it. No mater how well u calculate and plan how ones life will be.. Most times it doesn't work that way.

You are planning your own, Nature and unforeseen circumstances are planning theirs alongside yours. So what will u do?

Divorce her immediately?

story story! look! i see nothing wrong in making sure a woman can have children before marrying her, Nice story you told there, but it's just a story! here you have it! accept my lorry load of sinparty

gypsey:
story story! look! i see nothing wrong in making sure a woman can have children before marrying her, Nice story you told there, but it's just a story! accept my sinparty

It didn't happen to me.

So I don't need your sinparty

victorian:






It didn't happen to me.

So I don't need your sinparty

Good! i suspect it didn't happen to Anyone, as i ve asserted earlier it's just a story, it does not happen in real life! give me back my sinparty!

gypsey:
Good! i suspect it didn't happen to Anyone, as i ve asserted earlier it's just a story,

A true life story

You don't have to believe it but it happened to a friend of mine.

lemme see dat fool dat will come near me to tell me to get pregnant before marriage is as if him mama na bastard abii...

to avoid running from one prayer house to another

victorian:







A true life story

You don't have to believe it but it happened to a friend of mine.

yea right! it always happens to a friend, doesn't? well.. it didn't happen to my friend they managed to keep all the kids they had and still not married.

Rozaytee:
lemme see dat fool dat will come near me to tell me to get pregnant before marriage is as if him mama na bastard abii...

I pity the innocent man that will marry you.

Rozaytee:
lemme see dat fool dat will come near me to tell me to get pregnant before marriage is as if him mama na bastard abii...

the fool will have to come first i believe and what if the fool never comes? or any fool never ever comes?

NwaAmaikpe:



There's an Mbaise proverb that says;
"It is only a foolish man that will spend his hard earned money on brideprice without first confirming if the woman's womb is not just an ornament."

I don't blame people who insist on pregnancy first before marriage.
Most girls in Nigeria are carring wombs congealed by Lime, Postinor, Shisha smoke and andrew liver salt.

5 out of 6 women are wrongly diagnosed as having uterine fibroids, when in reality it is all caked contraceptives.

Don't be decieved men,
The primary reason God asked us to marry is to procreate.
You marry because you want to start a family not because you love.
Who love EPP?

So if you marry a woman who can't bear you kids, you are no different from gays in a same-sex relationship.

Gbam

victorian:






You people don't know, u have no control over all these things.
If such plan work with Mr A, it doesn't mean it will work with Mr B.

A guy was dating a young lady, of 23years old. He wanted her to get pregnant before marriage. Then viola! She got pregnant, he said let's wait first til 7months, before I pay dowry and do all the necessary rites of becoming a married couple. The parents of the girl weren't happy but they played along. 7month, belly big and baby is growing
He then paid her bride price, do church wedding in a moderate way and they were married, everyone is happy.

Close to the 9th month, she had complications. She was rushed to hospital. Doctor was like the babies have to be delivered , no more waiting for the due date, cos her water has broken. She did all her best to push but the baby in her womb is not coming out, they realised the baby was in a breach position, quickly they decided to go for Caesarean. A lady who laboured for hours, then later had do thru Caesarean the next day. Doctor opened her up, and carried out the baby but look and behold they notice the baby is dead.
They stitched the wife up, called the husband we are sorry but we've lost the baby. Wife cried uncontrollably, husband was so shocked. He couldn't even console his wife. His resentment towards her was just building
He stormed out of the hospital with tears in his eyes and called his mum, sisters and. In-laws to go console His wife and he just can't take this anguish. He left to only God knows where. The newly wedded wife was so bitter and sad.

She said upon carrying a baby for 9months, labour for 24hoirs, then her vagina and belly cut to remove a baby they thought would stay. And the pains of the aftermath effect of cesaerian? Ha! God why us? Where did we go wrong?
But that's how it went down. Nobody has control over it. No mater how well u calculate and plan how ones life will be.. Most times it doesn't work that way.

You are planning your own, Nature and unforeseen circumstances are planning theirs alongside yours. So what will u do?

Divorce her immediately?

thanks for sharing this, if only people will understand that nothing is so fixed on this earth.....

gypsey:
yea right! it always happens to a friend, doesn't? well.. it didn't happen to my friend they managed to keep all the kids they had and still not married.

If your friend dont want to get married but have kids.. That's their own cup of tea.
Like I always say, what works for A, cannot work for B

DoTheNeedful:


Spare us this BS. Who told you he doesn't love you. Forget all those Western BS. Children are a very important factor in marriage. The so-called love with its wonderful you people bandy about is never enough to sustain any marriage.
By the way, I am not in support of having child(ren) before marriage. However, I disagree with believing any man who want such doesn't love you.

You are been too kind, i am fully in support of a man making sure his future wife can have children, even here in the west they mostly want children in their marriages. love my butt!

eph12:

So what happens to the marriage if they lose that child and the lady is unable to give birth again?

Lose which child? Are you the one that will kill the child?

what if you get pregnant and he marries you...then you lose the pregnancy after wedding...Nothing is certain in this life

Why would a man open his mouth to say that nah,he would have already know that we mostly do church marriage in our family or else 'tun mi gbe' which kind be strict becuz of some condition..Shey I be gbajo wife ni,though I love it becuz of village people wahala that is why I prefer court wedding, no too much of people biko just a classic one

victorian:







If your friend dont want to get married but have kids.. That's their own cup of tea.
Like I always say, what works for A, cannot work for B

now you sound contradictory, Anyway i Agree, on this part, because it didn't work for your friend doesn't mean it didn't work for my friend

Rubbish

deebarbie:
what if you get pregnant and he marries you...then you lose the pregnancy after wedding...Nothing is certain in this life

yea! what if? what if? what if? more what if?

I laugh when I read about people trying to outsmart their maker. I have seen situations where the woman got impregnated before marriage and lost the child after marriage and since then they have been struggling to have children.

Biglittlelois:
True words, a man that tells you to get pregnant before marriage doesnt love you, respect you, he just wants to breed, thats all.



FTC, nice

Na assurance

Nothing wrong with it, it is a test for d presence of a working womb, any woman dt objects to it has something to hide.

A man cannot come and carry a retired olosho in d name of love n now be sleeping in church after wedding for her to get pregnant

faithfull18:
I laugh when I read about people trying to outsmart their maker. I have seen situations where the woman got impregnated before marriage and lost the child after marriage and since then they have been struggling to have children.

yea one situation, you claim you have seen, what bout other 3000 situation that didn't happen like the one you have seen?

faithfull18:
I laugh when I read about people trying to outsmart their maker. I have seen situations where the woman got impregnated before marriage and lost the child after marriage and since then they have been struggling to have children.

U don't get d point do you

It's all about confirming dt a womb exists at all so dt has been confirmed. Any woman I will marry must take in first after introduction. Failure to take in after formal introduction I won't proceed with other marital rites, I cannot come n go and carry bad market